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This will be the year to make huge changes in my life. I suggest a few of the men on this site do also. LOL!
I have met a few men on this site & I wasnt what they were looking for & they surely wasnt what I had hoped for either. Yes, this profile contains my prescribed bitter pill & granted a bottle of caster oil would be alot better. My pictures were taken right before my son was killed & I had let grief consume me in so many ways. I had gone from this fit,nice looking woman..to one who had put on weight & just didnt care anymore. I now had my Gran-daughters to put before me & I did. I have never once told a man I was this skinny petite woman or that I was all that & a bag of chips. If I really had felt that way I surely wouldnt be on a SENIOR site, I'd be on BARBIE looking for KEN site & I havent seen a KEN on here yet. LOL!!! If you ask me if I am a size 8 the answer is YES, but make sure you know your sizes as a 7/8 petite I am not & never once have I said so in my profile, I am a womens size 8. Most women on this site arent that small & if they are they are from Russian with lust for your money cuz it sure aint your looks at your age. I can change my weight, but can you change your looks from 50-60ish to look 20ish? NO..Can you change your health issues from the lungs of a 50-60ish man to that of a 20 yr old? NO.. I am who I am, now can you be honest & be who you really are? My weight issues not only deal with the loss of my son, but from a medical problem called underactive thyroid. I was a tiny girl all thru the births of 4 children, I weighed 93 lbs & always got back down to it. When I hit 35 that changes my thyroid went stupid. It was due to fact of my mother slapping me away from table many nights cuz I ate with my left hand, not my right & so I went to bed many nights hungry. In my adult life my body had gotten in sync with days without eating & I ended up depleting my thyroids later in life. I was abused as a kid & in marriages....I refuse to let another man do that & especially some old idiot on this site who has one foot in the grave & the next one following who wants to show his lack of class by telling me I am fat. I didnt tell him he was a pip squeak with HORRIBLE breathing problems altho it was embarrassing when people stopped & stared. I looked at it like I am not perfect & neither was he...he just didnt see it that way. LOL!!!!
Now....I am just looking for an activity partner, someone who really wants an honest & open friendship. A workout partner, movies or just to sit & talk?
LOVE is something that is unconditional & there are some who havent learned that yet who will end up older & lonely.PLUS...money makes life easier, but cant buy you LOVE. I have learned over the years & thru my many mistakes...You can help a person change their looks, you can help a person lose weight, but your not gonna change what's in a persons heart. I want a man who's heart is loving & caring, one who has compassion for others, one who values family more than anything. What's in your heart?
I have been off & on date sites for many years & find many are about trying to fill their dance card or their egos needing big boost at someone else's expense or feelings..If that's what you need & are looking for....pass me by, I am not that desperate for a man..been single 16 years & another 16 years alone aint gonna kill me.Altho I am not getting any younger & truely seek that last man in my life, just not desperate.Now...if your seriously looking for a good woman, that be me. Country gal with a strong back bone..I am a simple person ,I came from a family of 14 kids & yes........I am a middle child who requires alot of love & affection & who loves the outdoors, fishing, camping, gardening. I had 4 kids all on their own, now I have 3 as I lost my 25 yr old son in may of 2007 & I am raising 2 of his 4 babies....I have help with my 2 grans & can come & go alot easier than one would think so trips are fine with me as long as I do have a little bit of notice. I do have a good sense of humor ( afterall I am on this date site) & love to laff..I am not looking for a rich man, just a good man. It seems my chances of finding a pot-o-gold would be easier than finding that man, but I know he's out there & he's looking for me too.I am ready for the last man in my life.
I am not perfect by no means.......I am honest & I say what I think & feel what I say, loyal to the end, compassionate & very sensual. If this all seems like what your looking for.......e-mail me. Just dont play games with me, life is way to short for that & I'm not willing to play~~~Looking for a real man not one into themself & see's life as it really is........REALITY!
One capable of giving love & receiving love....not just for today, but for eternity. 
My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a man that is honest, loving, faithful, and very romantic. I am not into the games that many wanna play on the internet.I want to believe that when a man says we agree to be exclusive and faithful ..thats what it means & not to find out he's chasing everything on the internet and out in public that will pay attention to him. Exclusive and faithful means that we are working on a relationship & if I am going to be exclusive then you better be too .there are those who are seriously searching for that someone special to love and these games players & liars ruin it for those.....I am looking for that last love of my life, that man who loves me no matter what. Who see's me for the person I am on the inside & wants a loving life with me. Simple things mean alot to me & that honesty is the key to any relationship, without it you have nothing.When in the wrong a man who can say he's sorry & when he says he loves me he really means it, it's not just empty words.My friend, My lover, My eternity........
1 question for you men viewing my profile---If you lost everything you had, cars, home, money, arms ,legs, and hard....well you know, and you had a cute little 20 yr old girl on the side & a 40 something yr old woman at home, which woman do you think is gonna stand by your side when all is lost? It's a guarantee it wont be the 20 yr old bombshell that you spoiled lavishly..it will be the one who has been close to you thru it all. Something to think about fellas~
Favorite television shows:
2 1/2 men
Favorite films:
terms of endearment, green mile, somethings got to give.....and
anything with Jack Nicolson in it.
Favorite musicians or bands:
CCR, Bad Company, Foreigner, Patsy Cline, George Strait,
Allen Jackson
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