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spiritwoman45
22314 posts
4/12/2014 4:45 pm
Nothing to Hide

Someone posted this on one of my blogs. It had nothing to do with the blog it was posted on and appears to be an attempt to rehash dead issues. .

To show that I remain neutral in the dispute in question I am beating the person to her threat to post it in this blog. It is not my place to judge if things are one way or another. Like everyone I have my opinions but that does not make anything right or wrong, valid or invalid.

I am banning this person becasue they broke my only rule by using my space to attack others.

Why would anyone who sees me as so wrong even care what I think or say or that I care what they think of me? I answer to a higher power than SFF.

I am biased - against anyone who uses me to attack others.

The excerpt has been preserved in it's original color. The added graphic is mine - one of my standard smart A@@ responses on another site.



I find you to be a disgustingly biased person masquerading as one that has a true sense of fair play laced with compassion.

You express support for a proven liar - you've even indicated that you believe she (Jano) was lying - but still you manage to be disparaging about those emphasizing the truth on the indisputable, but nonetheless, divisive, issue of Janos lying ploy to get a fellow SFF member crucified but using false handles to do it so as not to be seen as one that would call for such blood letting.

SHAME ON YOU!

Delete this comment and I'll repost it as a blog to expose your outrageous double standards that you obviously think, in your warped mind, paints you a truly caring person that could never be unfair to anyone. Now I can tell you that that really creates a horrendous STENCH!


Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/12/2014 7:50 pm

    Quoting pinkpaws1:
    WOW.... what is wrong with people??? Spirit I am so sorry you received this.... I am not sure who did it but I noticed that a blog that I commented on earlier today that was about the whole deal with Jano has magically disappeared. It is funny how things are deleted when someone disagrees with what they are trying to sell
Sometimes we all say things we think better of later.
Sadly the person who posted this comment is not one. She means everything she says and worse. I think today's 2 Jano blogs stirred her up and she decided to take it out on me.
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Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/12/2014 7:52 pm

    Quoting Calliecat2014:
    Hi Pink-- the above wasn't written by me-- I took my blog down because it was going South as I like to gently put it-- I know exactly who posted this to Spirit but she has chosen not to reveal it and neither will I
Definitely not Callie. She is not mean and vicious. I figure that the person who wrote this will reveal herself but if she chooses not to I am giving her that option.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/12/2014 8:00 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I try - usually ignore this stuff but this one called for action.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/12/2014 10:06 pm

    Quoting  :

Not only do "they" keep beating the dead horse, "they" insist on dragging me into their crap. Someone brought the Jan thing up again today, someone responded with a different opinion. Out of the blue I get this on a blog that had nothing to do with any of it. I almost missed it becasue I don't go back all that far looking for comments. Seems someone is quite unhappy that I won't take a side.

Of course I will be awake all night worrying about what someone I don't know thinks of me.

Be very careful - you may not want to be associated with me. People will make it into as a christian / pagan -right wind/left wing grandmother lead conspiracy since neither of us has anything better to do than get SFF stirred up. We all know people can't possibly differ on some issues and be friends who respect differences of opinion.
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Spiritwoman ^i^


bijou624

4/13/2014 12:22 am

Hi Spirit: I wondered where that blog about Jan went, now I see it was deleted. I got a similar weird insult but it was in a private message from a woman here warning me that I was too wishy washy and better choose sides in an ongoing dispute OR ELSE suffer the consequences.


Rentier1

4/13/2014 6:25 am

My policy is to simply delete such comments with an explanation as to why I did so. I believe I have done that to JHK54 on a number of occasions,

I don't block anyone, not even those who block me.


spiritwoman45

4/13/2014 9:46 am

    Quoting bijou624:
    Hi Spirit: I wondered where that blog about Jan went, now I see it was deleted. I got a similar weird insult but it was in a private message from a woman here warning me that I was too wishy washy and better choose sides in an ongoing dispute OR ELSE suffer the consequences.
I had some private stuff too but that is OK since it harms no one. I do not care what people think of me but refuse to be used as an instrument to further stuff I do not believe in or want to be involved in, especially since it is negative and harmful.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/13/2014 9:51 am

    Quoting  :

Definitely not Earthy. She may disagree and does speak her mind. She is a strong person and definitely fights back but I have never seen her attack first or inappropriately. Besides the comment is in slime green and that is definitely not her style.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/13/2014 9:55 am

    Quoting Rentier1:
    My policy is to simply delete such comments with an explanation as to why I did so. I believe I have done that to JHK54 on a number of occasions,

    I don't block anyone, not even those who block me.
I tried that first but it didn't work. I do that sometimes but there is more to this individual and their stuff is over the top and violates the one rule I live by - do no intentional harm,

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/13/2014 9:58 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks. I doubt that it will solve the problem but at least this individual will have to be mean and attacking under their own name, not mine. Like you I do not care what people think of me but if they are going to show their true colors it will be on their time not mine.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/13/2014 10:12 am

    Quoting Calliecat2014:
    Spirit-- thank You!! My blog was in response to earthys blog but I saw pretty quickly it was still a hot issue so I removed my blog!! It seems unusual to me that not one person on here has Jan's info to find out the truth and nothing but the truth-- My other issue was the writing styles -- words etc were all the same as jan blogged-- so that made many of us curious!! I have no idea who hurt her so bad she chose to leave-- that's the sad part-- this is the freakin-internet lol-- no one should ever take everything so seriously -- I wish there was a blocking option as on FB so we can't see those blogs we disagree with-- would diminish the disagreements I think
I know your motives are good but when you jumped into the fray you just fueled the fire. Does it really matter if anyone believes or does not believe the facts as each of us see them? Will taking sides in any issue accomplish anything?

Having spent years as a DCFS investigator and spending countless hours sitting in court watching lawyers play their games the one thing I learned is that the "facts" can tell us anything we want them to.

Of course neutrality was not well accepted there either. I had a DA throw a pile of papers at me in open court and on another time an attorney throw a chair at me in a conference room becasue I refused to take their side. "Facts" can be manipulated and twisted and we usually do not have the entire story. Then the information is filtered through the presenter's interpretation and style of telling to be interpreted through the listeners systems. And all of that is in real life with face to face interactions. Then we add the internet.........................................


Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

4/13/2014 11:16 am

    Quoting pinkpaws1:
    Spirit.... the one thing that surprises and saddens me is to see how fast people jumped on the bandwagon against Jano..... sort of a mob mentality... she has become guilty guilty guilty...I guess that is how lynchings happened in the wild west

    Thank you for your blog and I think you stated your case quite well
Humans can be a blood thirsty species. I acknowledge and accept but will never understand why people feel the need to jump into the battle unless it is right in front of you in the flesh and threatening your well being or that of your family. Who really cares who is right or wrong in a make believe world. There are far more pleasant ways to invest energy.

Spiritwoman ^i^


Rentier1

4/14/2014 7:05 am

    Quoting spiritwoman45:
    I tried that first but it didn't work. I do that sometimes but there is more to this individual and their stuff is over the top and violates the one rule I live by - do no intentional harm,
Please elaborate as to why and how it didn't work.