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hard7in 79 M
1  Article
french kissing while wearing a mask.   5/5/2020

I need to go read the Paris reports on Lovers lane the eifel tower.


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daddyesboy 39 M
4  Articles
It is important.   4/24/2012

Dating is an important aspect of life. If you will not date we will not be able to meet the human beings and more importantly the most natural desire sex will never be fulfilled so it is an important aspect of life. But choosing the right partner is another essential here. You should make sure that your partner is of any disease free and have no allergies or whatsoever. I hope you all have a ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ohzippity 68 F
1  Article
Exposing the Dating Scam Scum   2/10/2010

So you got an email from a seemingly great guy. He's really cute, seems like he might be a good match and he's dying to know all about you. What an ego boost! Or is it?

In the last two weeks I have been contacted by no less than six dating scammers. That's right, there are scammers everywhere and we all need to be on the lookout for these despicable creeps. SFF is not immune to the ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
luvtotalk2 75 M
4  Articles
Wine or coffee   1/22/2010

Most guys go for the coffee shop first date as it is easy to slip away.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
kykaren1121 60 F
1  Article
scammers   10/30/2006

you know its a shame when the sharks of the internet try to take advantage of those who for one reason or other are taken in by a smooth talking scam artist. I for one am sick and tired of them trying their tricks on me just because they see I am self employed and have a few extra pounds on me. I hae a friend who is in pretty much the same predictament and knows of others as well that have ...


5 Comments, 103 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
BarbieRocks 78 F
2  Articles
How Much Is Too Much?   9/8/2006

I received an e-mail from a total stranger telling me that I had given TOO MUCH informtation in my profile and that didn't I know that Perverts would be attracted to it??
Well, now what do you do about this question? One of the first things I do, if I see an attractive man, is read his profile to see how "honest" he is and what makes him tick.
I believe in ...


5 Comments, 218 Views, 24 Votes ,5.17 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
when is it right #2   8/28/2006

Some people want you to meet them immediately after you are first connected to them on here. Some people do meet and become intimate immediately with one another. Then talk about the future later. Which approach would you take?


2 Comments, 79 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
Instinct   8/18/2006

When you meet somone for the first time, rather its online or for coffee, use your own judgement, about this person. Ask questions, make a joke out of everything you can think of, and watch their response.If they laugh, and find it funny(even though it might not be) ask them to describe their personality, and what things make them happy. If they go along with you with jokes, and they ...


2 Comments, 79 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
Fooling wo?   8/4/2006

When we are asked to post a p[icture-wouldn't that mean a picture of us NOW- not taken 20 years ago. We all usually fill out a little, or our features tend to change over the years--so does our looks-generally- which means that when we are 20 we look young, at 45 we might of put on a few pounds, grew a facial hair, cut our hair shorter, what have you. Then when we become OLDER like say ...


4 Comments, 92 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
bigblueeyes3996 75 F
2  Articles
Do a back ground check.....   7/23/2006

I found out being in SFF for three years, if a person man/women is the true blue person they say they are will not get upset with you if you do a back ground check on them. I talked to this man from SFF for three years and he began to concern me. I did a search on him and back ground check on him and he never has spoken to me again since I told him. I ask him if he lived on such and ...


3 Comments, 138 Views, 17 Votes ,6.10 Score
RockNRideBC 67 M
9  Articles
Biker !!!   7/20/2006

What do you think a real Biker is ?
Give your tought...
Rock


1 Comments, 61 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
seraphim73157 66 F
1  Article
Any way to verify?   7/20/2006

Is there a way to verify someone you are talking to on SFF and through email is the person they say they are? It worries me. In this day of stolen identity it's very hard to be assured. Doing a background check is over the top so does anyone have a way they verify a person's true identity?Men are from Mar's and Women are from Venus...


2 Comments, 56 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
Cum2MasterDave 65 M
5  Articles
Where to meet   6/27/2006

Meet for the first time in public place. Nowhere noisy but safe.


2 Comments, 65 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
starwomyn 70 F
6  Articles
Dealing with On-Line Bullies   5/26/2006

On-Line Bullies is an occupational hazard of the cyberworld. There are some who can bully behind an anonymous profile.
When dealing with an on-line bully, it is important to NOT to respond, interact and engage with the bully. This is not easy but it is doable.
The bully will attack with name-calling and slander. The first ...


4 Comments, 245 Views, 42 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Stood Up   3/14/2006

It used to be very upsetting when I was stood up for a date but now it doesn't upset me at all. I have a great time on my date regardless of rather the date shows up or not. I can go to the theater by myself, I can geocach all by myself and I can go to dinner by myself. Who know, I might meet somebody terrific and it's saves me the trouble of having to ditch my date to take off with ...


6 Comments, 210 Views, 44 Votes
Stircrazy1965 50 M
8  Articles
Practicing Safe Internet Behavior   3/13/2006

This is a modified exerpt from a recent reply I sent to another member here and feel it necessary to post it here for all to read for thier personal safety. (nickname of who it is addressed to has been removed obiviously for safety issues).
{I really appreciate your boldness in showing your contact number, but I respect you for the woman that you are and wish to know you better thru ...


3 Comments, 199 Views, 27 Votes ,5.45 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
seven days of Inspiration   3/1/2006

Day one---find something that gives you joy, and it will make you beatiful. Day two---lrt your heart decide, it knows you best. Day three-you will touch somein a positve way soon Day four--Hope is stronger than Fear Day five--remember this always--you are a rare jewel that should be treated with dignity. Daysix----give yourself a pat on your back, and reach for your dreams Day ...


5 Comments, 80 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score
MatureMWC_NC 89,1982 C
1  Article
safe sex for older couples?   2/27/2006

We are a mature couple who have only recently begun exploring re-entry into the lifestyle after many years out of it. Kinda looking to spice up our golden years, you might say. STDs are equal opportunity problems, no matter what the age although a lot of geezers seem to feel that at their age -- "what the hell?" Condoms are a turnoff to a lot of people in the lifestyle and admitedly, ...


3 Comments, 218 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Everything you need to know about Air Brakes and Truckers   2/21/2006

What are the three braking systems? The service brake and parking brake and emergency system. <br> What is used to make the brakes work? Compressed air. <br> What does the air compressor do? Pumps air into the air storage tanks. <br> <br> What does the air compressor governor control? It controls how the compressor will pump air into the air ...


2 Comments, 122 Views, 43 Votes
LittlePossum 78 F
2  Articles
why lie   2/19/2006

If you are writing a Profile why Lie about yourself and give false information...You either have to be a very good lier and remember what you have said or you are just plain stupid because eventually you are found out......A lot of men lie about their ages as do women I guess what for to catch some one......mmmm very interesting


6 Comments, 161 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
snowonroof20062 82 M
1  Article
Dating/General safety   2/10/2006

Dating/general safety <br> Men take notice too. A woman can shoot you as readily as a man. Also there are more than a few women who can whip you without a weapon. Don’t try to be “Macho”. <br> Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable with the way things are headed, run like hell. <br> When you are comfortable enough to meet for ...


3 Comments, 87 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
online dating   12/15/2005

Have been discussing this "online dating" business with many people since I started to get involved with SFF. And have wondered why so many parents were talking about it, because they have teenagers at home.I didn't figure it could be as bad as what they made it out to be. As I skip thru the different sites checking to see what each one was about, I came across a man and 2 woman engaged in ...


2 Comments, 141 Views, 16 Votes ,6.36 Score
drcuddle61 63 M
3  Articles
How soon to French kiss?   12/11/2005

I enjoy the intimacy of French kissing. I think next to the French Fry and the Eiffel Tower is ranks in the top 3 of things we got from the European country. <br> The main question is how soon and how much tongue to use. I generally kiss open mouth anytime after the first date but I allow my partner to initiate any tongue action. Different people tolerate different amounts and ...


10 Comments, 274 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
communication   12/8/2005

When first meeting someone new, I strongly feel that one will know what type of a person you have just met, if they communicate well with you right from the start. One might not know, or care if the other doesn't communicate well. Thats up to each individual, but to communicate right off the bat, is essential. Lots of items are involved in a good and strong relationship. To find a new ...


10 Comments, 149 Views, 13 Votes ,6.33 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
too much too soon   11/24/2005

I like to put my cards on the table right from the start. I believe if you both do that, each will know what you are looking for, and you can go from there.ask each other questions what you want to know about the other. If the other don't feel comfortable about doing that, its more than likely a good idea to stop right there, and look for someone else to talk to. things to discuss are what ...


6 Comments, 137 Views, 15 Votes ,6.19 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Screening out the Frogs   9/11/2005

I do believe that internet dating is the way of the future. The Internet has allowed me to keep in contact with friends across the country that I could have lost cantact with years ago. I have made many wonderful friends. When my was in the Persian Gulf, I was able to contact him. When a or loved one is at the warfront, any kind of message however brief is comforting. I have had ...


2 Comments, 165 Views, 44 Votes
sweet_delicious1 65 F
2  Articles
No Means No   9/3/2005

A guy who briefly chats with a girl in a chat room seems "normal" if there's such a word, so the gal takes the chance and gives him her personal instant messenger sn and now every time she logs on he wants to chat nonstop. She loves to chat, but the topic of sex is contantly on this guy's mind, and she has repeatedly responded, "NO Thanks" many times, but he just doesn't get it, I guess her ...


4 Comments, 201 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
LadyH 72 F
4  Articles
Meeting people - one on one - personally   8/19/2005

I have been a member of SFF for quite some time and have met many people in person all over the world: males as well as well as females. I have attended 3 bashes in the US (I am from Europe) and going to such a gathering in order to meet people in my opinion is safe. It would be different when meeting a single person, woman meeting gentlemen. I have always trusted my intuition and up to ...


6 Comments, 546 Views, 67 Votes ,7.29 Score
kels00 61 F
9  Articles
*** Stay Safe ALWAYS ***   7/22/2005

This is mostly for ladies always stay safe under any cicumstances..always meet in a public place, drive yourself or get someone to drive you.... always tell someone were you are going, always have a cell phone even if you have to borrow one, with an emergency number of someone you can contact. using 3 capital AAA in your cell phone that way always comes up first so you dont panic trying to ...


9 Comments, 204 Views, 31 Votes ,6.79 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
There's some funny people out there   5/29/2005

When I was a I used to go camping quite a lot. My mother always used to say, 'now you be careful. You know what I mean? There's some funny people out there.' Well I never met any 'funny people out there'. But there again, perhaps they thought I was 'funny'. Everyone is someone else's weirdo. Nowadays you can, shop, bank and get credit online. But if anything is wrong you can always ...


3 Comments, 432 Views, 40 Votes ,5.15 Score