My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a well rounded average guy......that is emotionally & financially secure.......I do not want to be your mom but rather your friend.......& lover if the chemistry is right........I'm not looking to take care of you or you me......I want to enhance your life & you to enhance mine......the man must love animals....be a non-smoker.....have a sense of humour (these 3 qualities are a must along with being already divorced for some time). It would be nice if we had similar interests although we don't need to have all interests the same........I blieve in trust, loyalty, monagamy.....& he must too......I do not want to control your life or you mine.......you must understand that sometimes a compromise is in order....compromise does not mean giving in but giving "smart".....I love romance, intimacy....cuddeling, touching, kissing....I like surprises & spontenaity......traveling...good food & wine.............I'd rather give you small gifts every month to show you how much you mean to me rather than going all out at the holidays & stressing both our lives.......I prefer tall, lean to average men........I love intelligent men who can stimulate me intellectually.......but well rounded (in other words....he must have common sense be handy & able to dothings around the house.......be able to converse & feel comfortable around a diverse cross section of people)......I hope you are out there....I have been alone for more that 10 years....I do not think my standards are to high.......I am willing to compromise on some things such as........you can be of average height & a little paunch....tall & lean/average/a "few" extra pounds.......but I would have a very hard time with short & tubby......I know....I know....I know......men are suppose to be the superficial ones....the visual creatures....but let's face it....although women aren't looking for trophies at our age.....we still must find some one that turns us on rather than off & I am afraid I do not find anything attractive visually about a short fat man...........I don't mean to be cold about it but it is better that you know up front rather than feel rejected whan all I want is to be your friend & not your lover because there i s no chemistry for me........I know right now that most of you guys are thinking.....wow what a witch.......who does she think she is.....she's not so hot herself.....she's only 5'5" and isn't as thin as she once was......ok I can accept that........I guess that is what I am saying to you.....I'm not looking for a trophy or perfection........but I do want someone who has enough self-respect to take care of himself........I better quit right here.........

Favorite films: Something's Gotta Give, Under the Tuscan Sun, Fockers, 40 yr old Virgin, calendar Girls, Wedding Da

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