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I'm honest to a fault and trusting - often to my own detriment. I'm pretty upbeat & optimistic. My perfect match would be honest, ethical, and moral-someone with INTEGRITY. Someone with a great sense of humor (yes, I did throw a pajama party as a housewarming). A kind, tender, loving, open per. Maybe not interested in everything I am, but willing to give me the space to enjoy those interests on my own. Needs to have a kind heart, and be able to show empathy to others. I'm looking for a good friend first, and time to see if it develops into something more. I'm a 'low-maintenance' per, and am looking for the same. I'm pretty direct, and I WILL tell you I find you attractive, or funny, or kind, etc. - but I will also tell you if I think you're out-of-line. I'd love to find someone with common creative interests - carpentry, gardening, house projects. Those things though, are just icing on the cake - it's the mutual values and ethics that count the most.
I love getting away to a natural setting - the beach, the woods, mountains, desert - places with a vista so gorgeous it takes your breath away and almost makes your heart ache.
Sensuous and loving...the first time your hands touch....and that first kiss-is there anything else like it?? They should be able to bottle that feeling!
I don't expect you to spend boat-loads of money on me. I'm just as happy making dinner at home, listening to music chatting as I am being taken out to The Whitney. HOWEVER - if you just HAPPEN to be a godzillionaire, don't let my last statement stop you from writing - I'm nothing if not tolerant ;)
My ideal mate would make me feel safe in sharing thoughts, feelings, fears, hopes and dreams without fear of rejection or ridicule.
In my free time I do some volunteer work-Meals on Wheels, Macomb Food Bank, Michigan Master Gardeners.
I'm a pretty positive per and am looking for someone who can see the glass half-full most of the time.
I WILL have the courtesy to respond to all emails, but please have a picture posted. Looks aren't everything, but I'd prefer to know ahead of time the man I may meet will not have a third eye in the center of his forehead! ;)
From some painful past experiences, have come up with a list of "please don'ts"
Please...don't contact me if...
1) You need money to get back from Africa (or New Zealand, or the UK...etc).
2) You are a bigot
3) You are a 'player'
4) You are not willing to work out differences in a reaable manner (and yes, I know EVERYONE comes with some sort of baggage(it's called life)-so there WILL be differences)
5) When I arrive at our meeting place, you are so drunk/stoned that I can't even understand you.
6) You are the kind of per that will stand me up
7) You love to complain about everything - life is to be enjoyed, and we all have things we don't like - either change what you can, or learn to accept what you can't
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