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I am sick and tired of people complaining about the married ones here on SFF... I am so tired of hearing people complain about others who are married or in committed relationships that choose to stay on SFF... I read one blog that totally ticked me off in their little joke on how a night with the married couple might be.. I did respond and I will post it below.. but I just want to say.. who the heck is anyone else to say what others do in their own house.. ?? Actually it was a 'said' conversation between 2 women 'friends' who share thoughts and laughter.. making fun of what they THINK married couples do while in chat rooms..well... in my opinion if that is their thoughts on how someone else's life is lived..then I would have to say.. It's a good darn thing they are not in a relationship.. cause they haven't grown up enough yet to appreciate and understand... trust and love.. Becoming one in marriage or in a committed relationship does not mean losing oneself.. nor does it mean.. letting go of friendship made.. if fact it should (if it is the 'right' person) enhance your relationship.. No one is called in marriage or committed relationship to be 'removed' from life.. but to live life through the love and respect for each other.. To damn bad ... some Seniors have not realized at this time and age.. what it means to love and respect... a damn shame.. To all the married or committed partners out there.. I respect and enjoy watching your love develop and grow.. thank you for giving us who realize what life is about the opportunity to be a witness to your love... ____________________________________ I know a lot of the married people you mentioned above.. and not one of them.. actually none of the ones I know from here fall into that e-mail you had.. I have friends who met with someone and live together.. and never again talk to their friends.. wrap their life around their partner.. now I don't know about you.. but at this age in our life.. there is life we can share with one another as in a committed relationship.. and then there are the 'grown up' ways of keeping friends and not losing oneself to a partner.. Just because there are married or committed people in relationships here on SFF does not make them less interested in each other .. actually it shows a sign of maturity in my opinion that they trust what they have to continue to chat in a website.. and the most important thing it shows.. Is they value the friends they have made.. perhaps when you and your 'g/f' become involved..if ever.. you will understand what it means to keep being a part of your OWN friends.. but then again.. maybe not... ____________________________________________ Just for the record.. I do not condone anyone married or in a committed relationship that cheat on their partner.. but most of the married people who hear the brunt of all this crap are people who have met here.. fell in love and married.. or decided to commit to each other.. And I certainly do not condone anyone married or separated stating they are not.. There is a difference between the married people who met here and stay.. and the married people who come seeking a 'good' time.... Give it a rest.. we all know the difference.. or at least I would like to think we do..  ___________ Find the humor each day holds.... Gina |
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6/21/2007 9:14 pm |
Sister of my heart, I agree with you. Stay as sweet as you are! Love yah! Betty From AZ With Love! 
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6/22/2007 7:59 am |
I sooo agree with you Jes. Didn't read that particular blog but have read that type of thing over and over. The name of the place is Senior FRIEND Finders and gosh by golly I have lots of friends;marrieds, singles, committeds, female, male, gay, straight, adult, teen and children. This has been the source of many of those friends. I think it is sad that some feel they have the only viewpoint of value. It has been my pleasure to connect with many delightful people here regardless of their marital state...or lack of one. "I may not do great things, but I can do small things with great love." Mother Theresa 
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6/22/2007 8:50 am |
Jes (Gina) A Great Big ^5 g/f when you said it you said it all ..... I am so glad that I personally got to witness 2 of those weddings and know that they still are here and share their love for each other and for and to their friends ..... Blessings and Hugssssssssssssss .... Pattie
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6/22/2007 11:58 am |
love you Gina.....MomC "Love One Another, As I Have Loved You" Luke 22:1-38; John 13
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6/22/2007 5:37 pm |
ty gina i tell everyone up front that i am married. i still flirt, but everybody knows that i am with my hubby and it would never go any farther than chat room humor. most of us married folk arent here to steal anybodys man/or woman. we promise kellyc aka saucy
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6/22/2007 10:51 pm |
Jes4- Apparently you have never married? It's a shame that you took a portion of my blog....and did not relate the entire posting......in which I stated that I had no issue with the fact that they are married/committed. And, since I dont know you? How can you assume that I, nor my friend, dont have a realtionship? Not everyone chooses to air their private life here.
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6/23/2007 5:34 am |
Second.. I would guess then, I am in the same boat as you are.. as far as what assuming means.. Unless of course your assumption (imagination) was more to self reality.. You assumed how life with two SFF married people are lived out on the computer/communication together.. and I assumed you hadn't a clue.. Forgive me if my assumption was off base.. but and here is another assumption for ya... we both (and probably more then just the two of us) know what the intentions were really.. One of the married people asked you to immediately remove his name and you out and out denied it being on there.. naming him by name.. it's true you named others.. but the insinuations with him were uncalled for.. luckily you are friends with the one or few hold have that banning power... cause if he were to use a name.. he would be banned in a heartbeat.. So please don't come in here and act coy or innocent... it's really not a becoming trait for a lady... ___________ Find the humor each day holds.... Gina
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6/23/2007 7:27 am |
Jes, lol, neat, wow, life is wonderful, I will email you g/f, hugggggssssss, lol Seriously, you are right on the money. The ulterior motive is clear, the clique has formed their opinion (or had one dictated to them), and their collective efforts do little more than make themselves look dumber than Maniac's "Sack of Rocks." Thanks for seeing right through them! Fossil
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6/23/2007 7:32 am |
lol. Pual.. did ya send it pony express??  I got the perfect spot for ya!!  ___________ Find the humor each day holds.... Gina
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6/23/2007 8:38 am |
Fossil.. Sometimes.. I just think it's worth calling them out when they know exactly what they mean and meant to say.. why beat around the bush? So you can deny it later?? Hogwash! That is exactly what my Monday night class meant when they asked the last question... Do you believe what you believe is really real?? lol.. Some people, and not only here on SFF.. believe what they say so deeply .. it leaves others shaking their heads in disbelief.. I am by far..not perfect.. and I never claimed to be.. but I at least try to stay honest.. I feel sorry for the 'perfect' people.. what a hard life they must live... Thanks for stopping in my blogs.. Hugs to you and Lucy.. ___________ Find the humor each day holds.... Gina
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6/24/2007 4:56 am |
silknyork.. In my eyes.. this is a FRIEND site... I find nothing wrong with married or committed couples who met here still being here.. heck I don't even mind married or committed people who start off on here for the reason of friendship.. You are welcome to blog on my blogs any time.. now all who read and wonder know why you are here.. I'm glad you stayed.. I mean would you give up the g/f's or friends you have in other places just because you are married or committed to someone.. Thanks for commenting.. ___________ Find the humor each day holds.... Gina
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7/1/2007 5:42 pm |
Well said and well done! Jes, thank you for eloquently writing what I believed in all along.
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