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PrairieSky 79F
137 posts
1/23/2006 2:07 pm

Last Read:
2/27/2012 6:27 pm

Little Boxes...


Mood: angry / disappointed / disillusioned / sad.

Today I got my usual list of potential matches from SFF. I never have any luck with those. Why SFF lists them as matches for me, I have no idea! Anyway, today there happened to be a man a bit older than me, from the very small town I live in! I was very surprised...I mean what are the odds? Well, wouldn't you know it..he was one of those guys who described himself as 'intimacy deprived', married and wanting a discreet relationship on the side. He didn't care two hoots about age, looks, religion, nationality, marital status or race. He just wanted a woman. She was to be disease-free and discreet.

I had a flood of mixed emotion wash over me. The first emotion to hit me was anger. I thought..."I am tempted to contact this joker and get to know him and then blow the whistle on him." I likely see him and his wife around town all the time. He was one brick short of a load to even list the small town he was from! However, that emotion was short-lived. I knew I wasn't near the type to do something like that.

Then... a song popped into my head. Maybe you remember it...from the 60's I think. It is called. LITTLE BOXES...and here is the first verse:

"Little boxes on the hillside, Little boxes made of tickytacky
Little boxes on the hillside, little boxes all the same
There's a green one and a pink one and a blue one and a yellow one
And they're all made out of ticky tacky and they all look just the same."

The reason this song popped into my head is that it's how this man's profile made me feel. I've come across countless profiles like his in the 7 years I've been in this chatroom. If these men do not care what we look like, how old we are, what our marital status is...or religion, or colour, or nationality..etc..it seems to me that they regard women in general as a line up of identical recepticles. They intend only to use us for sex and they really care nothing about anything else! Little boxes on the hillside. Little boxes all the same.

And.....I'll just bet this guy cannot figure out for the life of him, why his wife deprives him of intimacy??? Typical of this type, I'm sure.

Sighhhhhhhh. What a very, very, very sad world we live in sometimes.

Ciao for now.

PrairieSky

PrairieSky 79F
589 posts
1/24/2006 12:21 am

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Awwww..thanks everyone! I needed to vent. I'm over it now. lol
Hugs!


Charlotte 75F

1/24/2006 2:59 am

MsPS, it is the problem of this man, not yours. As I told you on the phone yesterday: Don't become too much involved in other people's things ... got me? lol