I am looking for a man who can keep up with me intellectually and sensually; who knows already that holding hands, walking on the beach, etc...is neither a basis for a romance, nor it is a foundation for a loving relationship. I love life, and I am amused by its absurdities. It makes me happy to cause my man at least to chuckle along. My expressions of warmth and affection for him come easily to me. I?m interested, supportive, understanding, truthful, and monogamously flirtatious. The other side of me thrives on information, analytical thinking, and dialog. I've lived alone the last twodecades, working hard in my own business. Now retired, have soaked up already a few years of peace and quiet. It became clear to me I?m not an island: I really miss having a teammate; a significant other; a long term relationship; a soul mate; a love; call it what you wish, as long as it is mutual. Turns out it?s true: ?It is not good that man, or woman, be alone?.
My Ideal Person:
My favorite man (5?11?-6?2?) is educated, open minded, has world experience, is interested in me, turned on by me, can have a good laugh at himself, and is able to communicate with me sincerely about his thoughts and his feelings. At this point in his life he is able to look dispassionately upon the past , and recognize that we create our future in the present, knowing full well that for quality of life, only the moment really counts. We don't have to agree on everything: merely understand accurately the other's point of view. An then, of course, I want us both loving each other deeply .
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