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Sexual Preference of Men and Women Someone today said to me.."you don't know shit about women" ....I thought that was a little harsh, since I've spent almost my entire life thinking about them. I would have thought, I'd had learned something! So it got me thinking....that in itself can be troublesome. Since, I spend most of time thinking about women and sex, of course for most men put the two go together, I needed to get my thoughts together. And what I have learned about the sexual preferences of men and women. I'll start off with women, they're a little more complicated. Women either like or don't like sex and/or men. Women will tell you it's more complicated than that......but when comes down to it...I DON'T THINK SO! Women Sexual Preference...... There are women who like sex and don't like men.....well as sex goes that only leaves women. There are women who don't like sex and like men.....this is where it may get a little complicated. these women can justify sex and even convince themselves they like it. There are women who don't like sex and don't like men, well they're not getting any from anybody. There are women who like sex and like men.... that seems kind of a rare thing to me, or is that raw! Anyway these women can be broken into two categories.... A. Those who like men better than they like sex B. Those who like sex better than they like men. Men's Sexual Preference.... Men aren't very complicated and they don't claim to be. The one thing I'm almost positive of.. heterosexual men like sex and they like women. But research has uncovered that almost all men like sex better than they like women! Explains a lot if you think about it! Where men get screwed up is they don't want a women who likes sex better than they like men...Well they want a women who likes that, but they don't really want a women "like that". I have found very few women in my research who like that or are "like that" So it seems to me that most women I know don't like sex....... Someone women have told me... they don't like sex without intimacy. Come on ladies who are you kidding? "Intimacy Doesn't Make Sex...Intimacy Makes Sex Better": Some guys have told me.. Maybe they don't like it, because you don't do it right? I tell them..."I do it right every time" "If women liked it, they would find away to do it right too" And finally they say it comes down to this....maybe women like sex, like men and just don't like you... OMG, they may be on to something there, that never crossed my mind!  Does anyone have any toilet paper? |
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puzzles, Well what would life be like I we got everything we wanted? I guess we just wouldn't want anything then! Anyway, the truly amazing thing that women talk about, that's irritating as hell,.is when they talk about "settling".. That's the biggest pile of crap ever. There's no such thing! I get your humor in what you said......I hate putting these things on this site because of how many humorless people are here. Anyway I think if someone can NOT find the humor in what I have said and what you have said...they need to take the corn cob out of their butt and put it someplace else.
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LOLOLOLOL............... I think that I got lost after the third...'There are women....' There's absolutely nothing wrong with a good sexual outlook of life.
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don't know what it is, but all the ladies here in my area that have expressed an interested in me are renting and broke. I've paid off 2 houses in 20 years, not doing that again. They can forget dangling the sex magnet, the poles can change after marriage. Wisdom vs hormones -man's dilemma. Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.
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myseek, Maybe they just need to find the sex, beginning with the most common ground......But somehow that never seems to work! That common ground ain't so common.
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herm, Give a woman some power, and that's what you get....Sex as a means to an end....... Mi casa es su casa......Su casa es su casa!...... A woman can't make a house a home...until she has a house! LOL If you expect a woman to have sex with you, cook for you, and get your clothes clean....Don't be surprised when she takes to the cleaners!  .
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I think that's a Rod Stewart quote Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.
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herm, Give a woman some power, and that's what you get....Sex as a means to an end....... Mi casa es su casa......Su casa es su casa!...... A woman can't make a house a home...until she has a house! LOL If you expect a woman to have sex with you, cook for you, and get your clothes clean....Don't be surprised when she takes to the cleaners! . As far as giving power goes, can swing either way. Depends on who can out dominate the other and if that's the game that's being played it's a waste of time playing the game. But then that's only my opinion. Each to their own. Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.
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Many start a relationship that is built on sex first then figure out if they are compatible later. Doesn't work as far as I'm concerned, any two people on the planet can have sex, the issue isn't sex, the issue is compatibility. herm I think you're on to something there, but then again I get in trouble when I start thinking! Well, then again, the issue of this is not about compatibility! It's about sexual preference....most men, of course, only have a one track mind....ask any women! LOL
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don't know what to make of this. You make it sound like 'sex' is a tool. In a long term relationship, SEX does not play the part in a relationship that you'd like to think ET. Gimme a break.... I'm not saying anything about relationships or intimacy.......you are!......Don't infer that means I don't think the other stuff isn't important. Women do this all the time, they can't tell the difference between sex and a relationship. They are not the same thing, your saying it doesn't make men think it. Men think a relationship is great, and that sex, regardless of a relationship, can still be great. No matter how you would like men to change that thinking .. they just aren't going to. You can't make it happen..you're just going to have to roll with it. There is a possibility, that a man relationship with a women.. is a cause of his dysfunction, but to answer your question more directly...... Obviously, you're right...but I would guess for the wrong reason. Older men simply get tired of having to perform. Since I don't walk in women's shoes, I gotta wear a man's shoes here.. In my opinion, which doesn't say much, is that there are two factors at play here. First a man gets tired of performing, that' a combination of what women expect and what men expect of themselves. At any rate, as a man ages the idea of sex becomes more passe, and for many.. way too much work. Second thing is that men, when they have been there before, aren't as anxious to go there again. Many men would rise to the occasion, with a new partner, although that's more perception, and the reason is more between the ears, than the legs. That too, would fall and fail in a short time. At any rate, a man does wane as he ages.... most are those that get it, whenever they want it... or always have to work too hard for it. His partner usually has as much to do with it as he does. I'm know I'm good with this, because just like my ideas about women.....I just don't get it! LOL
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Rubi, I don't blame you, housekeeper, cook and nursemaid...Geez...who'd want to do that? It's bad enough at our age to take care of ourselves. People talk about being alone...I understand that, but I think there's a huge difference between that and feeling alone. Being lonely, and feeling alone are too different thing.. I can handle being lonely, I can't handle feeling alone.....Feeling lonely in many ways is just the opposite of feeling alone. When we are lonely... it's because we want to be with somebody, and that wanting goes against feeling alone.
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