Hi! Thanks for taking a look. Firstly let's start with the visuals. I've refrained from posting the best picture ever taken that remotely resembles me. My pictures were taken this year and you'll recognize me...no surprises there. I’m adventuresome, playful, honest, and solvent. I'm very comfortable in my own skin...a free spirit I take it one day at a time. I'm not afraid to test the waters ....if I sink I sink...I'm fairly confident I'll make it back up. So far life's been a roller coaster ride but I'm not ready to get off yet! I guess this is the place I should explain WHY I posted a picture with me in plaid capri pants. The truth is I didn't even think about it! I promise I won't wear them on a first gate or maybe never.
I want a man in my life again. I miss the companionship… the excitement of planning a trip together(I don’t miss the inevitable “why do you need 2 bags?!”)… the spirited bantering and playfulness that comes with a comfort zone…..the support you give each other when the unthinkable happens… laughing together at the hilarity of this absurd life we find ourselves in… soft kisses(ok ok long kisses are better!)!
I have many places and things I enjoy doing like snorkeling off any island in any body of water; a weekend getaway to one of our lazy seaside or mountain towns; driving through Italy; stopping at piano bar(I won't sing or hand you the mic!!) beating ANYONE at tennis; smelling the ocean and listening to the waves crash against the rocks in the mid coast Maine.
Staying healthy and fit is very important to me. I love the way I feel after playing tennis, a strenuous bike ride, or working hard in my gardens. I try to eat foods that are natural and not tampered with.
I've left the corporate world and I'm winding down (well sort of). I enjoy writing. I published a children's book early in my career. Although my time is my own I'm working on a second book ...another story I'd like to share...and revising my first book. I'm also an active volunteer at UCSD Hillcrest in the Neo Natal Intensive Care Unit.
I'm spiritual and recognize there's so much we don't know.
On a first date...Hmmm...first date...well I'm going to assume we've met and have decided we've connected enough to see where it's going to go...we'd have already talked about the things we like to do...I'd want to go somewhere we could talk and be together...so let's say our date was in the evening and you were okay with it I'd like to go out to dinner and get to know each other (dutch of course)...if that's a "no" meeting at a cafe to talk and then maybe a walk on the beach (the second part is against the 2nd date internet rule book but I like breaking stupid rules)...or perhaps go someplace we could listen to soft music while we talk..Okay if it's the daytime the options are wide open...a "walk in the park" or the beach, hike (not with a backpack please!!), a street fair, a drive to one of our small mountain towns, tennis (not if you're going to cream me!),a cafe etc
My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a playful man and who will laugh and play with me and love me because I'm me. A man who misses a woman in his life. He embraces honesty, kindness and most importantly humor. A good communicator he is comfortable talking about his emotions. He's intelligent but down to earth. He's affectionate, sensuous and likes touching, hugging, and kissing. I know you're out there and if you find me I don't think you'll be disappointed.
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