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Senior FriendFinder Success Stories

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shyone2004 said
Thank you so much, Senior FriendFinder.I wrote to let you know how your site helped me to meet such a great man. Well, now I would like to tell you that he has proposed to me! We will be getting married on October 15th, though I will still love getting on here to chat with the great friends we have made. I hope that others will have such luck with those they meet! Thanks again, Senior FriendFinder.
SheWoIf said
I joined Senior FriendFinder in July, 2004, and have met many nice people. While I just said hello to most of these people, some I would strike up a true caring friendship with (women and men).
I had a couple of almost meetings, and then, just when I made up my mind to merely enjoy the use of Senior FriendFinder as a means of making "Friends", I started talking to one of those "would like to know better and be good friends with".
KSman respected my desire to keep our friendship Platonic. We began to talk on a regular basis around January, and then on a daily basis in February. I enjoyed talking to him, and felt as if something were missing if we did not talk. A couple of my women friends found out I was talking with him, and they have talked to him before.. They both told me "SHE! He is perfect for you!" "Oh, no," I said, "We're just friends."
But this got me to looking closer at how I was feeling about this "Friend".
I wasn't sure how to approach how I was feeling towards KSman, and one day, in a chat room, the conversation was about marriage. KSman was there, and saw that I put "I will never get married again".. His comment to me was, "Be careful, SheWoIf. You may end up eating your words."
That got to me, so I asked him to join me in IM and I admitted how I was beginning to feel. He admitted to me that he felt the same way towards me. From that moment on, our conversations changed, and the discussion turned towards marriage. We finally got to meet during Easter weekend, and KSman proposed to me that Saturday. I accepted.
We will get married July 16th, 2005, and I will be moving to be with him in Kansas. I have already given my notice at work, and started packing. (KSman was here on the last weekend of May and took a load of my things home with him.)
So when we eat our wedding cake, I will be eating my words! I love this man to pieces! I guess for me the success came when I stopped looking for someone special, and just let the friendship develop!(Of course it helped that he respected my wishes.) I love you, KS . . . and Senior FriendFinder, thanks for the chat rooms!
Gaye38 said
Back about June of last year I joined sff's in search of adult interractions, had just moved to an area where I did not know any one, except for my family that I lived with, I had to retire because I was having health problems. I didn't have great expectations about finding a mate really just looking for people in the area to spend time with and to visit. Was divorced Dec.2003 and swore I would never marry again. I met some very nice friends and really enjoyed the chat rooms. Right after I first joined I met Ray4, we visited in chat casually and eventually he sent me his album of paintings. we e-mailed about them, and finally started instant messenging. I live near Dallas and he was in England with 6 hour time difference, by November we were instant messaging 8-9 hours a day talking on the mic and seeing each other on the web cam, and had started talking on the phone a few times a week, By December we were on line 10-12 hours a day and talking on the phone every other day. One day Ray came into the room and told everyone he was going to marry me, and in January we were on the phone daily making plans for our contact vist Jan, 31, 2005. When we met at DFW it was love at first sight and we knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. So on February 14th we were married, and now waiting on his resident visa to arrive. All this Thanks to Senior Friend Finders and some devine intervention. Thanks for a Great site I will always send my senior friends to Senior Friend Finders. Have my true love and some vey good friends because I joined your site. Gaye38
star6 said
I found my friend and soulmate with the aid of Senior Friend Finder. I had been on SFF for a period of 11 months and met many nice people. Many were not from my state but with the help of my friends on SFF I ventured into the world of chat get-togethers called "luncheons", some of which I hosted myself. On this particular night of New years Eve I hosted a party in Birmingham, Alabama. We had a small crowd but had a wonderful time. On SFF 1 week prior I had invited a new gentlemen with the handle of "slohands" from the site to attend our party. He lived about 1 1/2 hours from me and was reluctant at first but did attend. Immediately at our first greeting he and I found that we had very much in common and somehow we just seemed to relate to each other. I am thankful that over 1 year ago I decided to take a risk and join SFF. I was lonely and needed friends, I found them. I was looking for a soulmate and my dream has been fulfilled. To all who are out there that are lonely and disgusted, please don't give up. Your dream is out there too......To my soulmate, thank you for taking a risk and coming to my party......Sincerely, Star6 from Alabama
Gaye38 said
In June 2004 I joined sff's looking for adult interaction, some friends & penpals and hoping to meet the man of my dreams. Immediatly I met some very good friends, alot from the Dallas/Ft Worth area, and also the man of my dreams Ray4, but didn't know that then, we were just casual friends, speaking in chat and e-mailing occasionally. He paints and I was very interested and he sent me his album. I don't know when things started changing, sometime in October I think, we began to converse more often and started iming privatly a few times a week, then it became a few times a day, later becoming almost constantly. Using a mic and webcam at first, then finally started visiting on the telephone a few times a week, by this time we knew that we were falling in love, but still had lots of trust issues, thousands of miles seperating us and a 6 hour time difference (when its 6:00pm here, its 12:00 am in the UK) So it made it very difficult for us to talk much unless one or the other lost alot of sleep, Usually him as I was caring for a 6 year old grandson and couldn't nap in the day time. By mid November we were online and on the phone at least 18 hours a day, and talking on the phone several times a week and still having our doubts that were in love, We were told there is no way you can be in love without meeting eye to eye ( That is the stupidest Statement ever made, it happens all the time.)We continued like this througout all of December, left chat to avoid the people there and spend more time alone. By January we knew for sure it was true love there was no doubt in our minds and When Ray4 arrived at DFW on January 31st we immediatly knew it was true. We were married on February 14th and couldn't be happier. Would like to have invited some of our friends to our wedding, but just decided a very small and private wedding was all that we wanted. There is a phone companty online where you can call England for 3 cents a minute with a 46 cent connection fee, that we were lucky enough to find, made calling for us much easier. We want to Thank sff's for making our meeting possible with your site and to thank all our good friends who stood beside us through our getting together time. Yes people you can meet your mate on this site, and long distance relationships can work, but you have to be willing to work out your faith and trust issues for it to work. A fellow from England said it all one day in chat and I quote "Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained) We believed this.Good Luck to all of you out there Gaye38
Gaye38 said
In June of 2004, I joined Senior FriendFinder looking for adult interaction and hopefully a few friends, with the vague hope of finding someone to grow old with. I was very picky about the kind of person that I wanted to associate with. However, I immediately found a few very good friends from the Dallas/Ft Worth area. I even met the man of my dreams shortly thereafter, but didn't know it at the time: then we just spoke in chat and exchanged an e-mail or two. He sent me his album of paintings and pictures, and that is mainly what we talked about for a long time.
Things started changing in late October and we started talking more and more. Eventually we were IMing on a daily basis, for hours every day. The time difference between England and the US is 6 hours, so at 6:00pm for me it was 12 midnight for him. Not only were we separated by miles but also by a terrible time difference, and it was getting to the point where neither of us slept much. Some time in November we started talking on the phone a few times a week; by mid December it was many times a week and we were very much in love.
By the beginning of January we were talking almost daily. We knew so much about each other that one could start a sentence and the other would finish it. It was true that many times we both had our doubts that this could be true love: it was just too unheard of for people to be in love without ever making eye contact. By January, though, we knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.
Ray arrived at DFW on January 31, 2005, and the minute we met we knew we were made for each other. There were no doubts at all. On February 14th we were married. Our thanks to Senior FriendFinder for having such a wonderful site and for making it possible for us to meet. Gaye38
islandgeni said
Hawaii is truly a paradise. I was widowed after a long relationship. Life was satifying as a mom and grandmother. But something was missing. I took a trip to Maui, HI and fell in love with the flowers, trees, sky, and people. I enjoyed socializing and having a wonderful time exploring and trying new adventures. Horseback riding, volcano bike riding, paragliding, hiking, snorkeling and many more. Life was fun, but that special someone was missing. I went to your site quite by accident and was hooked. I was a basic member and winked at a man who sounded sincere. When golfermort winked back and emailed me, we started to communicate and finally talked on the telephone. Then we had our first date that clicked. We were a 100% match, and things skyrocketed and now we are married. We both had long marriages that reflected similar lifestyles and think our former spouses are connected in Heaven smiling down on us. Since our 100% match in June of 2004, to our Wedding in October of 2004 in beautiful Hana Maui, HI to today and our life on the Big Island of Hawaii, we are truly a match made in Heaven via seniorfriendfinder. Mahalo and Aloha from paradise, islandgeni and golfermort.
koallagirl65 said
Hi! I met my husband to be (wedding date 2/12/05) here on SFF on the ONLY time he ever came into chat room Boudoir...it was instant connection. He is from Dundee, Scotland and I am in the USA...It was a real fairy tale story and happenings. We first talked in early April 2004.......it DOES happen...MAGIC!
mbridget said
I just discovered Senior FriendFinder and am having fun looking through interesting discriptions of men. How very different people are when they describe things they want others to know about them! I am optimistic I will find someone soon. This place looks great. Bridget
barbara23 said
Well here is my story…it’s not going to be very long but it’s a great one. I was chatting in the gazebo one night in the month of 6-04 and I met a very nice man who called himself labrat. We chatted for quite a while and became friends. We talked every night for about four months. His name is marvin l. and he is just wonderful. He is a gentleman and we have been seeing each other since we met. He comes to visit me whenever he has two days off in a row .Thank you sff for having such good people in your group. Sincerely, barbara23