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I am a retired, petite PWF and have been solo for several years now. Last year, I moved from Texas to Hot Springs, passing my 50th move mark. True. I was brought up in a military family, my father being an officer in the Army. I grew up everywhere in general and nowhere in particular. This has made me comfortable in most situations and in most types of company, and still fond of traveling. I have been athletic and very active most of my life, but am not interested any more in trying to 'win' tennis matches, hitting home runs, spending the whole day scuba diving, or camping without warmth when it's cold, or cool when it's hot. LOL. I am also well educated, well read, well brought up, and well rounded in my views on life and loving. I have a few 'not so well' too, but they can wait. LOL. I am a strong Christian, but not 'religious'. I lean towards conservative and traditional, but am tolerant of others, understanding of faults and foibles , and am inclined to laugh rather than cry or get upset over things. My life is good and I see the glass as half full. If a day delivers a box of manure, I look for the pony. I can be noisy and silly, or quiet and reflective, serious and contemplative, or playful and funny. I can dress up or dress down. I prefer comfort to fashion, what suits me to trends. My nature and my life is in good, harmonious balance most of the time. I am independent, happy in my own company, and not easily ruffled, but I do not want to be a man, act like one, nor have any interest in changing, or ruling another person. You are you and I am I. If who each of us is meets and wants the other 'as is', then we are winners. I do not love easily, but I do love unconditionally--without need or desire to make the other responsible for my happiness. I am happy inside all on my own. I love in spite of flaws, and sometimes because of them. LOL. I am emotionally, mentally, and financially stable. [Yes, there are some of us out there. LOL.] Although I was brought up in comfortable circumstances, I have a simple soul and simple heart. The things in life most important to me cannot be bought or sold. [Forgive that cliche, but it IS true]. I would love to grow old with someone, rocking in our chairs on the porch, dancing with canes or walkers, and being completely content and at peace with someone without having to say a word. A shared look or gesture reinforces how important each is to the other.
My Ideal Person:
I would very much like to meet someone LOCAL, and if you are not very close, you are the one willing to make the drive. The right one is also compatible with me, has no reservations in communicating feelings and thoughts, shares some of my interests, particularly dancing, and would like to share his own interests with me. I am even willing to learn golf if you are willing to teach and would accept my efforts as 'entertainment value'. LOL. You are looking for Ms. Right, not Ms. Right Now. You are willing to allow a good strong friendship and caring feelings to grow before pushing for intimacy. I am not looking for someone who has hang ups about looking younger than his years, takes his value and worth from money or material things, is in his second childhood or male 'menopause', believes only Barbie, Bambi, or Bimbo will do for him, has problems himself or with close family, or has problems with drugs, alcohol, or mental stability. He is comfortable in his own skin, confident in who he is, takes pride in his work ethics and personal integrity, laughs often - even at himself, and does not have to prove himself to anyone. He has reasonable care for his health, weight, and how he dresses, but is not vain, nor has excessive extra poundage. He is active and enjoys outings, but does not need to go-go-go. Being 'home' contents him, too. Keeping his home and property in good condition is important to him. He is not a slob, knows more than swear or vulgar words, and does not have more hair on his face and head than Bigfoot. He is emotionally, mentally, and financially stable. His level of formal education is not important, but he must be intelligent, witty, and capable of conversation beyond work, family, sports, and hunting expeditions. A wonderful sense of humor and a bright engaging smile are 'musts' also.
Favorite television shows:
NCIS, CSI, House, HGTV, Criminal Minds, Without a Trace,
Burn Notice
Favorite films:
McLintock, first Star Wars, One Fine Day, all Lethal Weapon
and Die Hard movies
Favorite musicians or bands:
too many to list
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