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kneedtwoplease 68M
1189 posts
1/14/2017 6:34 pm

if they're not gettin it, and i'm not gettin it.. simple math. unless you don't want it.. single ladies want to date. not. be careful jumping to conclusions and save 'your' knee-jerk reactions


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
1/14/2017 8:57 pm

When the opportunity presented itself I found I couldn't go through with it. I would have felt guilty, violating that which I hold sacred.


looklook 84M
3919 posts
1/14/2017 9:03 pm

Never tried it, Rubi! Therefore, not experienced to tell how would I feel? So am refraining myself from voting! Lol.


kneedtwoplease 68M
1189 posts
1/15/2017 9:07 am

it would seem there is a man hater here, yelling and making little sense. although your point is clear, your panties are in a twist


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
1/15/2017 9:58 am

well, it depends.

but it doesn't depend on what other people think, it only depends on what I think.

Personally I don't really think about it that much.
that fact is, My guilt very rarely is about the circumstances of the other person.
The guilt is always about me.
It fact, it's something I almost always can't avoid. I would say, MOST of the women, I have slept with, I feel guilty about, after the fact. it related to my failure to control myself, it relates to focus on getting laid. My guilt is substantial enough on my own circumstances, it has very little to do with the considerations of others.

So my answer is this, would I sleep with any woman while I am married. For twenty year, I can say no I haven't. So it doesn't matter, if they are married or not.
when single, I am well aware of the guilt I'm going to feel afterwards, If my purpose is just sleep with her. Again that's any woman.
The fact the issue of a married woman, never comes up, I avoid it. It's just more guilt. So for the most, part, I don't even want to know.

The issue me, is not why i would sleep with a married woman, but why a married woman would want to sleep with me.

I'm not saying that's right, It's just me.


spiritwoman45

1/15/2017 11:41 am

We Americans have a way of making everything be about sex. The issue is not one of "infidelity" but rather one of honesty. If all parties are aware of what is happening and are OK with it then it is a non issue. The problem comes when one or more individuals are being deceived. The guilt issue is really over being dishonest or enabling another to be dishonest.

Spiritwoman ^i^


kneedtwoplease 68M
1189 posts
1/15/2017 12:18 pm

"If all parties are aware of what is happening and are OK with it then it is a non issue." I agree with everything else Spirit said, except this copied opinion, at least every time. I understand the knee-jerk simplicity of it, but it gives an offending party control, and also may imply it is ok. I also understand 'situational ethics' and am not trying to justify this 'act' as right or necessarily a right. However an analogy might be, one flat tire insisting the other be flat too, what are you gonna do. I do wholeheartedly agree with BB, in turn of course. Nobody likes a cheater


kneedtwoplease 68M
1189 posts
1/15/2017 12:20 pm

oops... I meant moondoggie, sorry BB


BebenCardinal 88M
30 posts
4/1/2017 7:30 pm

If anyone feels good with what he or she is doing who are we do judge them. People are jealous of what other people are doing


BebenCardinal 88M
30 posts
4/1/2017 7:32 pm

Rubi you do whatever you feel like doing and dont fret about what anyone would say. I would take you in anytime at all.