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Live for now.
When you are over sixty opportunities are less, time is
ticking away, soon you may be unable, so if love comes -
grab it with both hands. When we die, it will be for eternity.... |
0 |
4 |
1 |
3.70 |
12/29/2008 4:45 am |
|
|
Years 70 – Good Times!
Who lived intensely the
70 years is condemned to not to remember of him. At least
not completely. There are such a big irony in that, an irony
so ... years 70... ... |
4 |
68 |
11 |
1.30 |
8/12/2007 11:23 pm |
|
|
wonders
What part of NO do people nOT ... |
11 |
105 |
27 |
2.61 |
6/3/2007 2:34 pm |
|
|
in the work place
Many of you are thinking that you would never date anyone
from work. This article is for the rest of you. If you are
interested in the guy, you many want to think twice before
playing hard to ... |
6 |
88 |
37 |
2.48 |
1/30/2007 7:10 am |
|
|
How many polite ways are there to say NO?
How many polite ways are there to say NO?
Seeing the title of this section of the magazine really
made me stop and think, just how many polite ways are there
of telling someone 'no thanks'without ... |
21 |
320 |
272 |
1.74 |
9/22/2006 11:33 pm |
|
|
Just say no.
why is it so hard to "just say ... |
22 |
272 |
142 |
2.41 |
9/10/2006 7:46 pm |
Ihab5, 34 M
7/28/2006 1:52 pm
1
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0.0
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|
Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines
Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines
Hello everybody
This is your captain “Ihab” Welcoming both seated &
standing passengers on board of Syrian Airlines.
We apologize ... |
5 |
109 |
29 |
0.43 |
7/28/2006 1:52 pm |
|
|
Where are my goggles?
There are some people on this site who keep issuing invitations
to me...Just by reading what they have to say, I'd sooner
puke my intestines and snorkel in them than see them ... |
11 |
224 |
80 |
2.91 |
7/14/2006 3:14 am |
|
|
Great expectations
AS happens we get married, expect it to last for ever, it
slowly falls apart, there is a lot of bitterness, and eventually
we seperate.
Then someone else comes along, we get on well, ahve a lot ... |
13 |
261 |
76 |
5.11 |
5/9/2006 2:32 pm |
|
|
Radical Muslims Kicked Out of Australia = Let's Discuss...
"No Thanks
to RADICAL MUSLIMS IN AUSTRALIA
Muslims who want to live under Islamic Sharia law were told
on Wednesday to get out of Australia, as the ... |
22 |
313 |
183 |
3.55 |
5/6/2006 1:32 pm |
|
|
Be a Brave Heart
Men have always been looked upon as the stronger sex. I was
taught that from an early age. I expect that men will be rocks--firm,
solid, real.
I want to venture out and suggest that if a ... |
8 |
271 |
84 |
4.75 |
4/22/2006 8:54 pm |
|
|
last night had to say no
Last night I was in a love mood, I was going to find ly make
love to somebody, anybody, I needed love. I call some one
that I knew wanted me.She was most happy to get down with
me. I met her at ... |
24 |
555 |
256 |
1.91 |
4/20/2006 6:10 am |
|
|
Just say no
If i meet someone on a sight that dosent spark a connection
i tell that person. Isually i try to remain friends evan
if there is no romantic connection.I have run into some
women that dont feel ... |
7 |
168 |
41 |
5.35 |
4/18/2006 2:57 pm |
|
|
King of the HoneyDoo Tavern
You couldn't get hold of the things you'd
done and turn them right again. Such a power might be given
to the gods, but it was not given to women and men, and that
was probably a good ... |
2 |
77 |
35 |
0.00 |
3/23/2006 11:48 pm |
|
|
Passionate Encounters with Chocolate Chip Cookies and Cucumber Sandwiches
Chocolate especially in cookies is a major league aphrodisiac.
There is nothing more exotic than dipping a Chocolate Chip
Cookie into a fragrant cup of Java and the sensual combination
slowly ... |
2 |
104 |
36 |
0.00 |
3/13/2006 9:28 pm |
|
|
How do you know if He is interested?
I had been on a few dates recently with the same guy. He seemed
really keen in the beginning, then increasingly became
really distant. I asked him about it and said to tell me if
he wasn't ... |
13 |
406 |
156 |
4.68 |
3/11/2006 11:24 pm |
|
|
Anger - Four of Cups
Anger when goals are not met can be used productively. Frustrations
can be used to move ... |
1 |
83 |
33 |
0.00 |
3/11/2006 3:17 pm |
|
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Married Men need not Apply
Whats up with all these married men winking and sending
messages to single a woman . I'm not interested in a
f#$%^ buddy and most of the ladies in here are looking for
people that are potential ... |
12 |
440 |
171 |
5.21 |
2/21/2006 7:02 pm |
|
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Why?
listen you guys
we listened to his trill
“why walk when we can ride,
it’s like 3 AM , no buses,
I’ve done it before , no sweat .”
he tried a number of cars
eventually found one , ... |
3 |
140 |
24 |
4.83 |
2/20/2006 5:09 pm |
|
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Opportunities to Say "No Thanks"
The first opportunity to say "no thanks" is
in the writing stage. If they are merely more forward than
you like block them out and send them a quick short email
that they have offended you and ... |
7 |
259 |
74 |
6.58 |
2/14/2006 9:48 am |
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Sex after a couple of dates
If you expect sex within a few dates, you aren't looking
for a meaningful relationship, you're just looking
for a "Quickie". Go down to the corner and pick
up your local street slut, she'll get ... |
10 |
294 |
82 |
3.60 |
2/3/2006 2:29 am |
|
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hotel lobby request
Please I have an unusual request
My car is on the on the far side
Of the parking lot
I am afraid
Would you walk with me
Short and soaked and afraid
Her hair sodden shoelaces
Open face ... |
5 |
186 |
36 |
4.53 |
2/3/2006 12:16 am |
|
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Is it easy to say NO?
We often say Yes and its easy. Do you think its easy to say
NO to some one? Is it not hurting ... |
6 |
174 |
54 |
3.47 |
1/27/2006 4:55 pm |
|
|
Discussing Sex in an E-mail?
A female friend mentioned that she was getting a number
of e-mails from men, particularly widowers, who state
in their initial e-mail that they expect sex by the third
date. She asked me for my ... |
44 |
979 |
488 |
2.76 |
1/25/2006 8:05 pm |
|
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how many 'NO THANKS"
either I am awfully picky or else I am just the world's
worst judge of character of all. I have sent many emails
out since away before Christmas to email's that wanted
to chat or commute ... |
8 |
266 |
46 |
5.02 |
1/24/2006 11:28 pm |
|
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Terminus
Joe and a disembodied voice
One Act Play
chair center stage
Joe a retired mechanic sits / waits
Joe enters right / sits
j. so this is it / what the fuck / you die ... |
1 |
96 |
14 |
4.58 |
1/23/2006 2:40 pm |
|
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Its not difficult to be polite...
Really, I should know...think about it...I'm a Belgian
national who works in the US, african ancestry and attracted
to the attitudes and maturity of older women, sometimes
significantly ... |
4 |
147 |
34 |
5.58 |
1/20/2006 1:49 pm |
|
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STRAWS FROM MY BALE: Sunshineokie
He has endeared himself to me forever. We IM'd and phoned
and e-mailed for 8-months. The he flew in from out of state
for a week of 'togetherness' and sightseeing.
It went well. Laughed, relaxed, ... |
0 |
205 |
21 |
6.34 |
1/15/2006 9:37 pm |
|
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What to do with nude photographs...
Okay so my profile is more or less blunt and honest. That
doesn't mean that I'm asking guys to send me messages
with nude photographs in them. If I wanted such a photo I'd
ask for one. I got ... |
32 |
689 |
257 |
3.01 |
1/7/2006 12:46 pm |
|
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A Considerate Way To Say I'm Not Interested!
Everyone has feelings and wants to be wanted and accepted,
'no matter the age'. It is not difficult to be considerate
and kind unless you have a history of being abused. People
usually give back ... |
3 |
230 |
54 |
6.24 |
1/5/2006 8:12 am |
|
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50 / 50 spread
either way 50/50 spread
takes place outside Day’s Inn
G : has just parked his truck , is about to register
he : approaches G
she : follows he
he : can you loan us ... |
4 |
161 |
23 |
3.48 |
12/13/2005 12:52 am |
|
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Do you ever wonder
do men say"no thanks" do men even know how to
say "no". do men ever turn down the offer of going
out with a nice looking lady, do they KNOW how to say ... |
4 |
219 |
32 |
4.27 |
11/28/2005 1:42 am |
|
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The word "NO"
Is it harder for a woman or a man to tell their friend that
they are not interested anymore. Why is it hard for us to
let the other person know that we are not interested.Wouldn't
you think that ... |
3 |
141 |
14 |
5.54 |
11/24/2005 8:18 pm |
|
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Learning to hit the right keys to say NO!
I might be able to say NO better if I learned to hit the right
keys, spelling is not my problem it is getting over anxious
and hitting the wrong keys. Please excuse my spelling on
my last ... |
2 |
127 |
15 |
1.75 |
11/1/2005 2:44 pm |
|
|
Will & Grace without the gay.
Everyone I'm sure has watched Will & Grace.Haven't
you ever thought to yourself, "what a great relationship
they have going on"? Only to remember that Will is
gay.But then you start to think.What ... |
3 |
116 |
9 |
5.14 |
10/21/2005 8:43 pm |
|
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Re: Has Declined Your Invitation
I see I have now been accused of being an angry man... Angry...never
but sadly disappointed with some of the comments made these
ladies One asked me if I had contacted "Every American
Lady"??? I ... |
5 |
279 |
31 |
2.95 |
9/27/2005 8:16 am |
|
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Some call me a HELL CAT.. But me, I call it God's work...
Seems approiate this go here, as so many people seem to have
great issues with those with redhair..or perhaps it's
just me..LOL..yea, It's just me, Sassy lil me...But
my spirit is mine and ya'll ... |
15 |
471 |
114 |
4.07 |
9/12/2005 2:37 pm |
|
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Has Declined Your Invitation
I seem that two votes in my last artical were "Dont
Like's" Presumably these may be two of the ladies
I was talking about and seems I hit a raw nerve.
<br>
Sorry if I got to you ladies ... |
2 |
156 |
10 |
0.60 |
9/7/2005 12:00 pm |
|
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Are sites a Money-making Racket.
During the last couple of days, I had made a posting (which
was denied by the offices for reasons they refused to inform
me of) in response to a posting by a guy named "John"
who had made comments ... |
1 |
90 |
14 |
4.10 |
9/2/2005 11:16 am |
|
|
Has Declined your invitation
How many of us have had this?????
You contact some one who's been in the ladies IM room
for ages and you dropped them a short message.
You would think they would at least say thank for ... |
7 |
186 |
24 |
0.86 |
8/31/2005 11:33 am |
|
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arrange to say no
Usually it is "no" so I found the best way is to
set things up so that it is easy to say "no". First
make the date short, in public, in daylight eg for coffee.
Make it clear this is to decide ... |
4 |
206 |
26 |
4.43 |
8/23/2005 10:32 pm |
|
|
Look/See
Whenever I meet someone for the first time it is for coffee.
I have used this way prior to internet dating. I make it clear
that at the end of coffee, we will make a decision on what’s
next. Hand ... |
3 |
132 |
13 |
5.32 |
8/19/2005 10:50 pm |
kels00, 47 F
7/22/2005 4:22 pm
9
Articles,
Score
0.0
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THE FIRST STEP...
It takes great courage in a lot of cases for people to take
the first step in showing/alerting someone your interested
in them.. it cost nothing to be polite and say... thanks
but no thanks ...it ... |
5 |
230 |
37 |
4.25 |
7/22/2005 4:22 pm |
|
|
First impressions are not always a best indicator for me!
Interesting posts by many people.
<br>
A lesson I have learned is that my 'gut' instincts
often are much lower then my stomach so not always a great
indicator of what I need in my life ... |
2 |
177 |
25 |
6.67 |
7/13/2005 6:29 am |
kkayt, 65 F
6/27/2005 8:52 pm
2
Articles,
Score
0.0
|
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Does kindness matter when saying
I try to remember that the people on the net are not just names
and thumbnail shots, but real people with hearts and histories
and hearts on thier sleeves. We all have enough bumps and
bruises ... |
4 |
138 |
20 |
6.19 |
6/27/2005 8:52 pm |
|
|
How to say no
What is the most tactful way for a male to tell a lady he isn't
interested in her without hurting her feelings? Is it better
to act somewhat interested and then drag things out and
hope she reads ... |
11 |
356 |
88 |
2.64 |
6/14/2005 12:59 pm |
|
|
do your best to do not say (no) to any lady
if you start to go out with a lady which at the first you think
that she is the one exactly that you have been looking for
and after some dating you will find out that you were wronge.in
my point ... |
4 |
234 |
31 |
4.20 |
6/13/2005 9:46 am |
|
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If Your Adult Enough....
To make a connection and follow through with a date that
leaves a less than desired feeling in you, then you should
be adult enough to let the other person know that you are
not interested.
... |
9 |
350 |
52 |
6.14 |
6/9/2005 8:00 am |
|
|
you can always block them
No one likes rejection. Least of all a man. We have this wonderful
image of ourselves. I look in the mirror when I'm shaving
and see someone totally different in a photograph.
If someone gets in ... |
3 |
188 |
28 |
5.81 |
5/30/2005 12:31 pm |
|
|
What is the best way women want to hear No Thank You?
Men can answer also, but of course I am interested in what
is the least problem for a woman to hear.
<br>
As for me I enjoy the first instant you feel it is a no go, that
you say we ... |
11 |
350 |
75 |
3.18 |
5/27/2005 5:45 pm |
|
|
Good Old-Fashioned Courtesy
I'm fairly new to the Internet "meeting scene"
and the first thing I noticed was the discourtesy of someone
not replying to a note that's been sent. I've had
some wonderful encounters. Don't get ... |
6 |
220 |
26 |
7.02 |
5/26/2005 12:35 pm |
|
|
Just be Honest!!! but Tactful!!
If after chatting/meeting someone who may be more interested
in you, than you are in them, just say so.
You don't have to be blatantly blunt by saying "I
think you are a creep", Or "You are ... |
1 |
129 |
23 |
5.81 |
5/23/2005 9:19 pm |
|
|
Looking for Platonic "Discreet Fun"??
Anyone listed on Senior Friend Finder who is not seriously
seeking a LTR should remove themselves from this site and
go list themselves in Adult Friend Finder or other "Relationships
for Fun" ... |
17 |
396 |
85 |
2.22 |
5/23/2005 12:21 pm |
|
|
You Just Met Him. Now What?
OK ladies, so you met what might be a potential "Mr.
Right" and then find out he's not the one. What
do you do?
<br>
You'll know in less than 5 minutes if you want to continue
to see ... |
12 |
376 |
90 |
1.76 |
5/9/2005 2:26 pm |
|
|
Many Ways to say "No Thanks"
- You just walk out the door,
- make a big scene in a restaurant,
- never call again (changing number is a plus!)
- tell them all of their faults,
- claim a mental breakdown,
- tell them ... |
6 |
196 |
35 |
2.97 |
4/27/2005 2:20 pm |
|
|
Let's Have Some Manners!
I think we all need to treat those interested in us, whether
online or in person, with at least some human dignity. This
means acknowledging the mail we receive unless it is vulgar
or abusive, ... |
1 |
132 |
27 |
5.13 |
4/19/2005 4:24 pm |
|
|
date from hell #2
i had a similar exprience like date from hell.i laughed
at his experience but not for long because i realized it's
probably as embarrassing for a male as it is for a female
and they were in a ... |
2 |
301 |
22 |
3.97 |
4/16/2005 10:25 am |
|
|
Date From Hell
This is one of my personal experiences and the names have
been removed to protect the not-so-innocent. Seven years
ago, my mother was dying of cancer. My aunt told me that I
needed a new hobby ... |
4 |
467 |
40 |
6.99 |
4/6/2005 8:39 pm |
|
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pictures not important
I think if you like the person you are chatting with looks
are not important now if you are seriously looking for a
mate a pic ok but we are all friends who cares291 what one
looks like we are ... |
3 |
217 |
39 |
4.70 |
3/24/2005 5:21 am |
karen1, 53 F
3/23/2005 5:12 am
1
Article,
Score
0.0
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just say im not allowed an opinion
i just spent my whole night posting my opinions on members
articles only to be sent back declined.why is it some can
say what they want when others cannot?oh-im not a paying ... |
10 |
314 |
46 |
3.73 |
3/23/2005 5:12 am |
|
|
Honesty Is Worth It
We all submit the most flattering photographs, but that
is not fair when the time comes to meet in person. Guess it
takes courage to be that real. I study a photograph for personality,
style, ... |
4 |
183 |
25 |
4.24 |
3/10/2005 5:46 pm |
|
|
Every One Who Writes Me Deserves My Respect
I try not to leave anyone feeling "down" just
because we are not a fit. We all are searching for companionship,
with such hope and humility. It has been a sweet venture
for me, for many of you ... |
2 |
130 |
18 |
5.58 |
3/10/2005 5:35 pm |
|
|
Beware of Arizonaboy1950
This is Sherry, his girlfriend of six years; I stumbled
upon his add after he returned my camera to me, broken. Then
found out he was trolling for couples on the internet..This
is SICK and I hope ... |
7 |
557 |
56 |
4.44 |
2/17/2005 10:26 pm |
|
|
make it neat not messy
If you are involved with someone and you decide the time
has come to bring your relationship to an end do it honestly
and without any unneeded ... |
2 |
166 |
21 |
5.23 |
2/10/2005 11:36 am |
|
|
up front, I am married, Is this a problem?If so ,no wasting time
I found out that someone lived in my region and wanted to
say a couple of things like greetings, have you lived there
all your life, what do you like to do?
Well that is how I like to start ... |
2 |
331 |
35 |
1.92 |
2/9/2005 10:39 pm |
|
|
Money making Racket
Is this site a money making racket?. You cannot really become
properly involved unless you pay big "bucks"
and become either a gold or silver member, i.e you cannot
download profiles, photographs ... |
15 |
340 |
71 |
4.27 |
1/30/2005 2:35 pm |
|
|
Is your profile the true you?
I am a 58 year old women and alot of times i read profiles from
some men that usually starts with, man looking for sensual
women, or his profile title may read, looking for women
to love and ... |
24 |
506 |
94 |
3.41 |
1/25/2005 12:00 am |
|
|
Why don't women respond
I have noticed that on this site and other sites that I belong
to, that women wait for a man to make contact with them. Once
he has made the first move in contacting them, they just
simply don't ... |
22 |
506 |
130 |
4.70 |
1/12/2005 12:00 am |
|
|
Drinking
After 25 years of marriage. My wife at that time had decided
that I was running around. So she left for a week to visit
her dad, on xmas day (1984)This was the third time. So, being
who I am, I ... |
7 |
333 |
45 |
4.62 |
12/31/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
Why do they get so excited?
This is such a public place to have a sexual encounter..
Why would you? And then if you got passed around in this area..
What will everyone think of you? Does that make you a cyber
ho? I ... |
4 |
361 |
52 |
3.16 |
12/26/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
Rejection
What is it about rejection people take so personally?
<br>
<br>
Why did the ex take it so bad that I rejected her offer of X-Mas
Eve intimacy?
<br>
<br>
Because I ... |
7 |
158 |
34 |
1.17 |
12/25/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
so easy to say **no thanks**
When asked..no thanks is an easy way to get out of a jam.Sometimes
that is all it takes to get out of a relationship also. This
must be done at the very beginning if you feel you dont really
need ... |
7 |
153 |
35 |
3.15 |
12/25/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
I said," No Thanks," Lately...
It was to by soon to be ex to her question, "Maybe, someday
we'll re-marry."
<br>
NO THANKS.
<br>
<br>
That was good practice and it felt good.
<br>
I received ... |
4 |
145 |
25 |
3.02 |
12/23/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
Why from across the seas
I've been new to this on line date for only a few months
and I can't understand why I get winks and get put on
hotlist from women from across the seas when there is a slim
to none
possibly of ... |
15 |
345 |
76 |
3.23 |
12/14/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
C-H-A-N-G-E
If you are not riding the wave of change
you'll find yourself beneath ... |
4 |
159 |
41 |
2.14 |
12/11/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
WHAT IS REALLY RUDE ???
SINCE BEING HERE ( ONLY A FEW WEEKS )
<br>
I HAVE ENCOUNTERED SOME REALLY RUDE WOMEN !!
CAN'T SPEAK ABOUT THE MEN AS I AM A MAN AND DONT
CONTACT MEN...LOL
AT FIRST I THOUGHT...WELL ... |
12 |
328 |
62 |
3.21 |
11/28/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
Long distance relationships.
Maybe I'm too new to this online dating but I find that
many nice guys respond to me from other cities across the
country but it seems almost like an impossibility that
anything meaningful can ... |
8 |
168 |
44 |
3.38 |
11/15/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
Response to;- Married Unfortunetly
I wish there was a way I could understand how a marriage of
two people can be held together when love doesn't exist
anymore. I wish I could understand how anyone could place
a higher value over ... |
14 |
278 |
89 |
4.34 |
10/22/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
Hey!
If you have put someone on your hotlist and have decided,
either you or both of you, not to correspond anymore, please
take that person off your hotlist! Otherwise, there you
are, the first on ... |
1 |
176 |
26 |
3.78 |
10/21/2004 12:00 am |
SFMaven, 46 F
10/21/2004 12:00 am
6
Articles,
Score
0.0
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The Anticlimatic Meeting
Sometimes after talking on the phone, sending letters,
pictures and such just not take the place of the first meeting.
I had long learned to keep one's heart out of it until
that first meeting.
... |
4 |
164 |
34 |
4.95 |
10/21/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
Response to saying No!
If your spouse is dying and the laws of the marrage are holding
you back from cheating, what happens when the spouse that
is dying gives you permision to start a relationship?
<br>
... |
8 |
120 |
20 |
0.57 |
10/12/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
Oh My Gosh!
Don't give up on one who has no manors or know how to spark
a relationship, God put everyone here on this big blue planet,
there is always one who is seeking you, even if you gave up
on the first ... |
2 |
64 |
10 |
3.58 |
10/12/2004 12:00 am |
|
|
I consider myself lucky.
I take the time to compose a decent note in reply to a woman's request to correspond with her or in initiating my interest in getting to know her.
If we are not interested in each other after a ... |
6 |
115 |
19 |
5.63 |
10/11/2004 12:00 am |
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Response to:- "Love"
If I were a man delivering pizzas and a woman said this to
me I'm sure I'd say no thanks give me the ten bucks
and I'll be out of there. I once did an estimate for a
contract for work around a ... |
8 |
191 |
48 |
1.08 |
10/5/2004 12:00 am |
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respones to your no thanks
not only women do that but so do a lot of men.
it doesnt cost any one to be polite. ... |
2 |
102 |
17 |
4.12 |
10/4/2004 12:00 am |
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Married Men
I would like to thank SillyWizardess for the article she
wrote, it spells out how allot of us women feel.
<br>
I also am a widow and loved my husband very much. The last
3 yrs of his ... |
9 |
252 |
53 |
4.37 |
9/21/2004 12:00 am |
pebs, 61 F
9/14/2004 12:00 am
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Hell hath no furylike a man scorned !
I am speechless but since "MM: Male Motives (good
handle )and his web site named " Cracked Rabbit"
should have been a warning! I have just read his SCORCHING
"bogus" website under my name ...I ... |
3 |
213 |
57 |
7.53 |
9/14/2004 12:00 am |
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Reply to Rude responce2
If all you want is proper spelling ask for old english teachers
only. Some of write as we think and a few spelling errors
should not get your shorts in an uprore (I know I misspelled
that!) ... |
4 |
67 |
29 |
5.15 |
9/8/2004 12:00 am |
NENA, 59 F
9/1/2004 12:00 am
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Give my regards the hard way!
Hey, I don't know about you, but I have trouble coming
up with "no thank you" lines when the person
is down right rude or weird. "No thanks, I'm not
interested, and neither is my room mate" or "No ... |
7 |
215 |
46 |
7.68 |
9/1/2004 12:00 am |
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What does likes or dislikes have to do with joining a net
Joining someones network of friends doesn't mean
you have to be friends joined at the hip for eternity. It
is simply an invitation to join a group of friends. What
does it have to do with any one ... |
1 |
62 |
57 |
6.81 |
8/18/2004 12:00 am |
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I am 'me'
I have the right to choose, do i not? Just because i am sexstarved,
do i have to jump in bed with every hunk i see? Is'nt there
anything called mental compatability or love? Why can't
a man stand ... |
5 |
120 |
57 |
6.69 |
8/15/2004 12:00 am |
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Oh My Gosh
I had a lovely meal with a gentleman, at the local fish restaurant.
One of the problems we encountered was that he had absolutely
nothing to say. I dealt with the problem, by initiating ... |
9 |
314 |
79 |
5.30 |
8/15/2004 12:00 am |
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ARE WE REALLY LOOKING FOR FRIENDS
So many people come into SFF or any other "Friends
Site". All profess to be lonely and wanting someone
to "love" or "befriend" or "just
someone to talk to".
So then why so many declines? ... |
4 |
76 |
76 |
8.19 |
7/19/2004 12:00 am |
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Reply to "Marriage in the Distionary"
The question of whether the sexual proclivities, desires
or habits should be discussed "before" marriage.
I personally think these proclivities should be tried
before marriage...."talk is ... |
2 |
62 |
124 |
1.67 |
7/11/2004 12:00 am |
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Marriage in the Dictionary
My dictionaries do not mention sex under the definition
of marriage or marry. As a board certified divorce attorney,
I know that non-consumation is not absolute grounds for
annulment i.e. a ... |
0 |
37 |
44 |
1.97 |
7/10/2004 12:00 am |
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Sometimes A Woman
Sometimes a woman cares for a man when she shouldn’t
Sometimes a woman wants a friend, and he wouldn’t
Sometimes a woman wants to be treated like a woman, and he
couldn’t
<br>
... |
4 |
76 |
102 |
3.07 |
7/2/2004 12:00 am |
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Reply to "rude response"
Following SFF advise to write the article first using a
text editor and its spellcheck would help everyone to avoid
spelling errors. ... |
2 |
39 |
41 |
2.69 |
6/27/2004 12:00 am |
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if the spelling is correct, try a better title
I just had to respond to the article about the choice of names
and the spelling in profiles and e-mails. Call me fussy
but if a person can't take the time to use spell check
when writing a ... |
3 |
52 |
48 |
5.03 |
6/27/2004 12:00 am |
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Love
Some females fall in love really quickly and that scares
guys away. If I say, "I'm in love with you, I want
to marry you, I want to move in with you." They say:
"Ma'am, just give me the ten ... |
10 |
132 |
120 |
0.61 |
6/23/2004 12:00 am |
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Rude reply
I added a very nice man to my network(at least I thought he
was nice)I recieved a relpy from him saying that he was looking
for a younger and prettier woman, he is 66 and Im 63, the
compatable ... |
3 |
71 |
94 |
7.28 |
6/22/2004 12:00 am |
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Married - unfortunately
Gypsy Rose thinks we should all love our partners and I think
it would be wonderful if we did. She is widowed and I hope
that her life with her husband was good. Unfortunately
people sometimes ... |
6 |
64 |
141 |
1.04 |
6/22/2004 12:00 am |
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common decency
why is it that when you go to a chat room, there are people
there that when you talk to them they don't respond.
I think it is "Common Decency" to tell that person
you don't wish to conversate ... |
4 |
55 |
50 |
6.18 |
6/20/2004 12:00 am |
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OnLine Contacts
It seems to me there are a lot of ladies who either list themselves
as a lark, as a dare or as a joke. I have asked some five star
fits to just say hello and no response. I don't think
there is ... |
3 |
83 |
54 |
7.49 |
6/17/2004 12:00 am |
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why dont people at least say no thanks
it's so fustrating to go to all the trouble to search
for that someone speasel and try to contact them only to
be ignored. if you can contact them they can respond by replying
to e mail. even if ... |
4 |
98 |
48 |
6.35 |
6/16/2004 12:00 am |
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Heartache Of Breaking Up
Lost in a world of unknown sadness;
Smiles and laughter hidden by distress.
Living my life in a dream-like state,
Nothing I can do but sit here and wait.
My once happy heart has been broken ... |
1 |
54 |
57 |
4.90 |
6/12/2004 12:00 am |
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A Response to Why some MARRIED people seek companionship here
I strongly disagree with the reasons for looking outside
the marriage listed in the article, "Why Some MARRIED
People Seek Companionship." I think the person very
eloquently wrote a load of ... |
4 |
102 |
118 |
6.77 |
6/10/2004 12:00 am |
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RE: Respect
Have you ever thought that perhaps your screen name turns
people off? "Hottotrot"...how much respect
does that show the women with whom you're trying to
communicate? Also, your spelling and ... |
2 |
55 |
113 |
3.90 |
5/31/2004 12:00 am |
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Re repect.
Perhaps if one wants respect one should begin by showing
respect. Like the name or handle you choose. ... |
2 |
32 |
37 |
6.96 |
5/25/2004 12:00 am |
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More on respect!!!!!!!!!!
I thought when I joined this site that being a Senior site
that the Women on this site would be mature! but I guess I
was wrong.I think if you reply to a person more than twice, then
all of a ... |
1 |
78 |
89 |
2.10 |
5/23/2004 12:00 am |
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HOW TO NICELY TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED
I think that one of the most difficult aspects of online
dating is telling someone that you have met that you don't
think you have any basis for a friendship without huring
the persons feelings. ... |
5 |
71 |
189 |
4.48 |
5/18/2004 12:00 am |
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Re:Respect
Have you actually spoken to most women on this site or are
you generalising? Why do most men on this site judge women
on their appearance? Oops...I am generalising... I have
not spoken to or ... |
3 |
70 |
31 |
1.61 |
5/17/2004 12:00 am |
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Respect!!!!
I find that the majority of Women on this site don't
have any idea of what being courtios realy means.I'm
refering to being polite enough and having the respect
too at least reply with a NO ... |
3 |
38 |
65 |
6.93 |
5/9/2004 12:00 am |
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Send more five-star matches!
I tracked a lovely man down in Wisconsin (pix appeared in
my network or whatever) and stated that, yes, it might be
quite a trek from Maryland to Milwaukee, but that's
what I'm planning! ... |
3 |
99 |
106 |
3.40 |
5/6/2004 12:00 am |
49er, 60 M
4/13/2004 12:00 am
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No marriage no sex.
Sex is a “marriage” of two people. Look “marriage” up in
any dictionary. I’m not trying to be cold, but that IS the
definition of the term. Okay, so there may or may not be any
sociological ... |
2 |
83 |
113 |
5.08 |
4/13/2004 12:00 am |
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women are out looking too
I read all these articles about the married men out looking.
They aren't the only ones. there are alot of married
ladies out there looking too, whether for fantasy, escape
or real interest in ... |
1 |
42 |
123 |
4.02 |
4/12/2004 12:00 am |
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Winks
I receive winks , but no one ever follows up when I send and
e-mail....is anyone else having this problem. I also reply
to sevral ads and don't recieve an answer. Being a paying
member I think we ... |
2 |
55 |
221 |
3.98 |
4/11/2004 12:00 am |
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re: georgie girl's soulmates
Hey Georgie girl..Don't try to teach your friend to
say no thanks..It is her choice and if she is happy then that
is all that matters. I am involved with a married man..we
are best friends ... |
3 |
55 |
60 |
2.01 |
4/3/2004 12:00 am |
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Why some MARRIED people seek companionship here.
Monogamy in a relationship is not always possible. Sometimes
people have difficulty accepting this universal truth.
<br>
One's marital partner might develop an incurable
psychological ... |
2 |
48 |
83 |
4.81 |
4/3/2004 12:00 am |
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Pleeeeezzzzzz
75% of the men on my cupid's match list are MARRIED.
The word must have gotten out that this is the place to go
for women looking to be a partner in adultery. To add insult
to injury, they can't ... |
3 |
47 |
122 |
6.16 |
4/1/2004 12:00 am |
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MARRIED AND LOOKING
ITS BEYOND ME WHY SO MANY MEN ARE OUT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP
. WHY CAN'T WE BE SATISFIED WITH OUR COMPANION AND LOVE
THEM AND HONOR THEM AS WE PROMISED WHEN THEY WERE FIRST MARRIED
. IF THE ... |
2 |
36 |
182 |
3.71 |
2/24/2004 12:00 am |
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saying get lost to married men
Well your looking for mr. right
the easy to get along with ones the ones that dont ask to many
questions and talk about discreet meetings - are usually
married some times they admit it sometimes ... |
1 |
30 |
141 |
2.73 |
2/19/2004 12:00 am |
oma52, 57 F
2/6/2004 12:00 am
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Saying NO to those who think SSF is a shopping Mall for intimate encounters.
One of the nice things about this service is I can say No Thank
You quite easily and quickly if the first e-mail contact
or wink (after reading the profile)leads me to do so. Has
anyone else but ... |
3 |
116 |
162 |
7.49 |
2/6/2004 12:00 am |
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Say" No Thanks" with a personl note, not some form letter.
I feel if we make an investment in money and time, we should
be polite enough to answer each one in a short personal '"Yes,
we might have something in common to go further, let's
continue ... |
1 |
38 |
164 |
8.31 |
12/19/2003 12:00 am |
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no condom no sex
When I was in my mid thirty's my then girlfriend of several
years had her tubes tied and so was no longer able to become
pregant. One night she discovered I still had condoms and
threw them out ... |
2 |
61 |
228 |
4.40 |
11/24/2003 12:00 am |
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to sex without condoms
No, I am not cutting and pasting.
This is a personal account of recent dating.
Oo la la. He is handsome. He kept asking me out. He seemed
to pester me. I couldn't shake him so I told him ... |
2 |
92 |
173 |
7.51 |
8/4/2003 12:00 am |
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Why post an old picture... what if you meet.... then what?
We have all no doubt aged, but why post an old picture????
What if you get on and decide to meet... I have had many experiences
where I had to say "No Thanks" Some of us age more graceful
then ... |
3 |
53 |
394 |
8.66 |
2/11/2003 12:00 am |
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nope advice
Since I am a widow, financially secure, I have attracted
interest from several near-indigent older and younger
men of my acquaitance. This has posed a problem to me, since
I'm someone who always ... |
2 |
85 |
509 |
3.65 |
7/31/2002 12:00 am |
