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shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2015 10:05 am

I'm glad you wrote this post, Maisie. I read Aflie's but decided not to comment on it. The reason is that I felt that so much togetherness isn't healthy. First of all, realistically speaking, nobody lives forever. If your whole life revolves around the other, to the point of always being together, I don't know how the other would survive the death of the other. It is lovely to miss each other when you aren't together but not to the point of being depressed or frightened. Thanks for this post.

Elaine Shuel


spiritwoman45

4/17/2015 11:37 am

Expresses my needs so well. No mater how great a relationship I have been in I am one who requires lots of alone time. Not an easy thing in relationships.

Spiritwoman ^i^


Rocketship 80F
18571 posts
4/17/2015 11:46 am

I think that the amount of time a couple spend together is dependent on many things personal to that couple.

I don't think that it's necessarily unhealthy at all.

With older couples who had faced down the world for many years alone, how wonderful for them to be so intertwined at this time of their lives!