I value commitment, honesty, and openess. Not looking for perfection. Life brings surprises, so it is important to be with someone who is able to handle nearly any situation with a calm demeanor and make it better than bearable.
My faith in God through Christ is huge, and I am faithful to Him. Being together with people of faith regularly is something I like, but not with them exclusively. Religious attitudes repel me, as do attitudes of unforgiveness, or spiritual superiority. I am pretty real about the fact that if it weren't for Christ, I would be the worst of the worst. So I tend to view everyone through the same eyes of love that Christ views me. For many years, I didn't allow myself to relax and have much fun. That has changed and I am more relaxed, and am enjoying more things than I ever thought I would or could. I can definitely be naughty, but that naughtiness is reserved, and has been, for only the person who decides to commit to a relationship for life. Some things are meant to be special and only shared with one.
My Ideal Person
My perfect match must have a heart commitment to Christ, not to a religion or denomination. I enjoy hearing about what you are thinking, no matter what it is. A youthful energy is a plus. There are still a lot of things I want to see, do, and experience for the first time. That curiosity and thirst for life is not going to go away. Looking for someone who really wants a fairly constant companion, spending time together, even when it is out with others. I like sharing and hearing about daily events. There is a joy in feeling connected with an occasional text message, or call. I am a gentleman who likes treating a lady special; open car doors, send flowers, cards, surprise with gifts, hour lonlong back rubs, bubble baths , etc. Definitely a romantic, so if you don't like being complimented, or treated queenly, I'm not your guy. You should enjoy quiet evenings holding hands as much as laughter and being in a crowd.
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