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Not Going to Be Blogging Dec 3, 2008 11:56 pm
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I'm really busy now, so this blogging has to take a back seat for awhile. I will post when I can. So I can't respond as quickly as I like to to my blogs.Christmas festivities to get ready for and attend. Christmas Concert coming up and getting ready for the big day. I work full time, I have baking to do and shopping and usually by the end of the day I'm too pooped to do much else but veg out!

Holidays start Dec 21 and I'm anxious. Last year we took a trip to Jamaica as a family. This year we're all staying close to home.. I'm excited but one son will be missing as he won't be able to be home.I do love the season and all that goes with it even the shopping!

Blogging is a past time for me and I enjoy writing and researching.
So I'll blog in between times when I can..

Cheers ... LS

Lighten up, keep your humor intact and don't take life too serious.
Seasons Greetings!
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Why Americans Suck! Dec 2, 2008 11:20 pm
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Why We Suck by Dr Denis Leary

I'm just reading this book because I like humor and he's made me laugh out loud for real. It's interesting because a lot of the things he makes fun of, I've often thought about.

Like what the hell is a disfunctional family? Is there a functional family? I think not and if you agree there is.. that your head is in the sand.

He pokes fun at parenting. Get back the control. Those parents who have kids because it was an almost fashion accessory. To them it's a constant struggled who gets to do what and when with the kids.. Dr Leary says they have a big struggle over who changed the diaper and how many times, who got up with the crying baby in the middle of the night and how many times. He goes on to say, kids need their mom and want their mom almost all of the time. He says kids are a full time job, that's the reality and suck it up!

Then he pokes fun at the Americans,their child stars, their BS actors and actresses, their talk shows, their commericials, their Britney Sears, their fat asses made by the fat assed food stores, their lame geographical intelligence because he is sick of it all!
" Welcome to America, where I'M not fat, I'M not stupid, I'M not the problem YOU are!

You got to read this book, it's an eye opener and he tells it as he sees it in a humorous way.
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Sooooo You Want Wax Job?? Nov 30, 2008 10:29 pm
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An American sailor on liberty visits one of those Japanese
bath houses and pays for the deluxe treatment. So three
bath maids start working him over.

First they dunk him in the hot water and lather him up good,
then dunk him in the cold water and back in the hot water.
They cleaned out his toenails and scrubbed his knees, elbows
and behind his ears. Then again in the cold then hot tubs.

He was feeling totally cleaned and refreshed when one maid
asks, "Ah sooo, you want the wax job?"

The sailor says, "Well I want everything I'm supposed to get
since I paid for the deluxe."

So the maid takes his peter and lays it out on a marble
bench. She then raises her right hand and with a 'Hi Yahhh'
she karate chops his peter causing wax to shoot out both of
his ears.

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Are You Playing a Bizzare Game? Nov 29, 2008 8:38 am
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I believe there are more too looks than * just good looking * We all rely on visual perception to tell us a whole lot about people we encounter. I believe that men see a woman as a whole people in a woman's face, including qualities of character, heart and mind. Is this true? This is what I hear men telling me and I have been online for quite some time. Even on a sexual level, different men/women are attracted to different faces and body types. There is no universal standard. But I also believe some people have no boundries and don't know how to access these things. Agree or disagree?

I think the bottom line is, a man/woman who is right for you will find you appealing, but only if you let him/her see you. If you find it unpleasant to gaze upon someone- if the person's shape or size, style, or features simply turn you off- he/she is unlikely to be the right mate for you.

So a good recent photo of yourself is the ultimate honesty of who you are,because eventually the goal is to stand face to face or if it isn't one is playing a * bizarre game*

Is sexual attraction based solely what's inside? Or do the photos help reveal our sexuality? Are photos necessary for that? I believe so but the proof is in the meeting. At some point though even though you are attracted to the photograph of that person, the attraction might frizzle when you finally meet face to face because sexual attraction cannot be based solely on information conveyed by typed words or distant web cam conversations. It's boils down to the touch, the smell, the feel, the kiss and to when you eventually make love to that person. At some point, sexual attraction must defer to something greater ( sexual compatibility )but attraction is still necessary.

A photograph can paint a thousand questions for me. I just look and gaze then decide, nope doesn't look like what I'm attracted too. Yes, I like that face and yes, I think he's my type so then I'll explore further and based on my own common sense and intuition, I have had good experiences. But I feel picking and choosing my intended meets have eliminated a lot of time wasters.

In conclusion, people need to see each other as early as possible by means of a good photograph. You can often detect the absence of the physical attraction and that information is priceless and will save a lot of time unless you are one of those with no boundries.
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Evolving Feminism Nov 28, 2008 11:14 pm
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Women due to feminine ideology are taking to the magazine covers and videos like fish out of water. They are bringing nudity to popular culture.So what if you look classy in white leather and nude or sensually laying on a fur coat naked. Are we/the woman accepting of this? Is this modern feminism? Is it improving our right to express ourselves as women? Okay, so maybe I don't know what the heck I'm talking about but I'm dam sure being naked in public wouldn't make me appear that I have the smarts, will it now? Or riding around in a parade nude on a white horse make me more feminine. Let's look at two women recently in the media, high ranking women if you want to call it that. Sarah Palin and Hillary Clinton. I really do like some of the stuff these two women are made of.

First of all to me, feminism is a balance between intellect and sex positive and may I add IMHO acceptable to men, heaven forbid that I might add that last part.

Then having a look at these two women according to journalist Tatiana von Tauber's article called, Perfuming America.

She states that Sarah Palin rocked her world and also made her cringe. "I have never have been so heavily involved in politics or so embarrassed to have a vagina. When I listen to Palin speak and perform,my brain screeches to a halt and my jaw drops. I want to stick a finger in my ear and wiggle out the wax - just in case I didn’t hear right. I can’t comprehend Palin’s rhetoric because she doesn’t know anything, runs after her own tail, diverts to only what she knows (not what I want to hear) and then she catches me off guard with those “you betcha” winks."

and.....

" Though Hillary Clinton may be a ball buster, far from pretty and low in likability, she has a real track record, exposed a sensitive side and genuine compassion for America’s future. Though feminism and politics armored Clinton with a tough exterior, she doesn’t need to charm her audience to gain popularity. Hillary Clinton may be a classic feminist bitch but considering the alternative, which do we really prefer: a ditz needing a geography lesson or bitch needing charm school?"

I like Palin's confident sex appeal and spunk and Clinton's compassion and diplomacy. Mixed them together we have class, elegance, style, sensuality and intellect.

I say we can nuture both our intellectual qualities, and soft, sensual feminine side. I think we have proven that we aren't just about cooking,cleaning and having babies. It's a new evolving feminism but it's not about nudity on covers of magazines. What do you think?
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Tortured Modelling Ethics Nov 28, 2008 10:25 pm
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I've been watching the Canada's new models competing for the top model in Canada. I also get the odd glimpse at some European countries having their best fashion designers flashing their clothing on the cat walks. Some of those designs,..like who the hell would wear those.. insane! It looks like torture to me.. the hairdos and designer clothes are really out of this world ,. I mean really out of this world! Really futuristic!

But back to the intent of my blog when is asking a model to pose in awkward positions or with things, too much?? When does a photographer cross the line to what is humane? When does it become grotesque and torturous? When?

According to me taking undue advantage of someone in any form is a crime against humanity. No matter what you do, do it sincerely. One should have some principles in life and they must be followed at any cost. The models are also humans and should be treated as such.

Watching the photographers coerce doing offensive and bizarre things..makes you wonder.

There was one photograph of a model who was to strike a sexy pose with a bug on her face ( looked like a cockroach to me ). In the photograph she doesn't look sexy but she looks like she is about to cry. I think that picture says it all to me. What other inhumane things are models requested to do? I believe because a model is being paid the top dollar, it must make the model feel like "put up or get out!" There's always someone ready to step in and take their place. Are they enslaved? What do you think?
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Was My Face Red! Nov 27, 2008 9:01 pm
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Christmas and the holiday season can get you into some real goofy and embarrassing situations. The holiday season is rush, rush, trying to get things done!So it leaves a lot of room for errors or mistakes.

Ever wrap a gift up that was meant for someone else. This is an example.. You're tired and it's late at night but you want to get the gift wrapping done.. two books the same size. One is for your motherinlaw and the other is for a friend. One is about the Many Ways To Reach Orgasm ( meant for the friend ) and gets wrapped up for the motherinlaw. Red faced- when she gets to open it while you're in her presence!

or You are very good at recyling. You recyle gifts that were never used because you had no need for them.. You give the gift back to the friend who gave it to you. She /he recognizes it .. Red faced!
( I gave a ceramic church to my daughter that she gave me ).

I can think of a few more .. but it's getting late and must get to bed,.. Care to share some of yours?
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Mentally Aroused Nov 27, 2008 8:32 pm
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Fantasies

It is said that most men think of sex more than anything else. I forget the stats, but it seems to me that the average man thinks of sex at least two times per minute. We all fantasize about sex. Men think of some hot babe who has nice breasts who wants to get it on during lunch break. Men can't look at a woman and not have a sexual thought about her. It shouldn't be no surprise to men that women have fantasizes. I think that sometimes men get pushed away from women who are sexual, because men think of them as sluts. ( This came from an article I was reading).

Men need to understand this isn't the case and they should enjoy the fact that woman have fantasizes.

Women are different than men, you don't need me to tell you that. Men are more visual creatures. They get turned on by the sight of a pair of nice legs or a set of big but yet perky breasts ( any kind of breast is my understanding).

Women on the other hand get aroused mentally. They need to be worked before they can get turned on. This is why women need foreplay and men could live without it.

This is why men go to strip clubs and women read romance novels. Women are in search of the mental arousal, while men are in search of a nice pair of hooters. This is why a woman loves to be talked to before she has sex. Men know this I think but avoid the talk as much as possible. LOL

To understand the arousal of a woman, men must understand what makes her aroused. If you don't, all you will be doing is running in circles. You will end up with an unhappy woman who fakes orgasms every time you have sex. Lots of foreplay!
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Christmas Sex Positions Nov 26, 2008 10:33 pm
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Hint: This is meant for entertainment purposes only it not meant for advice. But in the spirit of the holiday season it's good to give and recieve.

Christmas is upon us, and hopefully you’ll be upon your partner in this time of giving. Whether you’re with somebody new or you’ve unwrapped that box a hundred times before the holidays, our Christmas sex positions are sure to become instant holiday favorites. We’ve made a list, and you’re welcome to check it twice. Whether you two are naughty, nice or a couple of depraved pervs, there’s a goodie in this sack for everyone.

Santa’s Little Helpers
Men, quit worrying about being “big” enough and start to think small; try imitating elves and have sex on your knees. A little pocket rocket vibrator can provide the elfin magic. Your usual smooth bass bedroom voice will ruin the whole thing, so keep helium close by to take hits and talk dirty in a higher octave. It’s going to be a busy night on your part, but at least she can pretend she was with another guy while you maintain a size advantage in reality. If this position unleashes a previously unknown elf fetish, you’re jolly well screwed.

Jingle Balls
This move centers around some classic teabaging, either before, during or after intercourse. So whenever you decide to do it, walk to the kitchen and frost your Christmas balls with leftover green and red frosting from the Christmas cookies to appeal to her sweet tooth and ensure extra-intense tongue action. Bonus points if you swirl some red frosting around your yule log for a candy cane bonus.

The Stocking Stuffer
This Christmas sex position combines stockings and sex in close quarters. She’ll be in crotchless or strategically ripped stockings, and you’ll both zip into a sleeping bag together.( Stuffed stocking effect) From there, engage in any and all positions allowable by your physiques and your encased bedding. Closeness and friction will be the two factors you experience. After a while, you may get a whiff of hot nylon and/or singed hair. The decision to proceed will be yours; just remember the phrase “you would even say it glows” can apply to more than Rudolph’s nose. Mutual ointment application is a popular form of after-play for this one.

Snow Angel
So far, our Christmas sex positions have probably found you indoors, out of the cold. Even with the all the rockin’ she’s been doing around your Christmas tree, cabin fever might be setting in. Good news: You can get fresh air and still get some when you go outside to make snow angels. Way better than a snowman with a frosty schlong grafted on, these snow angels decorate the lawn beautifully and make for great stories to share. You’ll have distinct his-and-her patterns, too. When you’re on top in the missionary position, you’ll be in charge of swinging out your legs, making for a taller angel. When she’s on top, her knee impressions will make for a more bootylicious angel.

Milk & Cookies
Santa Claus must get royally ticked off by the end of his run. Billions of houses, and he only gets milk and cookies for his trouble -- some treat. All that lactose and gluten probably has him spray-painting the porcelain well into the new year. For you and your partner, a dose of these "Milk & Cookies" can be a sweet, little snack. It’s so simple, yet delicious: Just lap away at her melons while you engage her sugar cookie with your hands.

Chest Nuts Roasting on a Open Fire
Fireplaces are always portrayed as romantic, but don’t just settle for a cuddle and staring at the flames -- there’s your own yule log to attend to. While you're attending to the yule log and causing friction, don't get to close to the cinders. Just establish a safe word to clarify between orgasms and flying cinders. For bonus points, try to douse the fire when you climax. Again, be reminded that cinders are unpredictable and unforgiving!

Work your way through these Christmas sex positions and you’ll be ready for a long winter’s nap. Just do yourself and your partner a favor and remember to wrap your present before the gift-giving.
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Deal With the Enemy Nov 25, 2008 11:38 pm
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Some words of Unwisdom.. and you will be none the wiser!

Deal with your enemies

We all have enemies. Perhaps it's the schmuck dating your ex, maybe it's the "friend" who humiliated you in public or it could be the three mustachioed gentlemen who kicked you out of their barbershop quartet or that big bossy cow who won't let you into her tea party. And although karma does usually come around to smite these everyday nemeses, it doesn't mean you're powerless to alter the dynamics of the situation. Use your time to plan your revenge, don't publicize your beefs, always remain cool, and throw them off the scent by pretending to befriend them. How you choose to finish the job is entirely up to you.
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