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starwomyn 70F
8871 posts
7/6/2017 7:25 pm

Dan, have you ever notice that people who are into active alcoholism, drug addiction or other dysfunctional behaviors have the illusion that the world is centered around them. There is also the need to take someone else's inventory to establish what they perceive as a superior status. There is evidence of such individuals be the type of stuff they blog about. They might benefit from some 12 Step intervention.

Abracadabra


MrsJoe 76F
17280 posts
7/6/2017 8:01 pm

Dan, all you said is true, but I wonder why you bother to try explain yourself to someone like her? It isn't worth you time and energy to cast pearls before the swine.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


MrsJoe 76F
17280 posts
7/6/2017 9:35 pm

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Because they deem some of us as a "worthy opponent" and her only as barking dog.... annoying with no teeth.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


starwomyn 70F
8871 posts
7/6/2017 9:38 pm

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LOL! I think SOMEBODY is on a binge.

Abracadabra


Abelle2 83F
31203 posts
7/6/2017 11:00 pm

Dan, I love it when I wake up in the night and find something like this. I can go back to sleep now and know you have made me chuckle with this!

You do know all hades is going to break wide open.


starwomyn 70F
8871 posts
7/6/2017 11:03 pm

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The common trait that people in active addiction share is the inability take any kind of personal responsibility for their actions. It is always somebody else's fault. My God! Somebody has the audacity to have a different religious or political prospective. That is a justification for destructive, addictive, bizarre and possibly illegal behavior. The problem is that the addict loses the power to change for the better because he/she has give the power to everyone else that he/she blames. It's just an excuse for someone who really doesn't want to do better.

Abracadabra


starwomyn 70F
8871 posts
7/6/2017 11:32 pm

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Sometimes, you just have to blow somebody else's covers. I just pushed the ban buttons and all trollie's innate remarks took a trip to the iggie box. I have to follow my own advise which can be a major league challenge.

Abracadabra


MrsJoe 76F
17280 posts
7/7/2017 5:26 am

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Dan, I have seen this type of story telling and make believe from some of the schizophrenics in one of the facilities where I worked. I broke my heart to hear their tales and how they changed, but they always were sincere and believed what they were saying at the time, even though it was different from what they said the day before. And never did they take responsibility for their actions, it was always somebody else's fault.
Here, I am sad to say, my feelings vacillate between pity and being upset with the attacks on others.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


starwomyn 70F
8871 posts
7/7/2017 7:36 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Dan, I have seen this type of story telling and make believe from some of the schizophrenics in one of the facilities where I worked. I broke my heart to hear their tales and how they changed, but they always were sincere and believed what they were saying at the time, even though it was different from what they said the day before. And never did they take responsibility for their actions, it was always somebody else's fault.
    Here, I am sad to say, my feelings vacillate between pity and being upset with the attacks on others.
My 12 Step training taught me that we don't think our way into right action, We ACT our way into right thinking. One of my advisors explained step two perfectly - Insanity is a choice for someone who doesn't want to take responsibility. Nevertheless, a person does have to toe the time when being attacked. One the other hand, it's useless to get into an argument with a sick person. It's like slapping around a cripple.

Abracadabra


Nileyears 71F
4206 posts
7/7/2017 9:32 am

Hey Dan, it was my blog she attacked you on. I don't understand why everyone "LET'S" her get under their skin? She is playing all of you, it's nothing more than a game for her, maybe a game of getting even.

When I was reading another person's blog yesterday, she gave out the real name of the SFF member. How did she get that person's name? I figure she has been around for a very long time, she met, or talked to that person, and it looks to me that that person ticked her off for one reason, or another, and she's going to make them pay by being that tick on a dog's azz.

The only solution I see is to ignore the drama, if that doesn't work, block an annoying person, but never give that person the attention they are seeking. I don't think she's on drugs, or a drinker. She may not keep her stories straight and I don't think she cares one way, or another, she is here to get under your skin and make you angry, and y'all are playing right into her hands.


Nileyears 71F
4206 posts
7/7/2017 11:16 am

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Yes Dan, I understand all that, but y'all are letting her get under your skin and she's winning by making you angry. Do you really believe that the people who know you and Marvin/Bob are going to believe the lies? No, no they're are not, but you keep feeding the monster and the monster is getting the satisfaction, and may I also add, the attention in which she seeks.

Is it worth losing sleep over? Damn, don't let it get to you.

It's not hard to figure out that she keeps coming back for revenge of sorts, someone did her wrong and she wants payback for their sin and all that associate with him/her/them.


MrsJoe 76F
17280 posts
7/8/2017 6:48 am

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AND report her!

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


starwomyn 70F
8871 posts
7/8/2017 1:37 pm

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He/she quotes "Just Had To Have MY Say In All This -Ahhh Yes -The Drugs I Take
Sorry Kiddo -Hardly Get High On Diabetic And BP Medicine And 1
Baby Aspirin A Day lol"


He/She must be mixing opiates with those Diabetic and BP meds along with some LDS in that Baby Aspirin with he/she downs with very bad Vodka. The is not the type of company that I care to keep. Pushing the Block Button and into the Iggy Box he/she goes.

Abracadabra


Nileyears 71F
4206 posts
7/10/2017 10:51 am

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What group of people? If she is as dangerous as you say, maybe all this should be reported to more than the SFF staff? Maybe the FBI? If this person is a stalker, maybe a serious investigation of said person is in order because you have now deemed him/her as dangerous. Cyber bullies exist and they have been investigated. Maybe Bob and Dan need to follow this through, since you said they have never met, for all we know this person could be a serial killer and these two are it's target in more ways than one.

Me, I still think whoever it is just likes to get under their skin.


Nileyears 71F
4206 posts
7/10/2017 12:26 pm

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Ok, but I could get the info to report this if you really wanted to get this person back, after all, he/she/it will not let it go for one reason, or another. Is she stalking you on FB as well as Bob?


Nileyears 71F
4206 posts
7/10/2017 3:27 pm

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There are a list of sites at the "cyber bullying research center" including FB, SFF isn't on it. There's even a law enforcement address on the FB links. Kids aren't the only people who get cyber bullied. Good luck if you decide to pursue this any further.