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shuel2002 65F
5107 posts
4/1/2015 11:08 am
WHO HAS BEEN YOUR BIGGEST INSPIRATION?

I always admired strong women. Growing up I loved watching Marlo Thomas in That Girl, the Mary Tyler Moore show and Candice Bergen as Murphy Brown. What do they have in common? They were all intelligent women, independent, funny and SINGLE. Hmmm perhaps they weren't the best choices for me to admire. All kidding aside, they were women I looked up to.

On a personal level, I look up to my sister. Without any help, she did well for herself. She bought a house and car and has a good job. She's been a wonderful sister and a great .

After I grew up, my parents inspired me. My dad was very brave when he found out he was dying. I admired his strength and courage until his dying breath. My mom learned to walk again, after her benign brain tumor took away her ability to walk. She had the tumor removed and in her 80s DID learn to walk again. My mother is a strong, determined woman and I will always be amazed by how well she overcame what was thrown at her.

Who has inspired you?




Elaine Shuel


Hawkslayer 88M
13326 posts
4/1/2015 11:45 am

I guess the guy I was most inspired by was the author of the Sherlock Holmes stories, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle. Growing up I would devour his books, they were great stories and I wish there were some that I hadn't read. But alas, I've read them all!

Alfie...


It only takes a drop of ink to make a million people think. There are many stories.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/1/2015 3:59 pm

    Quoting LeafTreat:
    It would have been James in the Bible, describing the utopia of inter-personal relationships.

    Beyond that the vision of Bill Gates is very inspiring. Elizabeth Warren seems to connect with the conscience of America and I have admired the incredible life of Jerry Brown. Another who inspires me, also a man with a vision and a sense of fairness is Michael Moore.

    If there is one American who other than criminals who I feel represents the absolute worst it would be Sean Hannity...a terrible, arrogant human being who has been a national disgrace.
Thanks for that interesting response, Leaf. You've obviously been inspired by several people who are very different.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/1/2015 4:03 pm

    Quoting Hawkslayer:
    I guess the guy I was most inspired by was the author of the Sherlock Holmes stories, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle. Growing up I would devour his books, they were great stories and I wish there were some that I hadn't read. But alas, I've read them all!

    Alfie...
An author is very touched when his/her books inspire readers. The character of Sherlock Holmes, has certainly captivated the imagination of many people. Thanks for that great comment, Alfie.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/1/2015 5:41 pm

Terrific answer, Pat, thank you. How terrifying it must have been when that old patient died while feeding her. You definitely should have been told it wasn't your fault.

Your answer reminded me of my math teacher, when I was growing up in Montreal. He used to call me "little red". I was good in math and he always encouraged me. He was also the school principal. He made math so much fun. He brought in math games to teach us and make it enjoyable at the same time. He was the perfect teacher.

Elaine Shuel


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
4/1/2015 5:43 pm

Toss up between my mom and dad. They both REEKED of integrity, and when I grew up I realized that required them to have immense courage to do it. Dad has a slight edge for the joy he got from thinking deeply, and openness to consider other viewpoints.

I have known hundreds of people after that who inspired me, but if it weren't for my mom and dad I'd never have noticed the value in others.

GBU all, and thanks for letting me reminisce about mom and dad. I still miss them.

Gavin


Shartaun03 81F
6195 posts
4/1/2015 6:47 pm

There are probably many people who inspired me. Firstly my parents instilled in me to do my best they were proud of what I did in my life. I recall an instructor I had when I did the Dale Carnegie course. He encouraged me every week of the course as he knew how difficult it was for me. Public speaking wasn't my thing and we had to give a speech every week. At the end of the course he congratulated me for finishing the course and getting my certificate.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/1/2015 7:13 pm

    Quoting GavinLS2:
    Toss up between my mom and dad. They both REEKED of integrity, and when I grew up I realized that required them to have immense courage to do it. Dad has a slight edge for the joy he got from thinking deeply, and openness to consider other viewpoints.

    I have known hundreds of people after that who inspired me, but if it weren't for my mom and dad I'd never have noticed the value in others.

    GBU all, and thanks for letting me reminisce about mom and dad. I still miss them.

    Gavin

Thanks for your comment, Gavin. Your parents obviously instilled in you great values.

I realized something after reading what you wrote. In my mind, I was thinking about who inspired me while growing up. I should have added that my parents inspired me beyond my childhood. My dad was very brave when he found out he was dying. I admired his strength and courage until his dying breath. My mom learned to walk again, after her benign brain tumor took away her ability to walk. She had the tumor removed and in her 80s DID learn to walk again. My mother is a strong, determined woman and I will always be amazed by how well she overcame what was thrown at her.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/1/2015 7:17 pm

    Quoting GavinLS2:
    Toss up between my mom and dad. They both REEKED of integrity, and when I grew up I realized that required them to have immense courage to do it. Dad has a slight edge for the joy he got from thinking deeply, and openness to consider other viewpoints.

    I have known hundreds of people after that who inspired me, but if it weren't for my mom and dad I'd never have noticed the value in others.

    GBU all, and thanks for letting me reminisce about mom and dad. I still miss them.

    Gavin

Thanks again for your answer, Gavin. I updated my post because of it.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/1/2015 7:21 pm

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    There are probably many people who inspired me. Firstly my parents instilled in me to do my best they were proud of what I did in my life. I recall an instructor I had when I did the Dale Carnegie course. He encouraged me every week of the course as he knew how difficult it was for me. Public speaking wasn't my thing and we had to give a speech every week. At the end of the course he congratulated me for finishing the course and getting my certificate.
That's great, Shartaun03. Congrats on getting your certificate. I believe that I once read that public speaking is one of the top fears. I was always afraid of it. I would get a stomach ache in school when I had to do something in front of the class. I once begged a teacher to not make me do it but it didn't help. I did find that when I actually began talking, I felt better, and then it was hard to get me to stop talking.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/1/2015 9:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for your comment, Bill. It's good that you've been inspired.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/1/2015 9:34 pm

    Quoting  :

Lulu, glad to see you back. There are some very inspiring people, that make quite an impression.

Elaine Shuel


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
4/2/2015 5:58 am

My aunt Eileen was a big inspiration to me. She was a loving and caring daughter to her parents and a wonderful sister to my father and her other siblings who was always there for them when she was needed whether it was with nursing care or financial support.

Needless to say she was a great help to me in my formative years and beyond. I wont be in here very often from now on Elaine, but I will pop in from time to time to say "Hi."

Wishing you a very Happy Easter


MrsRichard 74F
249 posts
4/2/2015 8:57 am

Ditto on Gavin's answer, plus my husband Mr. Richard. Everything that's good about my life, I owe to them.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/2/2015 11:38 am

    Quoting  :

What a wonderful tribute to your uncle John. He gave you support and encouragement and you honored him back. Very nice comment. I loved it, IMCoach1949. Thanks for sharing.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/2/2015 11:41 am

    Quoting Maudie1:
    My aunt Eileen was a big inspiration to me. She was a loving and caring daughter to her parents and a wonderful sister to my father and her other siblings who was always there for them when she was needed whether it was with nursing care or financial support.

    Needless to say she was a great help to me in my formative years and beyond. I wont be in here very often from now on Elaine, but I will pop in from time to time to say "Hi."

    Wishing you a very Happy Easter
Your aunt Eileen sounds like a wonderful person, Maura. She obviously was a nurturing aunt and a great inspiration. I appreciate you telling us how you feel.

I'm sorry to hear you won't be around here as often. I do hope you'll consider joining the SFF group at FB. I'd like to chat with you.

Have a Happy Easter!!!

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/2/2015 11:42 am

    Quoting MrsRichard:
    Ditto on Gavin's answer, plus my husband Mr. Richard. Everything that's good about my life, I owe to them.
A sweet comment from a sweet lady. Thanks MrsRichard.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/2/2015 11:44 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks very much, Helen, for sharing your admiration about your mother. It's wonderful that she was such an inspiration.

Elaine Shuel