My Ideal Person
At home I like relaxing in some quiet space occasionally, don't mind parties or houseguests that don't mind a few house rules. I'm spiritual. I read books on Theology and Christology because I like studying the origins of christianity and how it evolved over 2000 years and how it's adapted to modern times and people. I'm a "world news junkie" love seeing both sides of the coin on important issues, documentaries, drama and mystery films. I'm told I'm easygoing and layed back. I like the arts, community service, spirituality, museums, computer, net surfing, travel and making new friends; being neat, reasonably well organized. I like anticipating someone's needs and having it done before they ask. Relationship building, or even a simple friendship is hard work, keeping it working for you is even harder ... which why I love the small details and challenges it brings so much. It keeps me on my toes most of the time. Then if my work is good, my reward is delightful; being bent over a pool table or on my knees groping beyond the fly for dessert for the rest of whatever time is left. If I'm lucky my toes will be point toward the heavens. That's a minor technicality I'll lose no sleep over. I believe love goes well beyond a toss in the sack or getting fantastic head etc. Sex is but only one of several other necessary components that make for a loving relationship. Make every day a new exciting adventure, discover some new interest you can both participate in. Be spontaneous, put your culinary skills to work and produce a tantalizing new dish for dinner with candlelight and a fine wine. Take an adventure drive in the country without any pre-determined destination in mind ... exposure to new cultures and ethnic foods and I'm in heaven already. Getting banged in woods or nature trail can be fun. If I'm not so lucky you may find me at a flea market, at a restaurant, a historical site or a quaint village on the offbeaten path. On a tight budget, even better there are tons of things two people can do for free. Great way to see and experience the great wonders of this great land.