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HELLO... This is me, ViVacious Lady, but actually, I'm just Vivian. The Bible says, "A good name is more desirable than great wealth. The respect of others is better than silver or gold." God told me once that He named me before I was even born and led me to research my name in various places. Vivian means: Lively; Vivacious. Exuberant; Abounding in High Spirits and Vitality; Full of Joy and Vigor. Growing Luxuriantly; Overflowing; Lavish, Effusive; Exuberant Praise, over-flowing with Sentiment, Demonstrative; Gushing; Pouring forth and completely Fruitful! Now that describes me! Yea, that old devil gets me down sometimes, but God always bounces me back. I was born in Redwood City, California and lived there for a good part of my life on and off. I also spent a lot of my life being raised by aunts and uncles or my two sisters in a number of different states. I was married to the most wonderful man in the world for 26 years. I've been a widow for about 8 years and though I don't care for being alone or independent, I'm amazed at what I have accomplished and endured. I recently sold my home in Texas, a cute little house on 5 acres, which was a challenge that I wasn't expecting. It was so peaceful at times, but what a job with all the repairs and improvements. I'm childish and exuberant in some ways, yet realistic and wise in others. At times I'm shy, but I can sure be a silly kick. I like laughing, teasing and big hugs. I have integrity and appreciate that quality in others. I'm kind, sensitive, understanding, fair and willing to compromise. I'm old fashioned and favor the Oldies and Gospel. I'd love to sing again. I may even return to church someday where my joy in singing began. I have three wonderful children that never cease to amaze me with such wisdom and talents. They are such a comfort and so supportive, just like their Dad. I love them so much! I have a pretty slick and cute little granddaughter too... My youngest boy married on December 2007. His new wife is just a doll and they're gonna have a baby in August. Who could ask for anything more!
My Ideal Person:
It's hard to put in a nut shell who I'm looking for. Maybe blue or green eyes, but brown is good too. Dark, medium, light or gray hair, sorta tall, average, strong, maybe thin or a few extra pounds is okay, a beard or mustache? Witty, smart, cute, friendly, understanding, not too crude or kinky, neat and organized is a plus. Willing to discuss ALL disagreements until we can come to an agreement. Honesty and openness is the key to trust, respect and long lasting happiness. Some musical talent or a nice voice would be great. Being handy around the house would be wonderful. He'd enjoy spoiling me, working in the yard together and taking trips from time to time. If he could cook, that would be heaven. Dancing isn't my gift, but I'd sure be willing to try. My dream is to spend the rest of my life with one good man, gentle but strong, responsible, honest and sincere. He'd be a friend who would be interested in my past, my future, my sorrows and my joys. He'd even be willing to put up with all my silly idiosyncrasies... I'd love my last home to be in the woods with maybe a babbling brook a little ways from town where we could enjoy the peace together.
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