My Ideal Person:
IF you are a man who is afraid of commitment, has no clue as to what he is looking for in a relationship, is not between my age parameters, within a year either way, is not living within a distance that would allow for the possibility of a serious relationship to develop, is not comfortable with my having a large family whom I enjoy very much - doesn’t mean you have to - but aren’t intimidated by that fact and is not capable of absorbing the idea that my guy would soon replace them as the priority in my life, is thinking I’m asking far too much for your taste, isn’t comfortable knowing I live with my daughter’s family, which suits us, both as an economical benefit and as a happy harmonious environment, and doesn’t believe me when I say I come and go as I please, with no obligations, other than those I impose upon myself, please do us each a favor and just hit “Next” and be on your way…now! Read no further because we would not be a match…ever!

This profile was written with the express intent to eliminate any man who is just cruising around looking for someone to take up his time as a replacement for his boredom! I don’t’ want to have any more “winks” or “interest notifications” saying how “hot” I am, how “attractive” I am, how “young I look for my age”, how in the world am I not involved, etc. I know all these things already, and although it would be easy to assume this comment indicates a case of serious conceit, nothing could be further from the truth. It comes from a solidly based upbringing where I was told I was a special person and I believed it because the people who loved me told me that time and again. I know I have as many faults as others, but I also know I have so much to give and would do so willingly if that one man who is not intimidated by this profile steps forward. He will understand immediately what I mean without my having to explain it…the others of you will have no idea what I really mean and can, once again, move on, if you haven’t taken my advice given above and have continued anyway.

I am a woman with ideas, desires, thoughts, opinions, passion, a strong sexual appetite, an astute sense of right and wrong and little tolerance of men who think I am too choosy and should “settle”. I have no intention of doing that. I am impatient, opinionated, sexy, sensual, loving, caring, soft and warm, not model material, nor have I ever been or thought I was, love my family, have very few friends and like it that way. I sound cold and a real witch as I re-read this, but it’s as truthful and as real as I can make it to attract the very few who just might find in me what they want in a mate.

It is said if you do the same thing over and over, getting the same unwanted results, try something different – I am doing that. This isn’t a profile filled with flowers (although I do love them) and sunsets/sunrise prose, it’s a heartfelt attempt to find a man worth my time and effort, who shares my values and is looking to establishing an ultimate long term relationship, resulting in a forever kind of love…not just an attraction for the minute.

Favorite films: To Sir With Love, Dirty Dancing, Stand and Deliver, The Titans, Tuskagee Airmen

Favorite musicians or bands: Streisand, Johnny Mathias, Eagles, Survivor, Helen Reddy

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