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Rentier1 68
2  Articles
Random thoughts on first dates   11/2/2014

- Pick a neutral location that has other people nearby. Places such as Starbucks are good since the seating design usually allows for some privacy.

- Have a prepared excuse to leave if the meeting is obviously taking a dive.

- Gentlemen. Avoid insisting on Dutch first time around. In fact, refuse it if she offers. I know we are all supposed to be equal and all in this day ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 0 Votes
Rich1937 76
2  Articles
FInally Giving Up   9/11/2011

The general trend of SSF has been gradually more and more liberal, with some beating the drum against conservatives and drumming up support for another web site. The social tone of this site has lessened and has less appeal every day. The divisions are as sharp as real life, which of course, is no surprise. I guess what has brought it to a finale for me, is the utter abandonment of facts, and ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Rich1937 76
2  Articles
Timely Book Makes Easy Reading   11/10/2011

I have to thank a blogger who has written many blogs that don't jibe with my understanding of good economics to cause me to do a little searching.

I have just begun to read the book by Peter Schiff and his brother Andrew.

It is entitled "How An Economy Grows And Why It Crashes".

Now this sounds like a very dull and boring book. It's not! Not a very thick book, it is ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
Gold member   12/9/2011

I was a Gold Member for some years, but did not get any value from it. Indeed I failed to make any new friends either. I still visit the site as a standard member, but of course I am very restricted, and it is almost impossible to contact anyone. Any comments would be appreciated!...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
What's wrong?   29/5/2011

I sumitted an article to this section last March, and note there has been no post since. Why??...


1 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Whats wrong   28/3/2011

I thought of upgrading from "Standard" until I observed that the last article posted here is several months old. Why???? John...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
How to visit australia   26/8/2010

OK, you want to come to australia - you've seen Crocodile Dundee in the movies, you watch films with australian actors, and you want some of the action out here. But what should you do to get here for a holiday?

First: think about why you want to be here and where you want to go and what you want to see. What draws you here?

Google information about Australia's history, ...


3 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
tazmantenn 64
218  Articles
An Old Farmer's Advice:   9/6/2009

An Old Farmer's Advice:

* Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight and bull-strong. *Keep skunks and bankers at a Distance. *Life is simpler when you plow around the stump. *A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor. * Words that soak into your ears are whispered...not yelled. * Meanness don't jes' happen overnight. * Forgive your enemies. It messes up their ...


3 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
_JKH54_ 60
26  Articles
G-men !   30/3/2009

The most terrifying words used in a sentence in the English language are, "I'm a Government agent and I'm here to help."...


2 Comments, 27 Views, 10 Votes ,0.40 Score
tazmantenn 64
218  Articles
Andy one more time   15/1/2009

Andy Rooney, a man who has the gift of saying so much with so few words. Enjoy.......

I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows.

I've learned.... That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!' makes my day.

I've learned.... That having a child fall ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Whats gone wrong   27/12/2008

I have not visited this site for some time. On checking the General Advice section of the magazine today I was disappointed to see that there has onlyb been a few posts since last July. Anyone like to comment? John...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
tazmantenn 64
218  Articles
Forrest Gump Explains   18/11/2008

Forrest Gump Explains Mortgage Backed Securities:





Mortgage Backed Securities are like boxes of chocolates. Criminals on Wall Street stole a few chocolates from the boxes and replaced them with turds. Their criminal buddies at Standard & Poor rated these boxes AAA Investment Grade chocolates. These boxes were then sold all over the world to investors. Eventually somebody ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
tazmantenn 64
218  Articles
1st graders   29/7/2008

A 1st grade school teacher had twenty-six students in her class. She presented each child in her classroom the 1st half of a well-known proverb and asked them to come up with the remainder of the proverb. It's hard to believe these were actually done by first graders. Their insight may surprise you. While reading, keep in mind that these are first-graders, 6-year-olds, because the last one is ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
_JKH54_ 60
26  Articles
Trying to fight old men!   17/6/2008

Don't pick a fight with old men. If they think they're too old to fight, they'll just kill you. Very true!...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 13 Votes ,1.13 Score
_JKH54_ 60
26  Articles
Age !   17/6/2008

I've learned that age is a very high price to pay for maturity. Well, most of the time! ...


5 Comments, 42 Views, 16 Votes ,1.51 Score
Is this site for Senior Friend Finders? ?   3/3/2008

Looking down through the articles in this section I notice a request from a 30 year old male for sex, and a 33 year old lady looking for someone "to care for".

I am a Gold member for some years and understood that this site was for senior people, who in my opinion must be at least 45 years of age to qualify.

I fail to see, or indeed to understand, how membership could be ...


5 Comments, 80 Views, 30 Votes ,1.87 Score
lovethecoast 68
1  Article
telephone customer service   30/9/2007

today i had a GOOD experience calling one of my credit card companies.

the first person i spoke with had a very heavy accent ... as i've gotten older, i have a problem understanding accents on the telephone. i always have to say, "i beg your pardon?" several times during the conversation and end up frustrated.

this time, i said, "i'm sorry, but i have a difficult time ...


4 Comments, 27 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
katyio 66
2  Articles
loseing weight!!!!   23/9/2007

a clip from the program doc martin, he said to his over weight patient, "I have thought of a new method for you to lose weight" whats that doc she replied?? "shut you mouth" the doc answered.


0 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
yaaka 38
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Being a sigle mum   6/9/2007

[COLOR blue]Many people have been loved and they are being loved. when i was a girl i would blum People who have kids with different fathers but if God planned it for you never you will have it .I was mistreated in my first marriage until when i went back to my parents.i raised my little girl alone and i got my life in some one's loving hands thinking i will be the happy ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
How Did You Get Enough Points   29/8/2007

I've been trying to get enough points for a Gold membership. I do the groups, the voting and the responding. And my points just stay the same. I write SFF. Sometimes that helps. This last time. I've just been ignored.

Anyone else having this problem?


3 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
scubadiver6911 83
2  Articles
Copy and Paste your Emails.   4/8/2007

Yesterday I emailed bbdelray and I clicked save mail and sent it, but it did not show up in my sent mail so asked if she received it and today she said she had not. So composed the email over again and this time I copied it before sending it. Would you believe when I sent it I got booted off SFF and could not log on again for 2 hours! So this time I pasted my email and this time ...


3 Comments, 50 Views, 0 Votes
Why Aren't My Articles Showing Up and Where are My Points?   24/7/2007

Is anyone else having this problem? Is the SFF staff over worked or what? More than likely, an article doesn't show up and the points don't either. Sometimes the article will show after a few days, but then the points never do.

It gets wearying after a while.


2 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Getting old.   21/7/2007

We should all plan ahead for the time we will have difficulty looking after ourselves. I have a friend who during renovations on his house recently, had hand rails installed in the bathroom, passage ways widened, rails in the kitchen, new taps installed, and a host of other aids for when he starts to become feeble. He says he wants to be able to look after himself as long as possible, and put ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
scubadiver6911 83
2  Articles
SLANT BOARDS   21/7/2007

Since I have trouble with my back, having spinal stenosis between the third and fourth vertebrae I find the slant board helpful for relieving the pressure. At my Bally Total Fitness they have two of them and I usually spend 10 min one them at the deepest incline of 45 degrees. I do sit ups, leg exercises, breathing and squeezing my kigels. Have any of you tried the SLANT BOARD?


2 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
GoodManRon 67
4  Articles
What Do You Think ?   17/6/2007

What Do You Think? When I was married I never cheated on my wife but was hit on many times from married and single women. This happened on the bus to and from work (when I took it), in the grocery store (shopping alone), at malls, retail stores, cashiers, etc..... Now that I am single I am not hit on as much, especially from married women. Could it be that when I was married they felt no sense of ...


5 Comments, 124 Views, 23 Votes ,1.26 Score
Hotels   13/6/2007

Some lucky people have partners, and can go on holidays with them, and avail of normal hotel rates(per person sharing) A lot more of us travel alone, and have to pay exorbitant single supplements. I know that most hotels will give a "Seniors" discount, but the "single supplement" should be abolished also for senior citizens. In many cases we are alone through no fault of our own, by seperation, ...


3 Comments, 44 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
loopey 60
3  Articles
Lower Your Prostate Risk   7/6/2007

Mayo Clinic researcher have found that taking non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) such as aspirin or ibuprofen may prevent or delay the development of an enlarged prostate, which can cause urinary symptoms in men as they age.

"This study suggests that men's urinary health may be improved by taking NSAIDs, " says Dr. Michael Lieber, Mayo Clinic urologist and study ...


2 Comments, 36 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Global Warming   18/4/2007

Do we believe the scientists who have given us all the doom and gloom about global warming....


5 Comments, 36 Views, 18 Votes ,1.62 Score
terryaki 60
10  Articles
Trying too hard!   20/2/2007

I often hear this, from married people who tell me, that I am trying too hard to find a partner. Maybe you hear this too, since you are looking on the internet. They advise that if I stop looking, finding the right partner, will happen, like fate! Can you try too hard? It is better to stop looking and just make myself available?


6 Comments, 64 Views, 23 Votes ,3.83 Score
david20051957 56
4  Articles
I am visiting Washington DC,need advice   15/2/2007

Hello my beautiful friends, I am planning to travel to Washington DC from Christchurch, New Zealand. I need advice about DC can you help me please. All I need is you to answer questions, I am going to ask in the future thank you. David


1 Comments, 31 Views, 0 Votes
buddie 71
5  Articles
woodworking   12/2/2007

I've been puttering with a jigsaw, sanders, etc for awhile and recently acquired my 1st scroll saw. Does anyone know a web site where I can get free patterns for small woodworking projects? Would like to do more. Thanks.


3 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
david20051957 56
4  Articles
My return trip to Quebec and Ontario,Canada   26/1/2007

Hello all you beautiful Canadians. Last year, I visit Quebec and Ontario.I love Montreal and Toronto and I have decided to go back in 2008. Where are good places to stay please.


3 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
What to wear, or not   30/12/2006

I recently met someone for the first time from SFF. It was just for coffee, however, I wore nice casual clothes. The guy shows up wearing sweat pants and a rumpled flannel shirt. In that first moment, we each judged each other by our appearance. My thoughts were that he is a nice looking man with good manners. We could talk easily and plan on seeing each other again, however, I have to ...


30 Comments, 259 Views, 160 Votes ,1.64 Score
Younger members   12/12/2006

I notice there appears to be a lot of younger male members in this site. I cannot understand why a male of say 45 would bother with a site where the average age would be in the sixties. Do they think that older females because of being lonely, suffering from grief after a bereavement, or just getting old would be an easy lay. Certainly when I was that age I could not see myself behaving ...


22 Comments, 190 Views, 110 Votes ,1.00 Score
travel4513 52
3  Articles
Finding a mature woman   29/11/2006

I have an immense physical attration towards mature women but haven't been able to connect with anyone. I am non-pushy, approachable, and have a sense of humor. Any suggestions out there?


21 Comments, 211 Views, 56 Votes ,1.88 Score
Warming Trend   24/11/2006

Cuddled up in warm fleece, or remembering a favorite smile, a familiar voice, a compliment, all warming, all the while.


2 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Roberto_Falcao 60
2  Articles
Just go somewhere, anywhere....   2/11/2006

A change of scenery every now and then is always a good thing.
In late August - early September, I was horribly stressed-out. You know the drill; a bunch of little annoying things keep coming, and all of the sudden, they don't seem so little anymore.
So I left on vacation. It does wonders to wake up in a new place and ponder what I feel like doing on that particular day. ...


4 Comments, 51 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
Great expectations   27/9/2006

I notice a lot of people seem to expect too much from casual encounters on this web site. There seems to be a lot of people complaining about people they have just met, which would indicate that too much was expected in the first place. Why can we not just take people as we find them. Everyone is different, with a different outlook on life, which is one of the reasons I like to meet new ...


5 Comments, 75 Views, 28 Votes ,5.19 Score
pictureman6911 78
8  Articles
Advise for people that have Diabetis 2   5/9/2006

When I was in my early 40's at 190 lbs I was diagnosed with diabetes 2 and was given pills, told to go on a 1500 calorie diet and exercise. I got off the pills and have been eating right and exercising ever since and as of my last VA exam my fasting blood glucose is 105. 75 to 110 is normal. I maintain my weight at 169 lbs and my height is 5ft10in. I have been using saccharin to sweeten my ...


7 Comments, 88 Views, 30 Votes ,3.24 Score
pictureman6911 78
8  Articles
I had faceless lady email me.   4/9/2006

I asked why she did not post pictures and she simply did not know how so I gave her detailed instructions. So those who have not posted here is how to do it!!!!

> Hi Karina, Sorry you are having trouble uploading your photos. First you have to store your photos in My Pictures on your computer and be sure they are facing right by dates or titles. If your computer does ...


4 Comments, 75 Views, 18 Votes ,3.12 Score
RandyTeacher 55
17  Articles
Sending the first e-mail: Getting Attention   22/8/2006

In the world of online dating, you have about 10 seconds to make a good first impression, so good writing skills can really make your correspondence sparkle.
You've found a profile and you'd like to contact him/her. It may not be your first connection at this website, but without the right opening line, it could be more difficult to get a response. So how do you make contact ...


2 Comments, 64 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
david20051957 56
4  Articles
Recipe for banannas   21/8/2006

All you beautiful chefs out there in cyberville cafe.I have 6 bananas nearly ripe what can I bake or cook from them. You good words are most welcome.Just keep this in mind I am a single male, hope that helps you. Thanks


3 Comments, 60 Views, 0 Votes
pictureman6911 78
8  Articles
Slant Board   3/8/2006

When I go to Bally Total Fitness I try to use their Slant Board. I usually spend about 10 min. on it. It has adjustable positions and I choose the steepest about 45 degrees, put my knees over the top and hang and breath, do sit ups and different leg exercises, I find it helpful for my back problem, intestines, sinuses, and biceps. Does you gym have a Slant Board?


2 Comments, 40 Views, 0 Votes
Opportunity   31/7/2006

Early or late, a visit by fate to open the gate; well worth the wait for inseperable mate.


1 Comments, 59 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
pictureman6911 78
8  Articles
How to help back problems.   30/7/2006

I hurt my back climbing stairs with all my photography gear when I was doing home portraits and turns out I developed spinal stenosis between the 4th and 5th vertebrae.
I find that by attending yoga and pilates classes it helps my back stay limber. Also water exercises and plain old swimming. Jacuzzi is helpful. I tried chiropractic, body rolling but that did not help. Does anyone ...


54 Comments, 845 Views, 154 Votes ,0.95 Score
Roberto_Falcao 60
2  Articles
How To Get Rid of Unwanted Solicitors Who Come To Your Home   19/7/2006

No, I don't swear or throw things at them or be incredibly crude. It's helpful if you speak a foreign language that is not widely understood in your area.
Ie., when people come to my door trying to sell me their religion, I speak to them in Portuguese. I'm very polite, and smile at them as I speak. They're gone in thirty seconds or less.
Even if you don't speak such ...


4 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
GreatSmile4U 69
3  Articles
Getting a Personal Trainer???? Think again...   26/6/2006

This is for anyone who ever attempted to get into a regular workout routine.

Dear Diary: For my 50th birthday this year, my girlfriend (the dear) purchased a week of personal training at the local health club for me. Although I am still in great shape since playing on my College football team 32 yrs ago, I decided it would be a good idea to go ahead and ...


4 Comments, 145 Views, 28 Votes ,4.58 Score
Violence.   30/4/2006

Why is there so much talk of violence, and war, on this site. Whether we agree or not, with the invasion of Iraq, the fact remains, that hundreds of very young Americans mostly, from very poor backgrounds are going home in body bags. On the other side, a large number of Iraqi civilians are being killed. It would appear nothing is being achieved from all this loss of life, as the country ...


2 Comments, 28 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
Do we expect too much?   22/4/2006

Reading through the advice colums, I get the impression that a lot of people are dissatisfied with the people they meet up with, or who contact them through this web site. I wonder is the reason that so many people are unhappy that that they expect too much from their contacts. Perhaps they want the relationship to move forward too fast.
Perhaps they have not the patience to have ...


9 Comments, 145 Views, 40 Votes ,4.75 Score
starwomyn 59
6  Articles
The First Chakra - The Root of is all!!!!!   17/4/2006

The First Chakra has the major energy field found by the base of the spine. There are also whirls of energy that can be in the legs and feet. Issues with the First Chakra are Tribal Roots, Group Safety, and security. Sypmtoms of First Chakra Inbalance is Lower back pain, depression, and the immune system. The Root Chakra can be strengthened by writing about the Root issues to find ...


2 Comments, 96 Views, 32 Votes
Public Speaking   27/3/2006

It is said that a persons two greatest fears are, (1) Dying, and (2) being called on to speak in public. We will all die so there is no help there. However we can all learn how to speak in public, and to rid ourselves of that fear. There is an organization called Toastmasters who have clubs in almost every city and town. They teach people every aspect of public speaking, in a ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
Effects of Porn.   23/3/2006

Do any of you view porn?. What I am talking about is sexual relations between consenting adults. There is lots of it available now, in DVDs, Films, Videos, and through the written word in stories, in comics, drawing, and in paintings. It has always existed, and examples have been found in old drawings in caves, and indeed in tombs, and of course in old manuscripts. Of course the internet is ...


5 Comments, 118 Views, 32 Votes ,3.80 Score
pictureman6911 78
8  Articles
One of my favorite exercises!!! SEX!!!   18/3/2006

I came across this article and thought you all might be interested. Heh, heh.
came across this article I thought you all might be interested in. LOL
Sex as Exercise: The Hard Facts By Shawn McKee Glee Contributor Updated: Saturday, March 18, 2006
"The only way to keep your health is to eat what you don't want, drink what you don't like, and do what you'd ...


5 Comments, 60 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
Getting old   17/3/2006

Today and old friend died. He would have been 90 in April. However for the past 5 years he had no quality of life, and required extensive care in a nursing home, and did not know anyone for the past couple of years. All this has started me thinking about my future, and what is in store for me. Has anyone a recipe for keeping a healthy mind and body to such an extent that we can avoid the ...


7 Comments, 84 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
Watch out   15/3/2006

People are now using this web site to promote scams. Basically they want to get money out of a middle east, or african country, require details of your bank account, and then plunder it. I recently got such a request from a person called Vero4christ.Be warned if it sounds too good to be true - IT IS.


2 Comments, 32 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
pictureman6911 78
8  Articles
Tips on exercising your PC (pubococcygeus)Muscle.   11/3/2006

Every morning as I set in my recliner watching TV I get my penis hard and press my PC muscles till I feel my head expands for ten slow times, then I make it hard again and continue till I've done a 100. Then make my stiffie do a 100 up and down movements. You might try a wet face cloth when you get stronger. Then I press my PC muscles for ten seconds while masturbating, I do this about 20 ...


2 Comments, 104 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
makarsa 60
10  Articles
Restlessness and discontent   23/8/2005

Generally I give preferance to unconvetional, new ideas, excitement and changes but become easily boared and also move on prematurely put the things unfinished.Nevertheless, can you suggest me how can I get rid from the deep inner restlessness and all discontents?


3 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Parisdreamer10 70
14  Articles
Some Of The Fun Things I Did With My Younger Man...   11/8/2005

To be fair about it, after showing the Break up/ Happy Birthday letter, it has occured to me that I should probably point out some of the GOOD things about my ex-boyfriend who was 20 years younger. I have always considered myself to be a fairly proper ladylike, lady....AT LEST IN PUBLIC!But, "Behind closed doors.." As the Kenny Rogers song said.. ...


5 Comments, 318 Views, 33 Votes ,4.52 Score
DaisyMae100 86
4  Articles
Happy Marriage   13/6/2005

Three phrases for a "Happy Marriage"... <br> 1---I was wrong... <br> 2---You were right.... <br> 3---I love you... <br> DaisyMae100


1 Comments, 100 Views, 13 Votes ,4.32 Score
SheWoIf 59
6  Articles
INSULTS   25/1/2005

Are you wanting a list of Insults to hurl back at others?? Are you ready to get even? Did someone insult you and your sitting there fuming and angry? But, for some reason you can't seem to hurt that person back? <br> I was listening to the radio Sunday, as I was driving and I heard something that really touched my heart. I am trying to remember the points that the guy made, ...


4 Comments, 179 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
RE: "Think about it..."   18/11/2004

To the members that took the time to reply, I thank you. <br> For clarification: I totally agree that the open forum is certainly no place to talk about our sexual acts specifically. I was hoping that by the examples of questions I gave that most would grasp the concept that I was not speaking of being able to post our “bedroom antics”. But alas, it is obvious by ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
RE: "Think it...But don't say it"   18/11/2004

To the members that took the time to reply, I thank you. <br> For clarification: I totally agree that the open forum is certainly no place to talk about our sexual acts specifically. I was hoping that by the examples of questions I gave that most would grasp the concept that I was not speaking of being able to post our “bedroom antics”. But alas, it is obvious by ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
Think it... but don’t say it!   16/11/2004

SFF in all its great wisdom used the power of censorship and denied my last attempt to post a question with regards to this subject. Maybe a toned down version of the question will make it past the all-powerful censors this time. <br> Why are the topics with regards to sex, sensuality and sexuality skirted around and avoided here on SFF? <br> My goodness we are all ...


3 Comments, 44 Views, 17 Votes ,2.28 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
Really what are the chances?   15/11/2004

Being as I live in what is referred to as a remote location [a very small mountain community] I naturally don’t expect to find “miss wonderful” close by. I have met and been in contact with a few really nice ladies that I have met here on SFF but the problem is that they live across this nation or in another country. I mean not one is even from the same state for ...


4 Comments, 40 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
Dominant or submissive: Has age changed your tendencies?   11/11/2004

I have a question that is directed more towards the ladies but comments from the gentlemen are also welcomed. Question: Do you think that with age you have become more Dominant or submissive with regards to your attitude and role within a personal relationship with a present or future partner? <br> Please share your reasons that would incline you to answer either way. Kassr


3 Comments, 35 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
RE: "Now that the holidays are here, Remember to be kind.   7/11/2004

My goodness you sure make the holiday season sound like some sort of terrible sentence imposed upon singles. And your assumptions as to what and how men deal with the holiday season seems critical if not damn insulting to say the least. Now I haven’t a clue as to where you have been located while observing nor what kind of men you have chosen to observe but I am going to truly enjoy ...


5 Comments, 9 Views, 19 Votes ,2.60 Score
dinty3 70
4  Articles
RE: Now that holidays are here   7/11/2004

Woah, I have to agree with Kassar and his comments. I find that at this time of year and in fact with all the holidays I have to be careful and attend those invitations that are of importance not only to me but also important to those who have extended the invitation, family, friend, business. Some are formal and some are come as you are, and I do enjoy the company of a friend/companion of ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
Breaking the Ice   6/11/2004

I have noticed that many times the question of how to start a conversation with someone you have just met on-line has been asked. I have been asked this same question in so many emails and on IM that I thought I would humbly and openly offer a sample of how I personally approach this matter of breaking the ice. This is a copy of my 2nd contact with a lovely lady in China. Let’s see ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
dinty3 70
4  Articles
RE: Must be a child of bad society   5/11/2004

The Gothic look, Punk look, Hippy look, Clean cut look, and on and on. She Bear is right, we are all individuals and as such react to society in different ways. A child of working parents may rebel at the lack of attention he/she gets and dresses for shock value to get their attention. Most of the parents do not know how to react and give the child hell for being the way they are and then ...


2 Comments, 24 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
Takes My Breath Away:   1/11/2004

Why is it that as a lady matures they seem to have the need to drown themselves in perfume? Kassr


8 Comments, 20 Views, 21 Votes ,2.63 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
To Active for My Age?   31/10/2004

Surfing, water skiing, moderate free style rock climbing, 4 x 4 off road driving, driving a snowmobile, camping, fishing and extreme home remodeling are some of the activities I enjoy frequently. Until recently I never gave a thought about my hobbies and activities as being unusual for a man of 57 years old. A few weeks ago I was having dinner with a couple that have been friends for ...


2 Comments, 19 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
Kassr 65
12  Articles
How about listing the “Downside”?   31/10/2004

All of the “Friend Finders” and “Dating” sites require profiles to be filled out. I have been wondering what would happen if within the required information of a profile one would have a section devoted to their “downside”? List your faults, shortcomings, and peeves! Examples: 1.When I cook it is an automatic test of the homes smoke detectors. ...


3 Comments, 30 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score
SheWoIf 59
6  Articles
Who Pays... my opinion.... LOL   16/7/2004

In response to who pays.. I feel that the invitor should pay for the invitee.. Or, if agreed upon, should be dutch. So, , girlfriends.. if you invite him out.. you should be willing to pay the tab.. unless of course he offers to take care of it.. then I guess it would be gracious to accept.. <br> Men have responsibilities that we have no idea of, just because they make ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
SheWoIf 59
6  Articles
Lost in Love   28/6/2004

? See the wolf? Just below the ridge there, off to the right of the third dark tree behind the White tree. She is searching for you. She is looking for her heart. She is lost, afraid, lonely, heart broken. She has come to distrust all, all people, herself, her needs, her desires, her hopes, her dreams, her beliefs. Sad, isn’t it? A lone She Wolf, one who has lost her pride, ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 41 Votes ,1.20 Score
Pommiegirl 71
2  Articles
agreement with possibly pretty!!!!   6/4/2004

I agree whole heartedly with the article by 'possibly pretty' that said that she was disappointed with not being able to view peoples' profiles only being a standard member. I, myself, have been a standard member for some considerable time and the site keeps sending me possible matches. These matches I can't contact or read their profiles because of not being a silver or gold member. ...


10 Comments, 60 Views, 132 Votes
BARBIESBIGSISTR 50
7  Articles
RE: profile titles of women   2/4/2004

Well easyed as a woman yes indeed a mans idea of "FUN GIRL" and a womans are different...perhaps because us ladies here at SFF are not a plaything..toy..or floozie! Did you UNDERSTAND THAT? Pretty simple dontcha think??


2 Comments, 34 Views, 27 Votes ,6.82 Score
BARBIESBIGSISTR 50
7  Articles
RE: Ladies be honest!!!   31/3/2004

Well "oldschool" I happen to be one of those happily divorced women here at SFF. I can make "friends" with men AND women! This does NOT make me a lesbian or bisexual BUT it DOES make me HONEST! But it saddens me to see SO MANY married members on a DATING SERVICE?? Given the paramount HOURS you MARRIED MEMBERS seem to have browsing and searching for that NOTORIOUS GOOD TIME you could be ...


6 Comments, 91 Views, 33 Votes ,7.55 Score
Pommiegirl 71
2  Articles
Answering emails   27/3/2004

I read a letter that mentioned people who never answered emails that they received. I, myself have written to certain males and they haven't even had the courtesy to write back and just say they were not interested. It seems to me that it doesnt take a lot of time to just be upfront with someone and say that your not interested for whatever reason. I was corresponding with someone for ...


2 Comments, 65 Views, 85 Votes ,4.60 Score
Response to: "Profile Titles of Women"   24/3/2004

Dear "easyed", When women say: "want to have fun" or that we are a "fun girl" that's usually what we mean. It means that we want to meet someone that doesn't take himself too seriously. It's too bad that you've taken these phrases the wrong way and got the wrong impression of what the women meant.\\ My response to your comment on: why don't women reply to your wink or hotlist ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 204 Votes
BARBIESBIGSISTR 50
7  Articles
RE: Profile Pics...   18/3/2004

I am just going to shoot from the hip here. You claim nothing is tackier than seeing someone cuddled up with an ex with the ex cropped out....or snuggling up with a pet....correct?? How about YOU POSTING A PIC MY FRIEND?? Simply because after reading what LITTLE there was to your personal profile I saw simply MARRIED screaming right out at me!! U BETCHA! You claim nothing over a size 12?? ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
BARBIESBIGSISTR 50
7  Articles
RE: for those of you who want a picture...   15/3/2004

Ah the allure and MYSTERY behind the world wide web my friend! Listen I state in my profile no photo no reply for a reason. Simply I want to SEE right HERE what you look like. I am NOT comfy with just handing out my EMAIL ADDY to anyone. PLUS there is always the simple fact that my time is just as valuable as yours...games i dont have time for. Confusion my hiney buddy boy!! HA!! 9 out of ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 22 Votes ,2.41 Score
BARBIESBIGSISTR 50
7  Articles
RE: stop lecturing me on my profile....   15/3/2004

I finally got enough points to view your profile. Personally I have no problem with it! Beautifully written and in good taste.....truly if the women have sent nasty emails your way they should SEE some of the internet sites that go way beyond the term "FANTASY".... Right HERE I have seen in just the few days since i have joined some pretty obscene staring lines......I shake my head!! ...


1 Comments, 50 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
BARBIESBIGSISTR 50
7  Articles
RE: for those of you who want a picture...   15/3/2004

Ah the allure and MYSTERY behind the world wide web my friend! Listen I state in my profile no photo no reply for a reason. Simply I want to SEE right HERE what you look like. I am NOT comfy with just handing out my EMAIL ADDY to anyone. PLUS there is always the simple fact that my time is just as valuable as yours...games i dont have time for. Confusion my hiney buddy boy!! HA!! 9 out of ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 47 Votes
Question: Wondering why I don’t receive email messages.   14/3/2004

I’m a new Standard member, since February 3rd. I’ve had lots of winks and have been put in men’s hotlist, but I’ve never received an email. Is there a reason I don’t know about, why Gold or Silver members can’t email a Standard member? Or is it (maybe) that they’re just not interested enough to do so?


0 Comments, 26 Views, 78 Votes ,0.89 Score