Older men do not seem to meet my needs/interests unless they have a zest for living and their attitudes/values in life still exist in a positive active way.Many contacts have 'issues.' I have none and prefer to live in the now and future. I am a teacher, one very interested in fitness and being with a man who considers health and wellness important. I am positive about myself and life. Probably I want the same things as most people. There is no doubt that I am more active than most older men/women.Yes, men always like my looks and enthusiasms but please do not think of me in only that way. I am much more than that. I am not prepared to share even a friend with his wife or live in mate. Unfortunately, I have found that if you do not submit a picture it is because you are married or paired in some way. There is much more, more than can be written but is better shared when we meet. By the way, my pictures are all taken within the last 6 months. Are yours?
My Ideal Person:
Obviously since for me, at least, that includes having a male partner. He must NOT be married or living with a woman already.Of course the intimate part is important but many profiles really emphasize that part and I think that misses the point of 2 people having to become friends first.I am heavily into wellness so he would be interested in looking after himself. He would be clean, have a good mind laced with some humor. He would respect my lifestyle which is full of activities. He would not have a pot belly, be overweight, not wear his blue jeans and baseball hat when we meet. I don't feel comfortable riding on dates in a truck.He would have old fashioned manners.I round and square dance and that would make me happy if he would like to learn. I am a rusty ballroom dancer.He would be able to look after himself financially. He will enjoy some aspects of intimacy/live in the present/be able to give me some time and attention as I will him, but in limited amounts because he has his own interests and needs his space. Grandchildren are not his main focus in life...he appreciates all the exciting things that are out there just waiting for him to experience them with a suitable lady by his side. Age is not important but attitude is.
Favorite television shows:
news, history, discovery, channel 10
Favorite films:
sound of music, big fat wedding
Favorite musicians or bands:
Johnny Cash, big bands
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