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 5/2/2008 12:35 pm |
too bad there wasn't a spot for "all of the above" Because I think all of the things on your list are important.
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5/2/2008 1:07 pm |
Had to go with honesty...and it sure is hard to find.....RED Living my life for the memories I will have....... not the regrets of what never was......
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5/2/2008 1:27 pm |
Honest for me too. Openly honest. You ain't got nothin til you "Put A Girl In It". Brooks & Dunn
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5/2/2008 1:46 pm |
Honesty best covers for all the above, and they all compliment another.
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5/2/2008 1:52 pm |
Well I answered other. Because as you have posed the question there is no most important. Actually, if I hade to answer ,for me, would be sex...... Not the sex your thinking of......!  But the sex I'm thinking of.....which incoporates all teh above. 
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 5/2/2008 2:24 pm |
Honesty and caring for moi. Cheers  Sparkles11 
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5/2/2008 2:26 pm |
All of them are important but I put honesty first. It is very hard to find these days.
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5/2/2008 3:03 pm |
AZimp..agree with you..all of the above..one not goood without the others..no point having good sex and your partner a liar and so on..Thanks
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5/2/2008 3:05 pm |
Honesty has always to be first because all the other parameters will be determined by honesty. We cannot "know" another unless we "know" ourselves and are willing to share that openly with the object of our affections. Then there are choices to be made; without honesty the choices will lead to disappointment and destruction of the relationship. HeadinCloudFeetonGround
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5/2/2008 3:07 pm |
Honesty always seems to get me into a lot of trouble, I'm trying to tell more lies.
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5/2/2008 3:12 pm |
Trust is at the very top of my list. If you have tust, you have honesty and al the other important things in life, I enjpy sex, but sharing love is even better. Always wear a smile on my face and in my heart.
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5/2/2008 3:25 pm |
Since I could not vote for all of them, honesty is #1.
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5/2/2008 3:32 pm |
Hi Goodtime: Good question. Some of the big ones for me are chemistry, loyalty, commitment, respect, caring......too many things to mention.
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5/2/2008 3:58 pm |
Bike. You can say that again.....that again! People only want the honesty they want to hear. Oh honey please be honest with me...... Ok... I want someone who isn't so fat, isn't so smart, and isn't so old, and can lie to me! LMAO
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5/2/2008 6:23 pm |
“Honesty: The best of all the lost arts” (Mark Twain) Truth has a power like no other on our planet. What better foundation can you think of to build a relationship upon? "Wisdom doesn't necessarily come with age. Sometimes age just shows up all by itself."
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5/2/2008 7:03 pm |
HONESTY and caring are necessary but so is a great sense of humor! As one ages, we need to be able to laugh more often. (Too much of the time we might be crying in pain..physical and mental pain).
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5/2/2008 7:54 pm |
Big difference between brutal honesty, and tactful honesty. Mostly, like rus..I want to be able to trust someone to not hurt me financialy, physicaly, or emotionaly.  Belle
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5/2/2008 11:00 pm |
All of them plus trust and communication. "One love, one lifetime, that's all I ask of you" from The Phantom of the Opera
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5/3/2008 8:12 am |
Most important to me is having enough gas in the Oldsmobile to get to Makeout Point..... and with today's prices - and my paltry Social Security check - that's getting more and more difficult.... not to mention the escalating price of a box of wine.....
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5/3/2008 8:47 am |
Big difference between brutal honesty, and tactful honesty. Mostly, like rus..I want to be able to trust someone to not hurt me financialy, physicaly, or emotionaly.
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5/3/2008 9:53 pm |
There certainly is a big diff between the two. Tactful honesty is when you say something the other person wants to hear. A. Yeah lard ass. (brutal honesty) B. Well, it's not the most flattering thing I've seen on you..why don't you try something else? (tactful honesty) Belle
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5/6/2008 4:04 am |
Went with honesty, but all of the above would be better!
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5/6/2008 10:58 am |
Honesty requires sound judgment when expressed! BRUTAL is blindly cruel and unkind; TACTFUL is thoughtful and caring! I Hope You Dance - Lee Ann Womack
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5/6/2008 5:53 pm |
Caring seems to cover everything except good conversation and humor but I've known of many people who were great conversationalists and/or very humorous who made their significant others miserable by not being a caring person. I think that caring would also cover the difference between brutal honesty and tactful (or caring) honesty. All of the choices are important but most of them require caring to be applicable to a relationship.
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