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butterfly21 74F
44 posts
4/28/2015 7:30 am
First Date


When your 16 and asked for that first date, your excited, nervous, and all kinds of things running thru your mind. First your thinking O M G how am I going to fix my hair, what am I going to wear, need to paint my nails. I want to look perfect for this date.

When your older and someone asks you out on a first date, especially if it has been a very long time, you have the same exact feelings. Your excited and nervous. Still wondering and thinking what am I going to wear, need to make sure my hair looks good, and paint your nails. Your also wondering what is he thinking and if he feels the same excitement and nervousness. What is he going to be wearing, will he like me when we actually meet. Will we get along as well as we have in chat. The excitement seems to take over and your feeling on top of the world. Your thinking
gee this man makes me feel so special, gosh do I do the same for him.

A first date is exciting, scary, nervousness and wonderful all at the same time.

Shartaun03 81F
6196 posts
4/28/2015 8:30 am

Butterfly think it happens all over again when you go out with someone new and especially if you have met online. I always worry about if I look stunning and present a good image. Butterflies are zinging in my stomach like crazy.


Abelle2 83F
31225 posts
4/28/2015 9:06 am

Are you going to the Nashville Bash?? If so, I will tell you about Alfie and my first date. Or...did I?


butterfly21 replies on 4/28/2015 11:47 am:
Yes I am Anabell looking forward to seeing you and Alfie again.

butterfly21 74F
205 posts
4/28/2015 11:45 am

Thank you Hippy.


butterfly21 replies on 4/28/2015 11:46 am:
Mrs Joe. glad I was able to bring back those wonderful memories for you.

shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/28/2015 3:15 pm

I think everyone has some nervousness on a first date. When I met my boyfriend, we had already talked for a week or two every night. I felt like he was a friend. I think that helped. The fact you have chatted beforehand, makes it a bit easier but just have fun and relax.

Elaine Shuel


Rentier1

4/29/2015 2:15 pm

The only thing I'm nervous about is whether I will have to bail early using my prepared excuse.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
4/29/2015 9:54 pm

Your well written blog just reminded me my first date with my friend which we both spent traveling long distance! It was both way train rides lasting around nearly two and half hours! She loved it.


JustLarry777 72M
11 posts
5/26/2015 2:25 pm

My dear friend Butterfly. Thought I would let you know that I finally made it... It was great to see you again in Nashville. Peace my friend