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spiritwoman45
22314 posts
3/27/2015 9:24 pm
Control



Spiritwoman ^i^


Abelle2 83F
31225 posts
3/28/2015 4:44 am

I agree...we all have a mind of our own that belongs to only us!


Hawkslayer 88M
13327 posts
3/28/2015 4:56 am

I can never find the remote! Where have you hidden it this time?

Alfie...


It only takes a drop of ink to make a million people think. There are many stories.


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 10:24 am

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Interesting interpretation . The image is gender neutral, just an old woman reasserting her independence. Having worked in an estrogen dominated occupation and grown up in a matriarchal family I never thought of it on gender terms. I never saw it in political terms either. Amazing how our interpretations are so influenced by our experiences and interests. No wonder there is so much disagreement here.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 10:26 am

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Foot, in mouth disease is a common affliction. Everyone suffers from an outbreak from time to time.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 10:28 am

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Fine line at times. however we all no a few who go directly to aggression, by-passing assertive entirely.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 10:30 am

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Being them on. My free spirit self drives them crazy with frustration.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 10:31 am

    Quoting Abelle2:
    I agree...we all have a mind of our own that belongs to only us!
Laughing here. No one would want to venture into that part of my mind. If they dared they would never recover their sanity.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 10:34 am

    Quoting Hawkslayer:
    I can never find the remote! Where have you hidden it this time?

    Alfie...
There isn't one. You heave to walk through fire to even attempt to change the channel. Likely you would be incinerated before younger close.

Spiritwoman ^i^


Rocketship 79F
18566 posts
3/28/2015 10:49 am

As with any group, there are those who adopt an extreme position on an issue.

Although 'feminine extremist' do exist, the vast majority of women just want equality in all areas.....imho.


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 12:20 pm

    Quoting Rocketship:
    As with any group, there are those who adopt an extreme position on an issue.

    Although 'feminine extremist' do exist, the vast majority of women just want equality in all areas.....imho.

I find it interesting that many of the extremists you mention are essentially angry, often not at the identified target. Often people do not understand their anger, let alone have the identify where it comes from so they direct it at something identifiable.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 12:37 pm

    Quoting LeafTreat:
    Control is such a big problem in society today...there is an alarming lack of common purpose I sense...and persuasion is harder than ever. Persuasion isn't control and people who confuse persuasion efforts as an attempt at control miss the point and complicate the entire endeavor. Why do you think that happened...if you can relate to what I'm saying?
Information overload. We are constantly being bombarded with unsolicited information primarily to get us to part with money of time.

Maybe there are others, like me, who don't want the hassle of explaining how and why we think as we do. I can only speak for myself but I react to persuasion with strong aversion. It makes me feel like a child being scolded, a school kid being lectured rather than encouraged to think, having to buy the car I want and listening to the salesman try to sell me something different, a suspect being questioned by the police or a witness in court being harassed by the posing lawyer. I suppose I also feel that the how and why of my opinions are not really anyone's business. It's more annoying than a visit to the dentist.


Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

3/28/2015 11:33 pm

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I used to tell people my mother tried her hardest but wasn't able to control me when I was 5 so what makes anyone think they could do it now.

Spiritwoman ^i^