My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for some one who is happy enough with who they are, not overly serious, but takes responsibilty for their own actions and siuation.

A man who doesn't think happiness revolves around money and personal possessions - no need to keep up with the Jones's, we will all end up in the same place eventually ...lol

I know everyone says looks are not important - well that is an insult, because they are...

Who wants to think that they are acceptable only because the other person doesn't care what the look like, beauty is in the eye of the beholder

But having said that we are all looking for someone appealing to us - and mercifully we all have different likes and dislikes, so please take a chance.

A warning: if your messages/invites, say anything about looks/size not mattering, you will be rejected, because if it's not an issue, you would not need to mention it.
I am happy with who I am, I don't need to be told you can cope with my appearance (not meant to sound harsh but fed up with fools).

The guy I am looking for, is able to admit when he is wrong without feeling like a failure, but will stick up for himself if he is right.

He understands that he has the right to his opinion, but others have the right to disagree, freedom of speeh and thought is a must on both sides, I enjoy a good verbal sparing match ...lol

He must be able to mellow out and just enjoy the quiet times.

I'll think of more if you give me time ... but for now that probly enough to frighten anyone off ...lol

Oh forgot to mention the neccessity for a sense of humour (warped is good) ...lol.