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jiminycricket1 73M
5404 posts
9/17/2016 11:04 am
Am I an Azzhole?

Am I an Azzhole?

Okay....so you ask why?

Well, i don't see very much positive feed back
Well, for that matter I don't see, very many getting any positive feed back
So it's hard for me to tell.
Appreciate your feedback.

I find it interesting that when people post positive blog, they get very little feedback
When people post negative blog. people just can't wait to respond, with their own negative, no matter if they agree or disagree.
Now i say this because, I'm guilty of it.
I find the name "Senior Friend Finders" to be a total misnomer.
I find some people here to be pretty turdy, Now that being said...
What I don't know is whether or not they are turdy, because I'm an azzhole.
Or I'm an azzhole because they are turdy?
Comments welcome, whether you find the correct answer in the choices, or have one of your own.
Please do not attack anyone else but ME. I will not respond to any answer, as to avoid conflict, So just be honest, and brave.

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yes
no
dont' care
yes, but everyone's got one


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
9/17/2016 11:54 am

Well, lets see if this comment posts it.


Hawkslayer 88M
13288 posts
9/17/2016 1:07 pm

There is far too much negativity in the blogs and comments nowadays, JC. I recall when this site was a pleasure to visit, now it is just a pain in the ass. If you aren't aggressively attacking someone, you get no comments.

Alfie...


It only takes a drop of ink to make a million people think. There are many stories.


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
9/17/2016 4:13 pm

It's so hard to tell at our age.

When you can no longer bend over, or turn around to see it.

Anyway, I voted like ET, everyone's got one
Even though I can't see it!
Well I can't see mine.....but I can see yours


bijou624

9/17/2016 8:41 pm

JC please don't let the bullies get to you. If someone doesn't understand what you have to say, that is their problem not yours. You have a lot of friends here and you have the right to state your opinions.


Katie_au_lait 78F
7026 posts
9/18/2016 4:26 am

Jiminy...we all have a bit of everything in us. The ones we should use most are kindness, respect for others, respect for ourselves and the ability to think with all if these in mind. The a$$hole in us is there to be used only when all else fails.

Unfortunately, there are those in SFF who don't know this. They are the only ones who think they're smart.

Like one of the responders here


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
9/18/2016 8:14 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for the set up.

Answer... NO
but I know a lot of people that do.

I just realized something.
Much of the confusion about me is probably my fault.
My ideas and how I express them aren't very consistent.
Because I'm not very consistent.

My use of metaphors and double meanings, may make sense to me, but doesn't help others to understand.
More important, like this statement, is my use of both speaking as myself and as a third person. Heck,sometimes I even speak as I see the second person would. I understand it, but it makes it hard for others to understand.


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
9/18/2016 2:22 pm

    Quoting Adolpho:
    We'd need to know which side is up.
Well, again I like it... it's offensively unoffensive.
Whether it's about me or not, everybody can learn something from it.

You have a lot to say, when you don't say it.

Up and down, well that's just a matter of perspective.


Rentier1

9/19/2016 10:26 am

If you are, you are one of the lesser ones.


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
9/19/2016 10:54 am

    Quoting Rentier1:
    If you are, you are one of the lesser ones.
Well, thank you for insinuating I'm just a small azz.

But looking at it a different way, and to my detriment, I actually do have one.
It's the reason I can't keep my pants up!


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
9/19/2016 11:01 am

    Quoting  :

I struggled with not deleting this.

But what I struggled with was just ambiguous enough, to let it go

I liked the rest of it, so be it. It meant more than the negative, that I suggested not doing.