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hard7in 79 M
1  Article
french kissing while wearing a mask.   5/5/2020

I need to go read the Paris reports on Lovers lane the eifel tower.


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daddyesboy 39 M
4  Articles
It is important.   4/24/2012

Dating is an important aspect of life. If you will not date we will not be able to meet the human beings and more importantly the most natural desire sex will never be fulfilled so it is an important aspect of life. But choosing the right partner is another essential here. You should make sure that your partner is of any disease free and have no allergies or whatsoever. I hope you all have a ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ohzippity 68 F
1  Article
Exposing the Dating Scam Scum   2/10/2010

So you got an email from a seemingly great guy. He's really cute, seems like he might be a good match and he's dying to know all about you. What an ego boost! Or is it?

In the last two weeks I have been contacted by no less than six dating scammers. That's right, there are scammers everywhere and we all need to be on the lookout for these despicable creeps. SFF is not immune to the ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
luvtotalk2 75 M
4  Articles
Wine or coffee   1/22/2010

Most guys go for the coffee shop first date as it is easy to slip away.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
kykaren1121 60 F
1  Article
scammers   10/30/2006

you know its a shame when the sharks of the internet try to take advantage of those who for one reason or other are taken in by a smooth talking scam artist. I for one am sick and tired of them trying their tricks on me just because they see I am self employed and have a few extra pounds on me. I hae a friend who is in pretty much the same predictament and knows of others as well that have ...


5 Comments, 103 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
BarbieRocks 78 F
2  Articles
How Much Is Too Much?   9/8/2006

I received an e-mail from a total stranger telling me that I had given TOO MUCH informtation in my profile and that didn't I know that Perverts would be attracted to it??
Well, now what do you do about this question? One of the first things I do, if I see an attractive man, is read his profile to see how "honest" he is and what makes him tick.
I believe in ...


5 Comments, 218 Views, 24 Votes ,5.17 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
when is it right #2   8/28/2006

Some people want you to meet them immediately after you are first connected to them on here. Some people do meet and become intimate immediately with one another. Then talk about the future later. Which approach would you take?


2 Comments, 79 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
Instinct   8/18/2006

When you meet somone for the first time, rather its online or for coffee, use your own judgement, about this person. Ask questions, make a joke out of everything you can think of, and watch their response.If they laugh, and find it funny(even though it might not be) ask them to describe their personality, and what things make them happy. If they go along with you with jokes, and they ...


2 Comments, 79 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
Fooling wo?   8/4/2006

When we are asked to post a p[icture-wouldn't that mean a picture of us NOW- not taken 20 years ago. We all usually fill out a little, or our features tend to change over the years--so does our looks-generally- which means that when we are 20 we look young, at 45 we might of put on a few pounds, grew a facial hair, cut our hair shorter, what have you. Then when we become OLDER like say ...


4 Comments, 92 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
bigblueeyes3996 75 F
2  Articles
Do a back ground check.....   7/23/2006

I found out being in SFF for three years, if a person man/women is the true blue person they say they are will not get upset with you if you do a back ground check on them. I talked to this man from SFF for three years and he began to concern me. I did a search on him and back ground check on him and he never has spoken to me again since I told him. I ask him if he lived on such and ...


3 Comments, 138 Views, 17 Votes ,6.10 Score
RockNRideBC 67 M
9  Articles
Biker !!!   7/20/2006

What do you think a real Biker is ?
Give your tought...
Rock


1 Comments, 61 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
seraphim73157 66 F
1  Article
Any way to verify?   7/20/2006

Is there a way to verify someone you are talking to on SFF and through email is the person they say they are? It worries me. In this day of stolen identity it's very hard to be assured. Doing a background check is over the top so does anyone have a way they verify a person's true identity?Men are from Mar's and Women are from Venus...


2 Comments, 56 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
Cum2MasterDave 65 M
5  Articles
Where to meet   6/27/2006

Meet for the first time in public place. Nowhere noisy but safe.


2 Comments, 65 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
starwomyn 70 F
6  Articles
Dealing with On-Line Bullies   5/26/2006

On-Line Bullies is an occupational hazard of the cyberworld. There are some who can bully behind an anonymous profile.
When dealing with an on-line bully, it is important to NOT to respond, interact and engage with the bully. This is not easy but it is doable.
The bully will attack with name-calling and slander. The first ...


4 Comments, 245 Views, 42 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Stood Up   3/14/2006

It used to be very upsetting when I was stood up for a date but now it doesn't upset me at all. I have a great time on my date regardless of rather the date shows up or not. I can go to the theater by myself, I can geocach all by myself and I can go to dinner by myself. Who know, I might meet somebody terrific and it's saves me the trouble of having to ditch my date to take off with ...


6 Comments, 210 Views, 44 Votes
Stircrazy1965 50 M
8  Articles
Practicing Safe Internet Behavior   3/13/2006

This is a modified exerpt from a recent reply I sent to another member here and feel it necessary to post it here for all to read for thier personal safety. (nickname of who it is addressed to has been removed obiviously for safety issues).
{I really appreciate your boldness in showing your contact number, but I respect you for the woman that you are and wish to know you better thru ...


3 Comments, 199 Views, 27 Votes ,5.45 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
seven days of Inspiration   3/1/2006

Day one---find something that gives you joy, and it will make you beatiful. Day two---lrt your heart decide, it knows you best. Day three-you will touch somein a positve way soon Day four--Hope is stronger than Fear Day five--remember this always--you are a rare jewel that should be treated with dignity. Daysix----give yourself a pat on your back, and reach for your dreams Day ...


5 Comments, 80 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score
MatureMWC_NC 89,1982 C
1  Article
safe sex for older couples?   2/27/2006

We are a mature couple who have only recently begun exploring re-entry into the lifestyle after many years out of it. Kinda looking to spice up our golden years, you might say. STDs are equal opportunity problems, no matter what the age although a lot of geezers seem to feel that at their age -- "what the hell?" Condoms are a turnoff to a lot of people in the lifestyle and admitedly, ...


3 Comments, 218 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Everything you need to know about Air Brakes and Truckers   2/21/2006

What are the three braking systems? The service brake and parking brake and emergency system. <br> What is used to make the brakes work? Compressed air. <br> What does the air compressor do? Pumps air into the air storage tanks. <br> <br> What does the air compressor governor control? It controls how the compressor will pump air into the air ...


2 Comments, 122 Views, 43 Votes
LittlePossum 78 F
2  Articles
why lie   2/19/2006

If you are writing a Profile why Lie about yourself and give false information...You either have to be a very good lier and remember what you have said or you are just plain stupid because eventually you are found out......A lot of men lie about their ages as do women I guess what for to catch some one......mmmm very interesting


6 Comments, 161 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
snowonroof20062 82 M
1  Article
Dating/General safety   2/10/2006

Dating/general safety <br> Men take notice too. A woman can shoot you as readily as a man. Also there are more than a few women who can whip you without a weapon. Don’t try to be “Macho”. <br> Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable with the way things are headed, run like hell. <br> When you are comfortable enough to meet for ...


3 Comments, 87 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
online dating   12/15/2005

Have been discussing this "online dating" business with many people since I started to get involved with SFF. And have wondered why so many parents were talking about it, because they have teenagers at home.I didn't figure it could be as bad as what they made it out to be. As I skip thru the different sites checking to see what each one was about, I came across a man and 2 woman engaged in ...


2 Comments, 141 Views, 16 Votes ,6.36 Score
drcuddle61 63 M
3  Articles
How soon to French kiss?   12/11/2005

I enjoy the intimacy of French kissing. I think next to the French Fry and the Eiffel Tower is ranks in the top 3 of things we got from the European country. <br> The main question is how soon and how much tongue to use. I generally kiss open mouth anytime after the first date but I allow my partner to initiate any tongue action. Different people tolerate different amounts and ...


10 Comments, 274 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
communication   12/8/2005

When first meeting someone new, I strongly feel that one will know what type of a person you have just met, if they communicate well with you right from the start. One might not know, or care if the other doesn't communicate well. Thats up to each individual, but to communicate right off the bat, is essential. Lots of items are involved in a good and strong relationship. To find a new ...


10 Comments, 149 Views, 13 Votes ,6.33 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
too much too soon   11/24/2005

I like to put my cards on the table right from the start. I believe if you both do that, each will know what you are looking for, and you can go from there.ask each other questions what you want to know about the other. If the other don't feel comfortable about doing that, its more than likely a good idea to stop right there, and look for someone else to talk to. things to discuss are what ...


6 Comments, 137 Views, 15 Votes ,6.19 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Screening out the Frogs   9/11/2005

I do believe that internet dating is the way of the future. The Internet has allowed me to keep in contact with friends across the country that I could have lost cantact with years ago. I have made many wonderful friends. When my was in the Persian Gulf, I was able to contact him. When a or loved one is at the warfront, any kind of message however brief is comforting. I have had ...


2 Comments, 165 Views, 44 Votes
sweet_delicious1 65 F
2  Articles
No Means No   9/3/2005

A guy who briefly chats with a girl in a chat room seems "normal" if there's such a word, so the gal takes the chance and gives him her personal instant messenger sn and now every time she logs on he wants to chat nonstop. She loves to chat, but the topic of sex is contantly on this guy's mind, and she has repeatedly responded, "NO Thanks" many times, but he just doesn't get it, I guess her ...


4 Comments, 201 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
LadyH 72 F
4  Articles
Meeting people - one on one - personally   8/19/2005

I have been a member of SFF for quite some time and have met many people in person all over the world: males as well as well as females. I have attended 3 bashes in the US (I am from Europe) and going to such a gathering in order to meet people in my opinion is safe. It would be different when meeting a single person, woman meeting gentlemen. I have always trusted my intuition and up to ...


6 Comments, 546 Views, 67 Votes ,7.29 Score
kels00 61 F
9  Articles
*** Stay Safe ALWAYS ***   7/22/2005

This is mostly for ladies always stay safe under any cicumstances..always meet in a public place, drive yourself or get someone to drive you.... always tell someone were you are going, always have a cell phone even if you have to borrow one, with an emergency number of someone you can contact. using 3 capital AAA in your cell phone that way always comes up first so you dont panic trying to ...


9 Comments, 204 Views, 31 Votes ,6.79 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
There's some funny people out there   5/29/2005

When I was a I used to go camping quite a lot. My mother always used to say, 'now you be careful. You know what I mean? There's some funny people out there.' Well I never met any 'funny people out there'. But there again, perhaps they thought I was 'funny'. Everyone is someone else's weirdo. Nowadays you can, shop, bank and get credit online. But if anything is wrong you can always ...


3 Comments, 432 Views, 40 Votes ,5.15 Score
ruggedntenderaty 75 M
7  Articles
How far has life changed?   5/28/2005

I feel we are in a world that has changed in a wrong way. It seems years ago dating safety would have only meant being careful if you became active that no were brought into the world. I never had to worry of it as I was not going there anyway. <br> Now we talk of sickos and people who wish to harm or take anothers life...We many times think of our .. OK grandchildren I ...


3 Comments, 169 Views, 16 Votes ,4.89 Score
Madisgrandma 70 F
8  Articles
Dating Safely On Line For Ladies   5/2/2005

Ladies, I know how excited we all get when we see someone on line and want so badly to get to know all about them. <br> I have friends who tell me how scary it is for them to do the on-line dating thing. It isn't any more scary than meeting someone in a bar, or through a friend, etc. The question I get often is "What do you talk about, how do you get to know them, where do you ...


2 Comments, 654 Views, 59 Votes ,6.24 Score
Finelady4u 77 F
3  Articles
Those Red Flags!   3/20/2005

I recently ended a cyber relationship, not from SSF, because the man in question wanted to come to town to visit me much too soon, after only one phone call, and assumed he would be invited to my home. He made sexual innuendoes which went beyond flirtatious, wanted to know if I would ever want to go out with friends instead of being with my partner, and almost seemed to be planning our ...


3 Comments, 317 Views, 30 Votes ,3.93 Score
MatureLadyWanted 50 M
9  Articles
STD's   3/17/2005

Hello, I use condoms on every sexual occasion but not sure how to protect myself when performing oral on a lady. Any thoughts or ways that are easy to implement?


5 Comments, 458 Views, 23 Votes ,2.19 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
STALKERS, The complete article?   2/23/2005

STALKERS When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that listing is non-published." That admission in itself gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.) I found ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
STALKERS   2/22/2005

STALKERS <<When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that listing is non-published." That admission in itself gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.) ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Black Belt Approved, STOP , LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU-   2/9/2005

$1 SELL ONLY. PTF - Protect The Family Political Party MTBSW* 60% of incarcerated for ! 1/3 females, 1/7 males ! NO THERAPY RUINS ’S LIVES!! Black Belt Approved STOP ! LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU. An attacker grabs your arm, QUICKLY twist it towards his thumb, while using your ARM against his THUMB. Strong attackers ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
Adventrimax 73 M
18  Articles
Thinning The Herd?   12/24/2004

I was giving this 'dating safety' thing some thought last evening. A question kept nagging me like an ex who didn't find what she wanted with the lawn care guy. <br> <br> Has humanity been dumbed down so much it cannot exercise the rudiments of common sense in enjoying some of the inherent risks and mysteries of romance? <br> <br> I really don't have a ...


0 Comments, 204 Views, 23 Votes ,4.65 Score
easyrider4 68 M
1  Article
be safe   12/22/2004

It is important when meeting someone 4 the first time that you dont give out tooo much personal information be safe instead of sorry. It is also A good idea too not go to your dates home on the first date.Most important tip be yourself be honest and sincere.


1 Comments, 190 Views, 17 Votes ,4.54 Score
JoyHopeLove 69 F
2  Articles
It CAN happen to YOU!!   12/21/2004

It does not matter if you are female or male....nor does it matter where you are located....you really can be the victim....I was. Granted it was a matter of trusting too soon......even if you think you really know the person quite well...the rules they have posted on here ARE good ones indeed and following them might mean saving your life. It can happen to a man just as easily as to a ...


2 Comments, 411 Views, 43 Votes ,7.62 Score
Goodsoul51 72 M
20  Articles
Safety tips women should know & practice   11/20/2004

Don't Be A Crime Victim! I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it and pass it on to all your female friends, , <br> <br> <br> Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone, who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 26 Votes ,6.58 Score
Goodsoul51 72 M
20  Articles
Safety & Survival Signals for Women   11/20/2004

The Gift of Fear <br> and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence <br> By Gavin de Becker <br> <br> <br> The following is taken from pages 210-212. <br> There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be present in every case, but if a situation has ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
mwm_with_kids 72 M
4  Articles
Fostering Obsession with online courtship   11/6/2004

There are arguements presented that it is "safe" to spend the time to get to know the other person with extensive email, chats and phone conversations first. I'm not sold this is correct, or safe. <br> There are equal arguements that a very early meeting the other person "safely" in a very public place, so that you can not be followed back to your home or work, may avoid ...


0 Comments, 142 Views, 31 Votes ,7.65 Score
womaninthemoon 73 F
5  Articles
You think you connect...then what...is he/she real?   8/21/2004

This is really a dilemna in today's world. So many people try to pass as someone they aren't for various reasons. Some are in bad marriages and want a fling. Some have agendas more attached to financial issues. It doesn't matter what the ultimate reason...what matters is our own security. Obviously all of us know that not posting a picture is a flag. There are good reasons for no ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 31 Votes ,7.36 Score
thebat2O 69 F
1  Article
Ref HappyTrail35   7/9/2004

I understand what you are saying about safety and should you take a cab and keep your car hidden. It seems to me like you are really paranoid (only my opinion) about meeting someone for the first time. In these times maybe that's not a bad thing but I really do think you are carrying this a little too far. <br> For the most part the man/woman you meet will be just as cautious ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 25 Votes ,4.02 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
Better safe than sorry   6/13/2004

Putting your best foot forward on a first date is usually done. However, in the case of SFF members, perhaps it is safer to walk as if your feet are walking on egg shells. Taking it slow, steady and playing it out always is the best method to develop a relationship. No one shows their frailities until you know them for awhile. I wish you all peace.


0 Comments, 43 Views, 28 Votes ,5.40 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
Forget the coffee shops indeed!!!   5/20/2004

Most of the old English mystery shows portrayed the villian in some dark, foggy park....lurking in search of his next unsuspecting lady. Common sense tells us that a well- it, populated shop would be far safer than an isolated area where one is neither sure of the escape route nor sure of whom she is meeting. Better safe than sorry.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 34 Votes ,2.88 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
Why are there so few unattached men on SFF?   3/28/2004

After reading through dozens of matches of Cupid's SFF, I have thought that my request not to be paired with MARRIED MEN is being ignored. Perhaps there are not enough single men on the site to give the volume necessary to maintain the interest of the women. My theory is "better quality over quantity" Please refine the Cupid's software to match with the single preferences together. ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 119 Votes ,6.38 Score
birdreader 76 M
1  Article
personal security.   3/22/2004

if done carefully, an internet search for a companion can be quite safe, enjoyable and a very wonderful experience in your life. <br> there are some simple little things to avoid if you wish to keep personal information secure until you decide the other person is worth seeing/communicating with. first:NEVER reveal more than your first name. if you reveal a city ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 69 Votes ,5.21 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
Be the tortoise, not the hare   3/20/2004

Experienced uses of chat and internet dating have learned, albeit with some mishaps, the importance of being patient, and not rushing into something. Giving out your personal email, phone number, address to someone you have just met will only endanger, not enhance your meeting with the stranger. If there is truly something positive to develop between two people, maybe we should all tread ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 37 Votes ,7.72 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
Alice in Wonderland   3/20/2004

Why do some men seem like the rabbit in "Alice in Wonderland"? They are in such a hurry to meet, that they never inquire as to distance of travel, or even to get to know you before offering to meet in person. Several emails and phone conversations provide an excellent opportunity for both parties to hear things that they might like or dislike. Also, men should realize that women do not ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 31 Votes ,5.64 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
Let's meet   3/18/2004

That pitter patter of the heart on first talking to someone who seems interesting. The first conversation is so easy. That second phone call and you are hearing some disturbing things. Then the person says " why won't you meet me in a public place at least" The answer is; if you cannot engage in several conversations to see if there are mutual interests, etc., then what is the purpose ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 122 Votes ,0.85 Score
LadyM 73 F
6  Articles
Be sensible and you will be safe.   8/17/2003

There is a lot of unnecessary concern over safety on the net as if its that much different to real life. We take precautions in reality and we need to take precautions on the net. If you don't put your details on the net for anyone to find, you will be able to surf the net without feeling exposed. There are rules for being safe in real life and they apply just the same here...you should ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 61 Votes ,5.36 Score