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PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1543 posts
12/21/2024 8:27 am
Not sure I understand ...


Not sure I understand why someone can curate a list of members he deems "hot" but if I'm on his list I can't see who he is. There's something a little uncomfortable about that. I mean ... What if I didn't want to be on his list? What if I wanted to block him? Can't do that if I don't know who he is.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1905 posts
12/21/2024 8:27 am

Strange policy.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


Koffla 70M
14601 posts
12/21/2024 8:41 am


What can we expect from this Mickey Mouse site?


PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1905 posts
12/21/2024 9:57 am

    Quoting Koffla:

    What can we expect from this Mickey Mouse site?


Koffla, true. I think they made several changes recently and this is one that I really don't care for. I can't see any reason why a list of people who hotlisted me should be greyed out.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


MrsJoe 78F
18244 posts
12/21/2024 10:36 am

I know I don't care for the changes on the chat room page.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


Koffla 70M
14601 posts
12/21/2024 10:39 am

    Quoting PearlsWthMyJeans:
    Koffla, true. I think they made several changes recently and this is one that I really don't care for. I can't see any reason why a list of people who hotlisted me should be greyed out.

As usual, the site administrators make changes on things nobody cares about, instead of focusing on fixing what is already broken.


PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1905 posts
12/21/2024 11:51 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    I know I don't care for the changes on the chat room page.

MrsJoe I agree with you.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


TxJW047 83M

12/21/2024 3:55 pm

Probably a way to get people to enroll and pay.
It is best not to take internet stuff seriously and stay close to home where you know who you know.

But everyone to their own thing.


BoandPatches 65M
49 posts
12/21/2024 6:12 pm

If my understanding of the system is correct, on your home page there is something named "Hot or Not". It shows a photo of some other Senior FriendFinder member. If you click "Hot", that member is added to your Hot List.

My guess is that your photo appeared on this person's page, and they clicked Hot, so you were notified that you were added to their Hot List.


PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1905 posts
12/21/2024 10:34 pm

    Quoting TxJW047:
    Probably a way to get people to enroll and pay.
    It is best not to take internet stuff seriously and stay close to home where you know who you know.

    But everyone to their own thing.
Tx, I agree that it's possibly about trying to increase the number of paying members. I just think this particular marketing tactic is misguided.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1905 posts
12/21/2024 10:56 pm

    Quoting BoandPatches:
    If my understanding of the system is correct, on your home page there is something named "Hot or Not". It shows a photo of some other Senior FriendFinder member. If you click "Hot", that member is added to your Hot List.

    My guess is that your photo appeared on this person's page, and they clicked Hot, so you were notified that you were added to their Hot List.
BoandPatches, very plausible! I don't object to the concept of hot-listing. I just think it should be more transparent. By hiding from me the identities of the people who hot-listed me, the site is taking away my agency.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


maudie1957 76F

12/21/2024 11:04 pm

Some very strange and silly changes SFF have made. To be honest they don't really bother me one way or the other. I only use the blog section anyway.


PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1905 posts
12/22/2024 5:54 am

    Quoting maudie1957:
    Some very strange and silly changes SFF have made. To be honest they don't really bother me one way or the other. I only use the blog section anyway.
Maudie, me too .. blogs only. But in the course of logging in I noticed the little notification that I had been hotlisted and was dismayed to discover that the hotlister's identity was not available to me.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


hermitinthecity 72M
1716 posts
12/22/2024 8:30 am

I cant understand why when I have no photo I'm classed as 'hot' by some 30-40 year old showing bulk cleavage.. Hmmm.

Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.


PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1905 posts
12/22/2024 10:44 am

    Quoting hermitinthecity:
    I cant understand why when I have no photo I'm classed as 'hot' by some 30-40 year old showing bulk cleavage.. Hmmm.
Hermit, same here .. have received hotlists and notes from some people who are wayyyyy out of my age range. I agree: Hmmmmm

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


maudie1957 76F

12/22/2024 2:08 pm

    Quoting PearlsWthMyJeans:
    Hermit, same here .. have received hotlists and notes from some people who are wayyyyy out of my age range. I agree: Hmmmmm
Me too, Pearls, some young enough to be my grandsons. Scammers I guess.


PearlsWthMyJeans 70F
1905 posts
12/23/2024 10:07 pm

    Quoting  :

Shartaun, I agree. I'm not a fan of the new-and-improved version. Oh well. Have a very Merry Christmas and a wonderful New Year!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


looklook 86M
4099 posts
1/13/2025 8:40 pm

Pearls, reading your blogs on this disappearing site was nice. The pictures you posted here were a feast for my eyes! Take care. Be safe.