It is important. 4/24/2012|
Dating is an important aspect of life. If you will not date
we will not be able to meet the human beings and more importantly
the most natural desire sex will never be fulfilled so it
is an important aspect of life. But choosing the right partner
is another essential here. You should make sure that your
partner is of any disease free and have no allergies or whatsoever.
I hope you all have a ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
Their agenda 9/1/2010|
Looking at the various posts in different sections of our
magazine, I was surprised to see some from young people,
both male and female. I would question why anyone under
50 would be interested in a web site called SenionFriendFinder.
What agenda have they?...
4 Comments, 51 Views,
Exposing the Dating Scam Scum 2/10/2010|
So you got an email from a seemingly great guy. He's
really cute, seems like he might be a good match and he's
dying to know all about you. What an ego boost! Or is it?
In the last two weeks I have been contacted by no less than
six dating scammers. That's right, there are scammers
everywhere and we all need to be on the lookout for these
despicable creeps. SFF is not immune to the ...
2 Comments, 38 Views,
Wine or coffee 1/22/2010|
Most guys go for the coffee shop first date as it is easy to
1 Comments, 18 Views,
It appears bout 125 countries have removed all restrictions
imposed by law of those land regarding two persons relationship
classified as Gay or Lesbians. In India interest groups
have been fighting for their rights over 40 years. Now Delhi
High Court has given a far reaching verdict making them
to express openly and no punishment is now possible under
law. ots of groups, individuals are very ...
2 Comments, 15 Views,
Be Safe 1/12/2009|
Unfortunately there are a lot of dangerous people around.
Some of them are predators, who like to prey on vulnerable,
Please accept the good advice offered by our site, and do
not give personal information, until you are certain about
the other person.
You should correspond through our site, until you get to
know something about the other party. Always be aware ...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
Too soon..... 5/20/2008|
I have come ascross a few men who don't really want to
email back and forth a few times on SFF. Instead, the offer
their personal email and phone number which is blocked
uusually. If it does happen to you and the information gets
through, I think it is best to still email on SFF for a bit,
before going that one step forward. Thanks, Wilddflower3
0 Comments, 17 Views,
How do you go about a background check & how much is it? 2/18/2007|
Ok, so you have met someone a few times ~ or maybe just met
online, chat, & phone calls.
By then, I have "goo g l e d" and cross-checked
address/phone numbers and checked the s e x offender list
in his state/city.
Is that all you do? Have any of you ever used the online background
checks? About all they really tell is if he pays his bills
on time or has any overdue library books.
13 Comments, 221 Views,
How to play it safe? 1/30/2007|
Here are some dating safety tips that I have heard. The first
thing, to do, is the background check. On a first date, you
want to meet at a public location. It is a good
idea to have a friend check on you, after
about one hour.
4 Comments, 64 Views,
LOOKING OUT FOR NUMBER ONE 12/15/2006|
I've been around the bdsm community for a number of
years and have had my fair share of meeting new people for
potential play/relationship consideration. Over time
I’ve put together my own personal rituals for meeting new
people, most of whom I’ve met via the Internet. As this topic
comes up often on various discussion groups I belong to
I decided to write an essay detailing ...
4 Comments, 110 Views,
dating with the men in aff. 11/28/2006|
i need to know them and find for my better judgement who they
are...but good people for me will be remembered as a blessing, but
the wicked will soon be forgotten.i feel and i know that
if men keep quiet about what they know, humble?maybe, not
arrogant, but stupid omes advertize their ignorance.
5 Comments, 83 Views,
He has to know. 11/1/2006|
I worked as a garegiver, caring for a tetraplegic client.
Well he was a client back then, today he is a dear friend.
The internet is his life, with lady friends around the globe.
He introduced me to some dating websites, that was 4 years
ago. I cant believe it is that long.
Allthough I'm not with him anymore he knows of everyone
I meet or going to meet. He would always tell me to be ...
4 Comments, 90 Views,
you know its a shame when the sharks of the internet try to
take advantage of those who for one reason or other are taken
in by a smooth talking scam artist. I for one am sick and tired
of them trying their tricks on me just because they see I
am self employed and have a few extra pounds on me. I hae a
friend who is in pretty much the same predictament and knows
of others as well that have ...
6 Comments, 101 Views,
leave message to your family or good friend 10/6/2006|
When anyone to have a date from net friend, who should ask
the new net friend to offer his/her contact reference and
you can first check the reference accuratance before leaving
those reference to your family or good friend.
Let the frist date in the public to make personal dating
3 Comments, 37 Views,
How Much Is Too Much? 9/8/2006|
I received an e-mail from a total stranger telling me
that I had given TOO MUCH informtation in my profile and
that didn't I know that Perverts would be attracted
Well, now what do you do about this question? One of the first
things I do, if I see an attractive man, is read his profile
to see how "honest" he is and what makes him tick.
I believe in ...
13 Comments, 218 Views,
safe sex 8/31/2006|
Do you make a guy wear a condom on the first date only or all
18 Comments, 222 Views,
JUST DO IT! 8/27/2006|
We have some fine gentlemen here at SFF, and I sincerely
thank God for each of them. WHEN DATING IN GENERAL, HOWEVER,
I must always be aware that I now live in a world with values
far different from my own. Respect is rare, there is NO safety,
and ulterior motives abound. My only defense lies in my
intelligence and in as far as possible always being a hard
My policy is ...
6 Comments, 108 Views,
Do a back ground check..... 7/23/2006|
I found out being in SFF for three years, if
a person man/women is the true blue person they say they
are will not get upset with you if you do a back ground check
on them. I talked to this man from SFF for three years and
he began to concern me. I did a search on him and back ground
check on him and he never has spoken to me again since I told
him. I ask him if he lived on such and ...
6 Comments, 137 Views,
Biker !!! 7/20/2006|
What do you think a real Biker is ?
Give your tought...
6 Comments, 61 Views,
Any way to verify? 7/20/2006|
Is there a way to verify someone you are talking to on SFF
and through email is the person they say they are? It worries
me. In this day of stolen identity it's very hard to
be assured. Doing a background check is over the top so does
anyone have a way they verify a person's true identity?Men are from Mar's and Women are from Venus...
2 Comments, 55 Views,
2FACE REALITY IS : 2B-F-2-F 7/15/2006|
YOU’LL NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO GET WHEN YOU MEET
SOMEONE NEW UNTIL YOU'RE FACE TO FACE AND SPEND TIME
HANGING OUT. SO IF YOU LOVE ART, THEATER, TRAVEL, WINE,
COOKING, MOVIES, GOING OUT, STAYING IN, COMING, GOING,
TV, RADIO, SUNSETS, MOON RISES, HERE, THERE, THIS, THAT.
IF YOU ARE PASSIONATE, CARING, WITH LOYALTY AND FIDELITY
LARGE IN YOUR BOOK. YOU CARE ABOUT THE WAY YOU ...
2 Comments, 64 Views,
Where to meet 6/27/2006|
Meet for the first time in public place. Nowhere noisy but
4 Comments, 65 Views,
Things to do 6/24/2006|
Make sure that the Phone number of the person u r to date is
Make the first date in a public place
Bring the date to your place or u visit their place only after
Never discuss Finance
Don't drink more during the Date
Stop with a Kiss during the first date
Talk as much as u can so that u understand them better
3 Comments, 63 Views,
Meeting Someone On A Bad Light 6/10/2006|
There are men you may just catch on a bad night and just aren’t
very good company.
Everyone is bound to have a bad night.
However, there are people on the dating scene that are quite
simply self-involved or so bitter that their nastiness
transcends the entire dating experience.
“There are some people you simply need to avoid, for whatever
10 Comments, 110 Views,
Dealing with On-Line Bullies 5/26/2006|
On-Line Bullies is an occupational hazard of the cyberworld.
There are some who can bully behind an anonymous profile.
When dealing with an on-line bully, it is important to NOT to respond, interact and engage with the
bully. This is not easy but it is doable.
The bully will attack with name-calling
and slander. The first ...
8 Comments, 242 Views,
Take care 5/19/2006|
For the gals: No matter how many times you talk to a guy through
e-mails and stuff, you cannot trust him when you meet face
to face. Writing nice things about ourselves and that we
have always been victims is so easy. Once you aggree to meet,
he can turn out to be a completely different person.
6 Comments, 97 Views,
Stood Up 3/14/2006|
It used to be very upsetting when I was stood up for a date
but now it doesn't upset me at all. I have a great time
on my date regardless of rather the date shows up or not.
I can go to the theater by myself, I can geocach all by myself
and I can go to dinner by myself. Who know, I might meet somebody
terrific and it's saves me the trouble of having to
ditch my date to take off with ...
9 Comments, 210 Views,
seven days of Inspiration 3/1/2006|
Day one---find something that gives you joy, and it will
make you beatiful.
Day two---lrt your heart decide, it knows you best.
Day three-you will touch somein a positve way soon
Day four--Hope is stronger than Fear
Day five--remember this always--you are a rare jewel that
should be treated with dignity.
Daysix----give yourself a pat on your back, and reach for
7 Comments, 80 Views,
safe sex for older couples? 2/27/2006|
We are a mature couple who have only recently begun exploring
re-entry into the lifestyle after many years out of it.
Kinda looking to spice up our golden years, you might say.
STDs are equal opportunity problems, no matter what the
age although a lot of geezers seem to feel that at their age
-- "what the hell?" Condoms are a turnoff to
a lot of people in the lifestyle and admitedly, ...
6 Comments, 218 Views,
Everything you need to know about Air Brakes and Truckers 2/21/2006|
What are the three braking systems?
The service brake and parking brake and emergency system.
What is used to make the brakes work?
What does the air compressor do?
Pumps air into the air storage tanks.
What does the air compressor governor control?
It controls how the compressor will pump air into the air ...
3 Comments, 122 Views,
why lie 2/19/2006|
If you are writing a Profile why Lie about yourself and give
false information...You either have to be a very good lier
and remember what you have said or you are just plain stupid
because eventually you are found out......A lot of men
lie about their ages as do women I guess what for to catch
some one......mmmm very interesting
14 Comments, 160 Views,
Dating/General safety 2/10/2006|
Men take notice too. A woman can shoot you as readily as a
man. Also there are more than a few women who can whip you
without a weapon. Don’t try to be “Macho”.
Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable
with the way things are headed, run like hell.
When you are comfortable enough to meet for ...
5 Comments, 87 Views,
online dating 12/15/2005|
Have been discussing this "online dating"
business with many people since I started to get involved
with SFF. And have wondered why so many parents were talking
about it, because they have teenagers at home.I didn't
figure it could be as bad as what they made it out to be. As
I skip thru the different sites checking to see what each
one was about, I came across a man and 2 woman engaged in ...
5 Comments, 141 Views,
How soon to French kiss? 12/11/2005|
I enjoy the intimacy of French kissing. I think next to the
French Fry and the Eiffel Tower is ranks in the top 3 of things
we got from the European country.
The main question is how soon and how much tongue to use.
I generally kiss open mouth anytime after the first date
but I allow my partner to initiate any tongue action. Different
people tolerate different amounts and ...
12 Comments, 274 Views,
When first meeting someone new, I strongly feel that one
will know what type of a person you have just met, if they
communicate well with you right from the start. One might
not know, or care if the other doesn't communicate
well. Thats up to each individual, but to communicate right
off the bat, is essential. Lots of items are involved in
a good and strong relationship. To find a new ...
12 Comments, 149 Views,
too much too soon 11/24/2005|
I like to put my cards on the table right from the start. I
believe if you both do that, each will know what you are looking
for, and you can go from there.ask each other questions
what you want to know about the other. If the other don't
feel comfortable about doing that, its more than likely
a good idea to stop right there, and look for someone else
to talk to. things to discuss are what ...
11 Comments, 137 Views,
I Almost Got CYBER ! 10/15/2005|
People keep talking about the Chat rooms.
How people meet and some have even found
their spouses there.
So every now and then,
I have been popping in there.
Not much to report there.
Then, I thought I would get an Instant Messenger
on this site so I could talk directly to
someone and be safe and I wouldn't have to
give out my real E-mail address.
I have ...
10 Comments, 385 Views,
Screening out the Frogs 9/11/2005|
I do believe that internet dating is the way of the future.
The Internet has allowed me to keep in contact with friends
across the country that I could have lost cantact with years
ago. I have made many wonderful friends. When my son was
in the Persian Gulf, I was able to contact him. When a child
or loved one is at the warfront, any kind of message however
brief is comforting. I ...
5 Comments, 165 Views,
No Means No 9/3/2005|
A guy who briefly chats with a girl in a chat room seems "normal"
if there's such a word, so the gal takes the chance and
gives him her personal instant messenger sn and now every
time she logs on he wants to chat nonstop. She loves to chat,
but the topic of sex is contantly on this guy's mind,
and she has repeatedly responded, "NO Thanks"
many times, but he just doesn't get it, I guess her ...
9 Comments, 201 Views,
sensible meeting 8/23/2005|
Who has not had a real date in 16 years !! That sure is safe.
Your life is what you make it. You have made a choice which
seems to be working for you, that is fine with us guys.
The standard meeting advice is good. If you want to be extra
cautious; turn up early and set a friend in view of your table,
with signals for a quiet rescue.
I know ladies in their 40s who live alone and ...
3 Comments, 114 Views,
Meeting people - one on one - personally 8/19/2005|
I have been a member of SFF for quite some time and have met
many people in person all over the world: males as well as
well as females. I have attended 3 bashes in the US (I am from
Europe) and going to such a gathering in order to meet people
in my opinion is safe.
It would be different when meeting a single person, woman
meeting gentlemen. I have always trusted my intuition
and up to ...
18 Comments, 544 Views,
When do you give your real ...... 8/17/2005|
I have had someone view my profile and send me an e-mail on
SFF site. The first thing he did was to give me his Yahoo e-mail
address. Then, He wanted my handle to IM. Actually, I have
had this happen several times.
To me this is scary. I am afraid. With all the horror stories
you hear how can you know when the time is right to reveal
I certainly wouldn't after the first e-mail. ...
12 Comments, 366 Views,
A little off subject, but...speaking of dating... 8/7/2005|
I have been watching " Hooking UP" a new series
on ABC Thurs. nights 8:00PM Central Standard Time.
It is about single women who are meeting men on Dating Sites
on the Internet and it follows them on the actual date!
I find it facinating to see what all is going on out there,
since I haven't been on a "real date" in
about 16 years!
3 Comments, 126 Views,
Is it safe to respond to profiles without photos??? 8/6/2005|
As it seem to be more profiles in searches for men posted
in the MD area without photos , how safe is it to respond???
They can send a photo and a profile but with out a posted photo
it will be hard to convience most of us they are not hiding
anything (married, , axe murder ect) I think women
have to be More careful for their physical safety, and for
their reputations. Just because a ...
13 Comments, 240 Views,
*** Stay Safe ALWAYS *** 7/22/2005|
This is mostly for ladies always stay safe under any cicumstances..always
meet in a public place, drive yourself or get someone to
drive you.... always tell someone were you are going, always
have a cell phone even if you have to borrow one, with an emergency
number of someone you can contact. using 3 capital AAA in
your cell phone that way always comes up first so you dont
panic trying to ...
13 Comments, 204 Views,
There's some funny people out there 5/29/2005|
When I was a teenager I used to go camping quite a lot. My mother
always used to say, 'now you be careful. You know what
I mean? There's some funny people out there.'
Well I never met any 'funny people out there'.
But there again, perhaps they thought I was 'funny'.
Everyone is someone else's weirdo.
Nowadays you can, shop, bank and get credit online. But
if anything is wrong you can ...
6 Comments, 432 Views,
How far has life changed? 5/28/2005|
I feel we are in a world that has changed in a wrong way. It
seems years ago dating safety would have only meant being
careful if you became active that no kids were brought into
the world. I never had to worry of it as I was not going there
Now we talk of sickos and people who wish to harm or take anothers
life...We many times think of our children .. OK ...
8 Comments, 169 Views,
Dating Safely On Line For Ladies 5/2/2005|
Ladies, I know how excited we all get when we see someone
on line and want so badly to get to know all about them.
I have friends who tell me how scary it is for them to do the
on-line dating thing. It isn't any more scary than
meeting someone in a bar, or through a friend, etc. The question
I get often is "What do you talk about, how do you get
to know them, where do you ...
10 Comments, 654 Views,
Those Red Flags! 3/20/2005|
I recently ended a cyber relationship, not from SSF, because
the man in question wanted to come to town to visit me much
too soon, after only one phone call, and assumed he would
be invited to my home. He made sexual innuendoes which went
beyond flirtatious, wanted to know if I would ever want
to go out with friends instead of being with my partner,
and almost seemed to be planning our ...
9 Comments, 317 Views,
Hello, I use condoms on every sexual occasion but not sure
how to protect myself when performing oral on a lady. Any
thoughts or ways that are easy to implement?
13 Comments, 457 Views,
STALKERS, The complete article? 2/23/2005|
When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay
repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and
asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that
listing is non-published." That admission in itself
gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out
there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you
are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.)
2 Comments, 149 Views,
<<When you have an "unlisted" number,
you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information
and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that
listing is non-published." That admission in itself
gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out
there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you
are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you ...
1 Comments, 84 Views,
Black Belt Approved, STOP , LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU- 2/9/2005|
$1 SELL ONLY. PTF - Protect The Family Political Party MTBSW*
60% of incarcerated for child ! 1/3 females,
1/7 males !
NO THERAPY RUINS KID’S LIVES!!
Black Belt Approved STOP ! LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU.
An attacker grabs your arm, QUICKLY twist it towards his
thumb, while using your ARM against his THUMB. ...
1 Comments, 73 Views,
Being safe. 1/18/2005|
Everyone want to feel safe when dating someone new. Yhis
applies to both females and males. WE should all be careful
about giving out too many particulars until we get to know
the other person. Always meet in a public place, and dont
be tempted to go off with the other person, to their home
or a hotel. It takes time to get to know, and trust someone
6 Comments, 189 Views,
Thinning The Herd? 12/24/2004|
I was giving this 'dating safety' thing some thought
last evening. A question kept nagging me like an ex who didn't
find what she wanted with the lawn care guy.
Has humanity been dumbed down so much it cannot exercise
the rudiments of common sense in enjoying some of the inherent
risks and mysteries of romance?
I really don't have a ...
4 Comments, 204 Views,
be safe 12/22/2004|
It is important when meeting someone 4 the first time that
you dont give out tooo much personal information be safe
instead of sorry.
It is also A good idea too not go to your dates home on the first
date.Most important tip be yourself be honest and sincere.
5 Comments, 190 Views,
It CAN happen to YOU!! 12/21/2004|
It does not matter if you are female or male....nor does
it matter where you are located....you really can be the
victim....I was. Granted it was a matter of trusting too
soon......even if you think you really know the person
quite well...the rules they have posted on here ARE good
ones indeed and following them might mean saving your life.
It can happen to a man just as easily as to a ...
6 Comments, 411 Views,
No man hunting / keine Männerjagd 12/7/2004|
Ich dachte diese Seite hier ist aufgebaut um nette Leute
zu treffen. Menschen in meinem Alter, die über ein Gespräch
sich näher kommen, sich verstehen, Freude und Leid miteinander
Weit gefehlt, die einen die dich ansprechen, sprechen
über Sex, den Sie zu Hause scheinbar nicht erhalten.
Die anderen können nur mit dir kommunizieren, wenn Sie
dich über die webcam ...
6 Comments, 131 Views,
Daddy, how was I born? 12/6/2004|
Well, you see your Mom and I first got together in a chat room
Then I set up a date via e-mail with your Mom and we met at a
cyber-cafe. We sneaked into a secluded room, where your
mother agreed to a download from my hard drive. As soon as
I was ready to upload, we discovered that neither one of
us had used a firewall, and since it was too late to hit the
3 Comments, 115 Views,
Automobile Safety and Assualts on Women 11/23/2004|
Recently in Colorado there has been a rash of assualts on
women who do not lock their car doors when entering or leaving.
I received this in my email today. It is a good precaution
for all of us.
IMPORTANT PLEASE READ
A friend stopped at a pay-at-the-pump gas station to get
gas. Once she filled her gas tank and after paying at the
pump and starting to leave, ...
4 Comments, 97 Views,
Safety tips women should know & practice 11/20/2004|
Don't Be A Crime Victim!
I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it
and pass it on to all your female friends, ,
Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and
it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone,
who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah
Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for ...
2 Comments, 146 Views,
Safety & Survival Signals for Women 11/20/2004|
The Gift of Fear
and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence
By Gavin de Becker
The following is taken from pages 210-212.
There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated
with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be
present in every case, but if a situation has ...
1 Comments, 95 Views,
Fostering Obsession with online courtship 11/6/2004|
There are arguements presented that it is "safe"
to spend the time to get to know the other person with extensive
email, chats and phone conversations first. I'm not
sold this is correct, or safe.
There are equal arguements that a very early meeting the
other person "safely" in a very public place,
so that you can not be followed back to your home or work,
may avoid ...
4 Comments, 142 Views,
Online Dating 11/5/2004|
Recently I found ths article about meeting people online
and dating. has some good advice.
You may be anxious to start a new relationship but that doesn't
mean you should rush into meetings with strangers. Take
the time to make sure you're ready to move from the online
world to an offline encounter.
Talk on the Phone
There's no need to ...
0 Comments, 82 Views,
Why shuld I give you my phone number? 10/27/2004|
It is just a thought, but why should I give you my phone number?
I don't know you. My telephone is a private thing. your
calling me without me knowing you is an invasion of my privacy.
Why can't I first get to know you somewhat and when I
feel comfortable, I can then give you my number that opens
the door to my private life. And then what if you abuse it?
You have abused my friendship, ...
5 Comments, 103 Views,
young man/older woman 9/1/2004|
I am a youngman and I am interested to date older women. Call
it a fetish, but I really think that older women has a lot
to offer compare to younger women. Here's a few :
1. OLDER WOMEN MORE CONFIDENT - THEY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT,
WHETHER IT'S SEX OR COMPANIONSHIP.
2. OLDER WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY STABLE - THEY DON'T
DEPEND ON A MAN TO PAY FOR THEM, THAT MEANS THEY ARE ...
8 Comments, 270 Views,
You think you connect...then what...is he/she real? 8/21/2004|
This is really a dilemna in today's world. So many people
try to pass as someone they aren't for various reasons.
Some are in bad marriages and want a fling. Some have agendas
more attached to financial issues. It doesn't matter
what the ultimate reason...what matters is our own security.
Obviously all of us know that not posting a picture is a flag.
There are good reasons for no ...
2 Comments, 78 Views,
Reply to Dating Safety Tips 8/11/2004|
While I understand the reasoning about being suspicious
if someone will only give you their cell phone number, not
a home number and that they could be hiding something at
home, as a mate, etc. - I must say that some people, me included,
have only a cell phone. (Several of my friends have only
a cell phone also.) I have used only a cell phone for more
than two years for my personal and ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
Reply - Small dinner party 8/11/2004|
The problem that I see with hosting a small dinner party,
which I presume would be in your home in order to meet the
new person with the safety of others around, is that the
person whom you have never met now knows exactly where you
live. He/she may be someone that you won't want to have
that information once you have met them. So I would have
to say it is something that I would not do ...
3 Comments, 89 Views,
Ref HappyTrail35 7/9/2004|
I understand what you are saying about safety and should
you take a cab and keep your car hidden. It seems to me like
you are really paranoid (only my opinion) about meeting
someone for the first time. In these times maybe that's
not a bad thing but I really do think you are carrying this
a little too far.
For the most part the man/woman you meet will be just as cautious ...
1 Comments, 50 Views,
Fake emails to hide country of origin 7/6/2004|
I have discovered that email addresses ending with aussiemail.com.au
are fake......and those using them are not necessarily
those are generic global email addresses and are available
to anyone for free.....even to u.s.a. citizens...
Do not rely on an email ending...as they can be deceiving.
If you get an email from someone, dont just believe it without ...
1 Comments, 50 Views,
Better safe than sorry 6/13/2004|
Putting your best foot forward on a first date is usually
done. However, in the case of SFF members, perhaps it is
safer to walk as if your feet are walking on egg shells. Taking
it slow, steady and playing it out always is the best method
to develop a relationship. No one shows their frailities
until you know them for awhile. I wish you all peace.
0 Comments, 43 Views,
JUMPING IN BED JUST BECAUSE YOU DATE SOMEONE? 5/29/2004|
SINCE WHEN DOES A WOMAN HAVE JUMP IN BED WITH SOME GUY JUST
BECAUSE U ARE DATING HIM. THAT IN MY BOOK IS A NO NO AND THEY
CAN LIKE IT OR LEAVE IT, I AM WHO I AM AND STAND FIRM IN WHAT
I BELEIVE AND HE EITHER RESPECTS THAT OR DOESNT AND IF HE
DOESN'T WELL U HAVEN'T LOST ANYHTING. A MAN WORTH
HIS OATS AND IS SECURE IN WHO HE IS AND RESPECTS WOMEN WILL
RESPECT WHAT U SAY AND WHAT U THINK ...
2 Comments, 85 Views,
Meeting place 5/28/2004|
The 21st century equivalent of the coffee shop meeting
spot is, I suggest, the food court in a mall. It's very
public setting of course so you have to be creative in making
sure both parties can identify each other.
The nice thing is that if you decide to go your own way afterwards,
you have the whole mall to walk through. If you felt you were
being stalked while going ...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
Forget the coffee shops indeed!!! 5/20/2004|
Most of the old English mystery shows portrayed the villian
in some dark, foggy park....lurking in search of his next
unsuspecting lady. Common sense tells us that a well- it,
populated shop would be far safer than an isolated area
where one is neither sure of the escape route nor sure of
whom she is meeting. Better safe than sorry.
1 Comments, 47 Views,
Forget the coffee shops 5/2/2004|
Everyone meets at them.Don, t be so paranoid and just go
to a public park in the middle of the day.Nobody but police
officers have the ability to trace your license plate number,
and that is strictly for official useage.As for your phone
number, if you don, t want to talk to them on the phone don't
give out your phone number or screen your calls and do not
answer if you don't feel like ...
3 Comments, 67 Views,
My license plate is visible, even if we meet in public. 4/28/2004|
I have been chatting with someone for awhile and have decided
to meet. Should I rent a car? Travel by bus? Taxi?
It is really easy to trace a license plate.
What is considered to be the safest way to meet? This is new
to me and I need some answers.
No problem with the phone as I use a prepaid calling card.
No way to trace it.
I will ...
3 Comments, 77 Views,
dial star 67 to block phone IDs 3/31/2004|
When you decide to make phone contact for the first time
remember by dialing “star 67” before dialing your phone
number you block your name from the caller ID. I prefer to
keep as much as I can private until I can feel safe with the
person. A cell phone is a good first bet for beginning phone
conversations. The cell number is easily changed if necessary.
3 Comments, 159 Views,
Why are there so few unattached men on SFF? 3/28/2004|
After reading through dozens of matches of Cupid's
SFF, I have thought that my request not to be paired with
MARRIED MEN is being ignored. Perhaps there are not enough
single men on the site to give the volume necessary to maintain
the interest of the women. My theory is "better quality
over quantity" Please refine the Cupid's software
to match clients with the single preferences ...
3 Comments, 58 Views,
personal security. 3/22/2004|
if done carefully, an internet search for a companion can
be quite safe, enjoyable and a very wonderful experience
in your life.
there are some simple little things to avoid if you wish
to keep personal information secure until you decide the
other person is worth seeing/communicating with.
first:NEVER reveal more than your first name. if you reveal
a city ...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
Be the tortoise, not the hare 3/20/2004|
Experienced uses of chat and internet dating have learned,
albeit with some mishaps, the importance of being patient,
and not rushing into something. Giving out your personal
email, phone number, address to someone you have just met
will only endanger, not enhance your meeting with the stranger.
If there is truly something positive to develop between
two people, maybe we should all tread ...
1 Comments, 24 Views,
Alice in Wonderland 3/20/2004|
Why do some men seem like the rabbit in "Alice in Wonderland"?
They are in such a hurry to meet, that they never inquire
as to distance of travel, or even to get to know you before
offering to meet in person. Several emails and phone conversations
provide an excellent opportunity for both parties to hear
things that they might like or dislike. Also, men should
realize that women do not ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
Let's meet 3/18/2004|
That pitter patter of the heart on first talking to someone
who seems interesting. The first conversation is so easy.
That second phone call and you are hearing some disturbing
things. Then the person says " why won't you meet
me in a public place at least" The answer is; if you
cannot engage in several conversations to see if there
are mutual interests, etc., then what is the purpose ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
Be Wise Be Cautious 2/4/2004|
Ladies, let the men know you are a cautious person and
you will feel safe about meeting them if you chat online
for awhile to try to get to know them. If a man is not
understanding of your right to privacy it's time to
on. Ask them how they would feel if their Daughter gave
her phone number or email address to ANY Tom, Dick or Harry???
0 Comments, 22 Views,
Drive yourself! 10/11/2003|
I think the safey tips are very good but I would like to add
another. Please, ladies, don't depend on your blind
date to meet you and drive you anywhere!
Getting into a vehicle with a stranger is still getting
into a vehicle with a stranger, no matter how long you have
been chatting online. No mater how his sweet words makes
your heart flutter. As was once said, "no one is a dog
1 Comments, 78 Views,
Dating Safety Tips 9/7/2003|
After reading the dating safety article posted on 4/11
which had some excellent tips, I wanted to add several things
you can do to determine if a person is being honest and/or
to keep yourself safe:
1. If you are at the point where you would like to exchange
telephone numbers, make sure you get a home number and
not a cell phone number. This might prevent you from getting ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
A guys perspective 7/13/2003|
All of the articles in this category are absolutely correct.
If the man that you are exchanging emails with is in a hurry,
then he probably isn’t for you. A true gentleman will always
think first of a ladies feelings and safety before his own.
Always meet in a public place for coffee or such. The time
might vary depending on how far apart you live. During the
week it would be safe to ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
Safe online dating at SeniorFriendFinder (and other online places) 4/11/2003|
Online personals and dating are a great way to make new friends,
companions and even find romance, but it is important to
approach them with safety as your first priority. (This
is why your access to SeniorFriendFinder.com remains
anonymous and this is why each profile is reviewed by our
Here a few important safety tips:
1. Never reveal your last ...
1 Comments, 36 Views,
how can I contact a person 0 miles away? 3/27/2003|
I know SFF prefers to keep this safe but I can't seem to
contact even a person in my home town. I suspect my e-mail
is being blanked out when I decide to give it. Am I using this
service wrong or have I just wasted my money. How do I contact someone in my town on SFF?
2 Comments, 67 Views,
always be yourself on your first date 8/1/2002
always be yourself on your first date. on my first date i
wanted to impress him ever so badly. i went for shopping
and bought a tight outfit . which really was`nt me . if i wanted
to be myself i would have worn a good pair of jeans and a nice
body top. so, i got ready for my date and went, i was right
there on time and ten minutes later he came. when he saw me
he said " oh my god, i never ...
2 Comments, 31 Views,