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You do it, I do it, we all do it.....  

CountryGirl1945
9/2/2009 11:50 am

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9/3/2009 11:45 pm

We all have a group of Friends that we Forward e-mails to. We read it, like it, and send it on to Friends we think will enjoy it too. There's nothing wrong with that, in my opinion, and I do enjoy them. But whatever happened to WRITING a personal note now and then, just to say "Hello, how are you"? That was pointed out to me recently by a good Friend. She let me know she enjoyed the 'Laff' when she received my latest forward. Then she asked about my Daughter.
I think we should ALL take time to write the people we care about, and consider Friends. I always enjoy when some one acknowledges my FORWARD even if it's just one line.
I am Guilty of not doing just that. I get great stuff, read it and pass it along. From now on I will try to let everyone know how I appreciate their e-mails, and I hope everyone will try to do the same. I Really Love it when I get a personal message.

It's kind of like getting a card or letter through snail mail.

Everything looks impossible for the people who never try anything
Jean Louis Etienne
michianaredhead
10127 posts 

9/2/2009 12:45 pm

I agree...
I also I have the issues of receiving the exact same forwards from about 6-8 different friends in the same day.

Living my life for the memories I will have....... not the regrets of what never was......

blackpool_bloke
2494 posts 

9/2/2009 1:43 pm

sadly people rarely send a personal message ~ more importantly is they simply hit the forwards button and send on everybodies live email accounts

i always delete other email addresses before sendiing it on

Abelle2
10510 posts 

9/2/2009 1:49 pm

Whew! I thought you meant we had to take pen in hand and write on paper, stick in an envelope, apply a stamp and walk down the drive to the mailbox or....drive to the Post Office.

May you be in Heaven a half hour before the Devil knows you're dead! Irish Blessing

MistyLace54
2902 posts

9/2/2009 3:00 pm

My issue is getting 6- 12 forwards from the same person on one day.....Wouldn't one do and then like you suggest a personal note? Some of theses are photo's of where they've been.

karinpepita
3331 posts 

9/2/2009 3:02 pm

I know, you are so right, should take more time to send at least a card now and then...We forget that little sign of caring..

"Truth, wisdom, love, seek reasons, malice only seeks causes"
Johann Kaspar Lavater

LoonBC
1409 posts 

9/2/2009 3:24 pm

I do NOT do it, really I don't because I hate to get those forwards. I always write personal notes and if I want to embellish, I do it with photographs.

missioncontrol
3845 posts

9/2/2009 6:39 pm

Just a big hello today to you Barb


I'm looking to the future and it's out of sight,
only in the end shall I take flight.

Maskirovka
23 posts 

9/2/2009 6:58 pm

I have learned to just not open those things.

JANO48
2971 posts

9/3/2009 12:10 am

I loath them, and dont forward them.
Even worse, when everyones addresses are intact. SO BLOODY STUPID. DONT DO IT, ERASE ADDIES . !


Hugs, Jan.

winkay68
2151 posts 

9/3/2009 5:03 am

I have stopped reading forwarded messages except from two close friends, who always strip the addies and what they send is worth reading.

Head in Clouds Feet on Ground

sherti
167 posts 

9/3/2009 11:50 am

Barb, I just received 18 forwards from a friend whom I love dearly. Her history is she never writes a word personally, just hits forward. Therefore, I just deleted 18 forwards without opening one. Before this 24 hours is over, I'll probably receive two more batches of forwards from this friend. I used to thoroughly enjoy some of the jokes sent to me. I have to admit she's taken all the joy out of my receiving anything with forward in the subject line.

Question is, how do I tell her? I wouldn't hurt her feelings for anything.

ConeyIsBabe
1438 posts 

9/3/2009 6:31 pm

I learned in my computer club that those FWs (which usually come from an unknown source because they have been forwarded so many times) may contain malware or spyware ~ so I NEVER open them, and delete immediately. It's not worth messing up my computer just to read a lame joke

Agreeing with you that a personal note is so much more worthwhile than those FWs !

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