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First off let me thank all of you who have been a contact for her on SFF. When Marshal died her world completely shattered. When she found this site, she began to have hope and a diversion from her terrible loss. She even met a couple of men and got a hug and a kiss. For anyone who prayed for her, communicated with her, or held her hand, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. And I hope someone is as kind to you as you have been to my sister. Hospice was called last week. The worst part was when Poly was diagnosed last July. The stress and not knowing when this time would come has been awful, for me. When I spoke with Poly on the phone she told me she is very happy. She has no cares. The best part for her is she will see Marshal again. Her 3rd son is living with her. He did not answer the door when hospice came. I could not sleep the other night because I was so upset about this. I ask for your prayers that all these details will be sorted out. She has wanted to be in her own bed. She lives an hour away from me. I am taking a trip next week. So I cannot bring her to my house until the first of May. I could not deal with this yesterday so I don't know if her son has come around and is accepting hospice's help. I spoke with her on the phone yesterday morning. Her speech is slurred and she was a little confused. I wonder if this is the pain pills and cough medicine she is on. As the girl/woman I knew transforms into another dimension, it is easier to let her go. We have not lost her yet. The hospice nurse said with her faith she might live between 2 worlds for quite some time. God bless you all and take care. |
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4/17/2008 6:52 am |
Hop, Tell her I send my best...I hope her son soon realizes how very helpful hospice is at at time like this... Willy
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4/17/2008 6:53 am |
Thank you for posting this. You, and of course Pollyanna, are in my prayers. She has shown such courage and strength of character in her blogs. Her positive attitude definitely earns her the name Pollyanna and she is truly an inspiration for anyone. It's been an honor to know her here.
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4/17/2008 6:57 am |
Hi Hop: This is just terrible news. I was thinking about Polly this morning as she hasn't written in awhile. I don't know whether she has family to help her, so please do what you can to help and please keep us updated. This is so sad and scary.
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4/17/2008 7:01 am |
Poly is in my prayers. You are such a good friend to her and I'm sure she appreciates that. I didn't get to know her but I know she is a very loving, caring person. God be with her always.
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 4/17/2008 7:04 am |
Hop thank you for letting us know. When you see Pollyanna, give her a hug for me. She is such a beautiful person and I miss her.
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4/17/2008 7:09 am |
God be with Polly.......Hospice is Wonderful.........Hospice will see her safely "home"!
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4/17/2008 7:11 am |
Please give her a hug for me & tell her she remains in my thoughts & prayers...I was worried when she didn't respond to my last e-mail... her faith & courage have brought her much comfort..... Thanks so much for updating us....Hugs...... RED Living my life for the memories I will have....... not the regrets of what never was......
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4/17/2008 7:12 am |
Pollyanna, is in our thoughts and prayers. I hope she is not suffering too much pain. What a gentle kind lady she is. Thanks for the update.
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4/17/2008 7:18 am |
Hello, Hop....I am so sorry....Pollyana's blogs have always given me the motivation that I need even though I have never communicated my gratitude. I feel bad because I should perhaps have been more verbal in my appreciation, but to know that she is "happy" at this stage is very comforting. This dear lady is and will always be inscribed within me.
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4/17/2008 7:30 am |
Give her a hug and tell her I have been praying for her. Thanks for letting us know, I had hoped someone would as things progressed. She has had such a positive attitude though all of this. She misses Marshall so much and I know he is with her through this. Ann  To err is human, to not laugh humane.
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4/17/2008 7:33 am |
I had just logged in with the purpose of checking when Polly last blogged because I knew I hadn't seen her for a while .... and here was your post. It is a sad one. Thank you for letting us know. Please tell Polly she is in my prayers too and I will rejoice with her as she makes this transition into a wonderful new life. Even through all her challenges with her family and health, she has continued to keep positive about every situation in her life. Her faith has kept her strong in spirit, and has been an inspiration to me.
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4/17/2008 7:38 am |
My prayers are with Polly..she is truly an amazing woman..I know from reading her blogs..her faith has kept her going and she is at peace for what lies ahead ..one can't ask for anything more than that..I pray she isn't in too much pain..God bless you, Polly..
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4/17/2008 7:50 am |
The spirit of this lady has touched many friends on SFF...I hope that the pain is not to strong right now... Her prayers are to be answered when she again is with her beloved Marshall... God truly does answer all prayers...
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4/17/2008 7:50 am |
sad news this morning. please tell polly we're praying for her.
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4/17/2008 7:54 am |
((((Polly)))) Hop...appreciate the update.
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 4/17/2008 8:03 am |
Hop,while this new is sad for us,Pollyanna was looking forward to the day she could be with Marshall.I pray that she does not suffer. And when God calls her up,she will bask in His glory and be reunited with her Marshall.Please continue to give us updates.
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4/17/2008 8:12 am |
Maney thanks for giving us this update Hopskiprun.... My prayers for Poly continue.
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4/17/2008 8:17 am |
Sad news for all of us... i also love her blogs. .... thanks for the info please give her a big hug and tell her she is in our prayers "Anything worth having is worth waiting for." 
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4/17/2008 8:19 am |
Words seem so inadequate at times like this. Polly, I just want you to know that I have long admired your strength and fortitude. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Alfie..
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4/17/2008 8:19 am |
my thoughts and prayers are with polly, you and her family. she is one of the strongest women ive seen. thank you for letting us know. kellyc aka saucy
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4/17/2008 8:23 am |
Hopskiprun, Thank you for letting us know about Polly's condition. She is an amazing woman and an inspiration to many of us. Give her a big hug and tell her that 1942classic (my old handle) will see her in heaven one day. I had been away from SFF for some time and missed her posts when I returned. Her joy in the prospect of seeing Marshall again and being in the presence of God will see her through this transition.
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4/17/2008 8:36 am |
Please tell Pollyanna that she continues to have my prayers. And tell her how much it meant to me when in the midst of her own struggle, she reached out to me, as I am dealing with my wife's impending death. Thank you Hopskipandrun for this update, and for being her friend. God bless D
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4/17/2008 8:46 am |
With sadness I continue to pray for Polly. Her faith has sustained her thru this and I have so respected her ability to trust in God to get her thru this. I do hope her son will allow hospice to help her now as they do an excellent job. I have been thru this with family twice. God bless Polly I know she has looked forward to seeing marshall again and I know she will thank you for posting this.
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4/17/2008 8:46 am |
I know she is not afraid. I have learned a lot from her. My sympathy to you, but I also know she is OK.
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4/17/2008 9:07 am |
Thank you so much for this update. It is a sad one for those who will miss her. She has been an inspiration for me and I know for many others. I know how difficult it is to give up those we love. Knowing that she will be with her beloved Marshal is a very sweet and comforting thought. hopskipRun....you are in our prayers, too. God bless you as you minister to your sister.
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4/17/2008 9:18 am |
Thank you Hop for this update. I, too, have missed Polly's blogs and wondered when she had not posted for about 10 days. She has always given us something to think about in her blogs. A very insightful lady. The doctors/hospice can keep her comfortable until her transition has occurred and she is with her beloved Marshall and God. What a day of rejoicing that will be in Heaven. Please tell her "thank you" for me and pass along hugs to all of you, her friends and family. My prayers continue. Barbe
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4/17/2008 9:19 am |
Thank you for posting this update.........missed Polly so much........ Hospice will help her to rest more comfortably........ She is one of my Red Hat sistas........... Patti...... Accept whatever comes to you woven in the pattern of your destiny.....for what could more aptly fit your needs........ Marcus Aurelius......
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4/17/2008 10:02 am |
hop thanks for an udate, you and her all her family will be in my prayers... Bless each and every one of you.
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4/17/2008 10:27 am |
Hop, thank you for your update. We appreciate it very much. Polly, here's one for you My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, And the fact that I think I am following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you. And I hope that I have that desire in all that I am doing. And I know that if I do this, you will lead me by the right road though I may know nothing about it. Therefore will I trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death, I will not fear, for you are ever with me and you will never leave me to face my perils alone. thomas merton Lovingly yours, Rose
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4/17/2008 10:28 am |
I send my wishes and prayers to Polly with hopes she will transistion quickly and easily to her new life, and to peace. I read so many of her blogs that made me think, inspired me, or touched my heart. I didn't know her personally but just through her blogs she had a shining aura which I imagine was very strong in person. God Bless you Polly! a.k.a....Mighty Mouse
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4/17/2008 10:39 am |
To Pollyanna... God's Sunset Sunset and shadows, forgiveness and grace The beauty of God we see in this place He created this for all of mankind Until He comes at the end of time. Wind rustles the leaves in the trees Listen to their song in the breeze Watch the clouds roll across the sky Hear angels whispering, God is nearby. Laughter and tears and singing hymns Brings happiness when we worship Him Loving angels are by God's side Heaven awaits us with gates open wide. Enjoy each moment of God's setting sun Soon our race on earth will be run Tell others how much God does care His precious love we need to share. "Beyond the sunset God waits for you and me." She has been telling us these things. "Silver threads are woven into the web of life"
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4/17/2008 10:44 am |
i have a great deal of admiration for polly....she has inspired me with her faith, her convictions and her honesty. i will keep her in my prayers.
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4/17/2008 12:14 pm |
Pollyanna has such faith and courage. I always read her blogs and I know she will be happy when she is eventually home. I admire her and if she has the support of the Hospice Team she is indeed in good and loving hands.They will make the transition easier and I dont think they will allow her to be in pain. God Bless You Polly.
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4/17/2008 12:16 pm |
Sorry Dan, I didnt know. People on SFf have such courage.
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4/17/2008 12:39 pm |
Hop, bless and thankyou for the update on this remarkable lady,you are all in my prayers.
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4/17/2008 1:00 pm |
I am so sorry to hear of Polly's dilemma. I pray that she does not suffer and that like the others, hope her son comes to realize he cannot do it alone and accepts the help of hospice and anyone who is willing to reach out. Polly is an incredible woman and is a strong lady. You and she are in my daily thoughts and prayers and there shall you remain.
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4/17/2008 1:31 pm |
Hop, I was unaware Polly was so close to death. Thanks for sharing this blog with us. I always enjoyed reading Polly's blogs because she is a happy person. May God guide her gently home.
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4/17/2008 3:02 pm |
Hop, Polly is an amazing woman and has great faith. She knows she will be with Marshall. What a wonderful love they must have had. My prayers are with her and please keep us updated.....Hugsssss Sweetie Thanks...............The Critters
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4/17/2008 3:29 pm |
Please tell her she is in my prayers...also tell her thank you for being such an inspiration to me. I don't think she knows how many lives she touched with her blogs. Life...ya gotta love it!
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4/17/2008 4:23 pm |
Thank you for the update, Polly has a strong faith, and I pray she goes swiftly to meet her husband once again to be loved by him and the lord. She is in my prayers.
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4/17/2008 4:44 pm |
Hop .. thank you for doing this update. I know how hard it must have been for you to write the words. Hospice will care for her with the greatest of gentle respect. She will be comfortable and have all the loving prayers from so many here. And you will feel the hugs from all of us too ... May she be with Marshall soon. Bless you ..
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4/17/2008 7:30 pm |
With sorrow I read this but with gladness that her desires are coming to pass .... her desire was to go and I pray that it is a painless & gentle transition .......  Pollyanna ... We  you sweet lady ....... Prayers for all ....... Thanks for letting us know Hop
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4/18/2008 1:26 pm |
HopSkip&Run...I didn't know that you and Wanda were sisters. I was in shock when I read what you have written here. Although I knew she had Cancer, somehow I thought that she would beat it. She and I communicated off board about some things. I sent her an Angel, which I often do when people are diagnosed with a fatal illness. My heart is deeply saddened to hear this news. Hospice is the final frontier so to speak. This may seem strange to say, but I know you will understand. I wouldn't doubt that she might linger between the two worlds. She would/could do that for love of her boys and I am sure her Sis's. She has a wonderful understanding of the afterlife and her trust and love for the Father, really sustains her. She is NOT afraid to leave and "yes" mostly because she knows that she will re-unite with Marshal again. I imagine that her words are slurred because of her frail condition and also the drugs. It will be comforting for her to know that her loved ones are there by her side at this time. I have heard stories of loved ones even helping their loved ones to pass. Some even encourage them and give their permission. Many times the patient will linger because they know their loved ones are in terrible pain knowing what will transpire. In many ways it's a beautiful thing -even though those here on earth will miss her deeply. If she is cognizant enough to understand, please tell her BarbieRocks sends her a courageous hug.
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4/18/2008 2:15 pm |
She seems like such a nice lady. Please send her my best wishes.
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4/18/2008 4:51 pm |
Polly has been a real survivor, a genuine inspiration to us all. She has had a great attitude, a wonderful Spirit......My prayers are with you Polly.
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4/18/2008 6:36 pm |
I am so sorry to see this. I am sending prayers to her and her family. Polly is a beautful person in every way. I will miss her blogs
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4/19/2008 6:30 am |
Thanks for the info. Please send our hugs and prayers to her.
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4/19/2008 1:54 pm |
Thanks for sharing.. and please let her know that our prayers is for her!
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4/19/2008 5:25 pm |
I just lost a friend to cancer last night. I am so sad to hear this news also.Please let Polly know I am praying for her
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4/20/2008 12:55 pm |
I did not know Pollyana, only knew OF her, but I can see that she has amassed many a friend here at SFF. There is confimation right here that she was and is a very strong lady and an inspiration to many. Please send her my blessing. I'm hopeful that she will not linger too long and will soon be at rest.
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4/20/2008 3:23 pm |
Polly always amazed me with her infallible faith and her love for Marshall. Please continue with your updates. She will be in my prayers and thoughts. ------------------------------------------------------------- Please good Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth if I have offended anyone. - as quoted from my good friend, James Dunn - aka Over
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4/21/2008 12:32 pm |
I have thought of her often she is a lovely person my prayers for her and all your family. joyce3
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4/22/2008 10:51 am |
I keep Polly in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings to all of you that surround her at this moment in time. Kitcat I was not looking for my dreams to interpret my life, but rather for my life to interpret my dreams" (Susan Sontag)
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4/24/2008 10:03 am |
Yes, of course hospice is a tremendous support, and yes, family often react strangely under stress. I lost a friend a couple years ago who maintained fairly good quality of life up to the last two weeks. She passed away at home where friends stayed by her bedside and gave her drops of morphine as needed. When I last saw her, she looked peaceful since she was not in pain but of course I could not say goodbye to her as she was so heavily medicated. I think pain management is the most inportant thing, along with the support of friends and family of course.
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4/30/2008 6:40 am |
I didnt know y'all were sisters. When you see Polly next give her a big hug from me. All hugs accepted and returned twice as tight!
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5/1/2008 5:49 pm |
Tell her I sent hugs and love....
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5/9/2008 12:39 pm |
hopskip...first let me say how sorry I am about Polly. I did not know her well, was unaware how ill she was. Neither did I know you were sisters....bless you both! May Polly make the journey peacefully to the other side. I don't believe we "die", I believe our Spirits live on and the body is the shell that holds the Spirit. Blessings to you, to Polly and to all your family at this difficult time.
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5/14/2008 6:50 am |
I am so glad you posted an update. I have wondered how she is doing and if her son(s) were treating her better. My heart goes out to Polly and you sweetie. I am holding you both in my prayers and please do keep us updated when you can. GBU both of you Hugs and Prayers to you both.
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