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It must be a Canadian thing, Lulu.  I always answer my messages. I have to admit when I keep reading that same bio of a military guy with kids, it is just a formality. I don't believe for one minute they want a friend. They are scam artists. That said, I do get some guys that I believe are looking for love. When I tell them I only want friendship, we wish each other luck. I think that means they were sincere.Elaine Shuel
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You are doing the right thing, it's called house keeping. Why keep useless messages and waste time you know will go nowhere? You cant please everybody. There might come a day when the 'vibes' are right. Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.
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5/27/2015 12:31 am |
Hi Lulu: Same here. I used to answer every message just to be polite, but now if they're in another country I just delete them. 99.9% of my messages are from scammers leaving their e-mail address. Another thing I find strange is who is viewing my profile. Some men view my profile ten times a day and keep hotlisting me even though I have no pic, but when it started to show that almost every married man in the blogs keeps viewing my profile, I just don't believe that feature could possibly be accurate.
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Those who I suspect are scammers I report, then delete. Those who seem quite sincere I respond to and although personally not available, I do like to wish them well in their search.
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I don't get many e-mails but those I have gotten have all been fakes. I can tell from the style and content of the writing, even if they claim to be in my state. At one time I used to have some fun with them, now I just find it tedious and delete the e-mails.
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5/27/2015 10:08 am |
I started out like you- send everyone a thank you even though most were thank you but. I soon stopped that unless the sender passes my screening for being real and appropriate . (yes, I am a discriminatory snob in this instance but it's my time and money to spend as I see fit). I used to respond with a sarcastic letter to my rejects about agreeing that they are the answer to my prayers and I would join them as soon as they send their private jet to pick me up. I stopped doing this when my scam rinses started getting spam responses that showed the guy could not have possibly read my response.. 99.99°/ of my "rejects" are bogus scams. If I want to deal with fantasy and fraud I can get a job that will pay me to do so. : Spiritwoman ^i^
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