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If you’re reading this post then were at least getting started. About me; Hispanic female age 53, I have great eyes, consider above average looks, I smoke occasionally and hate that I do, but won’t apologize for it, however desperately trying to quit. I am overweight 40-36-40, no perfect body but trust that “I am shooting for sexy and great looking once again. Sorry Barbie hunters! I am a simple women and easy to please. Problem is that I have spent the last thirty years pleasing others and being everybody’s everything, although I have been very good at it. I have raised my kids and my husband too. Kids turned out wonderful husband needs more work; but not from me! He was the happiest, most content, and spoiled man alive. I was all that for him up until a few months ago when I finally realized it was and always will be about him. Simply put I actually deserve better. I deserve to be spoiled as I have spoiled. I deserve to have a great man that will appreciate a companion or wife that... pleasures you as you watch your sports on tv, appreciate that I iron your clothes so you look sharp for your meeting. A friend that will listen to all you need to say. I deserve to have a man that I truly enjoy spending time playing chess or poker with but wont whine if I win. I deserve somebody that will be happy that I will honestly be happy to see you come home tonight and work hard to ensure that that’s exactly where "you" want to be! Can you appreciate that I never ask where you are going, when you’re coming home and who you’re going with? I deserve a man that loves the idea that he can come home after a hard day and be in a sad or bad mood and nothings going to make him feel better except to have his women however he chooses right now! Well what about a wife that doesn’t create drama, is not petty, picky, naggie or judgmental. Could you enjoy and appreciate a wife that would love to tie a great big bow around a tall gorgeous blonde for your pleasures as a birthday gift to you. This is me that is the kind of wife and companion I have been I just want a man that really will appreciate me and deserve me. I just want to be spoiled, wined and dined, even if it’s a hotdog at the park or making love in front of the bullfighter on the wall in a cheap hotel for fun, use some imagination. It’s just my turn! I am not the least bit interested in younger men. Prefer a man 55 to 65 or older, I don’t care if you think your more mature for your age that’s great for you but its a hard stop sign for me
My Ideal Person:
My Ideal Person: I have no clue what Ideal is for me right now. I know he’s not especially hansom, or expect that he has the body of atlas, he probably ate to much over the last few years and gained a few pounds or a lot or maybe he’s too skinny and needs me more because I’m actually a great cook. Looks don’t really matter; women by nature tend to become incredibly attracted to the men they love and nothing is visual for us. The men we love are, and remain “all that” and don’t dare try to tell us different! How lucky are you guys?
I know he is older and than me by a few years. I know he may not be wiser than I am because, there is not much I have not done or gone through. I do hope he’s smarter than me and can teach me many things. I hope he won’t be hardened for his past pains and disappointments and mind want to share and care together.
I know he will definitely have a wild side and have an insatiable appetite for life and adventure.
I know he likes making love or having sex for fun and he recognizes the difference in each.
He won’t take life to serious and will handle the sad and the bad well. He’s blessed enough to recognize that the simple good things in his life are gifts that have served to create the great man he is today and they will warm the hearts of those he loves.
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