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Life is too complicated, it has it's ups and downs.I always wanted to stay at the mid of life.All my years of living in this world i never dream of having more than what i need. BUT, i never had enough, guess not too late to aim higher just to get what is enough.
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The mind is a terrible thing to waste Sep 21, 2008 10:36 pm
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An 80 year old couple were having problems remembering things, so they decided to go to their doctor to get checked out to make sure nothing was wrong with them. When they arrived at the doctor's, they explained to the doctor about the problems they were having with their memory. After checking the couple out, the doctor tells them that they were physically okay but might want to start writing things down and make notes to help them remember things. The couple thanked the doctor and left. Later that night while watching TV, the old man got up from his chair and his wife asks, "Where are you going?" He replies, "To the kitchen." She asks, "Will you get me a bowl of ice cream?" He replies, "Sure."She then asks him, "Don't you think you should write it down so you can remember it?" He says, "No, I can remember that." She then says, "Well I also would like some strawberries on top. You had better write that down cause I know you'll forget that." He says, "I can remember that, you want a bowl of ice cream with strawberries." She replies, "Well I also would like whipped cream on top. I know you will forget that so you better write it down." With irritation in his voice, he says, "I don't need to write that down I can remember that." He then fumes into the kitchen. After about 20 minutes he returns from the kitchen and hands her a plate of bacon and eggs. She stares at the plate for a moment and says, "You forgot my toast."
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Don't contaminate yourself with toxic emotions. Sep 17, 2008 4:40 pm
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Aging isn’t just about physical biology, it is also an emotional and spiritual phenomenon.

1. Listen to the wisdom of your body. When you adopt a certain habit / behavior, ask yourself, “Am I feeling good or bad?” If your body sends a signal of discomfort or distress, stop what you are doing. If your body feels comfort / satisfaction, continue what you are doing.

2. The power is not in the past or the future, it is now. Live in the present. Do not struggle against the flow of the unwise. In short, no sense in worrying. Take it one step at a time.

3. Meditate. Make time for silence. Pay close attention to your inner life.

4. Drop your need for social / external approval. You are the sole judge of your worth, not society.

5. Respond to every situation no matter how painful. Anger will only delay your healing.

6. Know that your outer world is guided by your inner world. Attune your wants or desires from within to reflect from without.

7. Withhold judgment. Everything in your life can be forgiven and understood. Don’t judge others, least of all yourself.

8. Don’t contaminate your system with toxic food, emotions, actions.

9. Replace fear with love. Remembering a past hurt will only weaken your capacity to love again without fear.

10. You are connected to the earth and to every person in this planet. Raise your consciousness to embrace this truth.

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Stoic view of emotion Sep 15, 2008 7:53 am
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• Distress is an irrational contraction or a fresh opinion that something bad is present at which people think it right to be depressed.
o Envy is distress incurred by reason of a neighbor's prosperity.
o Rivalry is distress, should another be in possession of the object desired and one has to go without it oneself.
o Jealousy is distress arising from the fact that the thing one has coveted oneself is in the possession of the other man as well as one's own.
o Compassion is distress arising from the wretchedness of a neighbor in undeserved suffering.
o Anxiety is oppressive distress.
o Mourning is distress arising from the untimely absence of a beloved object.
o Sadness is tearful distress.
o Troubledness is burdensome distress.
o Grief is torturing distress.
o Lament is distress accompanied by wailing.
o Depression is distress accompanied by brooding.
o Vexation is lasting distress.
o Despondency is distress without any prospect of amelioration.

• Fear is an irrational risk aversion or avoidance of an expected risk.
o Sluggishness is fear of ensuing toil.
o Shame is fear causing diffusion of blood.
o Fright is paralyzing fear which causes paleness, trembling and chattering of teeth.
o Timidity is fear of approaching evil.
o Consternation is fear upsetting the mind balance.
o Pusillanimity is fear following on the heels of fright like an attendant.
o Bewilderment is fear paralyzing thought.
o Faintheartedness is lasting fear.

• Lust is an irrational desire or pursuit of an expected good.
o Revenge is lust of punishing the man who is thought to have inflicted an undeserved injury.
o Rage is anger springing up and suddenly showing itself.
o Hatred is inveterate anger.
o Enmity is anger watching as opportunity for revenge.
o Wrath is anger of greater bitterness conceived in the innermost heart and soul.
o Greed is insatiable lust.
o Longing is lust of beholding someone who is not present.

• Delight is an irrational swelling or a fresh opinion that something good is present at which people think it right to be mania.
o Malice is pleasure derived from a neighbor's evil which brings no advantage to oneself.
o Rapture is pleasure soothing the soul by charm of the sense of hearing.
o Smug is arrogance and a feeling of knowing everything
o Ostentation is pleasure shown in outward demeanor and puffing oneself out extravagantly.
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"9 Most Shocking Secrets Women Don't Want Men to Know...." Sep 13, 2008 6:27 pm
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Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman’s mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say. They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Read on to discover some of the most shocking secrets women don't want men to know.

Blonds aren’t always dumb- If you thought all of them were dumb than you are strongly mistaken. Hair colour does not affect a person's IQ. They only act dumb to seem cute or get you to spend money on them and if you do that than you are dumb not them.

Women get jealous as hell- They might deny it but the fact is they get extremely jealous even if their man talks to a random female or maybe a friend. She might pretend to act all nice but inside her jealousy volcano is about to erupt.

I am the sexiest of them all- Every woman has this mind frame no matter how much they try to deny it. Almost every woman wants to feel like the one and only beauty queen in the world as if nothing compares and demand royal treatment from all men.

Am I fat- I know you’ve heard this one time and again but let's all admit to it officially! No matter how skinny she is she would never consider herself thin. Almost every woman occasionally asks this annoying question- "Am I looking fat in this honey?”

They always lie about shopping- They might be out grocery shopping but always end up getting something for themselves which they thought was cute. They either try to hide it or lie about its price saying it was on sale.

Don't share secrets with them- If you have than you are already on prime time radio. Almost every woman shares each and every secret with her friends. They tend to share their secrets over a cup of coffee and have a good laugh over it. And yeh when I say secrets it means your private secrets as well ( he he) if you know what I mean.

What shoes are you wearing- If you thought it was a myth than think again. Women do judge a man by his shoes. So better make it a point to wear nice clean shoes the next time you walk out.

They know when you are cheating- Women have inbuilt instincts and emotion system which beeps and alerts when their man is cheating. No matter how big of a player you are you would always be caught no matter what.

An absolute must know for you- This secret is an absolute must know for you no matter what. This is the grand daddy of all which would give you the ultimate power to become a magnet towards which every woman would be attracted. This is only known to a few and you are one of the lucky one's who are being introduced to this shocking secret.
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About Beers and Wines... Sep 11, 2008 7:47 am
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Well ya see, Norm, it's like this... A herd of buffalo can only move as fast as the slowest buffalo. And when the herd is hunted, it is the slowest and weakest ones at the back that are killed first This natural selection is good for the herd as a whole, because the general speed and health of the whole group keeps improving by the regular killing of the weakest members. In much the same way, the human brain can only operate as fast as the slowest brain cells. Excessive intake of alcohol, as we know, kills brain cells. But naturally, it attacks the slowest and weakest brain cells first. In this way, regular consumption of beer eliminates the weaker brain cells, making the brain a faster and more efficient machine. That's why you always feel smarter after a few beers.
Cliff Clavin
Cheers

Sometimes when I reflect back on all the wine I drink I feel shame. Then I look into the glass and think about the workers in the vineyards and all of their hopes and dreams .. If I didn't drink this wine, they might be out of work and their dreams would be shattered. Then I say to myself, "It is better that I drink this wine and let their dreams come true than be selfish and worry about my liver.
Jack Handy

Without question, the greatest invention in the history of mankind is beer. Oh, I grant you that the wheel was also a fine invention, but the wheel does not go nearly as well with pizza.

Dave Barry
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SEVEN words out of 400,000... Sep 7, 2008 6:44 am
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There are 400,000 words in the English language, and there are seven you can't say on television. What a ratio that is! 399,993 to 7. They must really be baaaad. They must be OUTRAGEOUS to be separated from a group that large. "All of you words over here, you seven... baaaad words." That's what they told us, right? You know the seven, don't ya? That you can't say on TV? Shit, piss, fuck, cunt, cocksucker, motherfucker and tits.
George Carlin
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A story of Grandfather Sep 5, 2008 5:43 pm
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Grandfather was walking through his yard when he heard his granddaughter repeating the alphabet in a tone of voice that sounded like a prayer. He asked her what she was doing. The little girl explained "I'm praying , but can't think of the exact and right words, so i'm just saying all the letters in the alphabet and God will put them together for me cause, He knows what's inside my heart.":)
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The old man and the parrot Sep 3, 2008 4:39 pm
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An old man was sitting on a bench in the mall when a young man with spiked hair came over and sat down beside him. The boy's hair was yellow and green and orange and purple. He had black makeup around his eyes. The old man just stared at him. The boy said, "What's the matter, old man, haven't you ever done anything wild in your life?" The old man answered, "Well yes, actually, I have. I once got drunk and had sex with a parrot. I was just wondering if you were my son.
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Vitality and Virility Booster! Sep 2, 2008 5:14 pm
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Ganoderma lucidum (mushroom)revered for 1,500 years as China's "Superior" medicinal herb is also scientifically proven worldwide, a nature's most potent health booster and overall conditioner. It ia associated in health recovery, longetivity, youthfulness, vitality and virility.
Organic Ganoderma lucidum contains high levels of polysaccharides, triterpenes, organic germanium, adenosine and fibers.
It helps lower bad cholesterol, improve blood circulation, inhibit life-threatening blood clots and protects heart and brain from attacks. Has antioxidant action, protects cell from damage and helps strengthen immune system.It also helps shrink tumors, prevents onset of certain cancer and relieve inflamation. Has antibacterial, antiviral functions, calms nerves and promotes healthy sleep.Promotes superior brain development among children as wel.

In the Chinese history Emperors are the only one's eating mushroom for it lengthens life and because of it's rarity.
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BIRTHDAY CELEBRANTS this September, ESPECIALLY for you! Sep 1, 2008 4:28 pm
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Old Age is a Gift
I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have always wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometime despair over my body - the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt. And often I am taken aback by that old person that lives in my mirror, but I don't agonize over those things for long.
I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become more kind to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avant-garde on my patio. I am entitled to overeat, to be messy, to be extravagant. I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 am, and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love.. I will I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the bikini set. They, too, will get old!
I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten, and I eventually remember the important things.
Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when a beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.
I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turn gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face. So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver. I can say 'no', and mean it. I can say 'yes', and mean it
As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong
So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day!
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