Most people would say I am outgoing, but I have an introspective side. I am very creative and have a great sense of humor. I love hiking with my dog, scuba diving, travel, movies,working out (spinning, cross trainer, etc), making jewelry, talking with friends, swimming, exploring, music ( my IPOD goes with me everywhere), the internet , but not so much into "my space", blogs, im-ing, etc- mostly research, and occasionally going to museums, galleries, theater. I am a "professional" and work in a family business of which I have a percentage. I really enjoy my work- I am in sales, but in my heart I would love to be have a business of my own tied into my creativity and love of travel. I would love to learn to fly or at leats fly with someone who loves flying! I have a 24 year old son who lives with his girlfriend and is going to school 2 hours from my home- he is a wonderful person and I enjoy spending time with him and his lady. Since my husband died I have concentrated on work and haven't socilaized much, I am ready for new friends who have simular interests and some different ones too. I am "spirtual" not religious, somewhat liberal- but less than I used to be, very independant- but ready for a little less independance. I have an extensive art background and still love art, film and photography. Love to read when I have the time! And I watch more TV than I should. On the physical side, I am attractive, tall, very blue eyes, reddish-brown hair...and yes, I am not "slim", have a few extra pounds that I am seriously working on. I recently lost a lot of weight and got 2 new kness, so I feel like a new woman, and I am pretty active. She comes in colors refers to my love of wearable art and expressing who I am through my clothes, jewelry and accessories. I am looking for new friends and new adventure as well as companionship. I am NOT a domestic person, so if you are looking for a cook and/or maid, I am NOT your gal. Also, my primary goal is NOT a physical relationship, although I do not rule that out- that is not what I mean by adventure!
My Ideal Person:
I would like to meet someone who shares some of my interests, but I am definately open to learning about new things, stretching my horizons. This person should like a balance of "stay at home/hang out" along with going out, exploring, travel, and cultural, intellectual and outdoor pursuits. A sense of humor is a big plus (as long as it isn't really crass.)You don't have to be an extrovert, but I don't want to have to do ALL of the work! Liking my dog or at least animals in general would be a plus. I tend to be attracted to sensitive types and I like a mental challenge. Be open, warm and curious, playful,into learning new things, not too arrogant, rigid, conservative or stubborn. Someone very religious or into guns, fishing,hunting and country music (I like some country, but not exclusively) or strictly a physical relationship is probably not a good fit. Drinking is OK, too much drinking is not (I have been there, done that). I prefer non-smokers, but don't want to rule out the right person! Same for liking the idea of someone relatively attractive and tall, but again that's not a deal breaker, after all, I am not perfect myself!
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