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shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/2/2015 5:45 pm

I wish I knew the answer, rainier. I would tell you if I did. I've wondered the same thing in the past, on other sites before I met my boyfriend.

Elaine Shuel


spiritwoman45

3/2/2015 6:50 pm

Not sure about other "triggers" but ad my from looking at people viewing my "profile" most are people who read my blog. Most of them are standard members so I know they can not really be viewing blog my complete profile. Other members who regularly read and comment on my blog regularly never show up. I know of a couple of people who showed up as viewing my profile and sent me e-mails. Of course only a few of them were legitimate. Not sure if any of this is helpful because it presents more questions than it answers.

Spiritwoman ^i^


frenchsalsa2 77F
7809 posts
3/2/2015 8:25 pm

Rainer, no reason to contact them since as Dan explains, they're just simply clicking on featured photos. You can click on their photo (or if one not shown) to get an overview of their profiles (nothing more). But if they are in fact full members, then they can see that you are a Standard one and that they must make the first move. In any case, I've never attempted to make contact (even if I could)... it should be their move. But good question!

I've noticed that when I'm in the chat room, often times, my handle will be clicked on for viewing by someone in the room.... not unusual... just as some females may want to (out of curiosity) click on their handles to view their profiles. It's that simple. The sad part is that I've noticed men remark on my photo, yet those same male chatters do not show a photo on their profile...hmmmm. LOL


bijou624

3/3/2015 3:09 am

Hi Rainier: I'm a standard member and if I want to send someone a private message I just click on the number of points I have and it allows you to use some of those points to send the message.