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Why is this man from SFF reluctant to meet me?
Hi, everyone,
This morning, I was having a chat with one of my matches from
SFF. He seemed sincere and wanted to get to know more about
me. We chatted on Yahoo IM for about an hour. We ... |
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10/26/2009 7:43 am |
John50, 65 M
12/29/2008 12:19 pm
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Changing times
In my youth, after a date, you were lucky to get a chaste kiss,
and most ladies did not have intercourse until they were
married. Now people, especially the young hop into bed, sometimes
after ... |
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12/29/2008 12:19 pm |
fn491, 50 M
7/27/2008 10:48 pm
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Protective Sex?
Why bother to participate in protective Sex in our age group?
It much more fun without same and STD is a teanage 20s concern
if at all? Skin on Skin is best and no ... |
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7/27/2008 10:48 pm |
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Best Job
What was the most enjoyable job you've had?
Mine was when I was 15. I worked in the toy department of a
large store with the cutest blonde whose family owned a
jewelry store.
The ... |
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0.98 |
5/7/2008 4:20 am |
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Meeting For First Time CAN be FUN!
Through this site I made a new friend recently, he lives
in CT, and is a sales rep. for a national company and was scheduled
for a meeting in a town about fifty miles away from where
I live. He ... |
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4/25/2008 1:59 pm |
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The Yankee and the Cowboy
Don't let the title fool you. This
story is true and it's about me, a little yankee girl
from New England, who went to a little southern Baptist
college in Corpus Christi, TX in the ... |
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1.90 |
8/20/2007 12:21 am |
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A Light Snack
I only popped in to the superstore to grab a can of drink and
a snack. After driving around most of the day I was tired
and hungry. I grabbed a couple of drinks from the aisle,
they were on offer so ... |
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4.81 |
7/30/2007 10:39 am |
jorja2, 59 F
6/24/2007 4:47 pm
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meeting
IAM MEETING SOMEONE FROM SFF IN JULY, WE MET ON HERE IN MARCH
OF THIS YEAR, SINCE THEN WE HAVE BEEN WRITEING LETTERS,
PHONE CALLS DAILY, MSN/YAHOO, SFF CHAT SOME DAYS, WE
HAVE BECOME VERY GOOD ... |
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108 |
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1.92 |
6/24/2007 4:47 pm |
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How is it done?
I have never dated anyone but my late husband so I dont even
know how to date. Been married 54 years and lost him two years
ago.
How does one date if they dont know ... |
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3.26 |
6/2/2007 2:12 pm |
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May I have this dance?
I'd been divorced for six and hadn't dated. I was
well-known in writing circles but in social circles I was
post-traumatic marriage basket case. I was once again
greener than grass about meeting men, ... |
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3.25 |
4/6/2007 2:01 pm |
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WOW, were my eyes opened!!!!
I chatted with a lovely lady in the chat room and we live near
one another. After a few chats we decided to meet at a neutral
site where we could chat and have a bite to eat. She was lovely
and ... |
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153 |
1.03 |
3/10/2007 7:02 pm |
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the missing ring
A girl in love asked her boyfriend.
Girl: Tell me. Who do you love most in this world?
Boy: You, of course!
Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?
Boy: The boy thought for a ... |
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5.23 |
3/9/2007 5:08 am |
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the ring
girl was sitting on a chair at the gas station she worked
at. She looked up and saw her boyfriend walk in. As he was
looking at snacks, a man walked in and pointed a gun at her.
He had been admiring ... |
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3.48 |
3/9/2007 5:07 am |
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loce story 2
Sophie's face faded into the gray winter light of the
sitting room. She dozed in the armchair that Joe had bought
for her on their fortieth anniversary. The room was warm
and quiet. Outside it was ... |
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4.12 |
3/9/2007 5:03 am |
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Gifts on the first date!
I have run into a situation where a woman was upset that I did not get her an expensive gift, on the
first date. This is in addition to paying for the date. Are gifts on a first date, a good idea? If ... |
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2/20/2007 1:44 am |
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meeting first time
has anybody gone to meet someone in another country?
who should go first the man or woman?
is it safe to meet with eastern ... |
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1.26 |
1/8/2007 7:40 am |
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My first date...
I'll tell you about my first date with a young boy, about
25 years ago, but not here on SFF.
I was at work, in a break, at the window.A youngone saw
me and looked at me some time and then he came ... |
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412 |
45 |
1.92 |
11/30/2006 12:45 am |
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How far would you go for love?
On this great site Senior Friend Finder there are folk's
from all round the world, winking at each other, writting
articles, sending e-mails and a host of other activities.
Perhaps not everyone is ... |
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183 |
66 |
3.25 |
11/17/2006 6:56 am |
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And Love Goes On
I wrote your name on a piece of paper,
but by accident threw it away.
I wrote your name on my hand, but it
washed away.
I wrote your name in the sand, but the
waves ... |
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4.82 |
11/2/2006 10:40 am |
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Senior Dating
When I admitted to being lonely, someone suggested computer
dating. Although I use a computer at work and another at
home, I never considered dating one. As explained to me,
all I had to do was ... |
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2.45 |
10/21/2006 7:37 pm |
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Ladies how far will you go on the first dat
How far will you go on the first date with a ... |
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218 |
1.56 |
8/31/2006 8:25 am |
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My smooth, romantic dance move
I took Joellyn to my Senior Prom. We had done some dating
before and she seemed genuinely interested in me and excited
to be going to the dance. Joellyn was two years younger than
I was and knew I ... |
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3.02 |
8/4/2006 8:39 pm |
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\bsexo?\b on the First Date
What do people think?
I like \bsexo?\b on the first ... |
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285 |
1.04 |
7/30/2006 12:40 am |
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Coming Together
How hard is it when you come across someone so right for you,
but they live in a city 70 kms from you.
I met such a person a year ago through FF and the lady lives
down the bay and far away.
We ... |
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4.02 |
7/16/2006 2:11 am |
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I want...no i don't ..yes i do!
We're not only wired to want what we can't have,
but we're also wired to want what we really don't ... |
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7/10/2006 3:49 pm |
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I want...no i don't ..yes i do!
We're not only wired to want what we can't have,
but we're also wired to want what we really don't ... |
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7/10/2006 3:49 pm |
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Bath time....
When a guy is persistent, it's so romantic, they make
movies about that. If it's a woman who is persistent,
then they cast Glenn ... |
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7/7/2006 3:41 pm |
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Make it mysterious
It's very sexy and erotic to meet someone you met online
without talking on the phone ... |
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6/27/2006 9:25 pm |
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First dates
does anybody read this ... |
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6/24/2006 5:02 pm |
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First Kiss
There in front of me That look in your eyes Then you grab for
mine Holding them
within your pools Gently touching my fingertips with your
hands and working down
my fingers till you have ... |
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6/18/2006 10:15 pm |
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No pictures,complete honesty, The main Keys
First of all I never send or have a picture on my profile.
I've found that if you ask most people they will discribe
themselve rather honestly--If you dont like what they
write down ---dont go. I ... |
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6/14/2006 1:00 pm |
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first date in a while
i agreed to meet this lady after meeting online with no photo, i
drove thirty miles to meet her and waited in my car where
we agreed to meet.
a car arrived with two women in it and to my amazment ... |
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6/11/2006 9:13 am |
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Dont feed them
Most of the time the date shows up not to meet you but to be
fed by you.....so pick a spot where there is no food. That
will give you & that other person a chance to see if you
want a second date. ... |
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50 |
3.90 |
6/6/2006 2:28 pm |
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Bike Ride
We were closely mounted...you in front and I behind. Between
our legs there pulsed a 500 pound mass of steel and chrome
sitting upon two black balloon tires. I couldn't imagine
that at my ... |
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6/2/2006 11:47 am |
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MY PASION FOR LIVE
SEVERAL EAR AGO Y FELT AN ENORMAS ATRACTION FOR MATURE WOMAN
THE REASON IS BECAUSE OF THERE EXPIRIENCE IN LIVE AND THE
WHAY THEY LIVE THE DAY TO DAY I FEEL A SPECIL PASION FOR OLDER
WOMAN THEN I ... |
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108 |
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2.34 |
6/1/2006 1:53 am |
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Followup to ProSe42
ProSe42 wrote about meeting people who lie about physical
characteristics. There are those, though, who lie about
everything...which may explain why they never want to
go further than the ... |
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106 |
17 |
4.96 |
5/25/2006 1:35 pm |
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Thank You Senior Friend Finder
I have always kinda po po ed on line dating services but for
some reason I tried SFF. Am I glad I did. We met through this
service like everyone else. E-mails, phone calls and
then the real scary ... |
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5.25 |
4/17/2006 9:56 pm |
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10 years older--10 years younger..No difference!
The title says it all. Do you find this ... |
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3.28 |
4/5/2006 3:59 am |
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The First Date
The first date is a gift of time
You give me yours
And I give you mine
We both take a chance
Our futures to enhance
Or are we to become part of our past
Will our first in fact be our last ... |
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4/2/2006 1:20 pm |
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The first date that worked forboth of us
Monday morning January 21 we walk into the coffee shop of
the hotel for breakfast. The guys andI had just worked all
night and were ready to eat and hit our rooms for the days
sleep. As I walked ... |
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5.27 |
3/31/2006 8:59 pm |
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Timeless Love
The sky meets the earth
when the day is done
While stars light the night.
After setting the sun
Ready for Romance
once two become one
The world starts to rotate.
... |
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3/24/2006 4:07 pm |
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MAN TO MAN
Nature is one beautiful thing but natural discrepencies
in our genetic make up create little differences like born
with a hair lip or big differences like born with two heads
and in between there ... |
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0.76 |
3/24/2006 9:07 am |
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Seeking Out
A Wise Man or Woman Seeks Out Situations, Jobs & People
who Affirm Intelligence, Perceptions & Self~Worth
& Avoid People who are Hurtful, Harmful, or Demeaning.
HIGH ACHIEVER [/SIZE... |
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200 |
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0.00 |
3/22/2006 8:39 am |
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Sometimes it's Special
Most of the first dates are a nightmare but, sometimes,
just sometimes it is a ... |
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3/22/2006 12:06 am |
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Things Not to Say on a First Date !!!!
Things Not to Say on a Date
"I really don't like this restaurant that much,
but I wanted to use this 2-for-1 coupon before it expired."
"No wine for me tonight. My urologist ... |
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362 |
52 |
3.29 |
3/20/2006 12:24 pm |
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Things NOT TO DO!!!!!!
You may feel these 2 (not so perfect) dates should have been
depicted in the "Relationship Humour" column,
but believe me these are facts!! Please, men out there,
learn from this if either of my ... |
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401 |
56 |
4.86 |
3/12/2006 11:50 pm |
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Heriophant Qualities for a First Date
Evolved
Realist, practical, stable, down to earth, harness physical
energies,
Unevolved fixed beliefs, archaic beliefs, tradion bound,
meaningless rituals, ... |
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45 |
0.00 |
3/11/2006 5:44 pm |
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Magician Qualites for a first date
Evolved - Be Imaginative, See A World of posssibilites,
Weave your rainbow dreams into reality, Be Swift, Move,
Be Light, Dance!!!!
Unevolved. Contradictory, verbose, abuse of ... |
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31 |
0.00 |
3/11/2006 5:39 pm |
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perfect first date
What is a PERFECT DATE? What is a first date? a perfect date
to me is where we can meet to have some fun, eat a little, dance
a little, and joke around. Have fun in other words. If you
can both ... |
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4.87 |
3/2/2006 7:31 am |
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Short Meet & Greet
I have found that a first date should be timed in advance
to 1/2 hour for coffee/tea and hello. The intent is to find
out if you want to go on an actual date. While there might
be intense ... |
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366 |
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4.69 |
2/14/2006 9:21 am |
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nervous
Aren't u sick and tired of being nervous on the first
date just remember that your partner is just as nervous
as you ... |
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5.90 |
2/13/2006 7:12 pm |
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CREEPS
I recently excepted a date with a mam I meet on SSF we had chatted
a few times on the phone . I noticed some things on the phone
that gave me hints not to go but i went anyway. This guy mocked ... |
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523 |
72 |
4.59 |
2/10/2006 3:57 pm |
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Need to know how to talk
One item I have noticed when reading different books on
relationships is the need to listen more than talk.
<br>
I know this sounds so obvious but jsut sit and observe what
couples do and ... |
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25 |
4.90 |
2/7/2006 12:40 pm |
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“Bitten By The Love Bug”
My name is Kountry_woman51, my boyfriends name is Ventrman.
We are both met on Adult friend finder and have a real life
true love, love at first site, hit by cupids arrow story
to tell you.
... |
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21 |
4.61 |
2/4/2006 12:53 am |
miriad, 49 F
1/17/2006 11:01 am
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when is a first date not a first date
i often get or see comments by males , saying ''are
you a serial first dater''Well what is a serial
first dater , my experience is , if you meet someone and he
doesnt wish to meet you again ... |
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37 |
4.51 |
1/17/2006 11:01 am |
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The first date
Should a man decide where they like to meet or first date?
Or ask her to ... |
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27 |
5.03 |
1/16/2006 10:28 pm |
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Kissing on the first date?
Should a man greet the woman on the first meeting or date
with a kiss?
<br>
If so, should it be on the cheek or go for the ... |
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152 |
25 |
5.12 |
1/16/2006 10:23 pm |
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On the first date?
Can a man be too gentlemenly...
Like opening doors ..
Pulling out a chair for the lady..
Meeting her with flowers on the first meeting or ... |
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106 |
25 |
5.12 |
1/16/2006 10:20 pm |
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Is it wrong to ask a woman on the first date ?
Is it wrong to ask a woman on your first date or meeting with
her, to have ... |
7 |
166 |
32 |
3.71 |
1/16/2006 10:01 pm |
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Try the Truth
You look at a photo and read the person’s profile and you
say to yourself, “This is a person I would like to know better.”
You e-mail each other back and forth in an attempt to know
more about ... |
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589 |
169 |
4.74 |
1/10/2006 11:37 am |
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Finding a happy woman
Finding the perfect happy woman maybe the most difficult
thing you ever do.
But I have heard that the key to finding the happy woman is
finding a Woman who both Respects and Admires you.
... |
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142 |
27 |
1.98 |
1/2/2006 6:33 am |
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What is a traditional First Date today?
Thirty-five years ago, a first date required that a man
plan his clothing, his car’s appearance and the place that
they will be going to for lunch or dinner.
Some guys plan the lighting, the ... |
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179 |
15 |
4.97 |
12/31/2005 7:24 pm |
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Expectation for love & commintment, You Think?
After alot of emails and talking on ones Internet Messenger
and knowing that you fell for this person and also knowing
that you have come to terms with the age-gap between yours
and his (give or ... |
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112 |
14 |
1.86 |
12/19/2005 6:33 am |
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Geocaching for a first date
it used to be that a first date would feel like a job interview.
I would end up wearing a dorky dress in on overpriced resturant.
That has changed sinced I discovered Geocaching. This
is an ... |
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369 |
92 |
0.00 |
12/17/2005 2:16 am |
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New member
I have only just joined SFF so I am quite nervous about having
a first date although there would be no point in joining
if I wasn't prepared to give it a try! Having been married
for 28 years to ... |
7 |
149 |
19 |
3.26 |
12/9/2005 6:36 am |
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My Favorite Love Quote
WE all want to fall in love. Why?
Because that experience makes us feel
completely alive, Where every sense is heightened, and
every emotion is magnified..
Our everyday Reality is ... |
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165 |
33 |
4.43 |
12/7/2005 6:12 pm |
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love is needed
to have or not to have is an option for each individual. Whats
wrong with us if we don't want love? So many of us get
tired, and yes, I am including men as well as women, of going
through the ... |
3 |
371 |
27 |
4.19 |
11/19/2005 9:07 pm |
daga, 29 F
11/15/2005 12:41 am
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he was more than real
well i was feeling a bit bored on that warm saturday afternoon
.so i decided to chat up someone in one of the chat room and
lo and behold this real guy just pm me. we cahtted for a while
and then ... |
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497 |
48 |
2.88 |
11/15/2005 12:41 am |
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Alice
Alice is a living doll at 71 she is a fox and a half. We met at
a garage sale and when i saw this babe in shorts infront of
me my shorts got a bulge big time. Alice is like me hits the
gargae ... |
0 |
264 |
16 |
2.98 |
10/28/2005 2:40 pm |
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Reasons Date Give for Standing Someone Up
The Date shows up early and decides he just doesn't
feel like going out after all, goes home before the date
arrives.
<br>
His cat gets sick and he has to take it to the vet.
<br> ... |
5 |
249 |
47 |
0.00 |
10/28/2005 9:14 am |
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Which great white was the largest ever caught?
Which Great White was the largest ever caught?
The largest Great White Shark ever caught measured 37 feet
and weighed 24, 000 pounds. It was found in a herring weir
in New Brunswick in ... |
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136 |
23 |
2.19 |
10/15/2005 5:14 pm |
kels00, 47 F
10/7/2005 11:51 am
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all smiles..and first thoughts...
well you finally meet, you feel and look great together,
laughting
chatting..like no tomorrow.. all smiles, lifes looking
up those precious moments, loving looks, cheeky grins,
naughty calls, ... |
6 |
239 |
28 |
3.65 |
10/7/2005 11:51 am |
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Culture Clashes and Bonessa's First Date With A Redneck Gentleman
We met at Burger King's for coffee. Although I suspect
he would have liked to share a a six pack of dollar store soda's
on the tailgate of his pick-up truck. "Darlin, ah's
gonna treat ya ... |
13 |
474 |
74 |
0.00 |
9/8/2005 8:52 pm |
kels00, 47 F
8/22/2005 2:20 pm
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MY SOUL MATE
I was chatting with a few on line in here but one guy stood
out we chatted on the phone for a few weeks.. we had planned
to meet in sept at a wedding.. as both of us have busy jobs
Hes a boss of ... |
8 |
354 |
42 |
3.70 |
8/22/2005 2:20 pm |
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Meeting Too Late
He sent a note to me, expressing his desire to meet. Gave
me his cell number. We played phone tag a few weeks.
<br>
Finally, one Saturday we spoke and decided to meet. I'd
wanted to ... |
10 |
446 |
33 |
2.96 |
8/20/2005 6:59 am |
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Almost a first date, Guess I scared him off....
A man fairly close to my city e-mailed me and asked me to go
to lunch.
That was his first e-mail to me and that is all he said!
I replied I wanted to get to know him better.
He replied "I ... |
22 |
776 |
110 |
2.87 |
8/17/2005 6:08 pm |
shyloc, 54 C
8/8/2005 9:49 am
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Couples meeting other couples
We have had many experience meeting other couples and it
always seems to be rather awkward. In a club or lounge scene
devoted to swingers it is normal to approach and be approached
but in the ... |
3 |
340 |
20 |
1.98 |
8/8/2005 9:49 am |
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Kissing
I used to have no idea if a woman was ready to be kissed.
I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself
“Wow, her lips really look nice...” but I didn't know
... |
11 |
495 |
43 |
5.05 |
8/6/2005 12:47 pm |
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I have a few Tee shirts . . .
I placed an ad some time back on a different site. I followed
all the rules, and took all the advice the site offered about
creating a profile. I included a recent photo.
I guess I was hoping ... |
3 |
235 |
18 |
3.12 |
8/4/2005 1:57 pm |
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chemistry
More often than not, the word "chemistry" is
mentioned in talks about first dates and getting to know
someone.
If it's evident that there is little in common between
two individuals ... |
16 |
307 |
29 |
2.44 |
7/24/2005 7:43 am |
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I Don't Call Them Dates
After a number disaterous "first dates" (some
of which had plucked out my last heart string, I changed
the name. I now call it a "meet and greet". After
all isn't that what it really is? To me a ... |
5 |
567 |
71 |
3.73 |
7/20/2005 10:55 pm |
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First Date: What did I do to have this guy all over me?
This is a real question from a friend, and my answer to her:
<br>
Her Question
<br>
I'm really new at this too and had my first 'date'
last week sometime..can I ask you a ... |
12 |
491 |
37 |
5.18 |
7/6/2005 5:02 pm |
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why no pictures?
There are so many profiles out there, of which maybe 20%
have pictures. I always like to see who I am talking to, sort
of speaking. Yes, I know there are alot of fake pictures
and old ones out ... |
17 |
311 |
37 |
2.39 |
6/30/2005 6:46 pm |
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persons with disabilities
I will go stieght to the point. How come that a man with a disability
and is unable to drive because of his eye site is amediatly
rejectred by a lady. But if the shoe is on the other foot and
the ... |
10 |
220 |
20 |
4.40 |
6/19/2005 8:54 pm |
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Modesty
I've always been confused with ladies when it comes
to what they look for in a guy. Most seem to say they prefer
a guy to be confident, yet they seem to loathe a guy who is
overly cocky. How does ... |
5 |
205 |
18 |
1.49 |
6/14/2005 1:25 pm |
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It doesn't seem to matter too much, Mulch Me
Had a first date / meeting this past Sunday. At Home Depot...
I needed to replace some Cypress mulch and pick up landscaping
timbers for a front yard project. I asked her to meet me at
Home ... |
13 |
461 |
39 |
2.42 |
6/6/2005 3:54 pm |
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Be honest with one another
We meet new people every day. Some we can take an instant
dislike to. Some we feel as if we have been the best of friends
for years.
All of us here have been on at least one 'first date'.
So ... |
3 |
111 |
7 |
3.30 |
6/2/2005 9:56 am |
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forgotten teeth
here i am on my first date,
hope she dosen't turn up late.
combed my hair and washed my face,
not a molycule out of place.
i sent that photo' took some while back,
now my hairs a bit ... |
8 |
291 |
25 |
4.46 |
5/29/2005 4:18 pm |
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Should we have first dates?
Should we have first dates or should it be a meeting instead?
<br>
Perhaps a meeting to walk on the beach or share a coffee,
a way to talk and see if we have any reason to see each other ... |
21 |
338 |
50 |
3.03 |
5/27/2005 11:45 am |
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Where do you go on a first date?
Make sure your first date is fun. Go bowling, go to a local
fair (carnival) or go shoot some pool. Whatever it is, make
it fun and you be fun too. Don't get too serious on the
first date. Let ... |
4 |
248 |
24 |
3.70 |
5/9/2005 2:30 pm |
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How To Handle Liars
Have you ever had a date with someone who didn't look
like their picture? Then you find out the picture is about
10 years old or in fact, could belong to a best friend?
<br>
Well ladies, ... |
7 |
356 |
33 |
3.70 |
5/9/2005 9:47 am |
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Old Photo
How may times have we met someone and they didn't look
anything like the photo that you have been viewing. You
know the one I talking about....the photo that is 10 or 15
years old. Now the ... |
12 |
343 |
39 |
6.90 |
4/25/2005 2:49 am |
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Let's call it a "Lookover"
In my experience, the first "meeting" is not
a date at all. I call it the "lookover" - the chance
to check out the
physical chemistry between two people who have (theoretically)
established ... |
5 |
414 |
52 |
6.92 |
4/24/2005 9:29 pm |
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To Meet or not to Meet?
If I decide on meeting a man I have contacted through the
personals, I eventually base this decision on my gut.
<br>
I once met a fellow online, and we eventually exchanged
emails. ... |
4 |
436 |
34 |
4.59 |
4/19/2005 5:03 pm |
SkyCop, 71 M
2/8/2005 10:50 am
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That good first impression
Are you doing the right thing in your life to get the quality
date you want? Or having trouble maintaing a relationship
with old friends?
<br>
Your probably living alone. Look in ... |
5 |
331 |
43 |
4.37 |
2/8/2005 10:50 am |
SkyCop, 71 M
2/8/2005 10:20 am
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First date scaries?
A first date only requires common sense. Meeting on the
computer is the best place to get that first date. If you
remember everything you read about a person is probably
not all true. ... |
3 |
236 |
26 |
4.10 |
2/8/2005 10:20 am |
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ladies always get to first base with me!
Since I have gone on-line and met several women over the
past couple of years, I have found it is usually the lady
that makes the first move.
<br>
And I dont mind. The relationships ... |
6 |
427 |
35 |
1.30 |
1/24/2005 12:00 am |
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Fun and Scary
First dates are always fun and at the same time, scary. The
fun part is talking about things you like to do. The scary
part is is I might goof ... |
6 |
283 |
27 |
1.87 |
12/31/2004 12:00 am |
jmcd, 51 F
12/25/2004 12:00 am
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True First Date
Dalnet boulevard on that night was filled with dreary skies
and shadowed ennui. As usual there was the bustling crowd
that rushed from lounge to lounge, chatting, meeting,
and dashing off to the ... |
5 |
387 |
45 |
3.31 |
12/25/2004 12:00 am |
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First Date? Come On Over.....
I am a firm believer that a first date must be comfortable
as possible for both people. I have not had a first date recently,
but know where we meet must have activity going on which
fosters a ... |
8 |
257 |
43 |
0.82 |
12/23/2004 12:00 am |
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First Date, Blind Date
So I had this answering service right? And damn this one
woman that worked there had this voice that just gave new
meaning to dream girl right? I am flirting with her almmost
on a daily basis and ... |
6 |
413 |
51 |
6.00 |
12/22/2004 12:00 am |
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Don't 'Accept; Expect'
I recently went on a 'first' date with another
SFF member (a week trip to San Felippe, MX).
<br>
Here's a list of things that gentlemen shouldn't
do on a first meeting:
<br>
... |
18 |
889 |
125 |
2.97 |
12/21/2004 12:00 am |
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NO BIG DEAL
A FIRST DATE AS IT'S CALLED IS REALLY NO BIG DEAL
AT LEAST NOT W/ ME...
<br>
A PUBLIC PLACE IS COOL I THINK BUT REALLY IT DEPENDS ON THE
WOMAN MOSTLY..
AS A MATTER OF SAFETY I ... |
3 |
155 |
19 |
3.39 |
11/29/2004 12:00 am |
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What A First Date It Was
It was mid summer and I for one had a advantage on my first
date. You see we meet through my work and in she came to the
store. For over a two month period, We talked at first, exchanged
little ... |
5 |
239 |
19 |
3.78 |
11/27/2004 12:00 am |
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MOST EMBARRASSING FIRST DATE
In case you can't stay up late:
This was on the "Tonight Show" with
Jay Leno. Jay went into the audience to find the most embarrassing
first
date that a woman ever had. The winner described ... |
6 |
464 |
81 |
5.76 |
11/19/2004 12:00 am |
SkyCop, 71 M
11/14/2004 12:00 am
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A first date?
A first date only requires common sense. Meeting on the
computer is the best place to get that first date. If you
remember everything you read about a person is probably
not all true. And, thats ... |
6 |
121 |
32 |
6.24 |
11/14/2004 12:00 am |
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Do I need a Manual.......
I am just starting to date again for the first time in twenty
years, .....and it's Horrendous, .....I realise
now, that without knowing it, I have slipped into a habit
of just getting on with the ... |
10 |
284 |
57 |
7.23 |
11/10/2004 12:00 am |
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Transitions ...
If moral values were clear and universally accepted life
would be simple, or horribly more complicated for those
that need help the most. Monogamy and relationship jumping
are probably one of the ... |
2 |
91 |
16 |
4.45 |
11/8/2004 12:00 am |
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Late life searching for a new mate
Most of us had a single standard and experience set to approach
partner hunting and selection -- the experience we had
as teenagers. That process for most, was casual dating
of kids we went to ... |
3 |
103 |
11 |
3.54 |
11/8/2004 12:00 am |
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Bad first...HAHA make me laugh!!!!
John was one of those men that knew little to none about honesty.
He did however leave a memory….Quite large in fact.
After responding to her ad, The Redheaded Angel, spoke
with John on ... |
10 |
304 |
64 |
5.85 |
11/3/2004 12:00 am |
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Is he/she cheating online?????
It never ceases to amaze me how married men, or men in a relationship,
dare to assume I would make an exception to my integrity
to either date or have a relationship with them. This happens
"in ... |
23 |
342 |
96 |
3.69 |
11/2/2004 12:00 am |
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First Impressions...
Having read some of what has been posted on this site about
first impressions I just have to say...GOODNESS YES...THEY
DO MATTER!!!..
First dates are tough...are they meetings...no they are ... |
3 |
168 |
43 |
8.15 |
10/21/2004 12:00 am |
spbpt, 57 F
10/9/2004 12:00 am
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HOW SOON SHOULD YOU WAIT TO MEET FACE TO FACE
OTHER THAN THE OBVIOUS.....A HUGE AIRFARE INVOLVED...HOW
LONG IS A GOOD AMOUNT OF TIME TO CHAT BEFORE MEETING? ... |
10 |
269 |
40 |
2.20 |
10/9/2004 12:00 am |
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50 first dates
There is a girl name Cathy. She had a big problem on his mind
, after 24 hrs. she forgot the person that she met. Then one
day she met a guy in a restaurant, then a guy love at first
sight to her ... |
2 |
116 |
34 |
0.00 |
10/8/2004 12:00 am |
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Coming on Wrong Way?
When viewing so many profiles. Many people talk about their
sexual desires. Unless a person is looking only for an activity
partener, I think that info should be kept private for the
right person ... |
8 |
167 |
32 |
3.43 |
10/1/2004 12:00 am |
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Is it a date or a meeting?
If one finds someone on a chat site and decides to meet, is
the first meeting really a date? The first meeting is really
a meeting and not a date. You are meeting to find out if there
is any ... |
0 |
86 |
23 |
6.16 |
9/23/2004 12:00 am |
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First impressions can cost you
When they say that first impressions mean the most , could
they be totally wrong? You get all dressed up, be on time,
maybe give your date some flowers, Go to an elegant restaurant,
have a ... |
4 |
119 |
77 |
8.21 |
9/5/2004 12:00 am |
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free samples at the buffet of life
It seems to me that on reading certain articles, men are
using the first date as an attempt to get "free samples"
at the buffet of life. Just because a woman consents to meet
for coffee or ... |
3 |
157 |
158 |
8.01 |
8/19/2004 12:00 am |
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RESPECT MY WISHES
Hello to everyone that reads this,
<br>
But, I`m the guy from Jones Beach Story.
<br>
But, if you go on a date with a beautiful ... |
3 |
134 |
55 |
1.24 |
8/16/2004 12:00 am |
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SHE DIDN`T RESPECT ME ON FIRST DATE
Hello Too All,
<br>
But, I`m a 48 year old white male, 235lbs, blonde hair, blue
eyes.I tan my body everyday at Jones Beach West End Field
#2, and I walk west on the bay ... |
5 |
149 |
76 |
0.00 |
8/12/2004 12:00 am |
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Singles--try meeting at the mall
Since many folks are really tired of the restaurant/coffee
shop venue for a first date, how about trying the local mall?
<br>
It's a well-lit public place, with opportunities
for private ... |
3 |
95 |
66 |
6.83 |
8/11/2004 12:00 am |
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Control of a first date: Enforce honesty by auto
It's this simple to be in control of a first date. Drive
to it in your own car. If your date turns out to have lied to
you. Just get in your car and leave. Dishonestly must have
its't reward ... |
0 |
49 |
36 |
6.52 |
7/31/2004 12:00 am |
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safety-Inviting someone to your home or not?
After having read the article on dating, Red flags, the
author stated that if someone wont invite you to their home
this is a red flag.. One might think that the person is hiding
something like ... |
3 |
176 |
67 |
8.64 |
7/29/2004 12:00 am |
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Second date response
Lyn, we are in the 21st century. If you enjoyed the company,
and feel he is a gentleman, take the leap of faith and write
an email. It is considered romantic and courteous also
to let someone ... |
0 |
67 |
46 |
9.11 |
7/25/2004 12:00 am |
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Soul Quest
Dear friends,
I know this may seem more appropriate underneath the "poems"
catagory; however, I have experienced intermittent problems
with that site, and so I thought I'd post this here.
... |
3 |
76 |
54 |
7.93 |
7/15/2004 12:00 am |
lyn5, 68 F
7/14/2004 12:00 am
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second date
I met this man for a coffee we talked fro a short while. the
folowing week he phoned me up and we went to a dance.
THe night just sped by I enjoyed myself so much. I di thank
him and told him ... |
5 |
185 |
44 |
4.27 |
7/14/2004 12:00 am |
jj55, 61 M
7/14/2004 12:00 am
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RE RE : Men are visual
I'm sorry but i totally have to disagree. I live in the
Massachusetts area and for the past 20 yrs that I have been
dating and in different relationships I have to say that
most of the women in my ... |
4 |
144 |
55 |
2.48 |
7/14/2004 12:00 am |
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What a thrill!!!!!
I hope this doesn't offend anyone but this is a little
racey!!! If you could be offended...please don't
read this!!!
<br>
What a thrill it was to meet "J" for our first
date. After ... |
5 |
256 |
81 |
6.06 |
7/7/2004 12:00 am |
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life refreshed
i just had my first meeting with someone i've been talking
to for a while now, and it was wonderful. we had already developed
a written friendship and respect for the hard path life
presents each ... |
0 |
41 |
83 |
3.55 |
6/29/2004 12:00 am |
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Re: men are visual
Just read the article about this and disagree on one point.
Woman are just as visual as men. Just read some of the wants
in these dating services. The majority are looking for
a MR Perfect, ... |
5 |
79 |
115 |
0.00 |
6/25/2004 12:00 am |
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Re:RE:Respect
I would have to agree with the first writer. In my experience,
that is all I can judge by, 8 out of 10 woman I have tried to
contact just ignore me. The ones who do respond get a thank
you , no ... |
1 |
56 |
154 |
0.00 |
6/25/2004 12:00 am |
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Dying on the Vine
I had my first date after 10 years alone (my choice). Have
not liked dating anyone older because my free spirit always
rubbed them the wrong way (can not control me). He was 71
(another ... |
6 |
173 |
67 |
8.28 |
6/22/2004 12:00 am |
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Respect
I know this may sound strange to many women but, their are
still men in the world who do respect women. Much of what
happens on a first or umpteenth date is controled by the
female. Remember when ... |
2 |
67 |
52 |
7.05 |
6/20/2004 12:00 am |
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The Idea of Him
It's autumn now. The leaves are slowly dropping. The
woods are flecked with the burst of their dying light.
<br>
On the way to the desk, one last check in the mirror. I notice
the ... |
1 |
54 |
76 |
5.16 |
6/19/2004 12:00 am |
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Do you think that she disrespect me ??
I met a women on sff and we went to the fair as we were walking
thru the fair we came into an area of information booths
so to let her know a little more about me. I introduce myself
at some of ... |
4 |
95 |
60 |
0.00 |
6/13/2004 12:00 am |
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Be honest.......afterall it will all surface soon
I've only had one "blind date", we did exchange
pictures. We did talk a LONG time before we met. So I get to
the restaurant and I'm waiting....in walks this gentleman
that is leaning heavily on ... |
1 |
77 |
97 |
6.10 |
6/7/2004 12:00 am |
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One chance for a guy to make a good first impression.
If we're on this "Senior" Friend Finder
site, then most of us already know that men have two brains,
right? That won't ever change. Some men learn to be
diplomatic about it as they age, but some ... |
2 |
63 |
63 |
0.00 |
6/6/2004 12:00 am |
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First Date or Family Outing
One of my favorite spots to linger and procrastinate is
Books-a-Million, over in Pasco County. I can sit back,
relax, have a cup of coffee and read or just people watch.
I often do. Occasionally, ... |
2 |
62 |
92 |
3.15 |
6/1/2004 12:00 am |
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First date jumping in bed
Why is it that when you meet for the first time the men always
want to take you to bed right away, isn't it that you
first build a friendship and trust before you take that
next step, why can't ... |
3 |
102 |
158 |
5.59 |
5/29/2004 12:00 am |
jwk55, 61 M
5/29/2004 12:00 am
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Good LUCK AND GOD be with you like with ME
Keep up the way you are and soon you will have a man just as
you are. Life do not live around sex! Yes you can have your
way, but you just have to look. GOOD LUCK
jwk55 ... |
2 |
73 |
28 |
1.08 |
5/29/2004 12:00 am |
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RE: Respect - Men are visual !
Regarding why men wish to view a picture of a woman before
asking her out -it is because they are "visual"
and want to see the person they wish to date. It is their nature
and cannot be helped. ... |
1 |
68 |
114 |
2.14 |
5/24/2004 12:00 am |
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meeting first time and jumping right in bed
Why is it that when a man wants to meet you for the first time
they want to take you to bed right away, isn't it suppose
to be building a friendship first, the men that wanted
to meet me wanted to ... |
2 |
47 |
308 |
0.73 |
5/15/2004 12:00 am |
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cringe
I had a first date with a fellow who took me to a restaurant
where he ordered a Reuben sandwhich. It was full of pink,
mayonaissy sauce. He picked up the sandwhich and the pink
stuff ran through ... |
1 |
61 |
85 |
1.48 |
4/11/2004 12:00 am |
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overcome
I was hounded to attend a wedding reception with a fellow.
He came in, listened to a few speeches and excused himself.
He came back and listened to more and then people started
kissing, can't ... |
2 |
64 |
42 |
1.00 |
4/11/2004 12:00 am |
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Be honest ,,,, Is it really a first date?
When you meet for coffee to do " a looky lou" or
a "drive by" or a peek at the guy or gal in person
... I believe this does not qualify as a "date".
I prefer to term it as a "Meet and Greet" see ... |
2 |
73 |
187 |
7.30 |
3/27/2004 12:00 am |
KR222, 59 F
3/23/2004 12:00 am
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Safety VS Connection
These posts are interesting, especially the considerations
for personal safety. It appears that women writing articles
want a man to reveal enough personal information that she
wants to meet him, ... |
1 |
130 |
344 |
0.00 |
3/23/2004 12:00 am |
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Why do people assume more at first when it comes to the first date?
I was talking with someone recently and seemed to hit off.
Then I had suggested to meet to have a coffee together. We
had both agreed with the first email that people should
start off as friends. ... |
1 |
47 |
205 |
2.04 |
3/8/2004 12:00 am |
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Be honest and a gentleman!
When meeting for a first date I hate when men try so hard to
build themselves up only to find that all they told you (or
most of it) is a lie. Maybe if you were just yourself then
it would go ... |
1 |
33 |
283 |
1.45 |
2/20/2004 12:00 am |
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First date syndrome!
Ahhhh, that first date syndrome.
So many people on the personals find it to be a very scary
thought and much like a blind date. I suppose that is what
it is when you have never actually met in ... |
1 |
19 |
196 |
8.37 |
2/2/2004 12:00 am |
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Crazy and hopeless
I think it is crazy to make a fast move, to go live with someone
far away. Risky. You put yourself under the total power
of that person. How well can you get to know each other anyway?
That is the ... |
1 |
26 |
166 |
0.30 |
12/19/2003 12:00 am |
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How To Gracefully Exit After First Five Minutes?
Most of my first dates have been (by design) in very casual
venues, like a coffee shop. Let me be honest. On most (but
not all) my first dates I have pretty much decided yea or
nay within the ... |
2 |
118 |
209 |
6.78 |
8/3/2003 12:00 am |
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So, you want my email address?
Gidday! I read with interest the other topics in this thread.
Yes, I've had several requests for my email address
- some sites 'charge' you for every email sent
through the site (although often ... |
1 |
87 |
217 |
8.45 |
6/13/2003 12:00 am |
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how hard are they
when you meet someone and you go on the first date it's hard
because you are so nervous, relax have a good time if you
like someone then just don't phone again. i had a man
tell me when he takes a ... |
1 |
61 |
150 |
5.75 |
6/8/2003 12:00 am |
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Safety is your #1 priority
Here are a few good safety tips:
<br>
1. If you decide to meet a person you have met at SeniorFriendFinder
(or elsewhere online), always meet in a public place. Never
meet in private ... |
1 |
40 |
195 |
8.49 |
4/11/2003 12:00 am |
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Dating no-noes
The other night I had a blind date. He was in such a hurry that
he didn't want us to spend time corresponding but preferred
to meet face to face. He said he'd spring for coffee, suggested
we'd ... |
2 |
116 |
419 |
8.83 |
2/15/2003 12:00 am |
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Deciding Whether You Want to Date This Person
I agree with the other "First Dates" category message to
a point. I too do not want to give my e-mail address, my phone
number, or my actual address (he wanted to send me something)
to any man I ... |
2 |
66 |
332 |
8.71 |
1/9/2003 12:00 am |
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advice on emails
I can't say how many times I receive a message from a man who
wants to chat, meet, move in with me and/or marry me without
so much as having received an email back from me! One of my
biggest ... |
1 |
70 |
525 |
7.37 |
7/31/2002 12:00 am |
