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french kissing while wearing a mask. 5/5/2020
I need to go read the Paris reports on Lovers lane the
eifel tower.
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It is important. 4/24/2012
Dating is an important aspect of life. If you will not date
we will not be able to meet the human beings and more importantly
the most natural desire sex will never be fulfilled so it
is an important aspect of life. But choosing the right partner
is another essential here. You should make sure that your
partner is of any disease free and have no allergies or whatsoever.
I hope you all have a ...
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Exposing the Dating Scam Scum 2/10/2010
So you got an email from a seemingly great guy. He's
really cute, seems like he might be a good match and he's
dying to know all about you. What an ego boost! Or is it?
In the last two weeks I have been contacted by no less than
six dating scammers. That's right, there are scammers
everywhere and we all need to be on the lookout for these
despicable creeps. SFF is not immune to the ...
2 Comments, 57 Views,
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Wine or coffee 1/22/2010
Most guys go for the coffee shop first date as it is easy to
slip away.
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scammers 10/30/2006
you know its a shame when the sharks of the internet try to
take advantage of those who for one reason or other are taken
in by a smooth talking scam artist. I for one am sick and tired
of them trying their tricks on me just because they see I
am self employed and have a few extra pounds on me. I hae a
friend who is in pretty much the same predictament and knows
of others as well that have ...
5 Comments, 103 Views,
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How Much Is Too Much? 9/8/2006
I received an e-mail from a total stranger telling me
that I had given TOO MUCH informtation in my profile and
that didn't I know that Perverts would be attracted
to it??
Well, now what do you do about this question? One of the first
things I do, if I see an attractive man, is read his profile
to see how "honest" he is and what makes him tick.
I believe in ...
5 Comments, 218 Views,
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when is it right #2 8/28/2006
Some people want you to meet them immediately after you
are first connected to them on here.
Some people do meet and become intimate immediately with
one another. Then talk about the future later. Which approach
would you take?
2 Comments, 79 Views,
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Instinct 8/18/2006
When you meet somone for the first time, rather its online
or for coffee, use your own judgement, about this person.
Ask questions, make a joke out of everything you can think
of, and watch their response.If they laugh, and find it
funny(even though it might not be)
ask them to describe their personality, and what things
make them happy. If they go along with you with jokes, and
they ...
2 Comments, 79 Views,
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Fooling wo? 8/4/2006
When we are asked to post a p[icture-wouldn't that
mean a picture of us NOW- not taken 20 years ago. We all usually
fill out a little, or our features tend to change over the
years--so does our looks-generally- which means that
when we are 20 we look young, at 45 we might of put on a few pounds,
grew a facial hair, cut our hair shorter, what have you.
Then when we become OLDER like say ...
4 Comments, 92 Views,
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Do a back ground check..... 7/23/2006
I found out being in SFF for three years, if
a person man/women is the true blue person they say they
are will not get upset with you if you do a back ground check
on them. I talked to this man from SFF for three years and
he began to concern me. I did a search on him and back ground
check on him and he never has spoken to me again since I told
him. I ask him if he lived on such and ...
3 Comments, 138 Views,
17 Votes
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Biker !!! 7/20/2006
What do you think a real Biker is ?
Give your tought...
Rock
1 Comments, 61 Views,
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Any way to verify? 7/20/2006
Is there a way to verify someone you are talking to on SFF
and through email is the person they say they are? It worries
me. In this day of stolen identity it's very hard to
be assured. Doing a background check is over the top so does
anyone have a way they verify a person's true identity?Men are from Mar's and Women are from Venus...
2 Comments, 56 Views,
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Where to meet 6/27/2006
Meet for the first time in public place. Nowhere noisy but
safe.
2 Comments, 65 Views,
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Dealing with On-Line Bullies 5/26/2006
On-Line Bullies is an occupational hazard of the cyberworld.
There are some who can bully behind an anonymous profile.
When dealing with an on-line bully, it is important to NOT to respond, interact and engage with the
bully. This is not easy but it is doable.
The bully will attack with name-calling
and slander. The first ...
4 Comments, 245 Views,
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Stood Up 3/14/2006
It used to be very upsetting when I was stood up for a date
but now it doesn't upset me at all. I have a great time
on my date regardless of rather the date shows up or not.
I can go to the theater by myself, I can geocach all by myself
and I can go to dinner by myself. Who know, I might meet somebody
terrific and it's saves me the trouble of having to
ditch my date to take off with ...
6 Comments, 210 Views,
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Practicing Safe Internet Behavior 3/13/2006
This is a modified exerpt from a recent reply I sent to another
member here and feel it necessary to post it here for all
to read for thier personal safety. (nickname of who it is
addressed to has been removed obiviously for safety issues).
{I really appreciate your boldness in showing your contact
number, but I respect you for the woman that you are and wish
to know you better thru ...
3 Comments, 199 Views,
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seven days of Inspiration 3/1/2006
Day one---find something that gives you joy, and it will
make you beatiful.
Day two---lrt your heart decide, it knows you best.
Day three-you will touch somein a positve way soon
Day four--Hope is stronger than Fear
Day five--remember this always--you are a rare jewel that
should be treated with dignity.
Daysix----give yourself a pat on your back, and reach for
your dreams
Day ...
5 Comments, 80 Views,
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safe sex for older couples? 2/27/2006
We are a mature couple who have only recently begun exploring
re-entry into the lifestyle after many years out of it.
Kinda looking to spice up our golden years, you might say.
STDs are equal opportunity problems, no matter what the
age although a lot of geezers seem to feel that at their age
-- "what the hell?" Condoms are a turnoff to
a lot of people in the lifestyle and admitedly, ...
3 Comments, 218 Views,
13 Votes
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Everything you need to know about Air Brakes and Truckers 2/21/2006
What are the three braking systems?
The service brake and parking brake and emergency system.
<br>
What is used to make the brakes work?
Compressed air.
<br>
What does the air compressor do?
Pumps air into the air storage tanks.
<br>
<br>
What does the air compressor governor control?
It controls how the compressor will pump air into the air ...
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why lie 2/19/2006
If you are writing a Profile why Lie about yourself and give
false information...You either have to be a very good lier
and remember what you have said or you are just plain stupid
because eventually you are found out......A lot of men
lie about their ages as do women I guess what for to catch
some one......mmmm very interesting
6 Comments, 161 Views,
13 Votes
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Dating/General safety 2/10/2006
Dating/general safety
<br>
Men take notice too. A woman can shoot you as readily as a
man. Also there are more than a few women who can whip you
without a weapon. Don’t try to be “Macho”.
<br>
Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable
with the way things are headed, run like hell.
<br>
When you are comfortable enough to meet for ...
3 Comments, 87 Views,
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online dating 12/15/2005
Have been discussing this "online dating"
business with many people since I started to get involved
with SFF. And have wondered why so many parents were talking
about it, because they have teenagers at home.I didn't
figure it could be as bad as what they made it out to be. As
I skip thru the different sites checking to see what each
one was about, I came across a man and 2 woman engaged in ...
2 Comments, 141 Views,
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How soon to French kiss? 12/11/2005
I enjoy the intimacy of French kissing. I think next to the
French Fry and the Eiffel Tower is ranks in the top 3 of things
we got from the European country.
<br>
The main question is how soon and how much tongue to use.
I generally kiss open mouth anytime after the first date
but I allow my partner to initiate any tongue action. Different
people tolerate different amounts and ...
10 Comments, 274 Views,
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communication 12/8/2005
When first meeting someone new, I strongly feel that one
will know what type of a person you have just met, if they
communicate well with you right from the start. One might
not know, or care if the other doesn't communicate
well. Thats up to each individual, but to communicate right
off the bat, is essential. Lots of items are involved in
a good and strong relationship. To find a new ...
10 Comments, 149 Views,
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too much too soon 11/24/2005
I like to put my cards on the table right from the start. I
believe if you both do that, each will know what you are looking
for, and you can go from there.ask each other questions
what you want to know about the other. If the other don't
feel comfortable about doing that, its more than likely
a good idea to stop right there, and look for someone else
to talk to. things to discuss are what ...
6 Comments, 137 Views,
15 Votes
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Screening out the Frogs 9/11/2005
I do believe that internet dating is the way of the future.
The Internet has allowed me to keep in contact with friends
across the country that I could have lost cantact with years
ago. I have made many wonderful friends. When my was
in the Persian Gulf, I was able to contact him. When a
or loved one is at the warfront, any kind of message however
brief is comforting. I have had ...
2 Comments, 165 Views,
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No Means No 9/3/2005
A guy who briefly chats with a girl in a chat room seems "normal"
if there's such a word, so the gal takes the chance and
gives him her personal instant messenger sn and now every
time she logs on he wants to chat nonstop. She loves to chat,
but the topic of sex is contantly on this guy's mind,
and she has repeatedly responded, "NO Thanks"
many times, but he just doesn't get it, I guess her ...
4 Comments, 201 Views,
20 Votes
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Meeting people - one on one - personally 8/19/2005
I have been a member of SFF for quite some time and have met
many people in person all over the world: males as well as
well as females. I have attended 3 bashes in the US (I am from
Europe) and going to such a gathering in order to meet people
in my opinion is safe.
It would be different when meeting a single person, woman
meeting gentlemen. I have always trusted my intuition
and up to ...
6 Comments, 546 Views,
67 Votes
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*** Stay Safe ALWAYS *** 7/22/2005
This is mostly for ladies always stay safe under any cicumstances..always
meet in a public place, drive yourself or get someone to
drive you.... always tell someone were you are going, always
have a cell phone even if you have to borrow one, with an emergency
number of someone you can contact. using 3 capital AAA in
your cell phone that way always comes up first so you dont
panic trying to ...
9 Comments, 204 Views,
31 Votes
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There's some funny people out there 5/29/2005
When I was a I used to go camping quite a lot. My mother
always used to say, 'now you be careful. You know what
I mean? There's some funny people out there.'
Well I never met any 'funny people out there'.
But there again, perhaps they thought I was 'funny'.
Everyone is someone else's weirdo.
Nowadays you can, shop, bank and get credit online. But
if anything is wrong you can always ...
3 Comments, 432 Views,
40 Votes
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How far has life changed? 5/28/2005
I feel we are in a world that has changed in a wrong way. It
seems years ago dating safety would have only meant being
careful if you became active that no were brought into
the world. I never had to worry of it as I was not going there
anyway.
<br>
Now we talk of sickos and people who wish to harm or take anothers
life...We many times think of our .. OK grandchildren
I ...
3 Comments, 169 Views,
16 Votes
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Dating Safely On Line For Ladies 5/2/2005
Ladies, I know how excited we all get when we see someone
on line and want so badly to get to know all about them.
<br>
I have friends who tell me how scary it is for them to do the
on-line dating thing. It isn't any more scary than
meeting someone in a bar, or through a friend, etc. The question
I get often is "What do you talk about, how do you get
to know them, where do you ...
2 Comments, 654 Views,
59 Votes
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Those Red Flags! 3/20/2005
I recently ended a cyber relationship, not from SSF, because
the man in question wanted to come to town to visit me much
too soon, after only one phone call, and assumed he would
be invited to my home. He made sexual innuendoes which went
beyond flirtatious, wanted to know if I would ever want
to go out with friends instead of being with my partner,
and almost seemed to be planning our ...
3 Comments, 317 Views,
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STD's 3/17/2005
Hello, I use condoms on every sexual occasion but not sure
how to protect myself when performing oral on a lady. Any
thoughts or ways that are easy to implement?
5 Comments, 458 Views,
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STALKERS, The complete article? 2/23/2005
STALKERS
When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay
repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and
asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that
listing is non-published." That admission in itself
gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out
there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you
are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.)
I found ...
0 Comments, 149 Views,
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STALKERS 2/22/2005
STALKERS
<<When you have an "unlisted" number,
you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information
and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that
listing is non-published." That admission in itself
gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out
there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you
are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.)
...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
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Black Belt Approved, STOP , LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU- 2/9/2005
$1 SELL ONLY. PTF - Protect The Family Political Party MTBSW*
60% of incarcerated for ! 1/3 females,
1/7 males !
NO THERAPY RUINS ’S LIVES!!
Black Belt Approved STOP ! LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU.
An attacker grabs your arm, QUICKLY twist it towards his
thumb, while using your ARM against his THUMB. Strong attackers ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
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Thinning The Herd? 12/24/2004
I was giving this 'dating safety' thing some thought
last evening. A question kept nagging me like an ex who didn't
find what she wanted with the lawn care guy.
<br>
<br>
Has humanity been dumbed down so much it cannot exercise
the rudiments of common sense in enjoying some of the inherent
risks and mysteries of romance?
<br>
<br>
I really don't have a ...
0 Comments, 204 Views,
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be safe 12/22/2004
It is important when meeting someone 4 the first time that
you dont give out tooo much personal information be safe
instead of sorry.
It is also A good idea too not go to your dates home on the first
date.Most important tip be yourself be honest and sincere.
1 Comments, 190 Views,
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It CAN happen to YOU!! 12/21/2004
It does not matter if you are female or male....nor does
it matter where you are located....you really can be the
victim....I was. Granted it was a matter of trusting too
soon......even if you think you really know the person
quite well...the rules they have posted on here ARE good
ones indeed and following them might mean saving your life.
It can happen to a man just as easily as to a ...
2 Comments, 411 Views,
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Safety tips women should know & practice 11/20/2004
Don't Be A Crime Victim!
I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it
and pass it on to all your female friends, ,
<br>
<br>
<br>
Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and
it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone,
who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah
Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for ...
0 Comments, 146 Views,
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Safety & Survival Signals for Women 11/20/2004
The Gift of Fear
<br>
and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence
<br>
By Gavin de Becker
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<br>
<br>
The following is taken from pages 210-212.
<br>
There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated
with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be
present in every case, but if a situation has ...
0 Comments, 95 Views,
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Fostering Obsession with online courtship 11/6/2004
There are arguements presented that it is "safe"
to spend the time to get to know the other person with extensive
email, chats and phone conversations first. I'm not
sold this is correct, or safe.
<br>
There are equal arguements that a very early meeting the
other person "safely" in a very public place,
so that you can not be followed back to your home or work,
may avoid ...
0 Comments, 142 Views,
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You think you connect...then what...is he/she real? 8/21/2004
This is really a dilemna in today's world. So many people
try to pass as someone they aren't for various reasons.
Some are in bad marriages and want a fling. Some have agendas
more attached to financial issues. It doesn't matter
what the ultimate reason...what matters is our own security.
Obviously all of us know that not posting a picture is a flag.
There are good reasons for no ...
1 Comments, 78 Views,
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Ref HappyTrail35 7/9/2004
I understand what you are saying about safety and should
you take a cab and keep your car hidden. It seems to me like
you are really paranoid (only my opinion) about meeting
someone for the first time. In these times maybe that's
not a bad thing but I really do think you are carrying this
a little too far.
<br>
For the most part the man/woman you meet will be just as cautious ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
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Better safe than sorry 6/13/2004
Putting your best foot forward on a first date is usually
done. However, in the case of SFF members, perhaps it is
safer to walk as if your feet are walking on egg shells. Taking
it slow, steady and playing it out always is the best method
to develop a relationship. No one shows their frailities
until you know them for awhile. I wish you all peace.
0 Comments, 43 Views,
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Forget the coffee shops indeed!!! 5/20/2004
Most of the old English mystery shows portrayed the villian
in some dark, foggy park....lurking in search of his next
unsuspecting lady. Common sense tells us that a well- it,
populated shop would be far safer than an isolated area
where one is neither sure of the escape route nor sure of
whom she is meeting. Better safe than sorry.
0 Comments, 47 Views,
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Why are there so few unattached men on SFF? 3/28/2004
After reading through dozens of matches of Cupid's
SFF, I have thought that my request not to be paired with
MARRIED MEN is being ignored. Perhaps there are not enough
single men on the site to give the volume necessary to maintain
the interest of the women. My theory is "better quality
over quantity" Please refine the Cupid's software
to match with the single preferences together.
...
1 Comments, 58 Views,
119 Votes
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personal security. 3/22/2004
if done carefully, an internet search for a companion can
be quite safe, enjoyable and a very wonderful experience
in your life.
<br>
there are some simple little things to avoid if you wish
to keep personal information secure until you decide the
other person is worth seeing/communicating with.
first:NEVER reveal more than your first name. if you reveal
a city ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
69 Votes
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Be the tortoise, not the hare 3/20/2004
Experienced uses of chat and internet dating have learned,
albeit with some mishaps, the importance of being patient,
and not rushing into something. Giving out your personal
email, phone number, address to someone you have just met
will only endanger, not enhance your meeting with the stranger.
If there is truly something positive to develop between
two people, maybe we should all tread ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
37 Votes
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Alice in Wonderland 3/20/2004
Why do some men seem like the rabbit in "Alice in Wonderland"?
They are in such a hurry to meet, that they never inquire
as to distance of travel, or even to get to know you before
offering to meet in person. Several emails and phone conversations
provide an excellent opportunity for both parties to hear
things that they might like or dislike. Also, men should
realize that women do not ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
31 Votes
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Let's meet 3/18/2004
That pitter patter of the heart on first talking to someone
who seems interesting. The first conversation is so easy.
That second phone call and you are hearing some disturbing
things. Then the person says " why won't you meet
me in a public place at least" The answer is; if you
cannot engage in several conversations to see if there
are mutual interests, etc., then what is the purpose ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
122 Votes
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Be sensible and you will be safe. 8/17/2003
There is a lot of unnecessary concern over safety on the
net as if its that much different to real life. We take precautions
in reality and we need to take precautions on the net.
If you don't put your details on the net for anyone to
find, you will be able to surf the net without feeling exposed.
There are rules for being safe in real life and they apply
just the same here...you should ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
61 Votes
,5.36 Score |