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Samm13 69 M
1  Article
Money & Love   5/10/2019

: I will put you together in all condition no matter what? <br><br> Love: I will hold you down for better nor worst? <br><br> Love nor ?


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
nays4478 37 F
1  Article
love really exist   12/2/2018

love really exist


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
portrunnerdaniel 53 M
1  Article
Sex over 70   2/4/2014

Horny old broads, dirty old men. These commonly used terms speak volumes about how society views older people who are interested in sex.

Experts say such derogatory labels reflect a deep level of discomfort in our youth-oriented culture with the idea that seniors are sexually active. Sex is identified with reproduction, youthful attractiveness, and power -- and most young and even ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
075660_67960 48 M
1  Article
HI HELLO   1/21/2013

Hello Dear

how r u



hope u r well and fine

i am murali from cochin, kerala 42 yrs, but working near raipur, chattisgarh state.

will u accept me into your world of love, care, fun and trust pls,

i assure u a nice and warm friendship in all health pls, as well as trust, honesty and care with full and 100 % confidentiality as well as safe and ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
karinpepita 109 F
23  Articles
GOING BACK 28   12/7/2010

My father and I left three days later, my mother chose not to accompany us, maybe if I had seen the plane before we were going to fly in I might have changed my mind too…It was a very bumpy ride, no sooner had we left the tarmac before I was sick, but my father was smarter this time and came prepared for inevitable. The trip to Cuzco took about six hours of a hellish ride, but finely we were ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
karinpepita 109 F
23  Articles
GOING BACK 27   11/30/2010

Easter in the convent I think was larger than Christmas, many preparations were done for Palm Sunday, Father Spirituale was there almost every morning giving Mass, and again I had to participate. It all really starts at Lent, I am sure there were no problem about practice abstinence, however they did serve less food at dinner, and it seemed that fish was more on the menu than usual, I got around ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
intrigued28 38 M
1  Article
gold   11/27/2010

how hard is it to email someone on SFF.. lol I really need to become a member


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
karinpepita 109 F
23  Articles
AN EVENING WITH MAMACITA...   11/18/2010

Mamacita's name is Anita, she is 89 and is a widow. I meet Mamacita when she was married to Harry about 15 years ago. She would come in the store I would work for part time, I liked her and I thought that Harry an old Air Force guy was a real gentleman with and immense patience. When Harry died seven years ago, Mamacita gravitated towards me, first she would call to see what day I was in the ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 0 Votes
karinpepita 109 F
23  Articles
GOING BACK 25   11/17/2010

At times the jungle would be so dense that you could hardly see the people in front of you, at other times it would sudden open up, considering this was just the entrance to the Amazon, I can understand how people would get lost and never come out.

We past a small river with some huts more naked and canoes that were used to fishing, there was sort of a trading post where some Dutchmen ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
karinpepita 109 F
23  Articles
GOING BACK 23   11/10/2010

On the other side of the bridge (the one the sheep jumped off) there lived several American families, including a Swedish family that had a little girl about 10 years old. The little girl had severe Childhood Arthritis in both knees and was in a wheel chair. The parents had done and tried everything that was availed to help this poor , the only thing that seem to help was sitting outside on the ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
karinpepita 109 F
23  Articles
GOING BACK 15   10/20/2010

When I was eleven I became a Musketeer. I had read Dumas book ‘The three Musketeers” and fell in love with Porthos, he was the blond handsome one in the middle of picture on the book cover, he had shoulder length blond hair that curled in the most endearing way, as far as I could see from the picture, blue eyes, a black hat with a huge fluffy feather, shiny knickers and white socks and always ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
karinpepita 109 F
23  Articles
GOING BACK 13   10/16/2010

The nuns: Anyone that has gone to Proroqual School will tell you that whoever said the priests and nuns were saints, are liars. We all know that living a celibate life does terrible things to the human species. In South America those days it was a privilege to have a as a nun or a as a priest, they were looked upon with special respect and admiration. There were several reason these why these ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
karinpepita 109 F
23  Articles
GOING BACK 7   10/8/2010

There some rather laud noise coming from the down stairs winery, lots banging, it was there when I went to kindergarten and still when I came back. I asked the house keeper why they were making so much noise; she said they were knocking walls down. I must be a little more respectful and call the house keeper by the right name, her name was ‘Froken Aarup’, and that is what I called her as well ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 0 Votes
luvtotalk2 75 M
4  Articles
EASY   1/21/2010

Either pick up the phone and let the other person know how you feel or do it in person....no emails


1 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sandradddddddddd 66 F
4  Articles
I don't get it   12/12/2009

This thing called love why do men use it so litely .


3 Comments, 62 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
genie1moose 77 F
6  Articles
Friends with Benefits anyone?   6/29/2009

Hi,

My ex-boyfriend said he wanted to be Friends with Benefits with me after he told me he found another woman. I had to ask someone what that meant because I originally thought he was offering me money -- lol, but then I found out he was offering sex. Do you believe my ex-boyfriend really thought I would go along with such an arrangement after he just left me? Do you think I should even ...


4 Comments, 130 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
just_friendship 59 F
21  Articles
ON HAVING OFFERED LOVE, YOU WILL RECEIVE LOVE   11/8/2008

This assertion is tied by the fact of receiving. At spiritual level love is kept stable, transmitting the same force all the time. We are situated in a state of continue giving. Since other persons also transmit the same conscious love from the plane of the soul, also we receive in a constant way. Sometimes it turns out to be to us much easier to give than to receive or vice versa. ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
just_friendship 59 F
21  Articles
21 GRAMS LIFE WEIGHS   11/8/2008

In the complex movie "21 grams" Sean Penn one of the principal actors at the end of his life thought about it. In the last scene Sean Penn is in his bed of death in a hospital and almost to the point of death he thought carefully in the weight of life. According to some studies when persons die, to the moment itself of death, the weight of the body decreases 21 grams. This has been ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
larklark7 80 F
1  Article
It's very hard to accept after 5 years.   10/27/2008

We had a good relationship for two and a half yesrs. Then out of the blues a pinay came to say 'hi' to him and told him it was DIVINE INTERVENTION. She looked for him, not he looked for her. Yet she said it was divine intervention for her. Then just before he came to visit me, she quickly sent him 3 cards although she had just known him for 6 weeks. She made sure he did not sleep on the same bed ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 0 Votes
TITA24 60 F
1  Article
Broken Hearted, MY LOVE HAS GONE!   9/26/2008

My love has gone marries another woman from Bacolod, he can't wait for me. Just liek left me without any reason why? I've knwon him for 6 years and he's been with antoher woman that I'd never know it for so long. I jsut fully tursted him all the way my body and soul I give it all jsut for him!

SAD ME, TITA24


1 Comments, 80 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
swanman1959 80 M
1  Article
Rules for A Happy Marriage...   8/31/2008

Patti: My dad always said the way he and mom loved each other was to let her think she was having her way --- and then let her have it.... They made it happily for 48 years before she died.... Swanman1959


2 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
Charmed2008 57 F
1  Article
Letting go   2/28/2008

Why is it so hard to let go when you know that person is so wrong for you? They use you and you still go back. Why is the heart so much stronger than the brain? Then every time, your brain gets a little stronger, and your heart loses a little control.You notice with every incounter your changing. Then one day you can say WHAT THE HECK WAS I THINKING, and just like that your over them, and ...


5 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
imallright 67 M
1  Article
reaction to pro football player's murder   11/28/2007

don't know if many would be interested or if it is 'o k ' to post news articles here .. but for those who havn't heard Sean Taylor was a star football player in the nfl who was killed a couple of days ago in his home ...he had gotten into his fair shate of trouble both in the leage and outside it but supossedly he was begining to turn his life in a more positive direction ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
thepoetspen 75 F
2  Articles
A Sonnet to Romancing the Stone   4/18/2007

Encased within a shell of stone my knight stands cold and in dismay; the fires within threat to consume there are no words that I can say.



His mind is fixed in distant stare and though I'm truly much perplexed more than this tome, I do not dare.



For he is worth more than king's gold but does not come without a price; to count the cost it has been told is ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
jorja2 68 F
2  Articles
Hes gone again   4/5/2007

I first met him last august, we got along great, had a lot in common, both single, and looking for a sole mate. well at first we talked for weeks, , he was sick with pneumonia, but finally halloween nite we went out for supper. Had a good time, but he was very shy, this continued for 2 more months, i saw him 3 x and then he just disappeared , , then just before xmas, he reappeared, and came to ...


3 Comments, 149 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
harley67 56 M
12  Articles
tragic   3/9/2007

Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in love with this girl. This romantic guy folded 1, 000 pieces of papercranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him ...


3 Comments, 85 Views, 14 Votes ,6.66 Score
harley67 56 M
12  Articles
a true story   3/9/2007

This is a personal account of a ghost story that occured over 10 years ago. This "true experince" firml supported my theory that our departed loved ones can convey messages through dreams.
Back in 1989, being a fresh graduate Psychology graduate, I landed a job in the personnel department in one of the goverment offices in Quezon City. A male co-worker, Jun, was 11 years older than me. He ...


1 Comments, 68 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
harley67 56 M
12  Articles
intranet 3   3/9/2007

Tangible and visible --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
To address the issues of intranet team status and resourcing, intranet teams should be guided by two words when planning intranet activities: tangible and visible:

Tangible: the intranet team can clearly demonstrate the impact or value that the activity has had on the ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes
yayita2 65 F
1  Article
The Other Men in My Life   2/26/2007

I am in search of a special man. One who can be my friend, my lover and my partner. I also want him to be confortable with the fact that there are other men in my life. What is wrong with sharing??? Is it going to be too hard for me to find a gentleman who can accept me when sometimes I go to dinner, movies and the park with a thirty-two years old young man? What if he knows that three other hop ...


2 Comments, 138 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
130019 57 M
1  Article
Why   2/25/2007

I am a member so why can I not make contact
Jerry


0 Comments, 79 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
debo1a 78 M
2  Articles
I apologize...   2/8/2007

...to all who have tried to contact me and have recieved no response.
I simply can't seem to get things to work properly with regard to contacting/responding members.
I am also not receiving emails sent to me by members.
Suggestions?
-- debo1a


0 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
flowerandmuse 69 F
110  Articles
I made a vow to a star   12/25/2006

I made a vow to a star, I certainly really believe it, but, is free in any case, more over, also does not have the evidence to prove it doesnot work


2 Comments, 42 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
flowerandmuse 69 F
110  Articles
love   12/23/2006

Loves person dignity which not only causes to love noblly, moreovercauses the person dignity which loves to be noble In the heart hasthe love, in the heart has one kind of fervor The love is not dividedthe national boundary, the race, expensive, is inexpensive Is thehuman greatest behavior


1 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
flowerandmuse 69 F
110  Articles
when weary---   12/19/2006

When weary, we need to rest, puts oneself turns over to primitively, closes both eyes, attentively goes to the sensation to be far away thebustling streets the quiet life, all shakes the whole body dust, letsthem change into the butterfly, in airborne flies flies, looked a turnof red glowing sun falls Xishan, you and your lover moves towards theravine the small log cabin ----


1 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
flowerandmuse 69 F
110  Articles
dosen't die is the spirit   12/14/2006

The time cannot pause for any person, actually may in - on obtain therebirth The beautiful thing can die, does not die is the spirit


1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
leslie4444 66 F
26  Articles
how to heal move on and go on....with love......   12/10/2006

if a relationship goes sour move on with your life , learn from mistakes you make , try to improve your life from now on . go forth with truth justice and love all people. realize that we are sinners ----------- SIN NO MORE. . become baptised in the holy spirit he will bring clairity to your life.and change your whole world for the better. then and only then ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
donnijoe 74 M
6  Articles
what not to do in a relationship.   12/6/2006

1. Never and I do mean NEVER ask your lover for all of him. Not good, I'll never ask my lover for all of her. There must be somthing for only your lover, are you feeling me? Ok, no, well lets try it this way. Never go into your lovers e-mail, it is none of your bussness. Never open mail that don't have your name on it.Never make \bsexo?\b the main reason you are with this lover.\bsexo?\b ...


2 Comments, 85 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
voice0517 61 F
1  Article
in the front door and out the back   10/9/2006

I had been dating this man for almost 2 years and things seem to be progressing very well. One weekend I drove to his town to see him and went to the corner bar where I knew he would be. I walked in the front door. He was at the bar and he turned and saw me come in. I was stopped by a woman I knew for a few seconds and when I looked again, his drink was on the bar but he was gone. I ...


7 Comments, 305 Views, 31 Votes ,6.59 Score
mmmm322 53 M
1  Article
older ladies   10/2/2006

any older ladies looking for younger guys


4 Comments, 184 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Hawkslayer 88 M
2  Articles
Letter From a Broken-Heart   9/28/2006

Dear Ex-Love,
I just realized that I would never be able to embrace you the same way as before, and my eyes will no longer be beautiful because your reflection there has gone astray. I should be thankful if this were the only sense of loss that I feel, but there is something more that pierces my heart, something much deeper that I cannot even begin to describe. As I type this ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
oniovosa 42 M
1  Article
A Rose for My Love.   9/26/2006

I love you more than words could say, When it comes to you, I never can get enough. My feelings grow stronger with each passing day, Just like this magical rose for my love.
I will never forget the magical night, When you and I first fell in love. Oh how the feeling felt so right. For I felt as though I was floating, on a soft pink cloud above.

...


2 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Icareandshare 73 F
2  Articles
His Silence   9/24/2006

Did I have a relationship or was it a fantasy because we never met? He sent me flirts for weeks, we have e-mailed for two months (we are 2000 miles apart), had conversations on the phone for hours...we shared stories of happiness and pain....he said he was so glad of the things I shared with him, it brought us closer. We sent many photos. We planned on me flying there and we would be ...


9 Comments, 157 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
AndrewP   9/14/2006

A very well-heeled man if seen through smoke and shadows, the gentle wind blows away the smoke and what you have left is a plethora of ambiguous facts. (a) What does this person want? (b) Why does he say one thing and do the opposite.? (c) How much of his life and health are being ruled by workaholicism and other isms Well, as a man of high intelligence and culture, that is where the ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
NiceWords 59 F
8  Articles
"Think of Those Who Love You"   9/7/2006

If someone should hurt you and say a thing unkind... Remember what I write to you and keep these thoughts in mind. For everyone who makes you cry, there are three to make you smile... And a smile will last a long, long time, but a tear just a little while. Don't let someone who hates the world cause you to hate it too... Behind the clouds is a Golden sun, and a sky that's full of ...


4 Comments, 86 Views, 13 Votes ,6.33 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
Memories   8/19/2006

Marjority of all people on thisa earth has had some kind of a relationship and alot of us has had some kind oof a breakup. Rather it was a good relationship or not, we should all have some kind of memories to last us a lifetime. are not always the ones that suffer, as, many times, we find that one of their parents are not as close as the other one to the . This could be the father ...


7 Comments, 66 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
Elvyra 66 F
1  Article
Nice thing about an old relationship   8/5/2006

I have the belief that every relationship we have, whether good or bad, teaches us something about ourselves. It teaches us what we should do and should not do to live happier lives. It helps us let go easier of intolerable situations with each relationship we let go of. I am not talking about intimate relationships. I am talking about every relationship we have ever had, in family, ...


3 Comments, 51 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
talking it over   8/3/2006

when is a breakup -a breakup? when you have -why breakup- you will never be rid of the one that you are breaking up from-there will always be something you need to discuss with your ex.rather its to do with school, custody-house payments-etc. so why would anyone want to breakup--its about one of the worst things a person has to go through.Once uon a time you loved that person and couldn't ...


2 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
truthfulone 74 F
1  Article
WANT TO SAVE ANOTHER MEMBER FROM GETTING BURNT   7/31/2006

HOW TO REPORT AN ABUSER OF THIS SITE WHO IS NOT WHAT PROFESSES IN HIS PROFILE. ALMOST ALL THE INFO IS INCORRECT, DECEPTIVE & AN OUT RIGHT LIE.
ANY SUGGESTIONS, FELLOW MEMBERS ??? WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE SOME INPUT. THANKS.


0 Comments, 205 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
Tenderswap 68 C
1  Article
How do you Break Up?   7/27/2006

If your a woman the way to get over a Man Is to get Under another One. No doubt about it.


4 Comments, 118 Views, 16 Votes ,2.10 Score
RockNRideBC 67 M
9  Articles
2 years old = That's bad = No respect...   7/19/2006

I have been looking profiles from woman in Canada and more than 90 % are over than 2 years old.
One lady had visit the last time on november 2004 and still on the listing of woman available... Is somebody could explain to me why Senior Friend Finder are not cancelling members who ain't active more than a month.
I think if a member ain't active for more than a month, ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
petitesagesse 61 F
14  Articles
Dumped   7/12/2006

When you get dumped for the second time and the third and....it's not pain of heartache you're feeling...its just nostalgia!


0 Comments, 115 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
petitesagesse 61 F
14  Articles
Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!   7/10/2006

There's no sin in loving men. Only pain!


2 Comments, 114 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
Cum2MasterDave 65 M
5  Articles
A new article   6/24/2006

Does anybody really read these articles much? Let me know


4 Comments, 106 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
ihvirisheyestoo 59 F
16  Articles
....thoughts in the night...   6/16/2006

...in the essence of a wildless night, entwined in velvet arms, lavished from the sweet lips, enchanted by her charms.

skin shone bright 'neath the autumn moon, dampened with the dew, droplets gathered along her spine and cooled her fiery hue.


the rhythmic rise and falling tides of bodies meshed as one. the soft sweet sighs and calling cries, ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
Hawkslayer 88 M
2  Articles
A Letter to Julie   6/14/2006

Julie is blonde-haired, blue-eyed and scatterbrained; she's in her 40s and is a nurse in the intensive care dept. at one of the major hospitals and teaching centres here in Georgia. The man met her when he was in there for surgery about four years ago; they became very good friends and have been so ever since.
A few years ago her father died, she then decided to adopt the man as a ...


6 Comments, 238 Views, 13 Votes ,6.83 Score
onelonelyangel 76 F
1  Article
Yes I Was A Fool   6/7/2006

I had met a man here 19 months ago and we started sending e-mails, chatting on the messengers and talking many times a day on the phone.I had been hurt many times in my life and when I found him I felt that I had finally found someone to care for me and my feelings and not hurt me. I fell in love with him and I was 100% faithful and truthful to him. He told me that I was the only woman in ...


3 Comments, 196 Views, 17 Votes ,6.80 Score
starwomyn 70 F
6  Articles
Where you see valid achievements or virtue being attacked,.......   5/30/2006

Where you see valid achievements or virtue being attacked, it's by someone viewing them as a mirror of their own inadequacy instead of an inspiring beacon for excellence.” He who seeks vengeance must dig two graves: one for his enemy and one for himself” Chinese Proverbs quotes
[COLOR ...


3 Comments, 86 Views, 25 Votes
starwomyn 70 F
6  Articles
There is a theory   5/21/2006

There is a theory which states that if ever anybody discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory which states that this has already happened. Douglas Adams (1952 - 2001)
LIFE ON LIFE'S TERMS ...


3 Comments, 66 Views, 22 Votes
MYFOX 69 F
3  Articles
Sometimes they tell the truth   5/3/2006

The man told me he had never been married. I received a call one evening, where the wife hit redial on his cell phone. She told me of their three , he was not spending time with or giving her any money for. Said I was not the only one either, that had fallen in his trap. Upset, I decided to confront him with the call from his wife. He said he was sorry that I had received the call, but he ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 9 Votes ,5.78 Score
2please 50 M
1  Article
good vs bad   5/3/2006

So you say you wanna break it off with the woman, she is either not giving you the pleasure you need or she has changed and gained the weight.. Good breakups are the best b/c you can always get a goodbye bang from the woman and a possible invite in the future. Bad ones you just dont wanna see the b**** again, shes crazy


0 Comments, 48 Views, 8 Votes
puertovallarta 70 F
2  Articles
why??   4/30/2006

Help me with this one..we have been dating for 15 months we took vacations together, spent lots of time together, spent Christmas together.. One day he came to see me before I got up..(called fromd rive on cell phone) came back to bring me lunch and took me out to eat that evening. He has not used the wordlove and in fact seemed scared of it and so I said "you act like a man falling in ...


4 Comments, 115 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
donnijoe 74 M
6  Articles
what you might be missing   4/24/2006

For those that feel that race is very important in a relationship, do you ever wonder why you have not fond the right one for you? You ever wonder why you've had so maney relationship?Have you ever looked at a person of a diffrent color than you, and said to yourself wow that is a very handsome or perty preson. Have you ever felt that you are missing out on somthing??? Think about it for a ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
wittytoo 71 M
1  Article
Easter lament - need someone who will be more   4/14/2006

Almost as dreaded as "I think we ought to go out with other people". She was telling me that she wasn't happy with what I had to offer.
But she was still hanging on to me, not daring to start afresh with someone new. She knew it could be months, if at all, before it achieved intimacy like we had right then.
You ask what exactly is "...."? Why did she say to me, "I need ...


2 Comments, 130 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
donnijoe 74 M
6  Articles
don't you wish?   4/8/2006

don't you wish you could love are make love to whom you wish? Don't you wish that you could be with some one that you are not suppose to be with., yet you talk to them all of the time, smile with them, get mad at them. Want to make love to them. You ever wonder how it would be? if you did it, could you let it go? if it was the best you ever had, could you let it go??Yet where you come from ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
MerrilyMcCarthy 75 F
3  Articles
Popcorn Nibblin Man   4/5/2006

Popcorn Nibbling Man

His left hand nibbled at the popcorn
Feeling and picking the perfect popped kernel
His hand was yellowed; the popcorn was buttery;
Gropping in the semi dark, gathering, seeking, searching...
That left hand was like a small animal picking it's meal
For the big balding blond head of the fat man, staring...
At ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
daffodil12 75 F
28  Articles
A BROKEN OATH   4/2/2006

A BROKEN OATH

There he stood , still in the cold - Black the night of a rainy time. Deep in the innocence of her soul, She thought he was her lifeline!
She hoped that honesty lay beneath - This holy bond an oath bequeaths! For in truth alone could this survive - A sacred oath that breaks and revives!
He swore that she was - his sole goal - Thus ...


13 Comments, 237 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
The Brown Bottle Flu Adventures   3/28/2006

Mr. Tennessee man was pulled over by the Mississippi City Kitty for speeding. The Blonde City Kitty stepped out of her patrol car, adjusted her sunglasses, and swaggered up to the Mr. Tennessee's window. "What chew driving so fast for boy? You going to a fahhr? Let me see your license, boy." Mr. Tennessee handed over his license. Then the City Kitty noticed that the back seat of the car ...


2 Comments, 127 Views, 17 Votes ,0.72 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Brew with Tomato Juice at the Honeydoo Tavern   3/28/2006

The Tennessee man entered the Missouri Honeydoo tavern, sat down at the bar, and ordered a double budweiser brew with Tomato Juice on the rocks. After he finished the drink, he peeked inside his shirt pocket, then he ordered the bartender to prepare another double brew. After he finishes that, he again peeked inside his shirt pocket and ordered the bartender to bring him another double ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 12 Votes
MsCutie 70 F
8  Articles
Just Be Careful, Women!!!   3/27/2006

I have a lifelong friend that is a MSW and alcohol councilor in a prison in the South. She went ballistic when I told her that I communicated and have met a few men online. The men that she councils are in there for life and some on death row. She is a rough, tough, cookie herself and is a recovering alcoholic. She knows the game. Some of the men she councils have killed the women that ...


6 Comments, 255 Views, 40 Votes ,7.31 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Overheard at the Honey Doo Tavern   3/26/2006

The Number One Man from Tennessee quotes "I'll take Shakespeare for 1000, Alex." "Duct tape won't fix that." "Come to think of it, I'll have a Heineken." Give me the small bag of pork rinds." "Deer heads detract from the decor."
The Number One DingALing from Texas quotes "Lisa Marie was lucky to catch Michael." "You can't feed that to the dog." "I just couldn't find a ...


4 Comments, 101 Views, 18 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Uplifting others   3/24/2006

Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, ''Make me feel important.'' Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life. Mary Kay Ash
Sandwich every bit of criticism between two thick layers of praise. Mary Kay Ash


1 Comments, 40 Views, 16 Votes
MDmanhere7 69 M
1  Article
Sometimes Making Up beats breaking Up!   3/22/2006

Besides, I liked having someone laying close to me during those cold winter nights! It wasn't just the body heat or the sex, but the closeness, being able to know that they are right there and to sence it as well.The pleasant smell beings givin off sets your mind at ease, knowing that shes' mine and shes right here with me, a real sence or inner security for the both of us. I use to be ...


1 Comments, 76 Views, 12 Votes ,4.57 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
BullyPolice   3/22/2006

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.” Harvey S. Firestone quotes
High Acheiver!!!!...


4 Comments, 101 Views, 15 Votes ,0.83 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Useful Phases   3/20/2006

1) Thank you. We're all refreshed and challenged by your unique point of view.
2) The fact that no one understands you doesn't mean you're an artist.
3) I don't know what your problem is, but I'll bet it's hard to pronounce.
4) Any connection between your reality and mine is purely coincidental.
5) I have plenty of talent and vision. I just don't give a ...


2 Comments, 93 Views, 21 Votes
MsCutie 70 F
8  Articles
How Much Time Is A Waste Of Time?   3/17/2006

I know that computers have united kzillions of couples. I have enjoyed talking with new folks online and conversing, exchanging emails, daily news, etc. But....when it comes to dating I want to do a little surface talk, test the safety factor, are they worth meeting, and cut to the chase. Meet them in a very safe place and see what is there. I am 100% female. I am not all body/looks- ...


6 Comments, 181 Views, 29 Votes ,7.15 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Rejection is a part of life   3/16/2006

We sometime wonder if what we are writing about, is going to be an impact on someone's life. Did I say the wrong thing, should I have said nothing. Or would it of been better if I put it another way. I wonder if... oops! what did I do wrong. Noone likes rejection but isn't it a part of life. We look for a job, are we going to get called, and if not, why didn't I, oh, gosh, I must of did or ...


2 Comments, 70 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
A woman feels so.....   3/14/2006

"Lovemaking" is the start of having a wonderful sexual encounter. That goes back to the caveman days. When their work was done, they would meet up with a lady..start a fire, sat down and talked, first, and before they knew it, they were fondling each other. In those days one wonders if they knew what they were really doing, but they did know they were enjoying it. So they kept on ...


4 Comments, 133 Views, 19 Votes ,2.73 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
love is confusing   3/14/2006

Do you find that alot of people confuse love with sex or vice versa? To love someone is to be agreeable to look after one another. Which means that you are expected to be everything. A Dr. nurse, lawyer, teacher, housemaid, good cook, adviser, accountant. and have alot of PATIENCE. You are to be there for that someone 24 hours everyday of every year. To be the one that will give as well as ...


2 Comments, 107 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Redirecting the Hurt into another Passion   3/13/2006

The Artist Beatrice Wood was hurting because of a broken love affair. She was in a antique store looking at Fine China. She decided to make a Teapot to go with the China. The Artist took a pottery class and was able to transform that hurt into passion. She became world famous for her sculptures. She lived to be 105 and remarked that her secret to Longevity was Young Men and ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 16 Votes ,0.78 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Good House Keeper   3/12/2006

Once the woman's divorce was final, she went to the local Department of Motor Vehicles and asked to have her maiden name reinstated on her driver's license.
"Will there be any change of address?" the clerk inquired.
"No, " the woman replied.
"Oh, good, " the clerk said, clearly delighted. "You got the house."


0 Comments, 57 Views, 17 Votes ,1.15 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Cigars for the Judge   3/12/2006

A woman was in a messy divorce involving large sums of money was talking to her lawyer. "If I lose this case, I'll be ruined." "It's in the judge's hands now, " said the lawyer. "Would it help if I sent the judge a box of cigars?" "Oh no! This judge is a stickler or ethical behavior. A stunt like that would prejudice him against you. He might even hold you in contempt of court. In fact, ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 16 Votes ,1.51 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Power/Money   3/12/2006

The breaking up scenario is one of the hardest things in our lives to go through. It can hurt for along time. Many people do suffer for years afterwards, just because of a breaking up and if you have , it can be even worse. This is why I tell my and anyone else to know who you are getting involved with. AND don't have the word "DIVORCE" in your vocabulary. One can never predict the ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Naga the Ghost   3/11/2006

Naga is the one you choose not to see. Caught, trapped, unable to change because Naga is without recognition. Unloved, Unnurtured, unseen, Powerless to move on without help. Love Guidance Attention will bring Naga to the World Light and it's all good.


0 Comments, 25 Views, 13 Votes ,0.29 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Seven of Cups - Fear   3/11/2006

Fear is the emotional state that drives one on. Where fear exist, there is opportunity for growth. Fear is what stops, limits, and holds back. A honest look at fears can help to indentify and understand where blocks are. Ride with the fear, through the fear and drive into the fear to get to the other side.


1 Comments, 26 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Six of Cups - Sorrow   3/11/2006

Sorrow is the emotional State of expressing grief or sadness. Healing Tears flow to bring regeneration. Loss of vitality is depression when one closes up to defend emotional sensitivity. Where there is water, there is life.


1 Comments, 41 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
argrueing causes problems   3/2/2006

You are so stupid, why don't you grow up, hey, you aren't pretty anymore because you're so fat" can be reason enough to get totally upset and then you want to say something in return. DON'T! BITE YOUR TONGUE! Go for a walk or do something that you feel good about. Just don't argrue, with the one that has gotten you upset. When WE are upset, we are inclined to say things that maybe we do ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
theconsort 67 M
1  Article
Greybeard is pumkin nog and soul?   2/27/2006

Greybeard is the King in Waiting patiently for his throne. I usually vote for Homeboy. My computer would not let me vote every twenty-four hours - but whenever I keep voting for Homeboy, I did so. I even went to the library so that I could keep voting for Homeboy. I admire his style. <br> <br> Nevertheless, the more I inquire about Greybeard, the more I am convinced that he ...


6 Comments, 150 Views, 19 Votes ,5.50 Score
EmilyHelen 69 F
2  Articles
Concentrate on the Good Points   2/25/2006

The old Neil Sedaka song comes to mind when looking at the topic of breaking up with someone. Many of you know it. "They say that breakin up is hard to do, but I know, I know that its true . . ." What bothers me most is the fact that many people I converse with in my friendship and family circles seem to have angry and bitter relationship endings. After dating a couple of nice men in the ...


1 Comments, 88 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
Pride's Purge   2/21/2006

of a domestic , maid and cook not the of a significant other job came with a bed for the <br> he slept in the den , on leather slipped out at night , exiting window wandered street , learned its way <br> slept at his desk , failed tests called retread , retard , the dupe slept thru rote , group hugs , quips <br> and then the dance , date ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
MsCutie 70 F
8  Articles
Just Don't Lie To Me..   2/21/2006

I hate liars. I have an ability to detect a lie from afar. I have no time to decipher the lies. We have ALL been lied to from one time to another. It is not polite and some liars have difficulty remembering what is the truth and what is a lie. It is all games. It is the inability of a person not strong enough to communicate their needs and stand up for who and what they are. Lies can ...


4 Comments, 158 Views, 21 Votes ,6.47 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
HELLO   2/19/2006

is this it I’m seconds away from the answer pick up pick up <br> my gut in turmoil as is its nature pick up pick up <br> is this that split second divide pick up pick up <br> the before and after pick up pick up <br> HELLO


1 Comments, 52 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
MsCutie 70 F
8  Articles
Just Don't Look Back   2/19/2006

Cry if you must, seek the truth for the split but move on. I tried not to make too many new decisions after my divorce. Some of the things I bought I later thought WHY. I think the worst feeling for me was being in bed alone. When I moved to my new place I set up the bedroom but slept on the couch for two years. I just could NOT climb into that bed alone. I found out that I had ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
Brazil 52   2/15/2006

three river wolves on sugar loaf <br> three river wolves fled Rio ghetto bordello street gave chase <br> three river wolves bled out on sugar loaf


1 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
tree   2/13/2006

tree <br> <br> <br> its bark its wood since healed she dressed its wound pitch and gauze <br> neighborhood knowing the gossip the talk saw her less than a whiffled ripple <br> axed a cut analogous marrow incised wound sate chatter she gave to me life’s task protect this tree be its sentinel


0 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
diatribe   2/7/2006

rioting world over new world order burning killing death destruction democracy coming to the neighborhood the middle east <br> living in a city short of tradesmen high rise constructs clouding daybreak <br> construction cranes populate city space furtive race to finish accommodate off shore moguls <br> city center bustle win ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Rosie36red 74 F
1  Article
Grace under fire   2/2/2006

Sometimes no matter how well you are matched how much fun you seem to be having, something happens and it all falls apart. My advice remember the good times and learn from the bad. I try never to judge people so it doesn't really matter what their reasons for acting the way they did all that matters is that I bless and release them. Thanks for the good times, that is all I will remember. ...


2 Comments, 116 Views, 20 Votes ,5.68 Score
cjc1939 83 F
2  Articles
My Blog Update   1/23/2006

Hello thought maybe I should do an update on my blog " It started with a Blog". <br> It has now been 6 month since 60minman and I started spending time together. We continue to grow closer each day and I love him very much. Life without him would be so lonely and I am so thankful that God brought us together. This part with us has been very easy as we live close enough to see one ...


1 Comments, 72 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
sunshineokie 78 F
7  Articles
STRAWS FROM MY BALE: Sunshineokie   1/15/2006

"Breaking"...that's the keyword. People need people. But we were not designed to fare well, forever. We are temporal fleshlings with eternal souls. So, the temporal enters and exits... the soul jouneys onward. Cherish the temporal, and honor the eternal. Lay up your treasures by growing spiritualy as well as physically. Science states that energy has no beginning and no end, ...it Does, ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
Riding the Whale   12/22/2005

day light afternoon hour heavy rapping door knock frantic neighbor the dock your bay dock / is loose is astray / floating free wave wind tide /colluding unhinging / anchor cable <br> his house / a cliff hanger eagle perch / sky mansion he the strait duty watcher strait sentinel /look out <br> he carries / blue hawser blue weave / fully rigged ...


2 Comments, 60 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
Chasing The Cart   12/19/2005

handle grip / wheels that stick not the pick of / on the lot you learn / cull before your turn <br> your following / it’s stop and go bountiful mercantilism / shelved vitamin enriched / quality / quantity <br> perimeter first / vegetables / dairy and meat and cheese and deli first and second tier / halfway there <br> aisles to thread / ...


1 Comments, 55 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
love versus hate   12/10/2005

We meet someone of the opposite sex, and our stomach might do a flipflop, or our heads, so we want to see them. We make a date to go dancing. Oh, gosh our whole body is jumping around and we feel we might be too nervous to carry this date through. But we do, and the next and the next. By now, we are both getting serious, he proposes, or maybe she will if he is too slow, which it has ...


1 Comments, 103 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
lonlywidower62 73 M
1  Article
It had to happen.   12/10/2005

If and when you come into a relationship if you are not completely open and truthfull it will allways fail which I have found out to my peronal regret, , , but hopefully as one door closes another opens, , , so far it hasnt opend again but one can only live in hope... Geo.


6 Comments, 335 Views, 20 Votes ,4.27 Score
CaliLadi 70 F
1  Article
Relationships for a Reason, a Season, a Lifetime   12/6/2005

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. <br> When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
Sunburst Feathers   12/2/2005

feral kill two sunburst feather kills concentric paradigm hub centre indistinguishable death sanguine selectively spread feathered quills <br> alighting waiting out slurry storm wings weighted sleet dampened flight exhaustion lack of attention easy prey predator’s street mark <br> unaware nocturnal stalks foreshore feral cats ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
5 steps to winning a man   11/29/2005

1. be a good cook 2. treat him with respect always 3. leave his credit card at home 4. don't borrow money from him 5. give him plenty of compliments


10 Comments, 360 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
can we not...   11/28/2005

how many times have you said "can we not" how many times have you said"why" to your spouse/partner Did he hear you.Do you know if he heard you. What did he say. Why isn't she staying. why do they always have to agree, but leave.


0 Comments, 148 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
SIR   11/27/2005

SIR <br> <br> duty watch , middle watch making rounds troop of sounds , booted men , metal decks checking heads , nooks and crannies shenanigans , cause for commander’s report why up so late , you should turn in can’t sleep sir , it drones on and on sir this drone , is it in your mind , your head yes sir , afraid so sir , allows for no ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
holly020361 69 F
17  Articles
Time!!   10/29/2005

TIME!! Please give me the strength to walk away Because all I seem to want is to stay Please give me the strength to be strong Knowing that I did nothing wrong Please let my heart start to heal Knowing that the love wasn't real Please erase him from my mind But one like him , I will never find. Please take away all this pain Because this Love was all in vain. Please tell him ...


8 Comments, 447 Views, 32 Votes ,6.24 Score
Korallinda1 70 F
3  Articles
"HEVERYTING WHAT IT MAKES HAS A PUBLIC DIMENSION AND POLITICS ".   10/17/2005

Announcement of the Nobel Prize in Literature 2005 by the Permanent Secretary, Horace Engdahl, at the Swedish Academy in Stockholm, October 13, 2005. The announcement is followed by an interview with Horace Engdahl about the 2005 Nobel Laureate in Literature. Interviewer is Ola Larsmo, freelance journalist. *When receiving the notice, Pinter, just-recouped of an esophagus cancer and ...


7 Comments, 190 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
How to Lure A Capricorn Into Matrimony   10/16/2005

Capricorn are reliable, practical, disciplined, reserved and very serious about everything. Fortunately that includes sensual gratification. The Capricorn libido actually increases with age. The Capricorn wants someone who is reserved and proper in public behind closed doors. Oh la la - and think to yourself what a wonderful world. To turn on a Capricorn - you must convince them that ...


1 Comments, 124 Views, 15 Votes ,0.99 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
Fear of honesty   9/24/2005

Update on previous article reveals that fear of honesty was the motive for not speaking. As many said, communication is essential, and hiding one's feelings and thoughts in the beginning can certainly result in two people operating from different points of view. The only other alternative is to spend the first several dates taking about the weather and the price of gasoline. Honesty is ...


0 Comments, 99 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
   2005-09-22

LADY CAY RAISE UP YOUR HEAD LOOK AROUND YOU'RE STILL ALIVE TIME TO GET UP AND OUT OF BED ONE MORE NIGHT ALONE YOU SURVIVE <br> THE GOOD LORD WANTS TO KEEP YOU HERE FOR MANY REASONS WE NOW KNOW SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FRIENDS SO DEAR SO IT'S UP AND OUT OF BED YOU GO <br> YOU HAVE ANOTHER WONDERFUL DAY AHEAD TO SPREAD YOUR SPECIAL LOVING AND CARE DON'T FRET BE HAPPY TO BE ALIVE INSTEAD FRIENDS WILL HELP WITH THAT LOAD YOU BEAR <br> GO DO YOUR EVERY MORNING THINGS SHOWER, DRESS AND FIX SOMETHING TO EAT FORGET YOU’RE FLYING ON DAMAGED WINGS WITH TIME AND FRIENDS YOUR WOES WE'LL BEAT <br> RELISH IN THE THOUGHTS OF LOVE DON'T WORRY AND DWELL ON THE PAIN YOUR ANGELS ARE HOOVERING ABOVE KNOWING LOVE CAN AND WILL RAINE. <br> LADY CAY NICKNAMED LACE PLEASE BE AWARE CHASE THE THOUGHTS OF PAIN FROM YOUR HEAD YOU HAVE MANY FRIENDS BESIDES ME THAT CARE NOW TURN AROUND AND MAKE YOUR BED. <br> FOR YOU LADY CAY PATIENCE IS A MUST THE TIME FOR HEALING IS HERE NOT THERE IN FRIENDSHIP YOU CAN PUT YOUR TRUST IN OUR HOLY GOD, PLACE YOUR PRAYER.


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CW_D 78 M
6  Articles
Stealing your heart   9/22/2005

I sit here trying to make a poem that rhymes I think about you, your sweet voice and your smile The conversations, your laughter and our fun times Wondering how to steal your heart all the while <br> <br> I want you to be fully aware of my intention I want you to know I really do care I am planning on winning over your affection Wanting to be your own private Teddy ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
wsup 74 F
1  Article
rain   9/15/2005

Anyone who says sunshine brings happiness has never danced in the rain


1 Comments, 85 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
tassie47 76 F
2  Articles
Did President Bush RespondQuicklt enough   9/7/2005

well I don't usually talk on politics but this is a time will ask did President Bush respond to the hurricane disaster quickly enough when he knew New Orleans would be a disaster before it happened? I am feeling so sad for all the lives lost in the city and the poor who were so forgotten would it have made a difference if it had been the rich ? I think it would have. Also the response ...


1 Comments, 47 Views, 0 Votes
Italianmama3 73 F
1  Article
Why can't men be truthful   8/12/2005

If a man is married and so happy, why in God's name must he resort to telling lies on his profile and say that he has been extremely truthful in his answers. If you wanted a one night stand, say so and don't let the woman fall deeply in love with you. One can't mend a broke heart as one can get over a one night stand. Be up front men.


5 Comments, 310 Views, 28 Votes ,6.94 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
What are the goals here?   8/10/2005

Of course the relationship is destined to demise if one's profile is seeking a long-term relationship and possible marriage. On the other hand, that person has very little time to devote to others, and claims to have been alone for so long that it's hard to followed ideas of his dates.....he wants her to go braless to a date (which is a bit over the top for a 42 D large breasted woman) ...


0 Comments, 108 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
foot steps in the sand   8/9/2005

two pair and aware traveling together in the immediate minimal thou it be <br> chance encounter circumstance and event passing phases without content <br> knowing Kalahari wind backfills track evidance of the past present and future enjure


0 Comments, 91 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
summerville05 59 F
2  Articles
Don't You Get It?   8/6/2005

I dated this MBA guy, who I thought was an intelligent, respectable and highly disciplined man. After about a year into the realtionship, I asked him where we stand and his answer was, "I am not there yet". I waited patiently for him to get there....Another year past and he seem to be not getting there but getting away instead. Finally, I made this decision to just give up and move on. ...


10 Comments, 521 Views, 42 Votes ,7.39 Score
summerville05 59 F
2  Articles
Haven't even started   8/4/2005

I chatted with this great guy for 2 months and he wanted to call me, finally. I gave him my number and he did call one day during work hour. I couldn't talk very much 'coz of the environmen. The next thing I know, he said he wanted to move on since I seem not interested and that he doesn't want anymore false expectatiosn.......We haven't even discuss anything about building a ...


7 Comments, 468 Views, 37 Votes ,6.20 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
What happened?   7/5/2005

After six dates, he just stops talking to me; no answering calls, emails. Not a word to explain what happened. We live in a society where, unfortunately, some people believe they can just trample on someone else's emotions and it is reflected on tv, news, etc. Respect begins with acknowledging that one cannot have relationships with others unless respect is shown. Thank you for the ...


3 Comments, 307 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
niceriguy2 52 M
1  Article
not easy   7/4/2005

Just be honest!


0 Comments, 106 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
Modern living   6/4/2005

1) The man is at fault. He seems to think that there is something to prove. Usually of course his virility. So off he goes beating his chest and looking for the first Jane in the jungle. 2) The woman is at fault. She's had enough. The have all grown up and the man looks like a pair of old shoes that need chucking out. A younger man is what she wants. An article I read recently said that ...


1 Comments, 148 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
You must have some standards   5/30/2005

I hardly noticed really when it started to happen. On reflection it could have happened 20 yrs ago. A king size bed and me all alone on 'my side'. Or was it only 10 yrs ago when I was only coming home at the w/ends? Or was it when we stopped bathing together? left home and we found that we had nothing to talk about? When i was away I would ring three times a day. Morning, lunch time and ...


1 Comments, 166 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
ruggedntenderaty 75 M
7  Articles
How many stages do we go through?   5/27/2005

After the divorce is over, how long and how many stages do we go through? What are they, and when do we know we are through all? I have been a year now and feel reasonably well satisfied I have worked through all, but maybe others know more than I about much of this. I heard one man refer to taking half the years you were together to get over marriage.. is that so? if so I was 20 year, ...


8 Comments, 291 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
Madisgrandma 70 F
8  Articles
There is Life After A BreakUp!   5/2/2005

You've been dating 9 months now and things are looking a little rough. You don't hear from him (or her) as much and when you do, conversations are short and vague. You hear the "I've been busy" excuse and you wonder "What did I do wrong". Ladies (and gents), when you start hearing these responses it's time to mentally and emotionally prepare yourself for a break-up. (Get your mind ...


2 Comments, 242 Views, 23 Votes ,4.88 Score
PhotoGuy1949 69 M
4  Articles
Made Easy (or easier)   4/26/2005

We have talked about honesty and it really comes into play here. The truth hurts sometimes but hurts most of the time when a relationship turns sour for one of the parties. It's best to be truthful and just tell it like it is or maybe sugar coat it to save some feelings, but be firm that it is over. Feelings will always be hurt, but we are adults and most of us can handle it and move ...


2 Comments, 167 Views, 24 Votes ,3.81 Score
mycupid 79 F
1  Article
It's not that hard   4/2/2005

Breaking up? wow! it is something that should be honest and talked about before hurt feelings occur. No one likes to be told that they are not "the one" and least of all be told that by a person they thought really liked them. But breaking up can open you up to new people who may be more interested in you than the person you are presently seeing. The main thing in a breakup is to tell ...


0 Comments, 163 Views, 14 Votes ,5.54 Score
Honeysum 82 F
3  Articles
Relationships Can Be Disappointing   3/17/2005

This is why I always try to give the other party a face-saving way out, regardless of who wants to end it. I like to leave this world off better for having sojourned here. Everyone has feelings. Everyone matters.


0 Comments, 194 Views, 21 Votes ,3.50 Score
MatureLadyWanted 50 M
9  Articles
Divorce   3/17/2005

Hello, I have been in a relationship for eight years and enjoy all aspects except what happens behind closed doors. I have tried everything to keep the fire lit on our sex life but nothing seems to work? I have thought of the D word but think it is a shame to ruin a good thing when overall I am happy with her. It seems that I got a large part of what’s important in a relationship ...


6 Comments, 266 Views, 15 Votes ,1.60 Score
suepie 73 F
1  Article
Men can be so stupid!!!!!!   3/5/2005

It started out as friends and we maintained that even though we were intimate. I fell in love and thought God sent him to me. He decided things were too serious and wanted to be friends. I believe he loved me. Why are men so stupid when it comes to commitment? To me it is so simple. I thought we had it all, but it turned out he was biding his time while waiting for the perfect woman to step ...


6 Comments, 488 Views, 35 Votes ,3.50 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
God and Ice Cream   2/19/2005

Last week I took my to a restaurant. My six-year-old asked if he could say grace. As we bowed our heads he said, "God is good, God is great. Thank you for the food, and I would even thank you more if Mom gets us ice cream for dessert. And Liberty and justice for all! Amen!" <br> Along with the laughter from the other customers nearby, I heard a woman remark, "That's what's ...


1 Comments, 150 Views, 19 Votes ,5.63 Score
singlemom122157 66 F
6  Articles
Its so hard to let you go   2/7/2005

Wherever life may take you, your always at home right here in my heart. its not easy to let you go but this is our destiny we need to move on. that is the worst part of breaking up but life goes on be happy and enjoy the life. <br> by: singlemom122157 02/07/2005


1 Comments, 142 Views, 18 Votes ,2.72 Score
chichette013 63 F
18  Articles
IN A HOMELESS EYE   2/3/2005

I USE TO HEAR A LULLABY OH SO SOFT AND SWEET I USE TO HAVE A PLACE TO REST NICE SHOES UPON MY FEET A FAMILY THAT LOVED ME ALWAYS HAD PLENTY TO EAT AS I SIT HERE IN THIS OLD COLD BOX I WONDER AND CAN'T SEEM TO GRASP HOW THING GOT HOW THEY HAVE GOT TODAY I HAVE ONLY THE CLOTHES THAt i can carry use to be i had closets and drank fine sherry <br> you see we aren't ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
MadenOfGondor 65 F
3  Articles
If I was happy would I be here?   2/2/2005

I remember chatting with this guy once, nothing new about this but I had asked him if he was happily married he said to me "if I was happy would I be here". I wonder if that is true if someone is in a relationship and they spend time on the net does this mean they are or are not happy??


2 Comments, 403 Views, 30 Votes ,3.04 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Sibling Rivalry   1/23/2005

A Sunday school teacher was discussing the Ten Commandments with her five and six year olds. After explaining the commandment to "honor" thy Father and thy Mother, she asked, "Is there a commandment that teaches us how to treat our brothers and sisters?" <br> Without missing a beat one little boy (the oldest of a family) answered, "Thou shall not kill."


0 Comments, 106 Views, 18 Votes ,4.76 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Never Choke in a Texas Restaurant   1/17/2005

Two good ol' boys walk into a bar. While having a shot of whiskey, they talk about their moonshine operation. Suddenly, a woman at a nearby table, who is eating a sandwich, begins to cough. After a minute or so, it becomes apparent that she is in real distress. <br> One of the cowboys looks at her and says "Kin ya swallar?" The woman shakes her head no. "Kin ya breathe?" The ...


0 Comments, 175 Views, 31 Votes ,4.87 Score
beeaired 84 M
9  Articles
promises..promises.   12/25/2004

Had met a lady on the telephone dating system. Never did mention she smoked as had that in my profile.She stated she was quitting and I beleived her. We even bought a house together for us and HER .After two years of broken promises on the smoking debate, her two started to smoke also..like mom. I ended the relationship and walked away from the house we had bought. She lost the house and ...


4 Comments, 251 Views, 23 Votes ,1.61 Score
holly020361 69 F
17  Articles
In their own way   12/17/2004

I made a comment recently that everyone is Beautiful in their own way. What are some of the Beautiful Qualities that you find in people? Without just looking at appearances only?


12 Comments, 300 Views, 31 Votes ,4.20 Score
whereismyrose 70 M
19  Articles
moving in   12/5/2004

You just met the woman of your dream, you do things together, you share the chore then.... your older moves in, every seems to be ok for a while, then the atmosphere start to change, the woman of your dream has to be convince to participate in the events you both use to enjoyed. Then one day you find your in a compromising situation. Do you choose family over this lady? Do you ...


3 Comments, 120 Views, 17 Votes ,0.58 Score
whereismyrose 70 M
19  Articles
Culture, foul language   12/1/2004

Let's say you met this wonderful and beautiful lady, but she is from a different country and culture, she swept you off your feet. Problem is, that she has a foul mouth. She can only speak street language. What would you do. How are you going to introduce her to your friends and parents.


2 Comments, 95 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
whereismyrose 70 M
19  Articles
appearance (physique) vs personality   11/28/2004

Is appearance (Physique) more important when one search for a sole mate, if so why. Is personality more important when one search for a soul mate. What do you ladies think about this question. How do you rate a men on a scale of 1 - 10, what tangents do you use.


1 Comments, 78 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
callieX 88 F
1  Article
Prisoners in seniorfriendfinder   11/8/2004

I have had 2 different men in here that are in Prison write me!!!! I am NOT interested in that type at all.... I wonder how many more are in here but undetected? Has anyone else had this experience?


4 Comments, 207 Views, 25 Votes ,2.69 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
Response to: Why senior men seek younger women?   10/31/2004

Frankly speaking: The women within my age bracket are all used up and can’t or won’t participate in many of the activities of my lifestyle. I have to strongly disagree with “57 and fine” on this one. I have no problem standing toe to toe intellectually with women my age. Nor do I find that the younger women are intellectually inadequate. Quite the contrary my ...


13 Comments, 345 Views, 71 Votes ,1.82 Score
rickyspin 69 M
4  Articles
Cowboy Poetry at Tellabration   10/25/2004

Howdy; <br> My handle is Ricky Spin. I will be perfoming as part of the nationwide Tellabration on 11.20.04. My perfoming name is Larry's Story Telling Emporium Tall Tales and Fine Fables. This show will be at Soka University in Aliso Viejo, California in the Ikeda Library. 8-12 are free a $5.00 is requested for the rest. <br> Tellabration is a nation wide ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Still57AndFine 71 M
15  Articles
Response to;- Dating and Spending money.   10/21/2004

May I add a little understanding from a man's point of view. When were being raised and taught how to date, many of us were taught that women like to be treated special. I dinner at a fine resturaunt, a movie, flowers, these things we were taught to present a lady with to show her as a man we were, or could be, a good provider for a family. Having the ability to give these gifts can be seen ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 21 Votes ,4.61 Score
germanborn 83 F
3  Articles
You are right. Pooof they are gone.   10/11/2004

Happened to me too. Wrote and phoned for three month. Met and dated for a couple of weeks. And Pooof, he too is gone. He claims he has a reason. He is under going cancer treatments. It's true, I went with him to one treatment. But he didn't act sick. Took me all over the place. Had a Great time- While it lasted- Was it his "Last Hurray?' Did his object? Am I ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
germanborn 83 F
3  Articles
Is it really nessecairy.   10/6/2004

Years ago I had a lover that I was totally "Mad" about. Then we broke up. I felt that I couldn't trust him, and I was right. He married some one else who was more tolerant of his foibles. They are still married, but lead separate lives. I still see my old friend, not as a lover,I could never have those romantic feelings with him again, but I see him strictly as a friend. His wife knows and ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
wooer 79 M
8  Articles
Re: Maybe we aren't meant to be lovers...   9/13/2004

This is a good article. I met a wonderful lady from this site, and she has made it very clear that she can't become my lover, but she is so perfect that I would still like to keep her as my best friend. Think about it, how big is the chance for a person to come into being? How big is the chance for two people to meet? Do we really have to be annoyed by some trifling ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 36 Votes ,5.14 Score
womaninthemoon 73 F
5  Articles
Maybe we aren't meant to be lovers, but friends count a whole lot in life   8/19/2004

Reading some of the articles posted has made me think of my reactions to relationships. I have met a few men on various sites that I would not trade for all that proverbial tea in China. We weren't meant to be lovers...but we were destined to be friends. In our parting as potential lovers...there were awkward moments...How do you say to someone...I love YOU...but I don't LOVE you? And ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 96 Votes ,8.14 Score
leftbehind 66 F
5  Articles
reply to ddonaldd   7/21/2004

Since my last article as restless2, I have changed my handle to leftbehind. I suppose I was venting when i wrote my last article, I was more over whelmed when I had found him on this site and the Adult site. I was left with nothing..He was an implusive gambler and lost everything we owned, Stole from his company and his friends, leaving me with my social security check to survive on. I have ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 36 Votes ,6.52 Score
ddonaldd 73 M
9  Articles
Alternate Response   7/14/2004

I don't know the particulars of Restless2's situation (I don't know the lady) but I'm a divorce attorney and I hear 1/2 of the story about 5 times per week. Usually the other 1/2 of the story is just about as interesting and, all too often, more so. Restless complains that her husband bought a new house? What happened to the house of the parties' residence? Could she be living in it ...


2 Comments, 69 Views, 32 Votes ,3.99 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
dear "losing your husband after a disability"   6/12/2004

Infidelity is the sign that we first see. Before that comes a long chain of miscommunication, distrust, lost passion, and a myriad of other danger signals. Unfortunately, so many women are surprised to find themselves abandoned after giving their life to their marriage. If the significant other is not playing by the rules of honoring the wedding vows, and is content to see just how much ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 53 Votes ,7.95 Score
justone15136 75 F
2  Articles
Married Men and the other one   3/31/2004

I can't think of one reson for a man to chet on his better hafe! and also why when the other one finds out that he is married, keeps going out with him is she in limbo or what???he will never be her's because someone is there already ..


0 Comments, 61 Views, 117 Votes ,4.91 Score
sharlh 78 F
1  Article
Not True Love   2/7/2004

TONITE WHILE WE WERE DANCING YOU HELD ME TIGHT IN YOUR ARMS; YOU WHISPERED, "MY DARLING, I LOVE YOU BUT STILL I FELT IT WAS WRONG. <br> AGAIN WHEN YOU KISSED ME GOOD NIGHT I FELT IT WAS REALLY GOOD BY; I CRIED MYSELF TO SLEEP OUR LOVE SURELY HAD DIED. <br> <br> WHY MUST I BE LONELY WHY ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 356 Votes
Sobriquet 70 F
9  Articles
Try keeping objective for awhile   11/16/2003

Cool your jets. Modify the smile, don't be overly anxious, sensuos, don't come on to strong. In other words begin with lower voltage and talk about how much time you give to your work, hobbies or passions, ie; interests how much time you want to spend on togetherness. Meet a few times to assess. Then evaluate in objective language: ie: we seem to be cooking on the same stove so let's go a ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 96 Votes ,1.94 Score
LadyM 73 F
6  Articles
A reason, a season or a lifetime...everthing has an end and a beginning.   8/17/2003

I really believe that in life we have to take chances, and this means get into situations where one is sometimes open to being hurt. Being senior is no blanket of screening or shelter. Age and experience still creates the same hurts, if and when a love affair ends...so knowing this, why not experience the affair and handle the rejection, with the same flair and delight you started it ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 93 Votes ,8.16 Score
sunnydelight 75 F
1  Article
Why the big secret?   12/9/2002

I read the 3 articles on breaking up... and one was pretty honest I think... except whoever wrote it did not have the courage to sign it... that says a lot about that person.. if they are not happy and want to move on then find the "courage to be honest"... it sounds like you are lacking in the honesty department. Ginger from Seattle


0 Comments, 45 Views, 96 Votes ,3.15 Score
Cissygirl 73 F
1  Article
better sooner than later.........   12/3/2002

When the relationship starts getting bad............time to do the "walkin thing"...no one needs to draw you a picture! you have known for some time, however you have been afraid to admit it, even to yourself!!!! Don't play around, when it's over , it's over, you can't go back to "could have, or should have, or would have.... yada , yada, yada....it's leftover news!!!!!!! TRYING TO GET ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 123 Votes ,7.38 Score