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Sometimes.... Sometimes I read profiles. A lot says they r looking for fun and they r married ! I mean what is fun in their eyes ???? I mean I am 68, I live with family, it's hard for me to describe FUN !!!!!! It's fun to have the house to myself and take a shower with the door opened to the bathroom. It's fun to stay in bed if I want to, and not have to pee ! It's fun to see my grandkid having fun. I know there r some more fun things to do, BUT.....I don't have him in my life anymore. So those of U that r married and with ur spouse....please explain to me what U mean ? |
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I wonder ?????
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The kind that say that they're looking for fun stuff and they're married probably not happily, or the other spouse is not sexually satisfying their needs which means they shouldn't be married in the first place
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That is good thought provoking thoughts you have posted Star. I have never been married and if I had been I wouldn't have been on a site such as this looking for so called "fun" as described by some on here. Steamboy's comment that they should have not been married in the first place is probably right. They are only fooling themselves.
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THE NOTION OF FUN FOR THOSE MARRIED FOLKS LOOKING FOR OUTSIDE RELATIONSHIPS SOUNDS MORE LIKE LOOKING FOR TAKING RISKS IN MY VERY HUMBLE OPINION. SOONOR OR LATER THE SPOUSE WILL FIND OUT.
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Some are in love with the idea of being in love, the excitement of the new conquest, etc. My Ex believed flirting online was harmless, but it cost him in the tens of thousands, chasing the dream that young girls would want him. He was catfished a lot. For me, the bans must be set or there is no exclusive in dating. That is an old fashioned courtship term. Dating is dating, there is a time when things become more serious and that is the time when people move into exclusiveness. This is not something that happens without a good deal of consideration. Once that dedication is made, it is firm.
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When I joined this site, I did not have dating in mind but just communicating with mature people and finding some friendship. It did not take long to know, what some men were after. I listened to "sad stories" and made them move on. What some call Fun is not my fun. Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi
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I like to tell these married men that I don't play without the consent and participation of the wife. That shuts them up real quick.
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