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    <title>Senior FriendFinder Blogs: Thoughts from the Head of RED</title>
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    <description>[COLOR deeppink]Random Sparks[/COLOR]Use everyday to make someone special happy...[COLOR deeppink]YOU[/COLOR]!</description><item>
      <title>My Guiding Light........</title>
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      <description>I just had to use that title as The Guiding Light was my Grams favorite Soap Opera for many many years...and she was mine...As Thanksgiving was just here and the Christmas season approaches I tend to </description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 12:45:18 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Speaking for myself......</title>
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      <description>I am a firm believer that actions speak louder than words! I have been the beneficiary of the good and the bad in those situations as we all have I am sure. I am not much on listening to what others s</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 12:47:32 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>A day of rest????</title>
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      <description>Well even though I no longer host the big family dinners it is not quite a day of rest for me....LOL I was up early making the necessary preparations for the items I have been requested to bring to th</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 08:00:55 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Finding the right words......</title>
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      <description>I am a person who does their best to choose my words carefully....not making snap judgments or comments either in person or on-line. I like to take my time and try to avoid having to eat my words at a</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 07:33:55 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Disappointment......</title>
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      <description>PLEASE do NOT misunderstand this post it has NOTHING to do with ANYTHING here in SFF directly...it is a matter happening in my personal life away from SFF!!!!!Many times in our lives we experience dis</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:23:51 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Friday Foto...Favorite</title>
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      <description>Here is my favorite picture....my sweet Great-Grand-Daughter, Ciarra. This was last Easter...she showed up with the same ears I was wearing on.....Too cute... She is now 1 1/2 and a BUSY little gal ch</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:02:29 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Laughter......</title>
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      <description>Wikipedia: Laughter is an audible expression or appearance of happiness, or an inward feeling of joy (laughing on the inside). It may ensue (as a physiological reaction) from jokes, tickling, and othe</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 06:57:27 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Whispering in the wind.......</title>
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      <description>I was looking through some old photos my cousin gave me recently when I came across one of my father's father,PawPaw as the grands called him...he died April 1964 when I was 14 years old. He was Nativ</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 06:57:39 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Why we need friends</title>
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      <description>In my life I have been blessed with some wonderful people...some are family, some are friends. When times have been tough for me..they have been there for me.They vary in closeness of course...I have </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 08:50:19 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>When the time is right.......</title>
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      <description>We all have baggage so to speak ...we all have pasts that may or may not haunt us. We all have opinions....and decisions to make in our lives. I have found for me some of those decisions are much easi</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 10:09:27 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>St Pete....my one response to the blogs</title>
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      <description>I am posting this ...one response...as I was asked several times if I was upset about all the blogs with fussing about "the BASH"????Sure it upsets me that people feel the need to make the after bash </description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:38:12 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Living for today or tomorrow or in the past ????</title>
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      <description>My Gram use to say "if you spend too much time worrying about yesterday or tomorrow you don't have enough time to ~LIVE~ today"! I think she had a point.....I know a lot of people who spend all their </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 08:50:35 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Sleep habits &amp; relationships.......</title>
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      <description>There are may kinds of people in this world...ohhhh soooo many! We each experience life in our own way. I happen to be a person who doesn't require a lot of sleep.....I never have even as a teen when </description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 07:02:47 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>St Pete...Fun...Friendships</title>
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      <description>I am going to attempt this again...I have tried twice to get this to post so I hope this time it works.....gggrrr....I am back home in Indiana....tired but what a good tired it is..every BASH seems to</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:47:29 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>I don't want him to want me......</title>
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      <description>I was visiting my mom tonight.....my traditional.....visit before leaving town. We chatted about all the family and such...then she mentioned had seen my first husband's mother...they have been frien</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 19:46:21 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Please send your thoughts to our friend........</title>
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      <description>Our fun friend.....TennisBud will not be attending the St Pete BASH after all ........his son, Rob, was critically injured in an auto accident....hit from behind by a truck estimated at 130 miles per</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 05:25:24 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Vacation.......is a lot of work...LOL</title>
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      <description>I am sure you all know I am leaving on vacation soon...heading for sunny Florida..for a week concluding with .."THE BASH WEEKEND". I love all the planning &amp; organizing for the bashes what I don't like</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 07:25:07 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>I don't always "have" to be right.......</title>
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      <description>it just so happens I always am...LOL That is what my Granpop used to say....ROFL..Gram usually swatted him &amp; disagreed!I have found that there are those who HAVE to be right about EVERYTHING. I was ma</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 13:52:59 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Cold weather comfort.......</title>
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      <description>My family is big on "special meals"...you know we have to have a BIG meal whenever there is a gathering.....and of course everyone has something special they request...of me &amp; my daughter. With winter</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 05:55:55 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Fear of failure...or pain</title>
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      <description>When my last marriage ended it took me a while to even think about dating again....well 3 years seemed like a long time. I had been hurt and I felt like a failure....so why try again was my mindset at</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 06:40:19 -0800</pubDate>
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