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What do You Really Want? 2/11/2020
This is my second time on this site. First time was a success.
Resulted in an exclusive relationship that lasted for
3 years so I know it works. However, both times I ran into
something I don't understand.
Some of you men are patient and understanding and are genuinely
interested in a relationship. Then there are the others.
I have had numerous responses from men who state the ...
2 Comments, 174 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score
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2nd Date Anticipation 4/7/2018
Second date anticipation is always the worst. The woman
reaches out to say thank you for the initial date or sometimes
it is the man, then you wait. What is a reasonable amount
of time before you figure there was not a connection? (Don’t
use having had sex on the first date as a barometer of how
the date went. Even if it was something that you usually
don’t do, but went with the feelings of ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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needing someone 6/5/2017
young or older , man or woman , big or small , white or black
, as long as they can satisfy my needs , I will satisfy their
needs now is the time for great friendships whatever the
needs R !!
0 Comments, 12 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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A few bad apples 5/26/2016
Have been on and off the online dating sites for many years
and on every site there seems to be the bad apples. I find
that when I use the IM on this site, I receive more sexual
invitations to chat then normal requests. As this site
offers an "adult" site for people who are interested
I do not understand why the bad apples do not go and play there.
I am not a prude and was once a member of the ...
1 Comments, 22 Views,
0 Votes
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Early Stages of Online Relationships 10/18/2015
Something catches your eye about their post. You may like
something they said, perhaps the site has told you he was
the match for you, or maybe the smile said this is a genuine
person I want to get to know. What is online is often so far
from the real person that you can’t begin to imagine,
later, when you look back, what was the connection in the
first place.
One thing I have ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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do men really know how to? 7/26/2011
I've met a few men on this site and wonder if they really
know what it takes to build a relationship ? It is quite surprising
to discover that many of them think that a relationship
refers to a sexual one. In their profile, they state that
they want a 'long term' relationship with the
potential of it developing into marriage, yet when it comes
to the crunch, they want to see you only when ...
8 Comments, 350 Views,
28 Votes
,4.88 Score
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Mark my e-bedpost! 5/12/2010
Ladies, am I the only one? You start a correspondence with a gent in here, he seems
interesting, after a note or two-he asks for your email
adress. Then starts the endless stream of cut and posts
(headed by addresses of numerous other ladies). Is this
some kind of cyber belt notching?
4 Comments, 109 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN? 3/25/2010
Some of these are new. It's
amazing how profound these comments are. Art Linkletter
would be proud..
TOUCHING WORDS FROM THE MOUTHS OF BABES
WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN?
A group of professional people posed this question to a
group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?"
The answers they got were broader and deeper than ...
0 Comments, 97 Views,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score
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Building a New Friendship 2/14/2010
Is this just a female thing or do men go thru this too - someone
emails you and after one or two emails (especially with
people in your own local community) they want to meet immediately.
For me, I prefer to build the friendship first via email
then proceed to a phone call and from there meet face to face.
I personally find that it's easier to get to know someone
(as much as you can) with ...
29 Comments, 615 Views,
32 Votes
,5.40 Score
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What are the men on this site really looking for? 9/19/2009
Pleiku says that she has seen a lot of young men on this site
and wonders if they are looking for a sugar mommy.
I personally am looking for someone closer to my age, but
want to get to know the person. A relationship doesn't
start with sex, and I see some of the profiles of older men
having "doubles entendres" and I wonder what
they are truly looking for.
Is it that at my ...
4 Comments, 146 Views,
14 Votes
,6.34 Score
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Fear..... 8/19/2009
Fear of a new relationship...fear of just the thought of
starting over...fear of getting hurt... one more time...fear
of the unknown...fear of loving & not being loved back...fear
of being mistreated...fear of another failed marrige...could
there be a chance of meeting a good man with a good warranty?...do
any of you feel fear of all this?...is there such a man...
or woman... for a man that feels ...
2 Comments, 138 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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WHY Do People Mask Their Insecurities With a Macho attitude? 7/24/2009
It seems to me, and please be aware that this is only an opinion,
my observation, that many people, but especially men cover
their own insecurities with an attitude of acting superior
or Macho? Perhaps it is that male/female, Ying/Yang Thing?
Perhaps it is that superiority to mask inferiority thing?
Many people who are this way truly are good people. But,
something deep inside makes them act ...
1 Comments, 60 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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when wearing----- 5/17/2009
When weary, we need to rest, puts oneself turns over to primitively, closes
both eyes, attentively goes to the sensation to be far away
thebustling streets the quiet life, all shakes the whole
body dust, letsthem change into the butterfly, in airborne
flies flies, looked a turnof red glowing sun falls Xishan,
you and your lover moves towards theravine the small log
cabin ----
2 Comments, 18 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Why You Might Not Deserve a Hot, Older Woman 5/5/2009
Men, are you looking for that hot, older woman experience?
Do you think that your young age is all that is necessary
to attract her? Are you finding out that things aren't
quite going your way in the seduction department? Well,
I'm here to help you boys with a list of tips and suggestions:
1. Come-on line that never works: "You remind me of
my mom and she's pretty cool. " Translates to: ...
2 Comments, 354 Views,
75 Votes
,6.77 Score
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RELATIONSHIP! 3/24/2009
If you want
a supper relationship then I believe you have to start from
the ground up no matter how many relationships you where
in before it has to work this way and it will. Have a lot of
trust in each other, Give them space when they need it, Give
them a shoulder to cry on when they need it, cry with them,
laugh with them, lay with them, cuddle with ...
1 Comments, 57 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Build Trust by Practicing Safe Sex 12/18/2008
Nothing builds trust and the path toward ecstatic sexuality
than the practice of safe sex.
Men, take heed.
Women love a man who loves and takes great care of himself...
cause she knows he'll be loving and caring of her too..and
she can wholeheartedly reciprocate.
Your comments?
0 Comments, 92 Views,
13 Votes
,5.32 Score
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ON MATRIMONIAL RELATIONSHIPS. 11/3/2008
ON MATRIMONIAL RELATIONSHIPS
DO WE NEED TO PONDER?
Members inside a family do not really know each other well
enough...though they live together, as a family unit...
from the onset of their parent's marriage.....
Based on the above - is it possible, that two people locked in matrimony - from two entirely different family units - ever hope to know or understand each other - as ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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I just wonder what is happening to the gents out there 10/21/2008
I am a silver member and have been really looking forward
to meeting a soul-mate.
<br>
Once I upgraded my membership from standard to silver,
there came this problem where the nice lads all wrote at
once with all their nice photos, some even called me on my
mobile for a nice chat or to hear my melody voice and then
i realised that so many of them are jokers and are interested
in ...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
90 Votes
,3.97 Score
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New foundations 7/27/2008
A serious long term relationship is doomed from the start
if you try to build or add on to the foundations of a previous
relationship. Start off with a fresh plan, and learn from
the mistakes of yourself and others that made any previous
building fall down. Any new building needs a lot of hard
work and effort to make it special and long lasting, and
every now and then minor repairs are ...
2 Comments, 69 Views,
9 Votes
,5.99 Score
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Why, is it always the most important??? 7/1/2008
Just wanted to ask why? is it always the most important question
that most i say most men ask, If a lady over 60 or 70 is really
interested in sex, are there no men out there that are interested
in a lady for your brains, and love of life, does it always
have to be about sex. There is more to life you know guys,
not saying it isnt important if you get to know someone,
but not the most ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
225 Votes
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A Good Washing 6/19/2008
A little girl had been shopping with
her Mom in Wal-Mart. She must have been 6 years old, this
beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence.
It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over
the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth
it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under
the awning and just inside the door of the ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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Pet Photography 6/18/2008
My Ali-Kat has for a long time been my friend maker as well
as friend. Her web page demonstrates both my photography
as well as her charm. What do others think? http://seniorfriendfinder.com
1 Comments, 16 Views,
0 Votes
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relationship 5/2/2008
relationships are not easy. Well it seems when we were young
and not so cynical they came easy, but i am finding the older
i get the harder it is cause you look at folks with a different
eye than when young. when you you could fall in love on a whim
but as older person you are sceptical cynical what does
that person want well it is hard but more honest and i think
if and when you find love when ...
1 Comments, 51 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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If what's in your pants is your best asset 12/4/2007
I have yet to have a man in real life walk up to me and ask about
my breasts. It's against the law. Not only that, but
when a man begins a conversation about body parts and functions,
it is an indication to me of what he is truely looking for
.... a booty call.
I want to know why men feel they can carry on such inappropriate
and disrespectful behavior online, do and say things that ...
3 Comments, 139 Views,
22 Votes
,4.33 Score
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to build or not to build... 11/3/2007
there seems to be so much energy and enthusiasm for building
the perfect relationship. i've enjoyed some very
satisfying relationships in my lifetime... but i've
reached a point where i am not so eager to 'adjust'
to someone else anymore. instead of cooking big meals,
i eat cold cereal for supper when i want to. and i don't
have to work around someone else's moods...don't
have to explain ...
2 Comments, 149 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Investing your time!!!! 10/30/2007
There are so many people.....weather they be man or woman.That
write once......then disappear.Whats the use....you
never even allow the chance to get to know who you are writing
to.I guess I get the impression that many people are just
skimming or just killing time.I'm on here for a reason.I
know I don't meet each and every womans dreams, needs
or wants but this is me...to at least the ...
1 Comments, 39 Views,
71 Votes
,4.71 Score
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Relationships Aren't Easy 10/20/2007
Relationships are never easy; finding and keeping the
right person can be a constant challenge. Doubt and fear
prevent many of us from listening to our hearts. We imagine
problems and find faults with our partner or potential
partner. And we become unable to love or be loved.
<br>
Many of us allow the ego to get in the way of true love. There
is a process involved when ...
1 Comments, 92 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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...........just some thoughts for you, serious people only!! 9/19/2007
this is for seriously looking only, not for playboys..
We all know that life isnt fair, or should anyway, still,
I think something is missing here...
on the profiles I read.
Ok guys, you are looking for girls that look great, slim,
blonde, brunette, redhed, tall..whatever! Must hike
camp fish cook or wear corsets or skirts..cant drink or
smoke, fabulous in bed, otherwise perfect ladies, ...
15 Comments, 581 Views,
63 Votes
,8.31 Score
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re; "when will men wake-up and smell the coffe?" 9/12/2007
I am a 50 YO divorced man and am amazed that men in this basic
age group haven't woken-up to what was written in the
original article.
I was happily married for 18 years before things fell apart
and learnt that sex is someting comes as a result of a loving
and trusting relationship. The main issue is building
that relationship. If you do this, the sex will be fantastic,
almost a religious ...
0 Comments, 62 Views,
139 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Relationships are Formed on the Internet 6/22/2007
Hello thought maybe I should do an update on my blog "
It started with a Blog".
<br>
It has now been 6 month since 60minman and I started spending
time together. We continue to grow closer each day and I
love him very much. Life without him would be so lonely and
I am so thankful that God brought us together. This part
with us has been very easy as we live close enough to see one ...
0 Comments, 121 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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senual massage 6/8/2007
many guys have told me over the years thast they have NEVER
had a lady give them a . Too bad! There is
so much missing in a relationship today, that does require
just a little bit of learning from one. I have no certificate
or training, but just by reading article's I have learnt
how to do it. So, I have given a few men these massaages. Not
my own men, that I have dated, as I didn't know ...
1 Comments, 134 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT, KINDNESS AND APPRECIATION! 6/4/2007
FOR ALL THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN SUPPORTIVE OF MY IDEAS.............
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for being a supportive
friend!
When I keep thinking of the 'FAMILY OF MAN'..
I realize - that our family - need not be the one - within the
walls - we call home!
It could be anywhere - where we are wanted and loved unconditionally!
It could be where we are ...
3 Comments, 76 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Problems 1/7/2007
The reason that there are many problems in the marriage
is because men and women don't speak the same language.
Ask a man where he got those pork chops and he will tell that
he got them at SAFEWAY.
Ask a woman where she got the pork chops and she will respond
with, WHY? what is wrong with them?
4 Comments, 164 Views,
18 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Finding A Lost Lover With Horary Astrology 12/28/2006
Where is your lover hiding. Cast A Chart. Find the Ruling
Planet of the Seventh House and look whree it located.
<br>
If it's in a fire sign look at place of Middle height
or level, near a wall, by a fire or heat source, near something
that is iron or steel
<br>
If it's in a Water sign, your lover may be hiding in a
bathtub, near a lake or river
In lowlands, near ...
1 Comments, 68 Views,
17 Votes
,0.72 Score
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Using Astrology to help with Relationship 12/28/2006
Astrology is a guide for helping you understand the strenght
and challenges in a relationship, It is not the alpha or
the omega in decison makeing. Astrology merely suggests
methods on understanding your potential significant
other and suggestions on how to live life to the fullest.
Real Astrology is quite complex and assumptions are made
based on intricate calculations. Putting too much ...
4 Comments, 81 Views,
17 Votes
,0.72 Score
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Relationship Construction? 12/28/2006
I have a theory about this concept. It is based on the fable,
The Scorpion And The Frog.
<br>
According to Aesop, a frog hopped out onto a riverbank to
be confronted by a scorpion. The scorpion told the frog
he needed to get acroos the river to find food but scorpions
can't swim. The frog said he would be glad to let the
scorpion to ride on his back, but was afraid the scorpion ...
4 Comments, 135 Views,
12 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Three of Worlds - Nurturing 12/28/2006
Being supportive of creations with patience and tender
loving care. Nothing grows overnight without help. Wisdom,
Hard Work and Play will pay off with a harvest.
1 Comments, 39 Views,
14 Votes
,0.10 Score
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How To Get An Aquarius to Commit Matrimony 12/27/2006
The Aquarius is one of the most fixed stubburnly independant
signs of the zodiac. They want friendship not love. They
usually have a major case of committment-phobia. Key songs
for the Aquarius are "Baby Baby - Don't Get Hooked
on Me."
<br>
If you want to keep an Aquarius around, just tell them that
you are already in a somewhat committed relationship but
you need them ...
3 Comments, 194 Views,
20 Votes
,2.10 Score
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Affirmation to Find A Lover 12/27/2006
You need a basket full of Rose Petals and Bay Leaves -
Build a fire and focus on the lover of yours hearts desire
- Toss the petals and leaves in the fire with the affirmation
Fire - Fire Burning Bright
My Hearts Desire comes to with a flame of Love just for me.
Woo Hoo
1 Comments, 71 Views,
15 Votes
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love=tug-of-war 12/25/2006
The love on likely the tug-of-war, a person bleeds off,
more over a person can throw down
1 Comments, 17 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Time 12/23/2006
A goog relationship is hard to come by because everyone
is in a hurry...and ii is that attitude falls by the wayside.
Alot of people want the security they find in their mate's
love, and affection...but this takes alot of time; some
find it, but most don't. Today hormonally action takes
the stage, and it is called lust...is it easy, no commitments.
no ties...no nothing! Everything good ...
5 Comments, 107 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Oh! America! 12/23/2006
Oh!America! America republic! You are free state! In yours
blood vessels theflow fervor, free is being bold, democratic
and most strong voice!
Nomatter the others said any,
lets them say!
The person does not violate me, 人不犯我我不犯人,
I ...
1 Comments, 14 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Why is the kiss so important? 12/13/2006
Because the kiss is the only place where two people can meet,
other than the eyes. The lips/tongue are the one part the
body that can express the deepest feelings, the windows
and doors of who we are what we want. How do I know this? Because
I have been fortunate enough to have connected with men
through a kiss, the softness of the under-lip rubbing and
searching, tongue-tips touching and a ...
5 Comments, 125 Views,
12 Votes
,5.27 Score
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Duel Pole?... 11/1/2006
One of the disadvantages of having personal magnetism
is that you bring people out, people that otherwise would
go unnoticed. The fact that people can be so annoying is
really a tribute to yourself!
0 Comments, 37 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Have you had success on SFF or other sites? 10/23/2006
I've heard so many negative comments about these dating
sites. Does anyone have a success they would like to tell
us about?
3 Comments, 236 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Dark Side Of The Moon 10/14/2006
A Storyteller named Michael Meade once spoke to me of something
I have an imperfect recall of, but I will try.
I believe it was a Brazilian concept and I will attempt to
phoneticly spell it as pane'.He described it as the
dark side of the moon.That which we cannot know.He then
suggested men and women represent pane' for each other.
From there I thought about how a person looking at a ...
1 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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I Love Sex.... 10/11/2006
I love sex and I can't find a woman who love sex.
Why woman lie by saying their looking for friend when they
are looking how the mann look, how clean he is, if it's
not for sex... But they are saying "I'm looking
for friend"...
Somebody could explain that state of mind to me ?
Either I'm stupid or somethink I didn't catch...
Rock
5 Comments, 151 Views,
11 Votes
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Should I or should I not.. 10/2/2006
I am into a relationship for the past 11 months and hoping
to make things better day after day. My special man is married.
Things get really crooked these days. We argue so much and
have been emotionally hurt. But I am so much in love with
him no matter how bad things can be. I am not sure if I am just
lonely without him or what??.. I have my job, my and everything
I want and sometimes ...
14 Comments, 380 Views,
17 Votes
,2.28 Score
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how many steps 9/8/2006
to build a relationship on the internet, is hard, I imagine.
First you don't know who you are dealing with, you don't
know if you can trust what they tell you, you don't know
if you should let your chemistry get the best of you, you
don't know nothing, period. What to do, we ask ourselves.
I think it is best to just communicate with one another,
and if you feel there could be a chance of ...
3 Comments, 142 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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Friendship as a foundation to a lasting relationship 8/6/2006
Friendship first is like finding a rare pearl in an oyster
that has been buried deep in the ocean. Sharing one's
spirit and values shows a true trust and caring, rather
than skipping the communication and jumping between the
sheets on the drop of a hat. When they said "patience
is a virtue", they should also have said....."that
pays off with a multitude of premiums of joy, happiness
and ...
4 Comments, 92 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Only 10 Woman, for 916 Man... OUF !!! 8/6/2006
How can we build a real relationship if it doesn't have
woman to build with ?
In the Montreal section (including Laval, Longueil, Sorel,
Monteregie, etc) I know now why I can't find a woman
! None are available,
for the rest their waiting to win the jack pot...
Woman have choice, 10 woman
for [COLOR ...
1 Comments, 60 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Should I lie ? 7/25/2006
Since I'm with Senior Friend Finder all the courriel
I sended to lady only one answered but in the profile she
is writing she's from Vancouver, but she lived in Toronto...
All the lady who is reading my profile, and I konw a lot do,
you know how, they don't go anyfurther, is it because
I tell the true !
Should I lie about who I am ?
Should I lie about what I don't ...
0 Comments, 51 Views,
5 Votes
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Letting our past stand in the way of our furture!!!!!!! 7/19/2006
Hi,
I have found that alot of us on sff are afraid of getting into
a new relationship , I believe we can become addicted to
the e-mails , chats etc , however to really reach out and
find that special person is difficult our past hurts and
stops us from meeting that possible special someone face
to face , I, ve met a man I adore and he, s afraid and pulls
back I think it, s too bad we ...
1 Comments, 117 Views,
13 Votes
,5.32 Score
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I'll be back when my 'Diner's' is glowing!...... 7/18/2006
It is such a problem being beautiful. Only the handsome
men ask us out because they're the only ones who think
they have a chance. And handsome men are dolts. Life is unfair
to us. At some point we have to face the certain reality:
despite all the good the world seems to offer, true happiness
can only be found in one thing - shopping.
1 Comments, 44 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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Truth and honesty 7/10/2006
Thanks for your article. Honesty can be a double-edged
sword. Perhaps it just means openness about our feelings
for the other person. However, does it have to mean that
the partner will be comfortable with the problems in our
life that have nothing to do with the relationship with
him? These days we are very open about our "issues"
. However, this leaves us transparently open and ...
1 Comments, 126 Views,
61 Votes
,5.69 Score
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DEDICATED - WITH LOVE 7/7/2006
WHOEVER, WHATEVER,
WHEREVER, HOWEVER - MY LOVE!
Whoever you are
I know this is true -
You're made for me
Without you I'm blue!
Whatever you be
You are the one -
Wherein, me I see
Right under the sun.
Where ever you go
You'll always know -
I am there with you
In thoughts so true!
However apart
Deep in the heart -
...
1 Comments, 56 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Older women and younger men 7/5/2006
Women mature sexually before men. Ironically, they reach
their sexual peak later in life. Biologically, after menopause,
many women enter a period of healthy, passionate lovemaking.
No more unplanned pregnancies, no more pressure of getting
married again....just freedom to enjoy being a healthy,
independent, successful woman. Fly like a bird.....let
your spirit roar. The secret is ...
0 Comments, 471 Views,
144 Votes
,7.98 Score
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5th anniversary of the 1st legal gay marriage..Their Story 7/1/2006
I THOUGHT YOU MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN READING THIS ARTICLE,
Advocacy News - 5th Anniversary of the 1st legal gay marriage
January 12, 2006
5th anniversary of the 1st legal gay marriage
"Gay vows covered like a royal wedding" Toronto
Star
"A message to the world" Globe and Mail
By Kevin Bourassa and Joe Varnell
"This was not like any wedding before ...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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good relationships come in all sizes and shapes 6/22/2006
This is about my grandsons! They are 9 and 11. The youngest
called me up last weekend to make sure I was coming to his
little league game. (Like I would have missed it!!) My 11
year old plays catcher and the 9 year old is on the same team
and plays third base. MY 11 year old caught a pop fly (halfway
to first base) and quickly threw it to his brother on third
and he tagged the runner ...
1 Comments, 106 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Self-love equals happy holidays 6/20/2006
I give myself a present at the holidays. No, it's not
jewelry, a fur coat or a new car. It's a loving inventory
of how I've grown in the past year, heralding the changes
in my life and giving glory to God for providing the courage
to recognize the good and beautiful in all that surrounds
me. You can't have love unless you give it away. May
your New Year be filled with good health, ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score
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Falling leaves II 6/20/2006
Perhaps someone would like to comment on the simile "don't
hold that kitten too tightly, hold it gingerly and listen
to it PURr". Maybe it is too cloudy in its meaning.
0 Comments, 77 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Falling leaves 6/20/2006
Falling leaves, like relationships, will fall whether
you like it or not. The ebb and flow of nature shows us the
path to follow in seeking harmony. Don't squeeze that
little kitten too tightly. Hold it gingerly, and listen
to it PURR !
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8 Votes
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Revealing Oneself 6/18/2006
I don't know how to say this and I am saying this for the
first time. Physically I am female, otherwise, I am different.
I have been married, have and everything stays
the same with me. It is very painful to admit you are different
because people are so cruel and mean. When you are different,
you are looked at like you have some contagious disease.
I lived in my shell and my pretenses. I ...
0 Comments, 138 Views,
7 Votes
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Most Men Are Jerks 6/18/2006
I’m a man, and from what I’ve learned at work, most men are
jerks.
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Whenever we get together for lunch, and the conversation
turns to women, dating, sexuality or marriage, I hear the
most inane, dehumanizing and sexist comments.
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This is the sum of most their comments (made when women are
not present):
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Women are on earth for two ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
72 Votes
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Sexual talk 6/18/2006
I don't know about you girls but i find it digusting
when a man has to talk about sex when they are in conversation...i
like to meet a man without talking about sex, that always
comes later in the relationship, men can be so vulgar at
times seems like all they want to do is get in your pants first..well
i guess i am old fashion but i like to find out all about each
other before getting into ...
0 Comments, 46 Views,
96 Votes
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A kiss is just a kiss 6/15/2006
I like to kiss, but I like it a certain way, I don't mind
french kissoing, either. Everybody has their own way of
doing things, which includes kissing. Is it wrong for one
to tell the other that they don't like how they kiss?
And would a man be willing to change his kissing style? Would
a woman be willing to? Is it possible thbat after years of
kissing the same way, do you think that onew ...
5 Comments, 206 Views,
21 Votes
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SEX- the ultimate question 6/15/2006
Why is SEX so important to many people these days.? A woman
feels out of place and left out even when she is dressed nicely
today. If she is dressed sexy, then she will be looked at.
Do we women need to feel that we must let out top hang down
the shoulder as far as possible, wear our dresses away above
the knee. BIG boots are required and WALK with a wiggle.
What ever happened to just good ...
11 Comments, 173 Views,
16 Votes
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Why Am I Afraid To Tell You Who I Am? 6/7/2006
Some very wise soul wrote a book with that title about 20
years ago. In the book the author answered the question
this way: Because if I do and you don't like who I am,
it's all that I have.
3 Comments, 239 Views,
31 Votes
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How soon does the building start? 5/1/2006
Do we start building at the first mail, the first phone call,
or after the first meeting? Maybe it is after the second
meeting as all before that is just meeting, or does it only
come when we agree we are going forward?
4 Comments, 326 Views,
17 Votes
,3.41 Score
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A Strand of Friendship 4/23/2006
Friendship is a nice thing once you know that you have found
a good friend. But, what exactly is a "good friend"
There are friends then there friends. Most people have
got A friend, rather its a male or a female. It doesn't
really matter what sex they are, providing they aren't
married to someone else, or dating someone. A friend can
be your neighbor, someone that you you just go for coffee ...
4 Comments, 281 Views,
23 Votes
,5.93 Score
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LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP..Definition Please 4/17/2006
In most profiles you will see LTR...Definition LONG TERM
RELATIONSHIP...
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My question is LTR does that refer to an "Open"
Relationship or a "closed exclusive" Relationship.
This is a question that should be asked by each party before
entering into an LTR. If it is not asked the faint of heart
can be hurt very badly.
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<br> ...
1 Comments, 281 Views,
10 Votes
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Am broken hearted 4/12/2006
my dear friend let me hope that you will help me.
Am asingle mum who was broken heraten by the father of my
little ten months baby he was arested i looked for more all
to put hime out when i was 3months prigant but he left me for
some else till now he has never seen .what can i do being
asingle mum is toooooooooo hard my dear ones.
2 Comments, 81 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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CAN YOU SEE ME 4/12/2006
members why do you post a picture of yourself, where we can't
tell if you are blonde, redhaired, or got blue toes even?
We need one that has you in a clear view sso we can SEE YOU.
One is not willing to guess, or assume what you look like
in person, if we are to meet you one day, so why bother to post
a picture that is not helping you or anyone. I have met a couple
guys from SFF to find ...
6 Comments, 115 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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Magical formula 4/12/2006
I sometimes think having a relationship becomes a habit.
Some people seem to go through life having one partner after
another.
Yet, somewhere along the line they both must have felt something
surely? Or perhaps I'm being cynical.
Good companionship, likes and dislikes,
sex or dare I say it. Love!
These people who have two or even more partners in their
lives. Surely don't do it ...
2 Comments, 151 Views,
13 Votes
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most essential... 3/14/2006
Most essential thing in a relationship to me is Honesty
first. If I feel I can trust a person right off the bat, I would
feel that maybe there might be something there, in the future.
To feel secure with a person is probably the most required,
in any kind of a relationship. I don't tell if I have
money, I don't give out personal information to start
with. Some people want to know what a ...
1 Comments, 50 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Reflections at the dawn of a day 3/13/2006
The following was written by me about two years ago, but
it is as relevant today as it was then, even though my circumstances
of where I now live have changed since.
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EARLY MORNING REFLECTIONS
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When I woke up this morning I made my usual daystarter, an
excessively strong mug of coffee with just a hint of milk,
and with that and my roll-your-own tobacco I sat ...
1 Comments, 108 Views,
23 Votes
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definition of a relationship 3/10/2006
Is the word "relationship" in the dictionary.
when one "thinks" they might be in a relationship,
what does that mean? You cannot see anyone else. Can you
talk about that with the one you are assuming you have a relationship
with? What is "relationship material???"
are we just to naive to really understand just what we are
expected to do, or do you need to be told? If you are aseeing ...
6 Comments, 111 Views,
4 Votes
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what kind do you want 3/10/2006
ladies, men are really baffled. They are wondering just
what you want in a relationship? Are you lo0king for a lovydovey
style, and old fashioned style, a sexless style, or just
a sexy style. do you go out to bars with the girls often? Do
you want your spouse to come to the bar with you and your girlfriends?
(he probably would be happy, too and it might even make him
more affectionate when ...
2 Comments, 75 Views,
4 Votes
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true love can be great 3/8/2006
WHAT IS LOVE-- how many definitions Do you know for the word
"love?" Everybody has had a taste of love in
their life, one way or another.Rather its the opposite
sex, brother and sister connection, a mother, a father,
your grandparents, or your chilfren. One can love their
friend, as well, only in a different way then with your spouse.
With any relationship we do not accept any kind of ...
4 Comments, 95 Views,
3 Votes
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Being Careful With Whom You Trust Yor Heart 2/22/2006
Not all the times are bad in a relationship till you start
finding out the other does not care and just wants to be friends
and really dont want that. You have given you heart and soul
to this person and you get played for a fool, some cultures
are to have respect, honor and lose face for these things
but it does not always apply to them, guess they are the exceptions.I
dont see how a ...
0 Comments, 150 Views,
13 Votes
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Friendship is needed...... 2/17/2006
Friendship! sweeter of life. and soldier of society.Like
it or not, friends are becoming more and more important
to the average person. Friendship is good for our soul.
As we get older, we need good friends to keep us young. A good
friendship can help us to be healthy, and avoid the possibility
of getting depressed, and desperate for better living.
It has been proven, also, that breast ...
2 Comments, 63 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Plus of distance relationship 2/17/2006
When people have e-mail correspondence or talk on-line,
they have possibility know about inside of soul, about
what in mind of person they decide meet with, may be this
is big "plus" of distance relationship...
when two people onward be aware of interest, thought, internal
world of that person, with which they are met subsequently...
1 Comments, 114 Views,
8 Votes
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STRAWS FROM MY BALE: Sunshineokie 2/13/2006
Sorry Kiddos, here I am, on my journey, in my Third Age...and
everytime I think I've gotten soemthing all figured
out...I get a newer, upgraded perspective. Building a
relationship with a platonic friend seems to require about
the same-ole-same-ole, ya know. Just, be good to each other,
mind your manners, be polite, return what you borrow.
But let me tell YOU! This romancing stuff takes ...
0 Comments, 61 Views,
3 Votes
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Our own self 2/11/2006
To be involved with your inner sense is good for many and
terrible for others. One reason for this is, alot of people
don't know what they want. We tend to say, this, but
we mean that. We will do that, but really want to do this.
We go to places that we aren't interested in, just to
please someone else. We wander in various directions most
of our lives, and don't usually get anywhere. ...
2 Comments, 82 Views,
3 Votes
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Meeting With Someone from SFF 2/11/2006
Hi, this is my first magazine article, so everyone bear
with me if it isn't something you want to read.
I met my hubby here on this site, so I have nothing bad to say
about SFf (except for the normal complaints about it not
working right, posts not being posted, and so forth).
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The thing that folks need to remember is that this site is
a microcosm of the world, ...
3 Comments, 277 Views,
29 Votes
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The question 2/4/2006
Why every time I try to find a friend
the paper with the request of MONEY stares on me from the
monitor ??
2 Comments, 123 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Destiny 2/1/2006
Never find ur destiny, let destiny find u.Its Ok to cry as
hard and as long you want to just make sure, that when u stop
crying.You won't cry for the same reason anymore.Life
is a journey keep on going until you reach your destiny.
1 Comments, 84 Views,
5 Votes
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A new begining......... 1/29/2006
When we meet someone and they become that speacial someone,
always keep the romance fresh, keep in contact every day
that is so important to hear a loved ones voice, it brings
a smile, all ways do little things I send cheeky little texts
i also put little message were I know he can find them sometime
that day, tell him /her what you think or feel, by phone or
text if and when you can, when ...
8 Comments, 680 Views,
52 Votes
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My Sweetheart! 1/23/2006
I.am very new to this so please bare with me.I don't
even know where to start but, I have always been told that
it's best to start at the beggining so I will.It has
been my pleasure to have met alot of people through the chatrooms
of SFF.I was truely a very lucky man when I met Jes4now.She
is a very loving and understanding and patient woman.I
have never met anyone quite like her.I truely ...
1 Comments, 143 Views,
8 Votes
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old fashioned relationship 1/12/2006
This article is to all the male members, remember when your
mother told you how she came to meet your father...First,
she had trouble passing the idea to her father about even
dating, then she had to be chaperoned by a big brother, next,
she had to be home early, then she had to abide by all these
strict rules from her father. Not to mention when she fell
in love with your father and was ...
0 Comments, 115 Views,
6 Votes
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ALLOW yourself to play 1/3/2006
ALLOW your Inner feelings out to Play
It takes talent to play the mind but I never play games with
the heart. I am too wise.
I was born, ‘responsible’, and my ‘undoing’ of the systems
oppressive mind set was to fight with ‘Delight’. Delight
is “losing the mind, finding the body, and regaining the
MIND anew.'
Being ...
0 Comments, 80 Views,
7 Votes
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cultivating a beautiful romance 12/4/2005
Romance doesn't have to end.Love keeps getting better.Passion
will be tamed somewhat
The spark that turns into a flame, can also consume common
sense.
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There is only one person in world that can make me happy ,
and that person is me. I need to be happy, to be in love with
life, and to continue to evolve spiritually.
I have been in love and understand about minimizing ...
1 Comments, 81 Views,
7 Votes
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Second-class citizens 11/10/2005
When a single, available woman settles for a married man
who is looking for a "discrete affair", she
is accepting the status of a second-class citizen. This
man is so ashamed of his behavior and you that he wouldn't
want his friends nor the woman to whom he has pledged lifelong
fidelity to discover his secret life. Don't you deserve
the best? Don't you love yourself enough to wait until ...
2 Comments, 232 Views,
24 Votes
,4.27 Score
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How To Charm A Gemini Into Matrimony 11/7/2005
Come on Baby, lets go to Vegas, Pack your bags, we are leaving
in two hours, Gemini will be ready. Geminis like quick on
the spur decisions and immediate action. Action is the
magic word. If a Gemini wants it, he wants it now. The moment
is critical and you must go
with it. Otherwise- it will never come back.
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The Gemini likes instant coffee, instant breakfast and
...
4 Comments, 154 Views,
15 Votes
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Get to know one another first 11/2/2005
Having reach a time period in my life where I don't want
to repeat the history I have left behind, a new and different
opportunity entered into my life. A man from SFF had asked
if we could meet, to get to know one another.
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This man wanted to know the real me, what I was really all
about, and what kind of a person I'm. In return I would
find out the real him, the real ...
1 Comments, 137 Views,
31 Votes
,7.17 Score
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Age 10/23/2005
I have been on a few dating sites but i find this one is by far
the best, i have made some good friends from here , but
tell me does age really matter, i dont think so ..but it
does seem like some ladies think so.
5 Comments, 181 Views,
7 Votes
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HURRY UP - SLOW DOWN 10/11/2005
When starting a relationship do we rush and get to the first
date , or take one day at a time?
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Personally I would prefare to take it slow get to know each
other a bit on the net then chatting via phone to see if you
laugh at the same things... can you both chat with ease,
do you have simular likes or dislikes ? if you chat with a
person long enough, and they are not gen... ...
3 Comments, 123 Views,
11 Votes
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Age is an issue 10/9/2005
Age is an issue if you prefer someone younger/older. Otherwise,
you wouldn't even care to ask how old they are. So, my
ultimate question is: Where are the older (but no too old)
men who like younger girls?
0 Comments, 74 Views,
20 Votes
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Are You Really Ready for A Relationship? 9/22/2005
Hello Everyone. I wanted to say that most of us are on this
website hopefully for the same reason, to find a permanent,
satisfying relationship aren't we? I have heard that
some people are in it only for the sex and that's not
what I'm about. Unfortunately, it ruins it for some
of us who don't feel that way. I've actually heard
this from women, as well as the men. Most of us have already ...
3 Comments, 409 Views,
31 Votes
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A wonderful Message by George Carlin 8/25/2005
Like to share a wonderful Message by George Carlin, hope
you enjoy it:
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The paradox of our time in history is that
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we have taller buildings but shorter tempers,
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wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
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We spend more, but have less,
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we buy more, but enjoy less.
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We ...
3 Comments, 491 Views,
60 Votes
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No Matter the Age, What's important 8/20/2005
We hear every day how so many singles are looking for mr or
miss right. We read profiles stating that one is honest,
believes communication is the key, and wants that special
somebody. Yet, no one seems to be connecting. What is important
in a relationship?
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It is the humble opinion of this 49 year old woman that the
most important things in a relationship are: 1) honesty ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
72 Votes
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Commitment 8/12/2005
What is commitment to you? To me it's: Promise, truth,
word of honor, trust, assurance, understanding, agreement
and pact.
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Care to add anything else ladies and gents?
<br>
Lydia
0 Comments, 82 Views,
11 Votes
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ALONE AGAINST DESTINY 8/10/2005
I FELL SO BAD THAT IT´S DIFFICULT FOR ME TO WRITE, I FEEL
THAT I WANT TO SCREAM, AND I CAN´T , BUT IT´S SO MUCH MY NEEDNES
THAT I´M CRYING NOW .I´M SORRY IF I TELL YOU IT.MY
IS SICK SINCE LAST DECEMBER I´M VERY SAD BECAUSE SHE CAN´T
WORK BY THE MOMENT.I´M DIVORCED AND I HAVE A LITTLE ALIMONY
PENSION, I´M DEPRESSED BECAUSE AT THE SAME TIME, I HAVE
RECIVED BAD NEWS , MY EX LAWYER ...
2 Comments, 277 Views,
15 Votes
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Love is blind 8/7/2005
When, after years of having what you think is loving, caring,
relationship. It suddenly dawns on you that it is all one
sided. That all you have done is given and got nothing back
in return. Then love really is blind.
0 Comments, 131 Views,
10 Votes
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Open communication 6/1/2005
Hello, how much should I tell my sexual partners about my
fantasies? I don't want to scare them away but I also
want to explore the full realms of sex.
1 Comments, 131 Views,
5 Votes
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How to get the right relationship 6/1/2005
Love is not matter on how to get the right person, but to get
the right relationship. the important question is are
you capable to build a relationship that you wanted?
1 Comments, 78 Views,
11 Votes
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Relationship must have a solid foundation 4/30/2005
I am not a silver nor a gold member here.. I just want to share
my thoughts...
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I believe that any relationship must start with sharing.
ie communication... One has to learn the value of being
honest to open up, at least initially...
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Friendship nurtured by honesty, sincerity and guidance
from the Lord is one of the many ways by which we could really
feel ...
0 Comments, 115 Views,
11 Votes
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Good relationships - a personal definition 4/9/2005
To me, a partner that appreciates relationships are a journey,
not a destination is fundamental.
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As on any journey, experience is enhanced by relection
over time. Yet I hear many suggest they defintely want this
or absolutely need that in a relationship right now - or
else!
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Having preferences is natural, but reducing a relationship
search to a shopping list ...
2 Comments, 173 Views,
16 Votes
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Easier Said. 1/19/2005
There are times when it is harder to 'say' it than
to 'do it' whatever the 'its' might be.
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For example, when I told my lady 'it's over, '
it was a result of care reflection about how much more of
myself was I willing to give to one who had no appreciation
of love's meaning.
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It was far more difficult to say than to follow up with action. ...
1 Comments, 154 Views,
12 Votes
,0.68 Score
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In Progress 1/9/2005
A relationship in progress is a very nice time; it's
new with no 'history' to spat about or, ideally,
unrealistic expectations.
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I have a few phone conversations with a lady I met online.
We're the same age and earned our masters at the same
school. We are both professionals and would like something
more personal than those we must encounter daily.
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...
0 Comments, 85 Views,
4 Votes
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Jazz 1/8/2005
I can think of no better analogy to a personal relationship
than jazz.
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When I put on my musician's cap and sit in on a jazz session
it is usually with musicians I'm performed with in
the past. There are times - and probably the most fun - when
a group get together who've never played before.
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The common thing said by at least one of is, "There
are no ...
1 Comments, 76 Views,
8 Votes
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Does "chemistry" exist? 12/5/2004
I've been wondering what the chemistry is for a long
time.
Does it exist at all? Ok, it happens that you do feel something
strong for the person. But since we are humans and most of
us arthink, sometimes that chemistry thing seemse able to
to confuse me a lot. Should be rely on that too much?
I would like other members' opinion on that.
I've been disappointed a few times in my ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
64 Votes
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How can a relationship even start when you live so far away from the other? 11/8/2004
I am getting more disappointed because the men who respond
to my ad live so many miles away that it would be almost impossible
to even start anything up...emailing is fine, talking
on the phone is fine, but I want a warm body not some computer
keys or phone receiver...anyone else feel that way? What's
it take to attract someone who lives within 30 miles or so
of home?
2 Comments, 59 Views,
52 Votes
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When is a deal a deal? A date a date? A commitment a ... 11/8/2004
For some people, their word is their absolute bond. For
many others, their word is part of the game, and the only
bond that they will honor is a particular document, prepared
with a particular ritual, and another statements, verbal
or writen, are part of the negotiating process, and therefor
non-binding.
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For "simpletons" raised with high moral standards
in a culture that ...
0 Comments, 52 Views,
12 Votes
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Afraid of committment and getting hurt again 11/1/2004
I want to thank everyone who has responded to my article.
All your answers and comments are helping me more than I
can truly say. To me you are all great friends. I surely will
listen and read all that everyone has said. Yes, there was
someone who got between me and my marriage. My brother died
and his widow seduced him and he moved in with her. I know
it he was a willing participatant even ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
16 Votes
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Reply re deadbeats... 10/21/2004
First of all...I don't know if the statistics are right
or wrong that are quoted. Personally I don't care.
I know that I don't want to be involved with someone
who is less than straightforward in meeting this type of
obligation. No person should be a deadbeat when it comes
to support. If you want to mess around with your ex
regarding spousal support that's one thing and is
between ...
2 Comments, 38 Views,
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