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Member Articles on Dating Safety

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raju1936, 69 M

7/3/2009 12:59 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Gays/Lesbians
It appears bout 125 countries have removed all restrictions imposed by law of those land regarding two persons relationship classified as Gay or Lesbians. In India interest groups have been fighting ...
0    2    0    0.00    7/3/2009 12:59 am   

coby03, 68 F

3/15/2009 3:27 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
To be wise is for your own protection
some think that to say no for a proposal from the opposite sex might bring them no dates at all. This, the vast marjority knows, is far from being the truth. To refuse a date from someone you are ...
1    14    2    3.81    3/15/2009 3:27 pm   

John50, 65 M

1/12/2009 4:51 pm
39 Articles, Score 0.0
Be Safe
Unfortunately there are a lot of dangerous people around. Some of them are predators, who like to prey on vulnerable, lonely people.

Please accept the good advice offered by our site, and ...
0    8    2    3.81    1/12/2009 4:51 pm   

Wilddflower3, 61 F

5/20/2008 7:04 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Too soon.....
I have come ascross a few men who don't really want to email back and forth a few times on SFF. Instead, the offer their personal email and phone number which is blocked uusually. If it does happen ...
0    13    1    5.00    5/20/2008 7:04 pm   

GoodManRon, 64 M

5/27/2007 4:16 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
This Is How It Is
The Man chases the Woman until the Woman catches the Man. Women have always been in control of the relationship even before it begins and I think this is great. ...If the Woman tells the Man too ...
3    98    15    2.06    5/27/2007 4:16 am   

GreatSmile4U, 66 F

2/18/2007 8:05 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
How do you go about a background check & how much is it?
Ok, so you have met someone a few times ~ or maybe just met online, chat, & phone calls.
By then, I have "goo g l e d" and cross-checked address/phone numbers and checked the s e x offender ...
13    168    91    2.50    2/18/2007 8:05 pm   

terryaki, 55 M

1/30/2007 7:00 am
10 Articles, Score 0.0
How to play it safe?
Here are some dating safety tips that I have heard. The first thing, to do, is the background check. On a first date, you want to meet at a public location. It is a good idea to have a friend ...
4    53    44    3.01    1/30/2007 7:00 am   

dvoted2master, 59 C

12/15/2006 5:08 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
LOOKING OUT FOR NUMBER ONE
I've been around the bdsm community for a number of years and have had my fair share of meeting new people for potential play/relationship consideration. Over time I’ve put together my own ...
4    107    11    5.60    12/15/2006 5:08 am   

ladymel2006, 47 F

11/28/2006 4:41 pm
7 Articles, Score 0.0
dating with the men in aff.
i need to know them and find for my better judgement who they are...but good people for me will be remembered as a blessing, but the wicked will soon be forgotten.i feel and i know that if men ...
4    69    9    3.21    11/28/2006 4:41 pm   

582817, 51 F

11/1/2006 10:38 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
He has to know.
I worked as a garegiver, caring for a tetraplegic client. Well he was a client back then, today he is a dear friend. The internet is his life, with lady friends around the globe. He introduced me ...
5    89    23    2.78    11/1/2006 10:38 pm   

kykaren1121, 46 F

10/30/2006 10:25 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
scammers
you know its a shame when the sharks of the internet try to take advantage of those who for one reason or other are taken in by a smooth talking scam artist. I for one am sick and tired of them ...
7    96    32    3.80    10/30/2006 10:25 am   

artsmile, 41 F

10/6/2006 3:37 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
leave message to your family or good friend
When anyone to have a date from net friend, who should ask the new net friend to offer his/her contact reference and you can first check the reference accuratance before leaving those reference to ...
3    36    15    2.52    10/6/2006 3:37 pm   

BarbieRocks, 64 F

9/8/2006 2:16 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
How Much Is Too Much?
I received an e-mail from a total stranger telling me that I had given TOO MUCH informtation in my profile and that didn't I know that Perverts would be attracted to it??
Well, now ...
13    214    95    3.22    9/8/2006 2:16 pm   

kidcurry8, 54 M

8/31/2006 8:29 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
safe sex
Do you make a guy wear a condom on the first date only or all the ...
20    216    129    2.43    8/31/2006 8:29 am   

coby77, 68 F

8/28/2006 5:21 pm
16 Articles, Score 0.0
when is it right #2
Some people want you to meet them immediately after you are first connected to them on here. Some people do meet and become intimate immediately with one another. Then talk about the future ...
5    78    14    3.14    8/28/2006 5:21 pm   

TheHag, 62 F

8/27/2006 12:00 pm
25 Articles, Score 0.0
JUST DO IT!
We have some fine gentlemen here at SFF, and I sincerely thank God for each of them. WHEN DATING IN GENERAL, HOWEVER, I must always be aware that I now live in a world with values far different ...
6    106    18    3.53    8/27/2006 12:00 pm   

coby77, 68 F

8/18/2006 11:59 pm
16 Articles, Score 0.0
Instinct
When you meet somone for the first time, rather its online or for coffee, use your own judgement, about this person. Ask questions, make a joke out of everything you can think of, and watch their ...
4    78    20    4.15    8/18/2006 11:59 pm   

coby77, 68 F

8/4/2006 2:56 pm
16 Articles, Score 0.0
Fooling wo?
When we are asked to post a p[icture-wouldn't that mean a picture of us NOW- not taken 20 years ago. We all usually fill out a little, or our features tend to change over the years--so does our ...
6    91    29    2.84    8/4/2006 2:56 pm   

bigblueeyes3996, 61 F

7/23/2006 6:29 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Do a back ground check.....
I found out being in SFF for three years, if a person man/women is the true blue person they say they are will not get upset with you if you do a back ground check on them. I talked to this man ...
6    136    27    5.24    7/23/2006 6:29 am   

RockNRideBC, 53 M

7/20/2006 8:10 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Biker !!!
What do you think a real Biker is ?
Give your tought...
...
6    61    10    2.99    7/20/2006 8:10 pm   

seraphim73157, 52 F

7/20/2006 6:41 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Any way to verify?
Is there a way to verify someone you are talking to on SFF and through email is the person they say they are? It worries me. In this day of stolen identity it's very hard to be assured. Doing a ...
2    54    11    2.98    7/20/2006 6:41 am   

BurningFire4Life, 49 F

7/15/2006 11:47 pm
116 Articles, Score 0.0
2FACE REALITY IS : 2B-F-2-F
YOU’LL NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO GET WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE NEW UNTIL YOU'RE FACE TO FACE AND SPEND TIME HANGING OUT. SO IF YOU LOVE ART, THEATER, TRAVEL, WINE, COOKING, MOVIES, GOING OUT, ...
2    64    13    4.49    7/15/2006 11:47 pm   

Stillwatertoo, 62 M

7/3/2006 12:36 pm
58 Articles, Score 0.0
WHEN I MET SYCAMARIA FOR THE FIRST TIME
When you first meet somebody you have known only in cyber you should take precautions. People who you chat with are not always who they portray theirselves to be. Of course some are, but not all ...
5    125    33    5.26    7/3/2006 12:36 pm   

Cum2MasterDave, 47 M

6/27/2006 9:26 pm
5 Articles, Score 0.0
Where to meet
Meet for the first time in public place. Nowhere noisy but ...
4    65    15    2.52    6/27/2006 9:26 pm   

dreame4ever, 35 M

6/24/2006 8:55 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Things to do
Make sure that the Phone number of the person u r to date is correct Make the first date in a public place Bring the date to your place or u visit their place only after knowing them Never ...
3    62    9    4.92    6/24/2006 8:55 am   

BurningFire4Life, 49 F

6/10/2006 9:45 pm
116 Articles, Score 0.0
Meeting Someone On A Bad Light
There are men you may just catch on a bad night and just aren’t very good company. Everyone is bound to have a bad night.
However, there are people on the dating scene that are quite ...
10    109    35    4.30    6/10/2006 9:45 pm   

starwomyn, 56 F

5/26/2006 1:58 pm
6 Articles, Score 0.0
Dealing with On-Line Bullies
On-Line Bullies is an occupational hazard of the cyberworld. There are some who can bully behind an anonymous profile.
When dealing with an on-line bully, it is important to [COLOR ...
8    220    71    0.00    5/26/2006 1:58 pm   

cuddly2005, 46 F

5/19/2006 12:50 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Take care
For the gals: No matter how many times you talk to a guy through e-mails and stuff, you cannot trust him when you meet face to face. Writing nice things about ourselves and that we have always ...
6    96    17    4.68    5/19/2006 12:50 pm   

Britett, 70 F

5/4/2006 12:48 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
RE:I know it is such a little thing but ----!!!
Is there a list that I could put some ones name on for being an ignoramus??For if there isn't I feel there should be.Today on IM I saw the name of a man (Elderflower2)living in the same place I ...
15    192    56    3.95    5/4/2006 12:48 pm   

StarGazerWomyn, 56 F

3/14/2006 1:09 pm
139 Articles, Score 0.0
Stood Up
It used to be very upsetting when I was stood up for a date but now it doesn't upset me at all. I have a great time on my date regardless of rather the date shows up or not. I can go to the ...
8    205    101    0.00    3/14/2006 1:09 pm   

Stircrazy1965, 44 M

3/13/2006 3:37 am
8 Articles, Score 0.0
Practicing Safe Internet Behavior
This is a modified exerpt from a recent reply I sent to another member here and feel it necessary to post it here for all to read for thier personal safety. (nickname of who it is addressed to ...
7    198    45    4.04    3/13/2006 3:37 am   

coby7777, 68 F

3/1/2006 7:42 pm
80 Articles, Score 0.0
seven days of Inspiration
Day one---find something that gives you joy, and it will make you beatiful. Day two---lrt your heart decide, it knows you best. Day three-you will touch somein a positve way soon Day ...
7    80    22    4.57    3/1/2006 7:42 pm   

MatureMWC_NC, 74 C

2/27/2006 1:59 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
safe sex for older couples?
We are a mature couple who have only recently begun exploring re-entry into the lifestyle after many years out of it. Kinda looking to spice up our golden years, you might say. STDs are equal ...
6    206    23    4.41    2/27/2006 1:59 pm   

StarGazerWomyn, 56 F

2/21/2006 9:05 pm
139 Articles, Score 0.0
Everything you need to know about Air Brakes and Truckers
What are the three braking systems? The service brake and parking brake and emergency system. <br> What is used to make the brakes work? Compressed air. <br> What does ...
3    122    52    0.00    2/21/2006 9:05 pm   

LittlePossum, 64 F

2/19/2006 2:44 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
why lie
If you are writing a Profile why Lie about yourself and give false information...You either have to be a very good lier and remember what you have said or you are just plain stupid because ...
15    158    47    2.81    2/19/2006 2:44 am   

snowonroof20062, 67 M

2/10/2006 11:10 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Dating/General safety
Dating/general safety <br> Men take notice too. A woman can shoot you as readily as a man. Also there are more than a few women who can whip you without a weapon. Don’t try to be “Macho”. ...
5    83    17    4.68    2/10/2006 11:10 pm   

coby7777, 68 F

12/15/2005 2:08 am
80 Articles, Score 0.0
online dating
Have been discussing this "online dating" business with many people since I started to get involved with SFF. And have wondered why so many parents were talking about it, because they have ...
5    141    23    5.46    12/15/2005 2:08 am   

drcuddle61, 48 M

12/11/2005 4:47 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
How soon to French kiss?
I enjoy the intimacy of French kissing. I think next to the French Fry and the Eiffel Tower is ranks in the top 3 of things we got from the European country. <br> The main question is ...
14    273    63    3.10    12/11/2005 4:47 pm   

coby7777, 68 F

12/8/2005 1:50 pm
80 Articles, Score 0.0
communication
When first meeting someone new, I strongly feel that one will know what type of a person you have just met, if they communicate well with you right from the start. One might not know, or care if ...
12    149    33    4.71    12/8/2005 1:50 pm   

coby7777, 68 F

11/24/2005 5:46 pm
80 Articles, Score 0.0
too much too soon
I like to put my cards on the table right from the start. I believe if you both do that, each will know what you are looking for, and you can go from there.ask each other questions what you want ...
11    137    28    5.09    11/24/2005 5:46 pm   

Parisdreamer10, 63 F

10/15/2005 9:27 am
14 Articles, Score 0.0
I Almost Got CYBER Raped !
People keep talking about the Chat rooms. How people meet and some have even found their spouses there. So every now and then, I have been popping in there. Not much to report there. ...
13    370    68    4.17    10/15/2005 9:27 am   

StarGazerWomyn, 56 F

9/11/2005 7:50 pm
139 Articles, Score 0.0
Screening out the Frogs
I do believe that internet dating is the way of the future. The Internet has allowed me to keep in contact with friends across the country that I could have lost cantact with years ago. I have ...
6    164    53    0.00    9/11/2005 7:50 pm   

sweet_delicious1, 51 F

9/3/2005 7:12 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
No Means No
A guy who briefly chats with a girl in a chat room seems "normal" if there's such a word, so the gal takes the chance and gives him her personal instant messenger sn and now every time she logs on ...
9    197    34    4.32    9/3/2005 7:12 pm   

blithespirit, 63 M

8/23/2005 10:46 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
sensible meeting
Who has not had a real date in 16 years !! That sure is safe. Your life is what you make it. You have made a choice which seems to be working for you, that is fine with us guys. The standard ...
3    114    13    2.98    8/23/2005 10:46 pm   

LadyH, 63 F

8/19/2005 7:01 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Meeting people - one on one - personally
I have been a member of SFF for quite some time and have met many people in person all over the world: males as well as well as females. I have attended 3 bashes in the US (I am from Europe) and ...
18    525    123    3.91    8/19/2005 7:01 am   

Parisdreamer10, 63 F

8/17/2005 10:37 am
14 Articles, Score 0.0
When do you give your real ......
I have had someone view my profile and send me an e-mail on SFF site. The first thing he did was to give me his Yahoo e-mail address. Then, He wanted my handle to IM. Actually, I have had this ...
15    341    66    2.26    8/17/2005 10:37 am   

Parisdreamer10, 63 F

8/7/2005 9:42 pm
14 Articles, Score 0.0
A little off subject, but...speaking of dating...
I have been watching " Hooking UP" a new series on ABC Thurs. nights 8:00PM Central Standard Time. It is about single women who are meeting men on Dating Sites on the Internet and it follows them ...
3    123    10    2.99    8/7/2005 9:42 pm   

brairrose0001,

8/6/2005 6:29 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Is it safe to respond to profiles without photos???
As it seem to be more profiles in searches for men posted in the MD area without photos , how safe is it to respond??? They can send a photo and a profile but with out a posted photo it will be ...
15    239    48    3.44    8/6/2005 6:29 pm   

kels00, 47 F

7/22/2005 4:16 pm
9 Articles, Score 0.0
*** Stay Safe ALWAYS ***
This is mostly for ladies always stay safe under any cicumstances..always meet in a public place, drive yourself or get someone to drive you.... always tell someone were you are going, always have ...
13    203    63    5.18    7/22/2005 4:16 pm   

richard6029, 58 M

5/29/2005 3:57 pm
28 Articles, Score 0.0
There's some funny people out there
When I was a teenager I used to go camping quite a lot. My mother always used to say, 'now you be careful. You know what I mean? There's some funny people out there.' Well I never met any 'funny ...
6    432    47    4.85    5/29/2005 3:57 pm   

ruggedntenderaty, 61 M

5/28/2005 7:54 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
How far has life changed?
I feel we are in a world that has changed in a wrong way. It seems years ago dating safety would have only meant being careful if you became active that no kids were brought into the world. I ...
8    169    40    3.08    5/28/2005 7:54 am   

Madisgrandma, 56 F

5/2/2005 3:57 pm
8 Articles, Score 0.0
Dating Safely On Line For Ladies
Ladies, I know how excited we all get when we see someone on line and want so badly to get to know all about them. <br> I have friends who tell me how scary it is for them to do the ...
14    653    80    5.18    5/2/2005 3:57 pm   

Finelady4u, 63 F

3/20/2005 3:12 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Those Red Flags!
I recently ended a cyber relationship, not from SSF, because the man in question wanted to come to town to visit me much too soon, after only one phone call, and assumed he would be invited to my ...
10    314    45    3.01    3/20/2005 3:12 pm   

MatureLadyWanted, 36 M

3/17/2005 6:12 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
STD's
Hello, I use condoms on every sexual occasion but not sure how to protect myself when performing oral on a lady. Any thoughts or ways that are easy to ...
14    457    67    1.65    3/17/2005 6:12 am   

gentlewar, 61 M

2/23/2005 7:12 am
22 Articles, Score 0.0
STALKERS, The complete article?
STALKERS When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that listing is non-published." That ...
2    149    12    3.15    2/23/2005 7:12 am   

gentlewar, 61 M

2/22/2005 11:11 pm
22 Articles, Score 0.0
STALKERS
STALKERS <<When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that listing is ...
1    84    4    4.02    2/22/2005 11:11 pm   

gentlewar, 61 M

2/9/2005 10:15 pm
22 Articles, Score 0.0
Black Belt Approved, STOP RAPE, LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU-
$1 SELL ONLY. PTF - Protect The Family Political Party MTBSW* 60% of rapists incarcerated for child rape! 1/3 females, 1/7 males raped! NO THERAPY RUINS KID’S ...
1    73    8    3.48    2/9/2005 10:15 pm   

John50, 65 M

1/18/2005 12:00 am
39 Articles, Score 0.0
Being safe.
Everyone want to feel safe when dating someone new. Yhis applies to both females and males. WE should all be careful about giving out too many particulars until we get to know the other person. ...
6    187    33    3.51    1/18/2005 12:00 am   

Adventrimax, 59 M

12/24/2004 12:00 am
18 Articles, Score 0.0
Thinning The Herd?
I was giving this 'dating safety' thing some thought last evening. A question kept nagging me like an ex who didn't find what she wanted with the lawn care guy. <br> <br> Has ...
4    204    27    4.50    12/24/2004 12:00 am   

easyrider4, 54 M

12/22/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
be safe
It is important when meeting someone 4 the first time that you dont give out tooo much personal information be safe instead of sorry. It is also A good idea too not go to your dates home on the ...
6    188    32    4.08    12/22/2004 12:00 am   

JoyHopeLove, 55 F

12/21/2004 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
It CAN happen to YOU!!
It does not matter if you are female or male....nor does it matter where you are located....you really can be the victim....I was. Granted it was a matter of trusting too soon......even if you ...
6    409    62    5.88    12/21/2004 12:00 am   

Jo_hei, 59 F

12/7/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
No man hunting / keine Männerjagd
Ich dachte diese Seite hier ist aufgebaut um nette Leute zu treffen. Menschen in meinem Alter, die über ein Gespräch sich näher kommen, sich verstehen, Freude und Leid miteinander teilen können. ...
6    127    18    1.90    12/7/2004 12:00 am   

Babbalouie, 48 M

12/6/2004 12:00 am
45 Articles, Score 0.0
Daddy, how was I born?
Well, you see your Mom and I first got together in a chat room on MSN. <br> Then I set up a date via e-mail with your Mom and we met at a cyber-cafe. We sneaked into a secluded room, ...
3    115    27    5.45    12/6/2004 12:00 am   

margiesue, 56 F

11/23/2004 12:00 am
427 Articles, Score 0.0
Automobile Safety and Assualts on Women
Recently in Colorado there has been a rash of assualts on women who do not lock their car doors when entering or leaving. I received this in my email today. It is a good precaution for all of us. ...
4    97    31    4.10    11/23/2004 12:00 am   

Goodsoul51, 58 M

11/20/2004 12:00 am
20 Articles, Score 0.0
Safety tips women should know & practice
Don't Be A Crime Victim! I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it and pass it on to all your female friends, , <br> <br> <br> Some time ago, I ...
2    146    28    6.42    11/20/2004 12:00 am   

Goodsoul51, 58 M

11/20/2004 12:00 am
20 Articles, Score 0.0
Safety & Survival Signals for Women
The Gift of Fear <br> and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence <br> By Gavin de Becker <br> <br> <br> The following is taken ...
1    95    19    6.42    11/20/2004 12:00 am   

mwm_with_kids, 58 M

11/6/2004 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Fostering Obsession with online courtship
There are arguements presented that it is "safe" to spend the time to get to know the other person with extensive email, chats and phone conversations first. I'm not sold this is correct, or safe. ...
4    141    37    6.79    11/6/2004 12:00 am   

margiesue, 56 F

11/5/2004 12:00 am
427 Articles, Score 0.0
Online Dating
Recently I found ths article about meeting people online and dating. has some good advice. <br> Show Patience You may be anxious to start a new relationship but that doesn't mean you ...
0    82    21    5.60    11/5/2004 12:00 am   

margiesue, 56 F

10/27/2004 12:00 am
427 Articles, Score 0.0
Why shuld I give you my phone number?
It is just a thought, but why should I give you my phone number? I don't know you. My telephone is a private thing. your calling me without me knowing you is an invasion of my privacy. Why ...
5    103    28    3.96    10/27/2004 12:00 am   

Ratormo, 33 M

9/1/2004 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
young man/older woman
I am a youngman and I am interested to date older women. Call it a fetish, but I really think that older women has a lot to offer compare to younger women. Here's a few : 1. OLDER WOMEN MORE ...
8    261    66    1.52    9/1/2004 12:00 am   

womaninthemoon, 59 F

8/21/2004 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
You think you connect...then what...is he/she real?
This is really a dilemna in today's world. So many people try to pass as someone they aren't for various reasons. Some are in bad marriages and want a fling. Some have agendas more attached to ...
2    78    32    7.27    8/21/2004 12:00 am   

theclassyblonde, 65 F

8/11/2004 12:00 am
6 Articles, Score 0.0
Reply to Dating Safety Tips
While I understand the reasoning about being suspicious if someone will only give you their cell phone number, not a home number and that they could be hiding something at home, as a mate, etc. - ...
4    70    35    7.20    8/11/2004 12:00 am   

theclassyblonde, 65 F

8/11/2004 12:00 am
6 Articles, Score 0.0
Reply - Small dinner party
The problem that I see with hosting a small dinner party, which I presume would be in your home in order to meet the new person with the safety of others around, is that the person whom you have ...
3    89    28    7.14    8/11/2004 12:00 am   

justBetsy, 57 F

8/8/2004 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
Younger men/older women
There are a lot of different reasons why a younger man might want to date an older woman--not ALL of them are bad. Take your pick: -woman looks/acts younger than the man (that's happened to me) ...
2    97    35    6.67    8/8/2004 12:00 am   

thebat2O, 54 F

7/9/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Ref HappyTrail35
I understand what you are saying about safety and should you take a cab and keep your car hidden. It seems to me like you are really paranoid (only my opinion) about meeting someone for the first ...
1    48    27    3.98    7/9/2004 12:00 am   

watchers999999, 55 C

7/6/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Fake emails to hide country of origin
I have discovered that email addresses ending with aussiemail.com.au are fake......and those using them are not necessarily from australia those are generic global email addresses and are ...
1    50    140    0.00    7/6/2004 12:00 am   

bklynblueeyes19, 59 F

6/13/2004 12:00 am
31 Articles, Score 0.0
Better safe than sorry
Putting your best foot forward on a first date is usually done. However, in the case of SFF members, perhaps it is safer to walk as if your feet are walking on egg shells. Taking it slow, steady ...
0    43    28    5.40    6/13/2004 12:00 am   

fluffyclouds,

5/29/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
JUMPING IN BED JUST BECAUSE YOU DATE SOMEONE?
SINCE WHEN DOES A WOMAN HAVE JUMP IN BED WITH SOME GUY JUST BECAUSE U ARE DATING HIM. THAT IN MY BOOK IS A NO NO AND THEY CAN LIKE IT OR LEAVE IT, I AM WHO I AM AND STAND FIRM IN WHAT I BELEIVE ...
2    85    107    4.34    5/29/2004 12:00 am   

ShadofNY, 63 M

5/28/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Meeting place
The 21st century equivalent of the coffee shop meeting spot is, I suggest, the food court in a mall. It's very public setting of course so you have to be creative in making sure both parties can ...
0    46    72    3.43    5/28/2004 12:00 am   

bklynblueeyes19, 59 F

5/20/2004 12:00 am
31 Articles, Score 0.0
Forget the coffee shops indeed!!!
Most of the old English mystery shows portrayed the villian in some dark, foggy park....lurking in search of his next unsuspecting lady. Common sense tells us that a well- it, populated shop ...
1    46    35    2.89    5/20/2004 12:00 am   

jonnybgood, 54 M

5/2/2004 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Forget the coffee shops
Everyone meets at them.Don, t be so paranoid and just go to a public park in the middle of the day.Nobody but police officers have the ability to trace your license plate number, and that is ...
3    67    49    0.50    5/2/2004 12:00 am   

HappyTrails35, 74 F

4/28/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
My license plate is visible, even if we meet in public.
I have been chatting with someone for awhile and have decided to meet. Should I rent a car? Travel by bus? Taxi? It is really easy to trace a license plate. <br> What is considered to ...
3    76    205    0.00    4/28/2004 12:00 am   

IHaveBeenHiding, 61 F

3/31/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
dial star 67 to block phone IDs
When you decide to make phone contact for the first time remember by dialing “star 67” before dialing your phone number you block your name from the caller ID. I prefer to keep as much as I can ...
3    156    109    1.81    3/31/2004 12:00 am   

bklynblueeyes19, 59 F

3/28/2004 12:00 am
31 Articles, Score 0.0
Why are there so few unattached men on SFF?
After reading through dozens of matches of Cupid's SFF, I have thought that my request not to be paired with MARRIED MEN is being ignored. Perhaps there are not enough single men on the site to ...
3    58    120    6.35    3/28/2004 12:00 am   

birdreader, 62 M

3/22/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
personal security.
if done carefully, an internet search for a companion can be quite safe, enjoyable and a very wonderful experience in your life. <br> there are some simple little things to avoid ...
2    67    70    5.18    3/22/2004 12:00 am   

bklynblueeyes19, 59 F

3/20/2004 12:00 am
31 Articles, Score 0.0
Be the tortoise, not the hare
Experienced uses of chat and internet dating have learned, albeit with some mishaps, the importance of being patient, and not rushing into something. Giving out your personal email, phone number, ...
1    24    38    7.64    3/20/2004 12:00 am   

bklynblueeyes19, 59 F

3/20/2004 12:00 am
31 Articles, Score 0.0
Alice in Wonderland
Why do some men seem like the rabbit in "Alice in Wonderland"? They are in such a hurry to meet, that they never inquire as to distance of travel, or even to get to know you before offering to ...
1    35    32    5.58    3/20/2004 12:00 am   

bklynblueeyes19, 59 F

3/18/2004 12:00 am
31 Articles, Score 0.0
Let's meet
That pitter patter of the heart on first talking to someone who seems interesting. The first conversation is so easy. That second phone call and you are hearing some disturbing things. Then the ...
1    41    124    0.83    3/18/2004 12:00 am   

kathythered, 57 F

2/4/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Be Wise Be Cautious
Ladies, let the men know you are a cautious person and you will feel safe about meeting them if you chat online for awhile to try to get to know them. If a man is not understanding of your ...
0    22    56    6.32    2/4/2004 12:00 am   

aprairieflower, 66 F

10/11/2003 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Drive yourself!
I think the safey tips are very good but I would like to add another. Please, ladies, don't depend on your blind date to meet you and drive you anywhere! Getting into a vehicle with a stranger ...
1    78    79    9.32    10/11/2003 12:00 am   

jacal25,

9/7/2003 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Dating Safety Tips
After reading the dating safety article posted on 4/11 which had some excellent tips, I wanted to add several things you can do to determine if a person is being honest and/or to keep yourself ...
0    26    64    8.66    9/7/2003 12:00 am   

LadyM, 59 F

8/17/2003 12:00 am
6 Articles, Score 0.0
Be sensible and you will be safe.
There is a lot of unnecessary concern over safety on the net as if its that much different to real life. We take precautions in reality and we need to take precautions on the net. If you don't ...
2    48    63    5.29    8/17/2003 12:00 am   

TallNTender, 63 F

8/17/2003 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Blind Mailbox
I too have had some strange experiences with this online dating thing. One guy cyberstalked me for a time. So I made up a fake name, and got myself a hotmail box with that name, and that's what I ...
3    56    110    2.65    8/17/2003 12:00 am   

sunnymikkel66,

7/13/2003 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
A guys perspective
All of the articles in this category are absolutely correct. If the man that you are exchanging emails with is in a hurry, then he probably isn’t for you. A true gentleman will always think first ...
0    41    81    9.17    7/13/2003 12:00 am   

LerieP, 56 F

4/11/2003 12:00 am
13 Articles, Score 0.0
Safe online dating at SeniorFriendFinder (and other online places)
Online personals and dating are a great way to make new friends, companions and even find romance, but it is important to approach them with safety as your first priority. (This is why your access ...
1    36    137    9.23    4/11/2003 12:00 am   

honeybee_1, 75 F

3/27/2003 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
how can I contact a person 0 miles away?
I know SFF prefers to keep this safe but I can't seem to contact even a person in my home town. I suspect my e-mail is being blanked out when I decide to give it. Am I using this service wrong or ...
2    67    104    4.75    3/27/2003 12:00 am   

bamboocake,

8/1/2002 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
always be yourself on your first date
always be yourself on your first date. on my first date i wanted to impress him ever so badly. i went for shopping and bought a tight outfit . which really was`nt me . if i wanted to be myself i ...
2    30    162    7.86    8/1/2002 12:00 am