It is important that you know that as a black man I am the exception rather than the rule. Please know that I did not grow up black or white. I was raised in very a neutral and friendly environment. I am an individual who has always tried to learn the good traits of those around me. I was taught as a young that I am responsible for my choices and have no one to blame for the results but myself. I am kind, but I can say no if I feel that I am being used or taken for granted. I am a giving and sharing person and hope you are the same. My first marriage was a comical 2 year event. My next was twenty-seven of the best years of my life. But the Lord had a plan and it included her joining him. My current wife is 20 years younger (minus five days) and the dream lasted about 18 months and after about two and a half years I moved into an apartment. I am blessed; in that I am not bitter or hurt. I saw it coming and we had been discussing it for over six months before it became a reality. We get along quite well. NO, we will not get back together! Nor will we be fighting for we understand the value of friendship. At this point I do not see any reason to morn for six years as I did when I lost my second wife to breast cancer. Now for my hopes for the future. I would like to meet someone for friendly chat and eventually spend time with during things. I do not want to be creeping around; so please be free. I also ask that you be free of DRAMA. We all know that "Baby's Daddy DRAMA is not controlled by a piece of paper. I like spending a day at one of the local outlets or maybe even at the Lancaster or Reading, PA outlets. I really enjoy it and hope she will also. I also like an occasional weekend in Philly doing the tourist thing. And I love to go to Fredericksburg, VA to camp. Well camp in a trailer. I had enough camping out in the Army. lol lol. But the over night thing is some distance down the relationship road. There will be some weekends that I am not able to travel as I help my by babysitting for my grandson and granddaughter. He is nine and she is one. I have done this since they were each born and do not plan to stop until my granddaughter is at least thirty-five. lol lol.
My Ideal Person
I am looking for a potential friend to do some things with that we have in common. I like Blues, Old School R&B but no Rapp and only the good Hip Hop please. I have enjoyed camping at Fredericksburg. I also enjoyed a weekend at Deep Creek Lake. I just want to find someone that wants to smile and maybe cuddle while watching a movie and teasing each other about something silly.
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