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shuel2002 65F
5107 posts
3/27/2015 11:35 pm
ET AND EVERYONE ELSE CAN BREATHE EASIER NOW - THE CHARITY IDEA IS SCRAPPED!!!


In ET's blog, she failed to mention that I said NOTHING would be given directly to me. The charity we would have chosen as a group, would have gotten all the funds directly from each member that was giving a . I was hoping to set up an SFF Fund type of thing and have it arranged that each person would call/write and be told how to contribute to that fund.

I know that some people can't afford to give anything and that's fine. This was meant for those who have a spare $10 or so in their pockets. This site has had a ton of fighting and I wanted to be proud to be an SFF member. I thought if we did something to help others, we could feel proud to be part of something good.

I realize that people give to charities on their own. I do too. It was something to make it special to be a part of SFF.

Clearly it was a bad idea and I take full responsibility for it. It was never something that should have been seen as suspicious, given I was never getting the money directly.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/28/2015 8:25 am

    Quoting  :

I tried to do something positive but it didn't work out, Lucas. Thanks for your sweet comment.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/28/2015 8:31 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for your kindness, Dianne. I put up this post so everyone will know that the charity idea is now off the table. I thought it was a good idea. I wasn't treated this way, when I set something up quite a few years ago, at another group. Those who didn't want to donate just didn't. Nobody got upset with me for suggesting it or setting it up. I've learned my lesson about bringing up such a thing at SFF. It won't happen again.

Have a nice weekend.

Elaine Shuel


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
3/28/2015 8:45 am

You meant well Elaine, and that is all that matters when all is said and done.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/28/2015 9:18 am

    Quoting Maudie1:
    You meant well Elaine, and that is all that matters when all is said and done.
Thanks Maura. I'm glad that the people I care most about on SFF, understand that.

Elaine Shuel


Rocketship 79F
18558 posts
3/28/2015 10:39 am

Warm Hugsssss......


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
3/28/2015 11:14 am

I tip my cowgirl hat to you Elaine!! You're a good person with a giving heart, and that counts a lot in my book. It's a shame people have gotten so leery of others, sad actually, it's what bad people have done to us in our society and it leaves a burn for those who have had that happen to them, or someone close to them.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/28/2015 11:16 am

Thanks Rocket. I could use them today.

Have a fantastic weekend!!!

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/28/2015 12:35 pm

    Quoting Nileyears:
    I tip my cowgirl hat to you Elaine!! You're a good person with a giving heart, and that counts a lot in my book. It's a shame people have gotten so leery of others, sad actually, it's what bad people have done to us in our society and it leaves a burn for those who have had that happen to them, or someone close to them.
Thanks for being so nice, Nileyears. I know that some people have been burned by others. I get that. I believe in doing unto others as I would want done to myself. I wouldn't give money out to a stranger on the internet that asked. I would give to a worthwhile charity directly. That's what I wanted but sadly, it won't happen. My hope is that everyone that WOULD have contributed, do so to a charity that means something to them, not involving SFF. Let some good come out of this mess.

Have a fantastic weekend!!!

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/28/2015 2:15 pm

    Quoting Patches2014:
    ET is a troublemaker -- pure and simple -- your heart was in the right place and your motives were also pure -- have a wonderful Weekend
Thanks for your support, Diane. My heart was in the right place, despite her suspicions. I'm glad you realize that.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/28/2015 2:18 pm

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I agree, Pat. I just wanted to make sure that everyone saw that the idea went bust. I have no plan to post further on this topic, unless someone starts things up again. Thanks for your comment.

Elaine Shuel


MrsRichard 74F
249 posts
3/28/2015 6:28 pm

You're a real sweetheart, Elaine. SFF could use more nice folks such as you.

I'm pleased to have you as a friend, and I hope sometime we can exchange emails.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/28/2015 7:46 pm

    Quoting MrsRichard:
    You're a real sweetheart, Elaine. SFF could use more nice folks such as you.

    I'm pleased to have you as a friend, and I hope sometime we can exchange emails.
Thanks so much for saying that, Mrs.Richard. I joined SFF on FB so I could chat with some people from here. Are you a member? I'm glad we're friends too.

Elaine Shuel


MrsRichard 74F
249 posts
3/28/2015 9:41 pm

Yes, Elaine, I joined FB a few weeks ago, and I believe this past week I found your listing there and requested your friendship. I'll resend the request next time I visit there. (Hint: On my profile page, I'm pictured with my husband. We live in Indiana.)


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/29/2015 1:17 am

    Quoting MrsRichard:
    Yes, Elaine, I joined FB a few weeks ago, and I believe this past week I found your listing there and requested your friendship. I'll resend the request next time I visit there. (Hint: On my profile page, I'm pictured with my husband. We live in Indiana.)
Is it possible we're already friends there? I will have to check. I need to look at that handle to name file. Thanks MrsRichard. I look forward to chatting with you on FB.

Elaine Shuel