Meeting Someone New 2/11/2013|
Just wanting opinions on this. It is bothering me.
I have started emailing with a man that lives fairly close
to me. I haven't talked to him on the phone, just emailed.
I have a rule that, unless a man gives me his home phone number,
I won't meet him. I feel that is the best way to see if
he is married.
This man, refuses to do this. He says he lives with his daughter
and she would ...
46 Comments, 567 Views,
Survey for the gals (same one) 10/11/2006|
Do you prefer your guy with or without pubic hair?
How do you prefer it ladies?
On this scale:
Very good= pubic hair trimmed
Excellent= cleanly shaven
42 Comments, 708 Views,
Inter-racial Dating - 2004 18/6/2006|
A recent article in Essence magazine is entitled "The
Color of Love" and talks about cross-cultural dating.
It interviews 3 Black women who are dating or have dated
To me, it appears that dating outside of one's race
or culture isn't an issue in the younger generation.
I'm curious - what do SFF members honestly feel about
interracial dating? What are advantages ...
41 Comments, 530 Views,
ANY THREE PEOPLE ... 14/8/2010|
If you could have any three people as guests at dinner (now
living or from any time in history), whom would you invite
(Will add my own current picks when this has been up a day
or two. They change from time to time. Luv & Laughter!
40 Comments, 384 Views,
DOORS-why does it seem so important? 13/11/2008|
I don't get it. Maybe because I'm a girl. I really
Why does it seem so important to men for them to open doors
for us. This can go on for years, even if you marry. I have
heard all the "reasons" for this, but still,
why? I would rather my date concentrate on learning my name,
smiling at me, listening to an answer to his question. Rushing
to open doors for me is like using a ...
33 Comments, 286 Views,
What is big deal wih age difference. 12/11/2009|
It seems I am either way too young or too old on this site.
Women seem to think that age can be a problem. I am not talking
about a decade difference but just a couple of years in either
direction. But I believe we should enjoy the time we could
spend with others no matter what age. Or maybe its just an
easy way to reject someone.
26 Comments, 272 Views,
How many meetings does it take? 15/2/2007|
Hello, how many meetings do you think it should take to take
the relationship to an intimate level?
25 Comments, 494 Views,
From what type of personality do you prefer to choose be
your friend? is it humour? their attitude? or something
22 Comments, 187 Views,
love triangle 16/3/2008|
I read on a sign today that, to love someone is one thing,
but to be in love is another.
I have never heard this before, I find it could be a very interesting
Was wondering if there is a difference. Does anybody know??
21 Comments, 376 Views,
sensuality terms 22/10/2006|
I am really interested with all the response from the members
on my articles. I like the feedback you give to all of us.
One person that I would like to get something clarified
is from Greybeard58 if possible, I am interested in knowing
what his views are on a sensous being..sorry but I don't
know what you are referring to but would like to hear it,
and from others.
20 Comments, 159 Views,
Another response to dating out of your league. 8/8/2006|
I am a 54 year old woman who is very much in love with a 23 year
old man. We have been together for 2 years.
I provide him with nothing but my love, affection and my
body which he enjoys immensely and often as do I.
I do not "buy" him. I am on a fixed income whilst
he is an architect (just). I have no money to give him. Nothing
but myself and yet he loves me. What is so wrong with that. ...
20 Comments, 313 Views,
what do men want in a relationship 19/6/2006|
Okay men, what do you want in a relationship? I will give
my opiinion and if you feel I don't know what I am talking
about please feel free to educate me, I will look forward
to your comments.
men are the same as a women, I think, ...... they want respect,
honesty, love, which, yes, of course that includes sex,
"Greybeard" we are all brought into this world,
including the 4 legged ...
18 Comments, 1224 Views,
what do women want? 15/2/2007|
I may seem a little too young and inexperienced (but feel
free to educate me) to speak on this subject but based on
the little i know from my experiences and that of others
both young and old this question comes to mind.
they say they want honesty but when the man is honest he gets
no where.they say they want a nice guy but apparently the
nice men usually finish last.some say they want ...
16 Comments, 207 Views,
Survey for the guys 18/6/2006|
Do you prefer a shaven pussy? I must admit that this article
is virtually the same as one on another site, but I would
be interested to see what my age-group thinks..... My tastes
are very similar to the author of the original article:
I like my partner to be well groomed to being fully shaven
around her vagina for a few reasons:
1) hair retains smell(whether it be good or bad)
2) can't ...
16 Comments, 517 Views,
The Internet Dating Trap 13/3/2009|
The Internet Dating Trap
I think that there is a trap in internet dating that preventsus
from getting past the first date. This trap is called
"Expectations". In the normal process of meeting
someone we usually have little or no expectations, similar
to when we view a profile for the first time. We have little
to go on and ...
15 Comments, 520 Views,
How does one Know ? 23/12/2006|
How does one know
When it's love that is beginning to grow?
Connections are made every single day,
people glance at one another
in just such a way.
How does one know when at the beginning
everything is so fresh and new, that the
feelings are going to be tried and true?
Is it an unspoken whisper felt in ones heart?
Is that how true love gains its start?
Is it a ...
15 Comments, 230 Views,
How far is too far? 18/6/2006|
Hello, I always am worried that I am taking things too fast.
The problem is that I have a very busy life and the little
time I have to spend with playmates tempts me to kick it up
14 Comments, 317 Views,
Vocabulary of the Fair Sex 12/8/2008|
This is the word women use to end an argument when they are
right and you need to shut up.
If she is getting dressed, this is half an hour. Five minutes
is only five minutes if you have just been given 5 more minutes
to watch the game before helping around the house.
This is the calm before the storm. This means ...
13 Comments, 139 Views,
Ode to Bully and GG Article 1/9/2007|
Progress is opting to NOT read the Disagreeable article
and picking up vile, negetive Energy..........
PAGE 66 OF THE big book
A life that includes deep resentment only leads to furtility
and unhappiness. To the percise extend that we permit these,
we squander hours which might have been worth while.
When harboring such feelings, we shut ourselves off the
13 Comments, 205 Views,
Dating is a lot like cooking..........Follow the recipe 19/6/2006|
Two cups of truth and 4 tablespoons of "Well I used
1 gallon of, maybe I exaggerated just al little when I said
I was slim and trim... Actually slim and trim is someone
that I used to know....
4 ounces of, my real hair colour is blonde, brown, black,
red.... But the years have turned them to silver..... ...
12 Comments, 275 Views,
Response to Manfred about his "Survey". 13/8/2006|
When I first saw the word, survey, I thought it might be
an intelligent gathering of information that would give
insight to understanding dating.Much to my dismay, it
is an accounting of "pubic hair".Just who do
you think you are impressing with your knowledge of shaved
or unshaved "pussies", that you so freely
discuss??I laughed at the image of you with a cat.I don`t
think that your ...
11 Comments, 147 Views,
10 steps to win a man? 19/6/2006|
1 Have a well filled purse to stand your round.
2 Know all there is about football.
3 Laugh at everything.
4 Cook as well as his mother.
5 Iron his socks as well as his mother.
6 Let him have the TV control.
7 Get to like lager and curries.
8 Do not drink him under the table.
9 Do not complain when he goes out with his mates.
10 Have you still got that well filled purse?
11 Comments, 317 Views,
If there is chemistry....... 7/1/2008|
Ask yourself these questions when getting into that feeling
of liking someone. If you have a feeling that tells you"wow!
this feeling really makes me feel good. And you are alittle
bit happier, then you have got chemistry- thats the number
one most important when you first meet someone.
1. do you feel happier?
2. is there likes and dislikes alot like your own?
3.do you have fun and feel ...
10 Comments, 125 Views,
For Single Men and Women 18/9/2007|
For Single Men and Women
1.What kind of love do you hope to have when you find love?
2.How have you succeeded in developing the love you dreamed
in your daily life?
3.What are the three areas where you have not become the
loving self you dreamed of being in your love relationships?
4.What kindness, care, respect and understanding are
you aiming to ...
10 Comments, 176 Views,
Young people in our site 8/11/2011|
I wonder why there are so many young people involved with
SF.I refer to people in their forties, mostly male. Long, long ago, when I was that age, I would not dream of getting
involved in a web site which caters for senior citizens.
I would wonder about the motives of young people who are
involved. (male or female) Are some of them predators, hoping to prey on the older folk.
You read ...
9 Comments, 95 Views,
5steps on winning a woman 18/9/2007|
1. be open and honest
2.put your cards on the table
3.give her love and respect
4.dignity and honour her
5.love her like there is no tommorrow.
9 Comments, 322 Views,
Try something new 13/8/2006|
You know....I have been reading some of these comments
and really..sometimes I think people just think too much!
You meet someone..you talk and if you like each other it
goes futher. its not complicated..you either like someone
or you don't..and if not you go on to the next.
No one really knows anyone til they spend some time with
them....and if you are stuck on looks or whether they are ...
9 Comments, 184 Views,
Why the younger men prefers older women? 18/6/2006|
I think its their experience, sensuality and sapience.
I love the older women, for me its very exiting dating, and
having a nice season of very very hot sex. They are the best.
It´s not a Edipus trauma
9 Comments, 301 Views,
Getting To Know One Another 15/6/2006|
When you get the opportunity to go on a first date, remember
to take the time to get to know him/her. Find out what their
likes/dislikes are, such as food, music, movies.find
out if they like walking on the beach, especially during
the moonlight, or if they like to go dancing.basicially
let them know that you care about them as a person, not just
9 Comments, 251 Views,
The speLL checker On yOu 28/6/2009|
Take care that you never spell a word wrong. Always before
you write a word, consider how it is spelled, and, if you
do not remember, turn to a dictionary. It produces great
praise to a lady to spell well.
to his daughter Martha
8 Comments, 72 Views,
"Dating" what's that all about? 13/3/2009|
I haven't been on a date in forever. I stay at home, go
to work, walk the dogs and come back home. Who knows what
dating is like these days? To look at TV you'd think
that you were supposed to do what feels good and talk about
in detail with your girlfriends the next day. What is it
like out there for hermits who want to come out of the cave?
I just watched Oprah the other day and she had ...
8 Comments, 188 Views,
STRAWS FROM MY BALE: Sunshineokie 23/12/2006|
Three days off-work, MLK day, so I'm in here for h o u
r s...love to write and read & discuss ....everything
under the sun! Dating???!!! Ha! I'm bolder now, we
discuss ...that means BOTH of us discuss every detail.
We're gonna have a real positive experience No Matter
If Sparks Fly Or Not. Each needs to honor each others feelings.
I go for blue-jean-tennis-shoes, walk in the park, Zoo
8 Comments, 107 Views,
I say yesyou say no 23/12/2006|
had request to do a survey on lovemaking and sex. Open to
your ideas on one or both. We all have different ideas on
various tecniques for different things, rather its applies
to a relationship or not. Do you like alot of foreplay? Would
you rather just kiss up a storm? Do you usually want to just
jump into the actual sex act? Maybe you would rather have
a glass of wine, with soft music, ...
8 Comments, 172 Views,
Miss Astrochild 23/12/2006|
- - why do you put up so many articles in a
maybe if you ask mr sff he will add another
category for you "MISS ASTRO ARTICLES" - - do
you like it ?
as i'm CEO - - i'll get the staff to grant it , but
you'' have to bribe me with chocolate and cake
. lots of it. delivered in trucks ....
8 Comments, 167 Views,
do you agree? 23/12/2006|
people are quite sensitive and they say there's only
so much one can take.They say the closest people to you tend
to hurt you the most.with a man you can always see it coming.if
you are dating a man and he's drifting you will know
but deny it.with a woman apparently its different.when
they strike, you never saw it coming in most cases.they
just strike like a slap in the dark.relationships ...
8 Comments, 126 Views,
10 Steps To Properly Seduce A Woman... 18/6/2006|
1. See Her Perspective
Start by thinking from the female perspective. We all know
guys are more visually based than women. This means guys
have a tendency to see something they like and want it right
away. This may work in impulse shopping for new sneakers,
but it's a mistake when it comes to seducing a woman.
Instead of thinking of romance as a check-off, think about
how you can extend ...
8 Comments, 411 Views,
When, if ever . . . the tab 19/9/2009|
Given that both male and female are of relatively equal
economic circumstances; when, if ever, should the female
pick up the tab or reciprocate by fixing a meal. This isn't
Neverland so the extreme (excellent) is dutch treat on
the first date. Very Good is the 2nd date, Good is the 3rd
date, So-so is 4th to 10th, Don't Like is at his funeral.
7 Comments, 162 Views,
Why do some always assume men are liars 16/8/2009|
Some women tend believe that men are out right liars...
Not that we are perfect, but just to assume we are lying really
goes straight to my stomach as a deep wound...And this comes
from a person I have never talked with in person...
Yes, I have a lot of friends in my network, Yes, I chat with
all ladies in a chat room, Yes, I have a lot of fun here..and
I have met 1 person in ...
7 Comments, 82 Views,
Size matters 23/12/2006|
Size does matter..
Not in the we all think of though.And I know everyone read
this wondering just what I was going to say.
What matters is the size of ones heart, the size of their
compassion, the size of ones willingness to understand
the other person.
Take time to get to know someone and all else will be a pleasant
surprise. Learn about the persons feelings, desires,
and dreams. Not ...
7 Comments, 134 Views,
Why did Mother nature 19/6/2006|
Mother nature couldn't of known what she was doing
when she made men and women, because both sexes are so different
in nature. Men have always had these ego trips where, if
their pride is hurt, women usually know they better watch
out. Men seem to be more touchy when it comes to them, you
say the wrong thing about what they could be doing wrong,
and, oh, my gosh, , ohoh, oops! you stepped ...
6 Comments, 102 Views,
YOU KNOW YOU'RE IN LOVE WHEN... 18/6/2006|
You know you are in love when; Everything he or she does,
does not upset you. You understand everything about them.
You work together as a team without condemnation. You appreciate
everything he or she does. You like everything you see on
the outside and every- thing you feel on the inside. You
are without arguement. You communicate freely what is
in each others thoughts. You have no ...
6 Comments, 167 Views,
Getting intouch with this ones easy, now you can Call me
at Senior FriendFinder To connect live on the internet.
5 Comments, 167 Views,
The softness of your lips
caress the silk veil of my soul.
Your sweet fingers
gently hold my heart near,
Eyes of an angel
Stare down at me and let me smile...
A heart of the purest gold
melted by God to be poured
into my Soul,
An aura of gold surrounds
your omnipresent Love.
5 Comments, 115 Views,
most important 19/6/2006|
I have been doing research for many years as there is always
something more to learn. Now, I am going to research more
on relationships, because sex is so important to most men
that I don't know if they know there IS more to a relationship
then just sex. I know sex is important in a relationship,
but isn't anything else.
You can have good sex, but you can have a dirty housekeeper,
or one ...
5 Comments, 103 Views,
"The best comforters" by Billy Graham 18/6/2006|
Those who have suffered most are often able to comfort others
best. Someone who has experienced the same sort of pain
is the one who can minister best. However, to say "I
know how you feel" is usually unnecessary and frequently
unwelcome. No one knows exactly how another feels. Better
to say, "I don't know how you feel, I can't
really put myself in your shoes but this is how I was ...
5 Comments, 99 Views,
Chakra Balance Starts At the Heart 27/12/2006|
Chakras are energy fields that are found within the Aura.
When balancing the Chakras, it is best to start at the heart
Chakra. A clearing of the heart chakra will improve the
interaction of all the other centers.
There is a temptation to start at the Root Chakra and work
to the upper Chakra. The problem is that it becomes too difficult
to clear it thus chakras then the upper ...
4 Comments, 87 Views,
By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection,
which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest;
and third by experience, which is the bitterest.
Marriages - Reflection- Reading about it in a book????
Imitation - Following Good Examples????? Experience
- Screwing Up and Learning???? OH! Joy
4 Comments, 57 Views,
Response to;- Dating out of your league. 19/6/2006|
As a reader of this article I could not help but be aware of
the commments directed against younger men only. I am sure
if the writer of this article would be more open minded and
observant she would find thousands of examples of these
things happening with a sex reversal since the beginning
of time. A study of history, mythology, royal families,
famous people will verify the practice of ...
4 Comments, 150 Views,
What do I do and were? 19/6/2006|
I have never had this typ of dating befor I live alone and
I haven't gone out in the past 2 years , because of past
relateships .So now what do I do .
4 Comments, 141 Views,
What a Man's Thinking! Silence can be golden. 19/6/2006|
“Want to know what a guy’s thinking? I always ask another
guy.” said Darcy. “They know in a second, what I had no idea
I already had 460 employees, 3 companies. I am extremely
positive, friendly, an excellent conversationalist,
but I am not chatty. Silence shared can mean more than words.
4 Comments, 205 Views,
Men & Women..with private insights 19/6/2006|
If Laura, Suzanne, Debra, and Rose go out for lunch, they
will call each other Laura, Suzanne, Debra, and Rose.
If Mike, Charlie, Bob, and John go out, they will affectionately
refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla, Peanut-Head,
(That is because Mike, Charlie, Bob and John probably are
a fat boy, a big lizard, a peanut brain and belongs on a scrap
4 Comments, 184 Views,
Success and Acheiver 23/12/2006|
Success is not measured by what you accomplish
but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage
with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming
Orison Swett Marden
3 Comments, 45 Views,
The art of Conversation 13/8/2006|
I have read this article written by
Think back to someone with whom you fell in love. Do you remember
your first-date conversation? Chances are you may not
recall exactly what you talked about, but you remember
how the interaction made you feel. Then came love.
When you put your best conversational foot forward, you
boost your chances for ...
3 Comments, 163 Views,
How Does A Woman Want to be Loved? 19/6/2006|
Gentle cheer, bids you share, quiet morning. Mists, softly
lifting, just before dawn. A time for thinking, surrounded
by tranquil feelings of daybreak. Still dark, but soon.
The beauty of the sun, breathes a delicate glow, into the
night. So subtle, you don't even know, ‘til the trees,
walk into the light.
Day begins. Gentle Warrior calls your name. A magical
3 Comments, 156 Views,
Beyond the 13th Step 27/12/2006|
Step 13: examine my life story and my addiction (and
codependency) in the context of role in a patriarchal,
capitalistic system. The Issue of Soul ought not
be defined by the dicates of a clueless disfunctional society
Step 14: I use the events life brings as lessons for growth
and accept my mistakes as part of my humanness.
Very important is how not to fall ...
2 Comments, 47 Views,
This is a dating quiz test of the emergency
broadcast system . It is only a test but don't look at
her picture because it might kill you and or turn you into
stone. Would you go out with a fat cow?
Would you go out with the ugliest witch on
earth or the moon and stars ?
Would you go out with an idiot ?
Would you go out with a blackmailer ?
Would you go out with a foul mouth sow ?
Would you go out with some one that does
not have sense enough to pour piss out of a boot?
Would you like for me to go on and on about
Would you pay Adult Friend
Finder to see nude pictures of her ?
Answer : Hell no
! ! ! ! !
dating id god.......... 10/3/2011|
yes no bad................
1 Comments, 15 Views,
Great Grandfather Creator 23/12/2006|
Great Grandfather Creator
and Mother Gaea
Grant me Guidance to Discover Within
SERENITY to Accept the Things I Cannot
Change, COURAGE to Change the Things I Can, & WISDOM
to Know the Difference.
PATIENCE with the Changes that Take Time,
1 Comments, 42 Views,
Amends Step doesn't mean I'm sorry 23/12/2006|
Making a List of folks We Have Harmed & folks Who Have
Harmed Us & Take Steps
to Clear Out Negative Energy by Making Amends & Sharing
Grievances in a Respectful
Trust OUR Reality & Daily Affirm that
We See What We See, We Know What We Know & We Feel What
Promptly Acknowledge OUR Mistakes & Make Amends When
but DO NOT ...
1 Comments, 39 Views,
steps one through six 23/12/2006|
We admitted we were powerless over (alcohol, food,
co-dependency, etc.) -- that our lives had become unmanageable.
We admitted we had a problem and that we were squandering
This could be shortened to simply: Admitted
Step 2: Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves
could restore us to sanity.
Came to believe we could realign the power ...
1 Comments, 46 Views,
dealing with oppressive forces 23/12/2006|
We need to overcome the tendency towards collusion with
oppressive forces that invalidate our truth. In this patriarchal
society, this is especially true for women and minorities.
1 Comments, 75 Views,
step seven to twelve 23/12/2006|
Step 7: Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
Willingness to ask for help.ep
Step 8: Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and becoming
willing to make amends to them all.
Made a list of harm done, restore balance, clear out
Cleaned up karma.
Step 10: Continue to take personal inventory and ...
1 Comments, 33 Views,
Don't Ask Your Friends! Do What's Right! 19/6/2006
THE ROAD NOT TAKEN
TWO ROADS DIVERGED IN A WOOD
I TOOK THE ONE LESS TRAVELED BY
AND THAT HAS MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE
Paraphrased R. Frost
DIFFERENCE IS STRENGTH
Just exactly what does this mean? How can what is bad for
most, be good for individuals? Here are some examples.
The America Cup Race was 114 years old when this ...
1 Comments, 85 Views,