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Rocketship 80F
18595 posts
5/3/2015 8:20 am

How sad!!!


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/3/2015 11:43 am

I feel sad for the woman but sorry to bring reality to this. There is a chance he didn't die. I have had experience myself and know others with experience, whereby the person never intended to come to live with their internet love. As soon as it comes close, an excuse happens. Before I met my boyfriend, I had a so-called heart surgeon who fell in love with me and died. I found out he never died. Another case, a guy wanted to come and meet me and disappeared. By accident, I found out he was married and this was his diversion from an unhappy marriage. There are many stories I've heard from others.

What I feel really sad about is this woman is giving her life up to help others. It's great to help others but to be so isolated and deprived of a relationship, is too big a price. Someone needs to talk to her about her life being important too.

Thanks for the post, Lulu.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/4/2015 3:47 pm

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Why the hostility, Lulu? I merely gave my opinion. Isn't that what comments are about? I didn't say the guy didn't die. It just can't be assumed that what happens over the internet is real. I know too many cases (mine AND other people's) where things weren't as they appear. I didn't "project" anything. I said "There is a chance he didn't die".

I think you are upset about the SFF Book Club. I took alienated as being offended, which is one possible meaning for alienated. You meant It another way. I said I see your point but clearly you are holding a grudge. I'm sorry about that.

Elaine Shuel